Therapists in North Carolina

I am Remi. I have been working with individuals and families for over 10 years. I am a first-generation immigrant and I am passionate about family and cultures that we are actively creating. I can collaborate with other healthcare professionals, integrate complementary therapies, or address systemic factors that impact clients' well-being. I have a diverse background and an open mind.

Hi! I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I am independently licensed in NC, SC, and GA. I enjoy working with children, adolescents, and adults striving to better cope with and better manage daily challenges. I have experience in outpatient therapy and hospice social work. I enjoy working with and learning about others. My personal goal is to learn something new every day.

I am Diana Yarber. I've crafted a life filled with purpose and joy, and I'm eager to share its secrets. As a licensed clinical social worker and Licensed clinical addiction specialist based out of North Carolina with twenty years of experience in mental health and substance use disorder fields, I've guided countless individuals toward transformation. I obtained my Master's degree from Fordham University , Bronx, New York.

Welcome! My name is Kim, and I’m so glad you’re here. I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 20 years of clinical experience and I believe therapy is a place where you can feel truly heard, supported, and empowered to grow. I utilize an eclectic approach to therapy, which means I draw from different techniques and perspectives to best fit your unique needs and goals. I bring a warm, down-to-earth style to our work together, meeting you where you are and helping you navigate life’s challenges with compassion and hope. My goal is to create a safe and caring space where you feel comfortable to be yourself and move towards the changes you want in your life.

Having been through a lot in my teenage years into adulthood, where I learned self-confidence, I have found that if I had someone to help me work through issues of stress, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, and many other life factors I would have been successful sooner. I have experience in diverse cultures where I have found I learn just as much from the people around me as they learn from me. Having an open mind and listening to my clients helps me to relate and understand them and develop a treatment plan or plan of action with them that makes them feel comfortable. I have an extensive history helping individuals understand their career path, educational needs, and learning life skills. I have a passion for mental health because of the family history with depression, schizophrenia, anxiety, and substance abuse, and it drives me to want to help others. I believe it is important to empower individuals, couples, and families towards a sense of normalcy and autonomy, and developing skills to meet the goals they have for their lives. Taking a holistic approach to counseling I take into consideration the whole person and stive to build a good working relationship with each client to better understand them, helping them feel at ease at a time that may feel stressful and awkward, and helping them navigate life's challenges. In my free time I like to go to the beach, take a walk in nature, and enjoy spending time with my children and 2 dogs. I also enjoy learning, reading, and going to amusement parks when time allows.

Are you struggling with feeling worried or depressed? Are you experiencing difficulty focusing or coping with life situations? Congratulations on taking the steps to improve your mental health. I feel that it is important to have your voice heard and I am here to provide a safe space just for that. I have worked as a therapist for the past 16 years with individuals and families. My goal is to help you reach for personal therapy goals.

Hi! I'm a dually Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist (LCAS) working in the Raleigh NC area. I received my Bachelor of Social Work (BSW) and Master of Social Work (MSW) from the North Carolina State University and have been practicing for 7 years. I love what I do, I left a successful career when I was in my mid 40's to go to college so I could become a social worker. I became a LCSW because I lost a partner when I was in my early 30's and a LCSW helped me navigate a new beginning and changed my life forever.

Change is good! I believe anyone can change, although it can be rough. Giving individuals the right tools and having emotional support is important when deciding to be a better version of yourself. I want to help with that. I'm here to help as a support system and a resource for making change accessible. Together we can work on the client's goals and make them a reality.

Hi there! My name is Courteney and I have been in the mental health field since 2009. I have been a licensed therapist since 2015. My experience is wide ranging from children to adults, in a variety of settings from community based services to hospitals to individual private therapy. I got into this field because I love helping others. As a therapist, it's a privilege to be invited to share a small part of others' lives. I view therapy as a collaborative process and I want folks to get out of therapy what they came for. I ask for feedback regularly and use that feedback to tailor my approach to what you need.

