Therapists in California

Find the best therapist in California for your needs on Grow Therapy. With 39 verified therapists in California, you can connect with licensed professionals who are currently accepting new patients. Grow Therapy verifies and credentials each California therapist to ensure they are active, available, and aligned with your needs. Whether you’re seeking support for family conflicts, grief, life transitions, California’s therapists offer compassionate, personalized care tailored to your unique circumstances.

Availability updated: 3/14/2026

Specialties

Addiction
Anxiety
Depression
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Mr. Ilya Shtykan is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Masters's Degree graduate in Marriage and Family Therapy. In addition, Ilya has worked with multiple organizations and various types of client populations. Also, Ilya currently provides counseling services for sufferers of co-occurring substance abuse and mental health disorders. Ilya has gained a lot of valuable insight about himself as a therapist through participating in these programs. He has also developed an empathetic understanding of the patients and the everyday struggles they endure. Ilya's long-term goal in this field is to help make a positive change in clients' lives and provide a meaningful service that makes a difference. Ilya is very passionate about assisting people in finding positive ways to deal with their issues and struggles and being seen, heard, and understood.
VirtualAvailable
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Specialties

Addiction
Anxiety
Depression
+4
With over 20 years of experience, I specialize in supporting adults from diverse cultural and socio-economic backgrounds through a wide range of mental health challenges. My clinical focus includes working with individuals navigating depression, anxiety, attachment-related issues, adjustment disorders, and substance use. I am trained in evidence-based modalities including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Interpersonal Therapy (IPT), and Mindfulness-Based Interventions. I am committed to creating a safe, inclusive, and collaborative therapeutic environment that fosters growth and resilience.
VirtualAvailable
Direct
Solution oriented
Empowering

Specialties

Addiction
Anxiety
Depression
+10
Starting therapy can feel empowering, confusing, or even intimidating—and it’s worth taking a moment to recognize the courage it takes to take this first step toward caring for your mental health. I strive to create a safe, supportive, and welcoming environment where you can explore challenges related to anxiety, depression, self-care, and more. My goal is to help you strengthen communication and boundaries with yourself and others so that you can improve your quality of life and move toward the future you envision. Therapy is not just about overcoming obstacles—it’s also about personal growth. Together, we’ll clarify your goals and identify strategies to help you move toward them, whether that means change over the next month, six months, or a year. You’ll leave our sessions with practical insights and “next steps” you can put into action right away. I believe life’s purpose isn’t simply to be happy, but to find meaning—and within that meaning, joy emerges. While the journey isn’t always easy, it can be transformative. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Addictions Professional, Internationally Certified Drug Counselor, and Behavior Analyst. I take a strength-based approach, helping you use your unique abilities to address challenges. I integrate Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Interpersonal Therapy, and Motivational Interviewing to empower you in creating lasting change. Most importantly, I bring a relaxed, compassionate, and trustworthy presence, fostering a therapeutic relationship where you feel safe and supported.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Solution oriented

Specialties

Coping Skills
LGBTQ
Women's Issues
+10
Hi! I am a Psychologist (licensed in CA) with over 15 years of experience in working with a variety of clients and presenting problems. I am warm, friendly, and collaborative. My goal is to help you feel safe exploring your concerns and experiences as you seek change and growth. I will give you my best, and be with you through all the ups and downs that you may experience in therapy. While I am well-versed in treating a wide array of mental health concerns, I specialize in Sport and Performance Psychology, and enjoy helping any client strive for peak functioning in their life.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Military/Veterans
Trauma and PTSD
+10
Hello. I'm Dr. Dutton. I am a licensed clinical forensic psychologist, and I have been working in the field since 2014. I have experience working with clients that are facing anxiety, depression, history of trauma, severe mental illness, forensic/legal issues, sexual addiction, sexual abuse, difficulty setting boundaries, self-esteem, career stress/burnout, and relationship issues. In addition, I work with military and veteran populations assisting them with a wide variety of psychosocial stressors. The best part of my job is being able to walk alongside my clients as they grow and heal, becoming the best possible version of themselves!
VirtualAvailable
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New to Grow

