Collaboratively, I assess the client's concerns, formulate treatment goals, and we develop a tailored treatment plan that combines Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and mindfulness techniques based on the client's specific needs and goals. Throughout the treatment process, we may engage in various exercises, including cognitive restructuring, and ongoing mindfulness practices to support emotional regulation and integration. Clients are equipped with practical skills and mindfulness exercises to reinforce therapeutic gains between sessions.
"One of the most courageous things you can do is identify yourself, know who you are, what you believe in and where you want to go." - Sheila Murray Bethel This quote captures the essence of the beginning of therapy, which often involves introspection, self-awareness, and the courage to embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth. The first therapy session, often referred to as the intake or initial assessment, is a crucial step in establishing a therapeutic relationship and understanding the client's needs, concerns, and goals. In general, we explore the therapeutic process together and provide information about confidentiality, complete paperwork, and administrative details. The focus is on building rapport establishing a relationship with the client and creating an environment where the client feels comfortable to discuss the reasons for seeking therapy. Then we proceed to take a personal history that may extend into the next session, exploring relevant aspects of the client's personal life, including family background, relationships, significant life events, and past therapy experiences. I may also use some standardized assessments or clinical interviews to gather information about the client's mental health, emotional well-being, and overall functioning, assessing the client's strengths, coping mechanisms, and present support systems. If the time allows we proceed to goal setting; if not this will be addressed in the following sessions We will also discuss what success might look like and how progress will be measured. Next expectations for the therapeutic process are discussed, including the frequency and duration of sessions. The therapist may address some potential challenges and the client's role in the process. The therapist discusses the next steps, which may include scheduling follow-up sessions.
A therapist's strength lies in their capacity to hold space for clients to explore their deepest wounds and vulnerabilities without judgment. I am present, I am sensitive to cultural differences, I am compassionate, I am genuine, I am patient, especially during moments of difficulty or resistance. I empower clients to recognize their strengths and capabilities. I strive to create a safe and non-judgmental space for clients to express themselves freely.
Highly motivated, highly achiever clients struggling with social anxiety, entangled in a web of fears : fear of failure, fear of success, fear of abandonment, fear of not being good enough, having doubts and insecurities that hinder their ability to authentically express themselves. Clients with perfectionistic tendencies having challenges with inconsistency and making decisions, especially when confronted with situations that demand vulnerability and self-expression Clients who exhibit fear of judgment or rejection when considering revealing their true self to others Clients holding back their genuine thoughts, feelings, and desires due to a fear of not meeting perceived social expectations Clients yearning for genuine connections and authenticity, sometimes sacrificing their true identity for saving attachment with a significant other and social acceptance
Anxiety can be magnified by a pattern of negative and irrational thoughts that have an impact on how you feel and will determine your actions. By examining the evidence and challenging these thoughts one can reduce the negative effect on the day to day feelings and behaviors. Healing is a process with many a-ha moments along the way. Letting go of the negative patterns is possible with honesty, self-compassion, and commitment.
Positive Psychology focuses on the study and promotion of positive human functioning and well-being. Here are some key aspects: Instead of concentrating on pathology or what's wrong with individuals, Positive Psychology emphasizes personal strengths, virtues, and factors that contribute to a fulfilling and meaningful life. Subjective Well-being: often involves understanding what contributes to happiness and life satisfaction, including the balance of positive and negative emotions. Resilience and Flourishing: Key concepts include resilience, which is the ability to bounce back from adversity, and flourishing, which is living a life filled with meaning, engagement, and fulfillment. Positive Interventions: Techniques and exercises are used to enhance well-being, such as gratitude journaling, strengths identification, and positive affirmations. Research-Based: Positive Psychology is supported by research that investigates what makes life worth living and how individuals can lead richer, more fulfilling lives by applying findings scientifically.
Mindfulness means living with awareness in the present moment, non-judgmentally. By developing an awareness of day-to-day tendencies and patterns of thoughts - emotions- and behaviors, one can make a change in the present moment. It involves breathing exercises, grounding techniques, guided imagery, forgiveness, and relaxation practices.
A strength-based approach focuses on identifying and leveraging an individual's inherent strengths and capabilities, rather than dwelling on weaknesses or deficits. It emphasizes nurturing what is already working well within a person to building blocks for growth and development. The emphasis is not on fixing what's wrong, but on amplifying what's right. It acknowledges that every individual possesses unique talents, skills, and resources that can be harnessed to overcome challenges and achieve success. By recognizing and harnessing these strengths, individuals are empowered to take ownership of their growth and progress.