Hi, my name is Pam. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC, LMHC, LCMHC) and Certified National Counselor (NCC) in the state of South Carolina North Carolina and Florida. Since I became a counselor at a college in 2015. As a dedicated mental health professional, I specialize in providing tailored therapeutic services to college-aged females navigating life's challenges. Drawing upon evidence-based approaches such as Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), I collaborate with my clients to develop the skills and insights necessary for personal growth and healing. My compassionate and empathetic approach fosters a safe environment where you can explore their emotions, build resilience, and create positive, lasting change in your life. I very much look forward to working with you! See you soon.

My name is Ashley and I have been a therapist for 11 years now. I enjoy traveling and spending time with my pets. Therapy has a lot to do with the bond between the therapist and the client. Change really can happen if the relationship is there. Most treatment methods can be fairly applicable if you develop that relationship. If you have found that to be a struggle in the past you may of had a bad connection with your therapist.

I am an experienced Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with over 20 years of dedicated practice in mental health, and my mission is to help individuals unlock their fullest potential by creating lasting change in their lives. My background spans a wide range of settings, from community-based work with children and disabled adults to providing therapy in psychiatric hospitals, schools, and private practice. With a double major in Visual Arts and Psychology from the University of North Carolina -Asheville and a Master’s in Social Work from East Tennessee University, I bring a blend of clinical expertise and creativity to my practice.

Marlo Sell is a therapist in North and South Carolina. She provides holistic therapeutic services to clients in their late teens through adulthood. Marlo enjoys working with clients who struggle with anxiety, depression, work/life balance, life transitions, relationship issues/boundaries, domestic violence/sexual assault, self-love/esteem issues, self-harm, and those who want to build a better life and future for themselves. Marlo’s treatment approach involves changing thoughts, behaviors, and emotions, as well as working on areas such as emotion regulation, distress tolerance, mindfulness, and interpersonal effectiveness. Marlo adds in different holistic approaches to therapy such as mediation, EFT, breathwork, shadow work, and self-care.

Hi there! You deserve a safe place to land—and someone who truly listens. I’m Tajae, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and the owner of Harvey Counseling & Consulting, PLLC. I earned both my Bachelor’s and Master’s degrees in Social Work from Fayetteville State University, an HBCU that shaped the way I show up: with care that’s real, respectful, and rooted in community. I’m passionate about helping clients navigate life’s challenges while rediscovering their sense of strength and balance. Whether you’re managing ADHD, facing tough work environments, or coping with relationship and family stress, I’m here to help you slow down, gain clarity, and create a path forward that feels right for you.

I am licensed in Florida, North Carolina and South Carolina with 4 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress, anxiety, coping with grief, coping with loss, & depression. I also have experience working with coping with life changes. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change. I am here to support & empower you in that journey.

I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) with a Master’s Degree in Clinical and Counseling Health Psychology and 20 years of experience supporting individuals through anxiety, depression, trauma, and major life stressors. I blend evidence-based approaches, including CBT, EMDR, DBT, mindfulness, and trauma-informed care to meet your unique needs. My goal is to offer a safe, nonjudgmental space where you feel heard and empowered. Whether you are working through past wounds or present-day challenges, I’m here to help you build resilience, deepen emotional insight, and make lasting, meaningful changes in your life.

Hi, I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in Florida. I have been practicing for 10 years. I create space for you to explore and learn new ways to cope with feelings of stress, anxiety, and low self-esteem. I bring warmth, compassion, humor and empathy to the therapeutic relationship, and I honor and prioritize the development of trust as a necessary foundation for successful treatment.

Hi, I’m Tamela! I’m a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC), Certified Professional Supervisor (CPS), and Sexuality Educator dedicated to helping adults heal, grow, and thrive. Whether you’re navigating a tough season, exploring your sexual wellness, or simply ready for change — I’m here to help you move forward with clarity and confidence. My style is warm, down-to-earth, and collaborative. Together, we’ll uncover what’s holding you back, strengthen your self-awareness, and build tools to create the balanced, fulfilling life you deserve. Let’s make this next chapter your best one yet.