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Self Esteem
+1
I’m glad you’re here. Balancing work, relationships, and personal expectations—especially during life transitions—can be stressful and emotionally draining. I have 22 years of experience in the public mental health system and I have worked with adults and professionals who are navigating anxiety, depression, stress, and major changes, and who are looking for practical support and lasting relief. My approach is collaborative, supportive, and goal-oriented. I use CBT and solution-focused therapy to help you understand unhelpful patterns, build on your strengths, and create meaningful change. I also incorporate mindfulness along with health and life coaching tools to support emotional balance, resilience, and follow-through in daily life. Therapy doesn’t require having everything figured out. If you’re seeking a thoughtful, strengths-based approach that focuses on both insight and action, I’d be honored to support you.
VirtualAvailable
Intelligent
Authentic
Direct

Specialties

Fertility & Reproduction Issues
Perinatal Mental Health
Women's Issues
+4
Hi there, I’m Michelle. I’m a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) in California, Maine, and Vermont. I'm also a Certified Perinatal Mental Health Provider (PMH-C) and specialize in working with people who are pregnant, in the postpartum period who are experiencing depression or anxiety, or people who are dealing with birth trauma or infertility. I also work with individuals who are dealing with chronic pain from conditions such as endometriosis, PCOS, and Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome. I’m passionate about helping clients feel empowered and becoming more comfortable with advocating for themselves and their needs.
VirtualAvailable
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New to Grow

Specialties

Anxiety
Trauma and PTSD
Women's Issues
+8
As a compassionate, person-centered therapist, I’m here to listen and walk alongside you through feelings of overwhelm, burnout, or being stuck. I’m dedicated to supporting clients through anxiety, trauma, relationship challenges, and the unique pressures of being first-gen or the “strong one.” Together, we’ll create a safe, non-judgmental space to explore your experience and find tools that honor your pace and your journey.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Warm
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Depression
+7
Welcome! I’m Corrine. Therapy can feel intimidating, but it also offers the opportunity for profound growth and transformation. Together, we’ll create a supportive, collaborative space to explore patterns and beliefs that shape your relationships and responses in life. By connecting past experiences to present behaviors, we’ll uncover what no longer serves you and work toward healing the roots of anxiety, depression, or trauma. My goal is to help you build healthy coping strategies, strengthen relationships, and feel empowered to live with clarity and confidence.
VirtualAvailable
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New to Grow

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Grief
Hi there! I am a therapist that has worked and lived on the east coast and the west coast utilizing my Florida and California license. I have worked with an array of different populations prior to becoming a therapist as I was actively involved with community health organizations, psychiatric hospitals, foster care facilities, domestic violence group homes, adult day care facilities, and crisis and text lines. Through this array of different experiences, I was given the opportunity to explore a wide array of populations and mental health disorders. I personally lost my Mother and brother to suicide and this has given me further insight into the reality of mental health situations and survival.
VirtualAvailable

Specialties

Grief
Life Transitions
Older Adults
+3
Kristyan Cortez-Gutierrez is a licensed clinical social worker with an undergraduate degree in Psychology and Human Development from UC Davis whom also graduated from the USC School of Social Work with her masters in 2019. She went on to work in the Alzheimer's and Dementia field with patients and caregivers and then worked with patients and caregivers in the hospice setting before moving into private practice. She has been working with individuals and families for 7 years as they navigate through difficult life transitions.
VirtualAvailable
Empowering
Solution oriented

Specialties

Family Conflict
Life Transitions
Women's Issues
+9
Many people come to therapy feeling stuck in patterns they don’t fully understand—whether in relationships, stress, anxiety, or life transitions. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I help clients explore the patterns in their relationships, emotions, and thinking so they can gain clarity and make meaningful changes. My approach is collaborative, warm, and practical. I integrate interpersonal, attachment-focused, cognitive behavioral, and solution-focused strategies to help clients better understand themselves, improve communication, and develop tools that support lasting growth. I work with adults navigating relationship challenges, recurring relationship patterns, anxiety, life transitions, and questions about identity or direction. My goal is to create a supportive space where clients feel understood while also gaining insight and strategies that help them move forward in their lives and relationships.
VirtualAvailable
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New to Grow

