Attachment-Based Therapy Therapists in San Francisco, CA

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on the emotional bonds formed early in life between children and their caregivers, exploring how these connections influence relationships and emotional well-being throughout life. This approach helps individuals heal attachment wounds from childhood or past experiences, fostering stronger, more secure relationships in the present. Ideal for those navigating relationship challenges or the effects of trauma, Attachment-Based Therapy nurtures trust, connection, and emotional healing. With 214 therapists in San Francisco, CA specializing in this supportive approach, you can access compassionate, personalized care tailored to your unique needs. Each Grow Therapy-verified therapist listed below is welcoming new clients, offering timely availability to support your journey toward deeper connection and healing.

Availability updated: 9/29/2026

Empowering
Warm
Authentic
Specialties
Attachment Issues
Childhood / Intergenerational Trauma
Couples Counseling
+9
I’m Melissa Lapides, and my work centers around attachment. If you’re dating or in a relationship, we’re going to look at how your early experiences shaped the way you connect, protect, pursue, withdraw, or repeat the same patterns over and over. Together, we make sense of why you’re experiencing the challenges you’re having — not from a place of blame, but from understanding. I work with both individuals and couples to help them build more harmonious relationships rooted in emotional safety, secure connection, and real love and intimacy. When you understand your attachment style and nervous system, your relationship patterns stop feeling confusing and start feeling workable. I’m warm, direct, and grounded — think compassionate but honest. I’ll hold space for your pain, and I’ll also gently call you forward when you’re ready. I believe most struggles make sense in the context of your story and your nervous system, not because something is “wrong” with you. My goal is to help you feel more regulated, more connected, and more empowered in your relationships and your life. Healing doesn’t have to be dramatic — it can be steady, real, and deeply transformative.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Empowering
Warm
Specialties
Dissociative Disorders
Foster Care/Adoption
Trauma and PTSD
+6
Trauma, recovery and post-traumatic resilience are among my areas of focus. I am trained in EMDR, Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, exposure therapy, and Solution-Focused Brief Therapy to provide structured treatment to address extreme stress and PTSD. Before I was a therapist, I worked for many years in art and community organizations, and I tend to be a good fit for artists, activists and unconventional thinkers. I care deeply about the health effects of poverty, inequality and oppression, and I value and promote self-determination and self-actualization. I am a long-time foster/adoptive parent in a biracial family; my work is informed by my lived experience as well as my education.
Available