I’m a licensed psychologist (PsyD), practicing in North Carolina and Texas. I specialize in supporting adults who are navigating life transitions, uncertainty, or periods of significant change. As an Army veteran, Army spouse, and daughter of immigrants, I know firsthand what it’s like to face new chapters, shift identities, and carry the weight of complex experiences. Whether you’re dealing with an identity crisis, career shift, relocation, relationship changes, or simply feeling stuck, you don’t have to go through it alone.

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 21 years of experience working as a mental health therapist. I have a degree from the University of Michigan and an MSW from UNC Charlotte. I work with the LGBTQ+ population and other adults experiencing challenges with anxiety, OCD, grief, depression, self acceptance challenges and life transitions. I am also a Certified Financial Social Worker capable of helping people unpack the emotional components of out of control spending for those who have a desire to manage finances better. Please feel free to contact me if you do not see availability that fits your schedule. My work week is M-F.

I am a Gottman Couples Therapist located in Cambridge, Massachusetts, focused on helping partners rebuild trust, improve communication, and strengthen emotional and physical connection. My work centers on a Marriage Positive approach, grounded in research and compassion, and shaped by over a decade of experience with couples and individuals navigating relationship challenges, conflict, intimacy concerns, and emotional distance. I'm Ehsan Adib Shabahang and I integrates Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and Gottman Therapy. These evidence-based approaches help clients identify unhelpful patterns, regulate emotions, and create meaningful change lasting beyond therapy. Using structured and collaborative sessions, with a focus on practical skills and deeper understanding of self and partner. I am also the founder of the Self-Reflective Relationship Therapy (SRRT) framework, a model designed to help partners look inward with honesty and compassion. SRRT combines structured exercises with guided reflection to increase self-awareness, empathy, and accountability—the foundation for lasting relational repair. This approach grew from years of clinical work and research into what helps couples not only resolve conflict but transform how they relate to one another. In addition to my work, I am the author of Always and Forever: Goals for a Healthy Relationship, offering couples practical tools for communication, trust, and growth. To build relationships that feels safe, balanced, and emotionally fulfilling. I specialize in couples therapy, sex, premarital counseling, affair recovery, trauma, and individuals seeking to understand their emotions or strengthen their relationship readiness. Clients often describe my style as calm, thoughtful, and engaged. I listen deeply, help clarify the emotions beneath conflict, and guide clients toward connection and repair. If you are looking for a couples therapist in Cambridge, MA, I welcome you to reach out and begin the process of rebuilding trust, deepening intimacy and finding your way back to one another.

Hi, I’m Kendra, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in North Carolina with 7 years of experience. I earned my BSW from the University of North Carolina Wilmington in 2016 and my MSW from NC State University in 2018. I specialize in trauma-informed therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), and solution-focused therapy. My experience includes working with trauma, ADHD, behavioral issues, depression, anxiety, and grief. I believe therapy should be both meaningful and enjoyable. I approach sessions with an optimistic attitude, creating a supportive space where clients feel empowered. You are the expert of your own life—I’m here to guide and support you on your journey to growth and healing.

• My name is Brooke, I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in the state of North Carolina (#11537). • I received my Master’s degree at Walden University. • I have been practicing therapeutic services for the last 13 years in an out-patient-therapy session in an office setting as well as telehealth as well as enhanced services in Medicaid on a state & county level. I have experience with all ages and client developmental and life stages. I primary assist with issues of depression, anxiety, trauma, life-transitions, family dynamic transitions, grief, complex illness, and end-of-life issues.

My name is Janet Muta and I am a Licensed Clinician with over 17 years of experience in mental health, behavioral issues and relationships. I treat individuals from diverse backgrounds. My approach is treating the whole person because most of the time our problems are the outcome of more than just one thing and when I get to know you I am able to address different issues that could be contributing to that one specific problem. We all experience some difficulties in our lives sometimes and we all cope differently. What works for one person/couple who are experiencing a similar situation may not work for another and so I personalize your treatment to fit you. Being in therapy is like being on a journey, I make sure you are in the driver’s seat and I become your great working GPS, guiding you to your desired destination. I also hold a degree in finance which sometimes comes handy when helping those who are stressed due to financial needs. Among the treatment modalities I use are: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Positive Parenting, Contingency Management...