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
+9
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. My approach to therapy honors your individuality to support your unique journey towards exploring, growing, and healing. Life is filled with both beautiful and challenging experiences. I appreciate establishing strong therapeutic alliances with my clients so I can assess the best interventions towards treatment. My therapeutic approach is flexible. Ultimately, I am here to support you.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
+9
I am a seasoned professional with over 25 years of experience. I have a holistic approach, facilitated by my Graduate studies in Spiritual Psychology. Combined with the tride & true CBT approach, this therapy can offer the insight & the tools that can add both depth and practicality to one's experience of themselves & their lives. I aim to help others understand themselves, others and their lives in ways that highlight compassion, patience, empathy & more.
VirtualAvailable
Intelligent
Authentic

Specialties

Anger Management
Couples Counseling
Self Esteem
+5
I am licensed in California with 5 years of professional work experience in the social work field. I have experience in helping clients with stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma, abuse, & parenting issues. I also have experience working with anger management. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. I will tailor our dialogue and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change. I am here to support & empower you in that journey.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anger Management
Mood Disorders
Trauma and PTSD
+17
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in California, I help adults and older adults work through challenges like depression, anxiety, anger, and trauma using a supportive, client-centered approach. My focus is on building trust, identifying your strengths, and guiding you with practical tools—from mindfulness and coping skills to relationship building—to help you reach your personal goals.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Direct
Solution oriented
Intelligent

Specialties

Depression
LGBTQ
Trauma and PTSD
+5
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in California, I work with adults to navigate life’s challenges, offering a collaborative and supportive approach to help you move forward and make positive changes.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Empowering

Specialties

Depression
Self Esteem
Women's Issues
+3
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) in Fontana, CA. I graduated with a Master of Arts in Clinical Psychology with an emphasis on Marriage and Family Therapy from Pepperdine University in Malibu in 2020. I work with various age groups to help them find healing, manage their symptoms, and achieve their treatment goals- and I am so honored to be part of that process with my clients.
VirtualAvailable
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New to Grow

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
+5
Hi! My name is Ali Akhtar, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based out of Los Angeles, California. I specialize in anxiety, depression, life transitions, multigenerational trauma, self-esteem, and men's issues. As a clinician I am dedicated to working through past traumas, and building towards a healthier baseline. I have been practicing as a clinician for over ten years with adults, teenagers and children.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Open-minded

Specialties

Grief
Self Esteem
Trauma and PTSD
+7
If you are looking for structured CBT or skills-based homework, I may not be the right fit. Therapy with me involves examining avoidance and ambivalence as they arise (I’ll tend to be more direct with you when emotional or mental patterns like that emerge). Most people don’t need more advice. They need space to slow down enough to hear what’s actually happening inside them. My work is less about fixing and more about listening; not just to the words, but to what’s underneath them. The pace of our conversations will be different from the rest of your life: slower, steadier, more honest. My goal is to help you come into contact with yourself again, to notice what’s true and what you really want.
VirtualAvailable
Challenging
Direct
Warm

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Grief
+3
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California, I strive to create a caring and supportive space where you can share your emotions, feel heard, and become your most authentic self. My goal is to help you feel less alone and empower you to embrace the love and joy you deserve.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Direct

Specialties

Anxiety
Life Transitions
Peer Relationships
+8
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. My therapeutic practice is rooted in acknowledging your multicultural experiences and understanding how these dynamics influence your personal goals and interpersonal relationships. Coming from a culturally sensitive and trauma-informed perspective, I’ll work with you as you navigate gender, social, or cultural concerns, especially those that may differ from your family’s expectations. Together, we explore these complex layers to foster personal growth, healthy relationships, and help you live by your core values.
VirtualAvailable
Solution oriented
Warm

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Women's Issues
+9
Hi! My name is Rosario Aceves. I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who is excited at the opportunity God has given me to help you through Grow Therapy. I have over 15 years of experience working with teens, adults, and the elderly. As Director of Social Services in a nursing and rehabilitation center I dealt with issues around anxiety, depression, grief, family conflict, care planning, end of life issues, counseling clients to better manage, often times very complex health conditions, provided resources and more. As an Integrated Behavioral Health Clinician at a non-profit clinic I provided individual and group therapy, crisis intervention, parenting support, grief and loss, mental health concerns and substance use. I worked closely with, and provided consultation to medical providers and the medical care team to provide holistic and comprehensive care. Due to the pandemic opportunities to provide individual therapy via telehealth has been transformative to both my clients and I. When I'm not working I love spending time alone with God, my husband of 14 years, my four wonderful daughters, family and friends. I have been primarily homeschooling my girls and managing my home to the best of my ability. Being in nature, especially by the ocean or river, drawing, painting, journaling, hiking, playing a sport like soccer, volleyball, basketball, and tennis are things that refuel me.
VirtualAvailable
Empowering
Warm
Holistic