Often rebooked

Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Peer Relationships
+15
Hello and Welcome to Grow Therapy, my name is Sabrina Thurman. Do you ever find yourself struggling in relationships, at work, with family, peers or with your health and wellbeing? You are not alone, and change is possible. I have helped clients' just like you to make sustainable and permanent life changes, by increasing my client's ability to manage and cope with stress. I use a holistic approach to address the needs of your mind, body, and spirit. I am excited to begin our journey together. I believe one of the bravest things you can do is begin to understand your own story. My job is to provide a space for you to process your feelings while assisting you to feel safe within our teletherapy environment. You are the expert on your life, your personal goals have value and will drive our treatment plan. My ideal patient is focused on personal growth and healing.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Intelligent
Authentic
Solution oriented
Specialties
Anxiety
Couples Counseling
Trauma and PTSD
+10
Welcome! I'm Ian, and I'm here to help you navigate life's challenges and uncover the strength to create meaningful change. Starting therapy can feel both exciting and intimidating, but my goal is to create a safe, supportive space where you can explore concerns like anxiety, depression, and self-care. I focus on helping clients develop assertive communication, healthy boundaries, and practical tools to enhance their relationships and overall quality of life. Therapy is a powerful tool for personal growth, and together, we can work toward building the fulfilling life you deserve. I'm here when you're ready to take that step.
VirtualOffers in-person in San Francisco, CAAvailable
Solution oriented
Authentic
Direct
Specialties
Addiction
Family Conflict
Parenting
+9
As a provider, my greatest strengths lie in my deep empathy, active listening, and a commitment to mindful curiosity. I believe you are the expert on your own life, and I strive to create a safe, supportive space where your unique story can be truly heard and valued. Rather than simply diagnosing a problem, I listen for the 'hidden' stories of your strengths and values that often get overshadowed. My approach to active listening is about more than just understanding; it’s about standing alongside you to deconstruct the challenges you face and uncover the skills you already possess. Together, we will collaborate to rewrite the narratives that no longer serve you, fostering a therapeutic relationship built on trust, respect, and the reclamation of your personal agency.
VirtualOffers in-person in San Francisco, CAAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Direct
Specialties
Anxiety
Couples Counseling
Depression
+3
I feel my primary responsibility as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist is to foster a calm, safe and trusting environment with all clients through a warm and non-judgmental relationship. Therapy is a “we” program. My former career tracks in communication and education gives me the ability to connect with clients from various backgrounds and cultures with empathy and support to help you meet your goals. As a private practice and community mental health therapist, I was able to experience working clinically with children, youth, adults and couples. I use an individually tailored approach to therapy matching the needs of each client in the present moment.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Open-minded
Specialties
Grief
Life Transitions
Women's Issues
+10
I am a licensed therapist who specializes in supporting women who have experienced difficult or emotionally complicated relationships with their mothers, struggle with feelings of “not being enough,” or find themselves repeating painful patterns in relationships. I help women heal from the wounds that often shape how they see themselves, love others, and navigate relationships. My approach is grounded in psychodynamic and relational therapy, recognizing that our past experiences, relationships, and patterns often shape how we experience ourselves and the world today. I offer an integrative approach that combines a variety of therapeutic modalities, including Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), attachment-based therapy, solution-focused therapy, and narrative therapy. Together, we'll identify the approaches that best fit your goals, helping you develop practical coping skills, deepen self-understanding, strengthen relationships, and move toward the life you want to create.
Available
Authentic
Warm
Solution oriented
Specialties
Trauma and PTSD
Hi, I’m Genevie. I am a licensed mental health professional with about nine years of experience supporting individuals, couples, and families through their healing journey. My practice is centered on authenticity, unconditional positive regard, and creating a safe space where you can feel heard and understood. I specialize in trauma and have extensive experience working with clients across the lifespan from children as young as five to adults in their 60s to 70s. My background includes working with children, teens, and adults navigating ADHD, autism, grief and loss, terminal illness, family system challenges, and co-occurring disorders. I also work with couples and families to strengthen communication, boundaries, and connection. In therapy, I draw from multiple approaches including client-centered therapy, CBT, and family systems perspectives. I tailor treatment to the unique needs of each client, whether that means helping someone process trauma, manage symptoms of anxiety or depression, or navigate life transitions such as job changes, relationship difficulties, or significant loss. I believe deeply in the power of the therapeutic relationship. Healing happens when people feel safe, respected, and supported in their growth. My role is to walk alongside you, collaborating on your goals, and helping you build tools for resilience, clarity, and long-term well-being.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Empowering
Warm
Authentic
Specialties
ADHD
Autism
Self Esteem
+10