In life we have peaks and valleys. For some, we find the valleys are the times we may feel most alone. I specialize in helping clients to feel less alone and much more empowered and to find clarity. In our aspirations to find love, peace and happiness we develop healthier relationships with self first and with others. In my practice I walk along side my clients on this journey of self fulfillment with a non judgmental and compassionate stance. My initial goal is to actively listen as client expresses what is most important to them and offer compassion and most importantly be sure the client is seen and heard while developing a genuine and authentic rapport.

Hi, my name is Olivia Raines, and I provide services in both North Carolina and Florida. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker devoted to helping individuals heal from painful experiences and reconnect with a sense of balance, meaning, and self-trust. I am deeply passionate about creating a safe, supportive space where you can share openly, explore your emotions, and begin to move toward wholeness. I work collaboratively with individuals as they process their experiences, understand their patterns, and build the tools needed for lasting well-being. My therapeutic environment is secure, compassionate, and grounded in a strengths-based, motivational approach that honors your resilience while supporting your growth. My practice focuses on individual therapy, with specialization in anxiety, panic disorder, trauma, depression, relationship difficulties, and substance use disorder. One of my favorite reflections comes from Carl Jung: “Depression is like a woman in black. If she turns up, don’t shoo her away. Invite her in, offer her a seat, treat her like a guest, and listen to what she wants to say.” As a therapist, my goal is to help you face discomfort within a safe, compassionate environment. Instead, of avoiding what hurts, you can understand it, work through it, and ultimately transform your relationship with it. I look forward to supporting your journey and helping you work toward optimal mental health and a deeper sense of personal wholeness.

Making that first call to a therapist takes real courage, but you are worth it. I would be honored to be the one to support you in meeting your goals. I have a passion for working with adults 18+ who are struggling with life transitions, motivation, self-esteem, feeling connected to others, and finding their purpose. With 20+ years of counseling/social work experience, I know we can work together to build you up and support you in learning techniques to make life a little more manageable. My intention is to help you feel more in control of your life by cultivating self-awareness, processing emotions, problem-solving, and replacing unsupportive coping skills with healthier strategies. Together we explore and identify the underlying thoughts and emotions that drive these behaviors while working at your pace. Let me help guide you to find your strengths, embrace your innate resiliency, and reach your best you. With the combination of various healing processes, we will work together with respect and compassion to develop the tools to get you to where you want to be.

Hi, I am a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) with over 20 years of social work and mental health experience. I utilize evidence-based therapy models focused on my clients' strengths, abilities, and unique life experiences in efforts to improve quality of life and restore overall health and wellness. I greatly enjoy my work with clients and the reward in my work is seeing clients succeed and overcome life's challenges.

I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with over 20 years of experience providing compassionate and effective support to individuals navigating life’s challenges. I specialize in working with adult women who are facing anxiety, depression, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). The women I serve are often navigating overwhelming emotions, difficult past experiences, or major life changes that have left them feeling stuck, anxious, or unsure of themselves. Through our work together, they learn to manage their symptoms, challenge negative thought patterns, set healthy boundaries, and reclaim their inner strength. Many of my clients report feeling more confident, grounded, and hopeful. They don't only experience peace but true transformation.

Hi, My name is Debbie! Do you ever feel the light has gone out and you are navigating alone and in the dark? Does life seem to have no meaning and purpose? Do you struggle to get out of bed? Has something happened in your life that has caused you to question yourself and everything around you? Find Hope Here – Let’s work together to find a brighter tomorrow. Life can be miserable at times but it shows great insight on your part to reach out for help. By doing this you have completed the first step. Being willing to accept, change, and adapt to your new situation, can be daunting and scary but I want to walk this journey with you. You are worth it and deserve a better life with consistency, growth and a little fun! I am a Licensed Mental Health Therapist with 14-plus years of counseling experience related to grief, trauma, depression, anxiety, and life transition related to postpartum depression, new careers, retirement, divorce, disabilities, and the aging process. Experience also includes building and maintaining relationships in a healthy way. I want to walk this journey with you providing empathy, education, and a non-judgmental safe place for you to share your thoughts and feelings. We will move at your pace because we cannot rush grief. Thank you for allowing me to share your life and its many detours.