Specialties

Anxiety
Bipolar Disorder
Trauma and PTSD
+5
I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker supporting adults in California as they navigate anxiety, trauma, grief, and life’s heavy emotions. Using approaches like CBT, Christian Counseling, and grief therapy, I help you feel grounded and empowered even when things feel overwhelming.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Humorous

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
+7
You don’t have to have it all figured out, let’s figure it out together. I’m a Latina therapist who supports adults navigating anxiety, stress, relationship challenges, and major life changes. My approach is warm, down-to-earth, and collaborative, creating a space where you can feel safe to open up and be yourself. Together, we’ll explore what’s been weighing on you, build tools to manage life’s ups and downs, and help you move toward feeling more grounded, confident, and connected to who you are.
VirtualAvailable
Direct
Solution oriented
Authentic

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+10
Hello, My name is Pavly Abdelmalek and I am a licensed psychotherapist (LMFT). I enjoy using a variety of different approaches to therapy and I will tailor them according your needs. My focus areas of practice will always start with providing a comfortable non-judgmental environment for you accompanied with the highest level of empathy throughout the therapeutic process. I am excited to know your story.
VirtualAvailable
Solution oriented
Authentic
Warm

Specialties

Coping Skills
Trauma and PTSD
Anxiety
+3
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in California, I help women navigate trauma, life transitions, and postpartum concerns, with a focus on EMDR therapy. I'm here to support you through coping with change and building resilience.
VirtualAvailable
Open-minded
Intelligent

Specialties

ADHD
Coping Skills
Self Esteem
Welcome to your first step at receiving the care you need. I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California with a Master of Science degree from California State University, Los Angeles. I have experience helping clients with a wide range of challenges, and I believe you have the strength within you to overcome what you're facing. I was drawn to the field of mental healthcare through my own personal experiences and a deep desire to help others. Pursuing my Master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy at California State University, Los Angeles, provided me with the knowledge and skills to support individuals in their healing journeys. My goal is to empower you to lead a more fulfilling and authentic life. Whether you're seeking support for anxiety, relationship issues, trauma, or personal growth, I am here to walk alongside you. Together, we will work to identify and overcome obstacles, build resilience, and cultivate a greater sense of self-awareness and self-compassion.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Empowering
Intelligent

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+6
I am a dedicated Licensed Professional in Private Practice in the Los Angeles area, with over 20 years of direct counseling experience. I provide high-quality services aimed at helping clients achieve a balanced perspective on their mental health. My goal is to assist clients in developing the skills needed to maintain emotional well-being through life's challenges. Ultimately, my primary aim is to enhance the overall well-being and mental health of my clients.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
+10
Hi, I'm a therapist (LCSW) who did my graduate degree at the University of Chicago, and has been working in Southern California supporting adults to heal and thrive for the past 12 years. I am a warm, engaged, therapist who helps people to find their sparkle, their fuel, and the skills to move toward what matters in their lives. I work with adults who are struggling with anxiety, depression, life transitions, grief, decision-making, relationship issues, psychosis, and identity exploration.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Warm
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Physical Health Condition
Women's Issues
+3
I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California passionate about supporting adult women who are navigating anxiety, chronic pain, and life changes. My mindful and compassionate approach helps you feel seen and build resilience as we work toward a more grounded, meaningful life.
VirtualAvailable
Empowering
Authentic
Direct