Trust that gut instinct telling you something needs to change. With over 10 years of experience helping individuals, families, and couples navigate life’s challenges, my specialties include ADHD, Borderline Personality, Life Transitions, Trauma, and Relationship Issues. I focus on building self-esteem and creating stronger, healthier connections—starting with the most important relationship of all: the one you have with yourself. In our work together, I will support you in discovering your strengths, understanding your unique needs, and developing the tools to improve your life and relationships. Whether you’re navigating the complexities of a diagnosis, learning how to communicate better with a partner, initiating your healing journey, or seeking personal growth, I’m here to support you every step of the way. I'm not an advice giver; I'm your accountability coach. Let's start building a more fulfilling life together!
Available
Empowering
Authentic
Solution oriented
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+10
I am licensed in California with 11 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, & parenting issues. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage. I am here to support you in that process.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+9
Congratulations on taking this important step toward a healthier, more fulfilling life! Starting therapy is a brave choice, and I am here to offer a safe, supportive space where healing can begin. I specialize in working with individuals and families navigating the weight of past trauma, depression, anxiety, and life transitions. Together, we can uncover your strengths, build resilience, and work toward a more balanced and fulfilling life. If you're ready to start your healing journey, I’d be honored to walk alongside you every step of the way. I chose to become a mental health provider because I have always been deeply passionate about helping others navigate life's challenges and find a sense of healing and balance. Throughout my life, I’ve witnessed how powerful support, understanding, and a safe space can be in fostering growth and resilience. I’m committed to empowering individuals to better understand themselves, overcome obstacles, and create meaningful change. Becoming a mental health provider allows me to combine my desire to make a positive impact with my belief in the transformative power of therapy. My goal is to help people lead healthier, more fulfilling lives, and to offer them the tools and support they need to thrive.
VirtualAvailable
Empowering
Authentic
Warm
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Coping Skills
+6
Hi there, I'm Mandy. Are you feeling stuck or held back from the life you truly want to live? Life’s challenges—stress, pain, and unresolved experiences—often settle in our bodies, shaping how we move through the world. These experiences impact our nervous system, relationships, and sense of safety until we learn to work with them. By gently turning toward these parts of ourselves, we create space for healing and growth. My goal is to support you to feel heard, seen, and empowered to transform these challenges. Through mind-body-spirit integration, you'll reconnect, find balance, and discover what transformation means for you.
VirtualAvailable
Empowering
Authentic
Direct
Specialties
Grief
LGBTQ
Trauma and PTSD
+4
I believe that we all deserve a safe space to process our experiences, and my primary goal is to provide you that space. I provide a person-centered approach that emphasizes helping my clients build self-compassion, as I believe that it is only from a place of self-compassion that we can feel grounded within ourselves enough to develop a compassionate relationship with others around us. My approach is warm, down-to-earth, trauma informed, and practical, and I believe that we are all on a healing journey and see myself as a fellow traveler. It is an honor to walk by your side
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Specialties
Child or Adolescent
LGBTQ
Peer Relationships
+8
You've tried therapy before but found that coping skills and worksheets aren't cutting it. I am a queer 2nd-gen Asian therapist taking a deeper approach. Together, we collect the pieces of your life story you've taken from past relationships and experiences and examine them, looking for new ways to write your own story. I also welcome discussion of issues like racism, homophobia, sexism, and how they affect us. My clients are able to make sense of their patterns and discover their own solutions through a space we craft with humor, compassion, and the occasional meme. By the end of therapy, my clients share feeling more at peace with themselves and more confident in managing their relationships. Most of my experience has been with children and teens at Kaiser Permanente over the last 6 years, including the combination of depression, anxiety, trauma, substance use, and conflictual family dynamics. I have also worked in research settings with folks experiencing psychosis and college-aged students. At present, I am providing crisis evaluations at a local non-profit in SF in addition to this practice. I see teens and adults through this practice.
VirtualAvailable
Empowering
Solution oriented
Specialties
Couples Counseling
Trauma and PTSD
Anxiety
+5
Hi! I’m a licensed California Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in helping couples strengthen their connection, improve communication, and better understand one another. My goal is to create a space where both partners feel emotionally safe, genuinely heard, and understood—without judgment or taking sides. Relationships often activate our deepest attachment wounds and protective patterns. Together, we'll identify the cycles keeping you stuck, explore how past experiences influence your relationship today, and develop healthier ways to communicate, reconnect, and navigate conflict.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Empowering
Direct
Specialties
Autism
Parenting
Women's Issues
+10
Hi! I'm Dr. Carolynn Gray, a Licensed Clinical Psychologist with 15+ years of experience in mental health. People who work with me get a lot of clarity about the next steps in their mental health journey, confidence that they are doing what they can to reach their goals, and tools for navigating mental health needs in the complex and ever-changing world we live in.
VirtualAvailable