Your Well-Being Is in Good Hands! As a committed, professional Mental Health Service Provider of 5 years, your well-being and mental strength is my number one priority. I’m happy to guide you through all of life’s challenges with the attention and care you deserve. I have worked with clients with a wide range of concerns including Anxiety, Relationship Issues, Parenting Problems, Career Challenges, Depression, Schizophrenia, Grief, Trauma, PTSD, Bipolar ADHD, and Personality Disorders. I also helped many people who have experienced physical trauma or emotional abuse. I worked with various populations such as LGBTQ+,Homeless, Intellectually Disabilities, Prison's and Jail Systems. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion, and I don't believe in stigmatizing labels. My approach combines cognitive-behavioral, humanistic, psychodynamic and rational-emotive therapy. I will tailor our dialogue and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs. It is essential to keep in mind that therapy is not a magic pill or a quick fix: therapy is a healing process that necessitates participation and investment from the patient and caretaker alike. But in the end, making small changes to self-defeating behavior and coping with feelings of sadness, fear, and pain can bring life-altering results. It takes courage to seek a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards change. If you are ready to take that step, I am here to support and empower you. I look forward to working with you!

Hi! I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I'm licensed in Florida, Tennessee, Pennsylvania, Massachusetts, Vermont, Alaska, Arizona, Alabama, Arkansas, Indiana, New Mexico, Mississippi, North Carolina. I have experience working with adults and adolescents dealing with depression, anxiety, substance abuse, self-esteem, life changes and other challenges. I feel it is important for a client and therapist to work together a team.

My name is Tomeka A Bridges and I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC). I earned a Master’s Degree in Counseling Psychology and General Mental Health Counseling from Capella University. My counseling experience includes over ten years providing individual, couples and group therapy to adults, adolescents and children in both office and telehealth settings. My goal in working with clients is to empower them to discover their inner strength so they can increase their joy, happiness, purpose and connection with others.

Welcome! With more than 25 years experience, my clinical approach is solution-focused, goal-oriented, compassionate and client-centered. I work with you in partnership to help uncover solutions to your challenges so we don't get "stuck" on the problems themselves. Whether you're struggling with depression, anxiety, relationship challenges, or simply feeling "stuck," I'm here to help you restore balance and move toward a life of fulfillment. I strive to help you feel supported, understood, and empowered to make lasting changes. I've enjoyed helping adults navigate life's most difficult transitions for the last 25 years and I'd like to help you, too. By focusing on the skills of distress tolerance, emotional regulation, mindfulness and interpersonal effectiveness, we can begin to feel more in control of our day to day responses to stressors. I provide sessions geared towards formulating, motivating, achieving, and sustaining desired behavioral change. It helps you get "unstuck" and back in control! One of the most rewarding aspects of my work is seeing clients set meaningful, value-driven goals and achieving them. That's why I partner with you to ensure you are empowered to reach your full potential. As you work through life's transitions, I will be there to guide, encourage, and challenge you to push past obstacles and create the life you want. Visit my website at www.valued-directions.com to find out more about my approach to therapy

Hello, I am a Licensed Professional Mental Health Counselor based in North Carolina. I have been in practice for over 20 years. I primarily work with military connected families, veterans, and clients with trauma and stressor related challenges. I strive to create a safe and empathetic environment where clients can freely explore their concerns and modify behaviors to make positive changes in life.