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Spirituality
+5
My name is Jay Ruan, a licensed clinical social worker in State of California. Beyond my education, trainings, and working experiences, I am also have lived experience of struggling with mental health. This give me not only the knowledges, but also empathy and different perspective that are support and guide you in your journey toward restoring your true potential and overall wellness. I seek not to tell you where to go, but walk with you on your side. I believe that "unable to change" is trauma and live through experience that are not yet given the needed care and untangling. My approach is using the method that best address your need and situation. I often help client restore and build needed support in their life during time of change, interpersonal conflict, and grief & lost. After I work on addressing urgent issues, I want to help you build insight and deal with root of the issue that aim to produce long lasting recovery long after treatment ended. I am not here to solve your problem, but to guide and empower you to conquered them. (PLEASE NOTE APPOINTMENTS ARE AVAILABLE 4PM TO 11PM FROM SUNDAY TO THURSDAY ONLY)
VirtualAvailable
Intelligent
Solution oriented

Specialties

Fertility & Reproduction Issues
Perinatal Mental Health
Women's Issues
+7
I am a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in maternal mental health, particularly in areas related to Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorders, including postpartum depression and anxiety, pregnancy loss, and birth trauma. My focus is on supporting birthing-persons and families as they navigate the emotional challenges surrounding pregnancy, childbirth, and early parenthood. My approach is client-centered and compassionate, aimed at creating a safe and supportive environment where you can explore your feelings, build resilience, and develop effective coping strategies. Together, we will work towards your goals and empower you on your journey to emotional well-being.
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Authentic
Warm
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+8
Hello! I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) in California with over 15 years of experience in the mental health field. I earned my master’s degree from Pepperdine University and have dedicated my career to supporting individuals, children, and families through meaningful healing and growth. I have extensive experience working with children and families impacted by trauma, including abuse and neglect. I also specialize in helping adults heal from childhood trauma—understanding how early experiences shape current patterns, relationships, and self-perception, and supporting you as you move toward becoming your most authentic and empowered self.
VirtualAvailable
Warm

Specialties

Anxiety
Life Transitions
Self Esteem
+3
As a biracial, Black and Mexican, female clinician, I understand the obstacles and barriers to healing the mind, body and soul; and leading an overall physically and mentally healthy life. I take a collaborative approach in helping individuals create life goals that they want to work towards. I aim to create a safe and non- judgmental space for individuals. If you feel as though you can benefit from learning how to develop positive ways to cope with anxiety, sadness, anger, low- self esteem, isolation, racing thoughts and more, please contact me for further information and a consultation. I look forward to starting this journey of healing with you
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Self Esteem
Trauma and PTSD
+5
Hello, my name is Jamal and I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor with seven years of experience collaborating with diverse communities including preteens, adolescents, adults and older adults, and underrepresented groups. Most of my work consists of processing trauma and assessing the relationships we have with others to build more hope for the future. I personally believe that though things may be hard right now, no one is 'crazy' and that in some way, the way we are makes sense due to our past experiences. That means we can understand and create experiences now and in the future that are more adaptive and true to how we want to live. -I currently am not seeing clients under the age of 18 nor couples due to my availability. My apologies in advance for any inconvenience-
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Open-minded

Specialties

Addiction
Anger Management
Depression
+10
Hi, I’m Marvin West, a bilingual Spanish-speaking therapist serving adults and elders across California. I’m here to guide you through challenges like addiction, anxiety, or life transitions, using expressive arts and DBT to support your journey toward healing and growth.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Solution oriented
Warm

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Women's Issues
+8
I'm so glad you're taking this step to prioritize your mental health—it's the foundation of everything else in life. As a mother of three young adults, including boy-girl twins and a neurodivergent daughter, and with experience as a psychologist, coach, and leader in both tech and education, I bring a wide range of lived experience to my work. I work with individuals and families at all stages of life, helping them release outdated mindsets and adopt empowering new ones by uncovering the root causes, patterns, and obstacles that hold them back. My approach integrates neuroscience, cognitive psychology, positive psychology, and depth psychology, always focusing on creating meaningful connections that unlock new possibilities. I don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all approach to therapy. Instead, I hold an unwavering belief in each person’s boundless potential. By focusing on what truly matters, we can always transform challenges into opportunities.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Solution oriented
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Family Conflict
+10
Hello and welcome! As a psychologist in California with 14 years of experience, I help teens, adults, and older adults heal from trauma, overcome depression, and navigate family conflict using evidence-based approaches like CBT and Internal Family Systems.
VirtualAvailable

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