New to Grow

Specialties
Addiction / Substance Use
Anxiety
Childhood / Intergenerational Trauma
+10
Hi, I’m Alexa Eguchi Diaz, LMFT. I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist passionate about supporting individuals through recovery, mental health challenges, relationship difficulties, trauma, and meaningful life transitions. I believe therapy should be a space where you feel safe enough to be honest, supported enough to be vulnerable, and encouraged enough to grow. My approach is warm, collaborative, compassionate, and grounded in attachment-based, psychodynamic, trauma-informed, and cognitive behavioral therapies. I believe our thoughts, emotions, experiences, and relationships all influence the ways we cope and move through life. In our work together, we may explore the deeper patterns that have shaped how you see yourself and relate to others while also developing practical tools to help you navigate challenges in the present. I believe meaningful change involves both understanding yourself more deeply and practicing new ways of responding. I especially enjoy working with individuals who feel stuck in patterns they understand but have difficulty changing, are navigating recovery, or are experiencing challenges with relationships, boundaries, self-trust, or major life changes. You don’t have to have everything figured out before starting therapy. My role is not to tell you who you should be or what choices you should make. Instead, I want to help you better understand yourself, identify what matters most to you, and feel more confident in creating a life that feels authentic, connected, and sustainable.
Available

New to Grow

Specialties
ADHD
Anxiety
Depression
+10
I’m an experienced psychotherapist with a broad clinical background working with clients across the lifespan and a wide range of mental health concerns and life challenges. Over the course of my career, I’ve worked with children, adolescents, adults, and older adults—from individuals facing significant mental health challenges and trauma to those simply needing support, clarity, or direction during a difficult season of life. I also support fellow therapists as they navigate personal and professional challenges. I bring that depth of experience to a practice that is warm, collaborative, and practical, helping clients better understand themselves, navigate challenges, and make meaningful changes in their lives.
Available