I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), Licensed Clinical Addiction Specialist (LCAS), and Certified Clinical Supervisor (CCS) based in Asheville, NC. As an OIF veteran who served in South Korea and Kuwait, I bring a unique understanding of the challenges faced by military service members and their families. I graduated with my Master of Social Work (MSW) from Western Carolina University (WCU) in 2016, and since then, I’ve gained extensive experience in community mental health, addiction treatment centers, primary care, and inpatient psychiatric hospitals. My work spans a range of issues, including addiction, grief, trauma, anxiety, ADHD, PTSD, and veterans’ concerns. My diverse background and deep passion for helping others allow me to offer compassionate, client-centered care that is tailored to each individual's needs and goals

I have experience providing psychotherapy services in hospitals, community mental health, private practice, and university settings to those impacted by complex medical issues, unprocessed grief, divorce, eating disorders, family conflict, school issues, severe and persistent mental illness, and trauma. Prior to my career switch to behavioral health, I gained invaluable experience in retail, food service, and the higher education industry.

Hello. I am Alyssa, and I believe it is possible for you to move forward and live. My passion is to inspire people as they progress and develop through life. As a skilled counselor, I meet each person at the point of their emotional needs in the areas of trauma, anxiety, depression, adjustment, grief, and loss. I encourage clients to Identify how their thoughts, behaviors, and emotions impact their emotional healing and progression. I believe in offering transparency and unconditional positive regard as each client journeys toward wellness. How much better might you feel tomorrow if you begin today? Your best self is waiting.

Therapist in the behavioral health field since 2004. Have worked with adults male and female, couples, parents, adolescents with behavioral and development needs. Specialty in Autism specific to psychoeducation, parent training, and couples therapy. Experience in the home, community, school setting with therapy. Master’s degree in clinical counseling fully licensed -and proficient in providing clinical supervision to others. Has lead teams of up to 20 clinicians.

Hello! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and Licensed Clinical Addiction Specialist (LCAS) based in North Carolina. I received my Masters from the University of North Carolina Wilmington, and have been practicing going on 9 years now. I love helping young adults discover and understand how their past experiences are continuing to impact their lives, and how they can move forward.

Hi! I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). I received my Masters from the University of Southern California and have been practicing for over 10 years. I help adults struggling with stress and mental health issues become the best versions of themselves. I am passionate about meeting people where they are at and helping them feel better and reach their goals.

Hi! I'm a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC) based in North Carolina. I received my Masters from Gardner-Webb University and have been practicing for 10 years. I help young adults and children struggling with career/school stress as well as feeling stuck in a life. All the pressures we have today lead to melancholy and burnout. Lets work together to help you become the best version of yourself so you can feel peace and contentment.

Hi! I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in North Carolina. I graduated in 2020 with my Master's of Social Work from Western Carolina University, and I've been working with youth and families for over 15 years, 8 of those being in the mental health field. I help neurodivergent, queer, and gender-expansive adolescents, teens, and young adults find ways to live authentically as themselves in a world that can be unkind and harsh. I also support people who have had negative experiences with therapy in the past and want to try again with a more person-centered and affirming approach.

The population I serve includes adults, adolescents, and families. I provide counseling in both individual and group settings. My theoretical orientation is an eclectic approach that has its main theoretical framework from cognitive behavioral Therapy and combines skills and techniques from reality therapy such as choice theory, WDEP (wants, doing and direction, evaluation, and planning) and solution focused therapy such as miracle question and scaling. Overall I work with the client to improve their thinking pattern in order to improve or change their behaviors, coping with challenges effectively, and create meaning in their lives that honor who they are in the here and now.

My stance is non-judgmental, honest, validating & empowering. I provide my clients with tangible coping skills & feedback to produce meaningful change. I would be honored if you chose me to help you navigate your way towards greater peace and healing. You don't have to have the roadmap to healing and you don't have to figure this out on your own.

I am someone who spent many years in the business world before finding recovery and figuring out counseling is what I'm supposed to be doing. I believe I don't have the answers for you, you do! I believe it's my job to help you get to the answers. I try real hard not to tell people what to do but will share what my experience has been. I use humor when I can as none of us are getting out here alive so we might as well laugh as to cry.