Often rebooked

Authentic
Humorous
Warm
Specialties
Anxiety
Family Conflict
Trauma and PTSD
+9
I’m a bilingual Latina therapist. I support individuals who feel stuck overwhelmed with emotions or painful relationship patterns. Many of my clients are super caring personas que dan mucho, sometimes to their own detriment. I specialize in helping those getting better from difficult or unhealthy relationships, including survivors of domestic violence. My approach is warm, honest, and culturally attuned, so you can feel truly understood while also supported in creating real change.
VirtualAvailable

New to Grow

Specialties
Anxiety
Emotional Regulation
Life Transitions
+10
Hi, I’m Selena! As a first-generation therapist from the Latinx community, I understand that life can come with layers of family expectations, cultural values, responsibility, and the feeling that you’re supposed to just “figure it out.” I know how important it can be to have someone who understands those nuances without judgment. I’m a warm, collaborative therapist who believes you shouldn’t have to pretend to have it all together in therapy. I strive to create a space where you can show up exactly as you are—messy, overwhelmed, confused, motivated, or somewhere in between. My approach is genuine, validating, and relatable. I use humor when it feels right, because sometimes you need to laugh at the absurdity of life before you can figure out what to do with it. I’m not here to sit across from you and act like I have all the answers. I’m here to listen, understand, ask the hard questions when needed, and help you make sense of what you’re experiencing.
Available
Solution oriented
Intelligent
Warm
Specialties
Anxiety
Life Transitions
Self Esteem
+10
I’m dedicated to helping adults and families navigate the complexities of life transitions, depression, anxiety, trauma, abuse, adjustment challenges, grief and loss, relationship stress, and self-esteem issues. With over 15 years of experience in social services, I bring a compassionate, trauma-informed, and culturally aware lens to the therapeutic relationship. My passion lies in helping individuals strengthen communication, set healthy boundaries, express emotions, and reconnect with their sense of self.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Intelligent
Open-minded
Specialties
Anxiety
Child or Adolescent
Trauma and PTSD
+5
Do you feel overwhelmed by every day life? Are you dealing with negative thoughts that keep you from feeling your best? Do you struggle with self-care and self-compassion? Together we can identify how to help you feel in control of your thoughts, feelings and actions again. We will work towards increasing your ability to cope with difficult feelings or stressful life events and get you back on track with managing the different parts of your life. We will use mindfulness practices including meditation and gratitude to help you feel grounded and centered. Let's remember to be kind to ourselves! My experience includes working with children as young as 5, teenagers and adults. I have 14 years of experience working with teenagers as a high school counselor. I enjoy bringing art and play into sessions to help build a variety of skills and insight. Reaching out for help in any capacity can be a difficult task, especially when it comes to mental health. I am here to help and I will work toward creating a safe space for you to feel seen and heard. I will use a cognitive behavioral approach (understanding the connection between our thoughts, feelings and behaviors) as well as other evidence-based practices to best support your needs.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Grief
+10
Hello and welcome! I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family therapist (LMFT) based in California. I received my Masters Degree from Phillips Graduate Institute and have been providing therapeutic services in a variety of settings with multiple populations for over 14 years. With years of experience in the field, I bring a deep understanding of the complexities of human relationships and the impact they have on your overall well-being. I draw from evidence-based therapeutic modalities, including cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), solution-focused therapy, attachment and family systems theory, to help you navigate through your challenges and achieve the outcomes you desire. In our sessions, we will work collaboratively to explore your concerns, uncover underlying patterns, and develop practical strategies for overcoming obstacles.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Solution oriented
Open-minded
Specialties
Addiction
Autism
Coping Skills
+4
Hi I'm Jordan and welcome to my practice. I specialize in working with adults with high-functioning Autism (formerly Asperger's) as well as help clients with addiction concerns. If you or your adult child is on the spectrum and struggling to put words to their emotions, implement real change, or develop friendships, these are very common concerns and I would be happy to meet with you or your child to work through those concerns. I also support clients (ASD or not) with addiction concerns ranging from porn to alcohol and many other drugs. I enjoy my work and ensure that my clients never feel judged and leave feeling empowered to make the changes that are essential for their life.
VirtualOffers in-person in Del Mar, CA - Accepting clients in CAAvailable
Authentic
Empowering
Intelligent
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+4
Welcome! My name is Sheri and I’m glad you’re here. Starting therapy can be a big step, filling you with a sense of hope, nervousness, or something in between. Taking this journey to help yourself feel better in your own skin, or to function better in relationships, is a huge act of self-care. Sometimes our old wounds, that have yet to heal, play an unsuspecting role in our lives today. Other times, we might feel stuck or get anxiety at the thought of certain changes – even those we want to make. I really enjoy working with clients to help them better understand themselves, feel better individually and in relationship and move towards the version of themselves they want to be. You being here means that you’re taking steps in this direction. My door is open when you’re ready to begin. Feel free to schedule a 15 minute phone consultation with me to see if we are a good fit.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
Trauma and PTSD
+9
A little about me: I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who, come to find out, originally got into this field largely to figure myself out. If you’ve never heard that from a therapist before, it’s actually a pretty common thread among us, we often subconsciously step into healing others as a way to find healing within ourselves. About 22 years ago, I was diagnosed with Complex PTSD, and roughly 15 years ago, I received an OCD diagnosis. Having these two conditions overlap made things incredibly challenging throughout much of my life and if I’m being completely honest, navigating that balance can still have its moments today. But there’s something powerful about a wounded healer: we tend to want more for ourselves and for the people we serve than just standard, status-quo talk therapy. We dig deeper because we need real answers on a personal level, and once we find what works, we want to share it with the world.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Direct
Specialties
ADHD
Family Conflict
Life Transitions
+10
With over to 20 years of experience working alongside children, teens, adults, and families, I’ve learned the importance of meeting people exactly where they are, whether mentally, emotionally, or sometimes even physically. My “out-of-the-box” approach is flexible and adaptable to each individual's unique needs, offering creative, client-centered strategies where you can feel safe, supported, and empowered to explore at your own pace. My journey began in community-based settings, working with individuals and families often navigating complex systems. That foundation shaped my core belief: to show up to each session with curiosity and deep respect for each person’s unique story. My approach has always been to meet clients where they are, helping them discover healthier coping mechanisms and become more effective in their daily lives. Therapy with me is not one-size-fits-all. I tailor each session to your unique needs, integrating different modalities to support your growth in ways that feel natural and accessible to you. As your therapist, I show up as my authentic self, with the intention of creating a space where you feel safe, supported, and empowered to explore at your own pace. I offer an environment where you can express yourself freely, gain deeper insight into your thoughts and emotions, and develop tools to navigate life’s challenges more effectively.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
LGBTQ
Women's Issues
+4
I’m a first-generation Guatemalan-American, cis-gendered Latinx Therapist in Los Angeles and Torrance, California. Through the past 9 years, I have supported adults across California — especially First‐Gen, BIPOC, and queer folks — who want to understand their feelings more deeply, heal from anxiety and people‐pleasing, and strengthen self‐trust and healthy connection in their relationships.
VirtualOffers in-person in Torrance, CA - Accepting clients in CAAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Direct
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Coping Skills
+4
Hello there! Are you seeking empowerment, fulfillment, or healing from past trauma? I provide a safe space to accompany you on a journey of self-discovery. I believe in the interconnectedness of our minds, bodies, spirits, and relationships, and I address each of these personal facets to help you emerge holistically. My therapeutic style draws from various approaches, including Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), attachment therapy approach, and Brainspotting (BSP). I value the relational aspect of psychotherapy, and with my guided questions, you will be invited to find your answers to improve your sense of self and deepen your connection with yourself and others. I hold a CA license to practice psychotherapy as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT 105889. In CA, I see clients via Telehealth (Zoom.)
VirtualOffers in-person in Santa Monica, CA - Accepting clients in CAAvailable

Often rebooked

Warm
Authentic
Solution oriented
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Self Esteem
+9
You might feel stuck in patterns like overthinking, anxiety, or relationship stress that are hard to turn off. Even when things look fine on the outside, it can feel exhausting trying to manage everything internally. I work with adults who want to understand these patterns and respond differently, not just cope. Our work focuses on making sense of what is happening beneath the surface while also finding practical ways to feel more clear, grounded, and in control in daily life. I integrate trauma informed care and parts work to help you build self-trust, set boundaries, and move through challenges with more clarity and confidence.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+5
Hi, I’m Norma Elia Luna, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and the therapist behind Sol de Luna Therapy. I provide warm, collaborative, trauma-informed therapy that integrates attachment-focused and somatic perspectives. I believe the patterns we struggle with often make more sense when we understand what they have been trying to protect us from. In our work, we may explore how past experiences, relationships, emotions, and nervous system responses continue to shape the way you experience yourself and the people around you today. My goal is not simply to help you manage symptoms, but to help you understand yourself more deeply, reconnect with your own needs and strengths, and develop new ways of responding that feel more aligned with the life and relationships you want.
VirtualOffers in-person in Downey, CA - Accepting clients in CAAvailable

New to Grow

Direct
Warm
Specialties
Attachment Issues
Life Transitions
Trauma and PTSD
+10
My style is warm, curious, engaged, and down-to-earth. I’m not the kind of therapist who sits silently and occasionally asks, “How does that make you feel?” I’ll be right there with you—asking questions, noticing patterns, offering perspective, and sometimes bringing humor into the room when it feels right. I work especially well with thoughtful, self-aware people who have done a lot of thinking about themselves but still find themselves caught in patterns they can’t quite think their way out of. You may be successful and capable on the outside while privately struggling with anxiety, self-doubt, perfectionism, relationship patterns, or a persistent sense that something is missing. I also work with people who feel disconnected—from their emotions, their relationships, or even themselves. Sometimes that disconnection developed for very good reasons. If you learned early in life to stay in control, rely on yourself, push feelings aside, or keep others at a distance, those strategies may have helped you survive difficult experiences but now leave you feeling stuck or alone. My approach is grounded largely in Internal Family Systems (IFS), attachment, mindfulness, and somatic work. Rather than asking, “What’s wrong with you?” we get curious about what happened, what you learned to do to survive or belong, and what different parts of you may still be trying to protect. Our work is about more than understanding yourself. It’s about experiencing yourself differently—with more compassion, more choice, deeper connection, and less internal noise.
Offers in-person in San Diego, CA - Accepting clients in CAAvailable
Solution oriented
Warm
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Life Transitions
Parenting
+6
From working in East LA with 0-5 population to working with adults in the military and kids/teens in San Diego, I have had the privilege of walking alongside so many individuals and families in every facet of life. Obtaining my Bachelor's Degree in the Midwest, studying in a foreign country, and ultimately earning my Master's in California, I embrace adaptability and have gained valuable perspectives gained through varied experiences in various locations. I specialize in utilizing an attachment-based, trauma-informed, and neuroscience lens; and I embrace every individual's story. After working with me, people tend to walk away with enhanced self-understanding, improved attunement to themselves or others, and increased self-compassion. I utilize the most up-to-date methods such as Polyvagal Theory and utilize methods that are not a quick fix, rather are instrumental in providing long-term results with long-term benefits.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Empowering
Intelligent
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+9
I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with 16 years of experience. One of my main focus has been trauma and Infant Mental Health, providing dyadic treatment to families. I am a trauma informed clinician with an attachment based lens. I utilize CBT in my practice and I identify as a relational therapist. I am trained in Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR), Child Parent Psychotherapy (CPP), Motivational Interviewing (MI), these are all evidence based treatments.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Empowering
Solution oriented
Specialties
Anxiety
Trauma and PTSD
Women's Issues
If you are navigating a major life transition, constantly fighting a wave of anxiety, or feeling stuck in repetitive relationship patterns, you don't have to carry it alone. You deserve a space where you can let your guard down without fear of judgment. I provide a warm, lighthearted, and deeply collaborative environment where we work entirely at your pace. Because traditional talk therapy doesn't always reach the root of deep-seated stress or trauma, I integrate evidence-based, somatic, and trauma-informed approaches—including EMDR, CBT, and Brainspotting—to help you heal from the inside out.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Open-minded
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Insomnia/Sleep Issues
I am an affirmative therapist and am LGBTQIA+ allied (I myself identify as gender queer and pansexual), BLM allied, Indigenous/native allied, API allied, Latinx allied, Disability allied, Deaf allied, Vegan allied (I myself am Vegan), and polyamory allied. I specialize in serving patients suffering suicide loss at any stage of the loss. I also specialize in attachment/family systems informed individual care and CBT-I (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia). I also hold particular interest and experience in serving adults with ASD, ID or DD, adult children of narcissists, those who have suffered brainwashing and those who have suffered paranormal trauma. I have years of experience in serving patients with a multitude of mental health and relational difficulties. I consider my orientation as a therapist to be first and foremost client-centered and strength-based. Although I utilize various therapeutic approaches, I chiefly consider myself to be a narrative/Rogerian therapist. This means that I work to help my patients take back the power and control over their own stories and assist them by co-authoring a narrative that truly witnesses and respects their traumas, tragedies, injustices, achievements, triumphs, milestones, strengths, and resiliency. I do this while holding empathy, congruency and unconditional positive regard as my three major tenants in the therapeutic alliance. I specialize in therapy for: adult individuals suffering depression, anxiety, interpersonal/relational difficulties, traumatic grief, suicide loss, relational and attachment traumas, victims of psychological torture/emotional abuse/brainwashing, adult children of narcissists, sufferers of paranormal traumas, military and first-responder trauma, vegans, LGBTQIA+, adults with Autism spectrum disorder (ASD), Intellectual Disability (ID), Developmental disabilities (DD), people struggling with life stressors, and those struggling with identity.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Life Transitions
+1
Hello! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), in Southern California. I have 8 years experience in working with adults and families. My therapeutic style includes an unwavering commitment to working together in pursuit of your mental well-being. My communication style is personable, relaxed and encouraging. My goal is to create a safe space to process your thoughts without judgement.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Open-minded
Warm
Specialties
Domestic Violence
Life Transitions
Trauma and PTSD
+6
My name is Ashley and I am a Marriage and Family Therapist. I graduated with my Masters in Psychology with an emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy in 2021 but have been working in the field as a Clinical Therapist since 2020. I genuinely enjoy working with many different people, but I especially love individual therapy with clients who are a little neurospicy like me, parents and caregivers who feel burned out or stretched too thin, and people trying to heal from trauma or unhealthy relationship patterns. I’m very trauma-informed and values-oriented in my work. I like helping clients understand the “why” behind their emotions, behaviors, and patterns while also figuring out what kind of life and relationships actually feel aligned with who they are. I often work with ADHD, anxiety, attachment and relationship concerns, caregiver burnout, life transitions, and parents of children with special needs or higher support needs. I know therapy is not about having everything figured out. Sometimes it’s about finally having a place where you don’t have to perform, hold everything together, or explain why you’re exhausted. I try to bring warmth, honesty, humor when appropriate, and practical tools into the room while still giving you space to process at your own pace.
VirtualAvailable

New to Grow

Authentic
Direct
Specialties
Attachment Issues
Life Transitions
Trauma and PTSD
+7
I’m a warm, direct, and down-to-earth therapist who believes therapy should feel like a genuine human relationship rather than a cold or overly clinical experience. My approach is rooted in feminist and existential therapy, which means we’ll look not only at what you’re experiencing internally, but also at how relationships, family patterns, societal expectations, identity, and your lived experiences have shaped you. I value humor, curiosity, honesty, and creating a space where you don’t have to edit yourself. My goal isn’t to tell you how to live your life, but to help you understand yourself more deeply, recognize patterns that may no longer serve you, and build a life that feels authentic and meaningful to you.
Available

New to Grow

Specialties
Attachment Issues
Childhood / Intergenerational Trauma
Grief
+3
Hi! I’m Christina, and I’m glad you’re here. Are you looking for a therapist who will listen, understand, and help you move forward? I’m a bilingual Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 16 years of experience, and I especially enjoy working with teenagers, young adults, and families navigating trauma, anxiety, grief, life transitions, and relationship challenges. You do not need to have everything figured out before beginning therapy. My approach is warm, collaborative, and strengths-based. Together, we will explore what may be keeping you stuck and build practical tools to help you feel more confident, connected, and grounded. I will honor your story, culture, values, and goals. If faith or spirituality is important to you, we can include it in a way that feels authentic. Running and music have been positive outlets in my own life, and I would love to help you discover what helps you feel restored and more like yourself. ¿Prefieres hablar en español? ¡Claro que sí! Therapy is available in English or español, tú eliges. Let’s get started.
Offers in-person in Redlands, CA - Accepting clients in CAAvailable
Solution oriented
Authentic
Warm
Specialties
Life Transitions
Self Esteem
Women's Issues
+10
My practice supports adult women navigating anxiety, depression, work stress, self-esteem challenges, and major life transitions. I also focus on coping skills, chronic health issues, spirituality, college phases, peer relationships, family dynamics, dating, long-term romantic partnerships, and marriage. For clients who are ready to create active, lasting change, we will work together using solution-oriented techniques and compassionate support to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Solution oriented
Authentic
Direct
Specialties
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
Women's Issues
+10
Hi, I’m Leah Yeshnik, LMFT. I specialize in supporting adults navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship challenges, and major life transitions. My approach is honest, direct, and grounded in presence. I listen deeply, reflect thoughtfully, and bring compassion, respect, consistency, humor, and accountability into the therapeutic space. My work is especially attuned to the emotional and relational experiences of women. I incorporate a range of modalities to meet different learning styles and needs, including expressive arts, journaling, self-reflection, skill building, and somatic practices
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+9
Hello! I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Art Therapist. I received my Masters from Loyola Marymount University and have been practicing for 7 years. I have experience working with clients of all ages, but I am truly passionate about helping transitioned age youth (17-25), adults, and the elderly. I hope to be part of your therapeutic journey by using a variety of evidence-based approaches to support your treatment, empower you to find solutions, and help you develop individualized coping skills.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Solution oriented
Authentic
Warm
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+10
It is always a privilege to partner with clients on their journey to improved mental health. I work with clients to discover their value and process through past hurts and traumas. I provide a safe place to process current and past issues and also provide psychoeducation so clients can learn new, healthy coping skills. I refer to myself as a tour guide on the road to healing.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Warm
Intelligent
Specialties
ADHD
Anxiety
Depression
+7
Hi, I’m Arpi, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and EMDR-trained therapist in Los Angeles. I help adults struggling with anxiety, trauma, OCD (including relationship OCD), ADHD, depression, and perfectionism. My clients often feel stuck in cycles of self-doubt, overthinking, and overwhelm — like no matter how hard they try, it’s never enough. My approach is warm, collaborative, and direct. I’ll create a safe, judgment-free space where you can be fully yourself while we work on practical strategies for lasting change. Along with talk therapy, I use evidence-based tools like EMDR, CBT, mindfulness, and parts work to address the root of what’s keeping you stuck. At the heart of my work is this belief: you are not broken. Together, we’ll help you feel calmer, more confident, and more connected to yourself.
VirtualAvailable
Challenging
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Trauma and PTSD
Women's Issues
+6
Hi, I'm Lindsay...I'm a therapist who believes in blending practical tools and behaviors for change here and now with the deeper exploration necessary to make that change sustainable. I believe that we all have the natural capacity to heal given the right conditions and relationships. I believe in helping you reconnect to your intuition and your own inner healing energy.
VirtualAvailable
Open-minded
Warm
Authentic
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Attachment Issues
I am an empathic listener who engages all clients in a caring way. I help individuals identify their problems, create a plan to address those problems, and work with them so that they make progress. I utilize many modalities with my favored modalities being attachment theory and solution focused therapy to best assist my clients. I have vast experience in the field and have worked in a numerous settings such as working with children and teenagers and in family crisis situations. I have also worked as a child custody mediator for the family court for years. I have experience assisting families in reunifying and create long term plans to better their family.
VirtualOffers in-person in Oxnard, CA - Accepting clients in CAAvailable

Often rebooked

Holistic
Open-minded
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
+10
I believe therapy should be a place where you can come as you are and feel genuinely heard, understood, and supported. As a first-generation Asian American and Christian therapist, I understand how faith, culture, family expectations, relationships, and life experiences can shape who we are and how we see ourselves. I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with a Master of Social Work from the University of Southern California and over 13 years of experience working with children and families. My approach is warm, genuine, compassionate, and down-to-earth, thoughtfully integrating evidence-based therapy with faith and spirituality when desired. I have a special heart for supporting young adults, couples, families, parents, and older adults navigating life transitions, relationships, family conflict, motherhood and postpartum adjustment, parenting, grief and loss, self-esteem, cultural pressures, and personal growth. I believe healing often begins by renewing the way we see ourselves, our circumstances, and what is possible for our future. Our hardest seasons do not have to define us; they can become part of a story of growth, healing, and transformation. It would be an honor to walk alongside you as you move toward renewed hope and meaningful change.
Available
Empowering
Solution oriented
Direct
Specialties
Anxiety
Peer Relationships
Trauma and PTSD
+5
Hi! I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Life Coach who specializes in working with adults navigating dating, relationships, and family dynamics. I help individuals build healthy, fulfilling romantic relationships while developing a stronger sense of self, confidence, and emotional clarity. I also support clients in healing from childhood trauma and working through family relationships, as well as managing anxiety and depression, with the goal of helping them feel relief from symptoms and experience more happiness and balance in their lives. My work is focused on helping you show up more authentically and securely in your relationships, with others and with yourself.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Peer Relationships
Trauma and PTSD
Women's Issues
+5
Hi ! I'm Jojo and thank you for taking the time to read this! I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California and I work with adults. I'd like to acknowledge how therapy can be overwhelming, intimidating and at times tiring, so I appreciate you being here. I prioritize working collaboratively with my clients, meaning we'll work together to set an environment that is supportive and emotionally safe. I am motivated by Social Justice and I strive to ensure that my clients have a place in this world where their voices are being heard. My approach mostly surrounds Liberation Psychology, Decolonizing and Destigmatizing Mental Health Care, Person- Centered, Identity, Attachment & Emotion Focused while providing Culturally safe and sensitive care, along with Gender Affirming Therapy Practices.
VirtualOffers in-person in Eureka, CA - Accepting clients in CAAvailable

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