Hello! My name is Ms. Tawanda McPhatter and I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor based in Virginia. I received my Master's Degree from Virginia Commonwealth University, and I have been providing therapy services for 12 years. I allow my clients a safe space to discuss their issues, concerns, and needs for themselves using behavioral approaches. I am a very avid listener and I feel that listening is very important when assisting my clients and helps identify their feelings and thoughts on things so that I can identify ways that I can be of assistance in helping to work through and/or address these issues and/or concerns.

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who graduated from UNC-Charlotte with a master’s degree in social work. I have 10 years of practice experience. I have had the privilege to have worked with a diverse group of people in my career; including those having difficulty with life changes, health decline, life transition, depression, anxiety, bipolar, addiction, OCD, trauma, and psychotic disorders. I help people struggling with life change and mental health issues find their strengths and balance in their lives.

My name is La Kevia N Moore and I have been a licensed clinical therapist for 7 years. I also hold a doctorate in education, organizational leadership. Empathy and compassion are my two overarching themes. Providing support to clients in their most vulnerable times is my passion and my part in creating a healthy society. It will be my pleasure to serve you.

I am a licensed clinical therapist in the states of New Jersey, North Carolina, Virginia, Delaware, Illinois, and Missouri with 10 years of professional clinical work experience. My focus of practice is individual therapy within the adult and adolescent psychiatric population. I have years of experience treating patients experiencing depression, anxiety, life transitions, relationship issues, mood instability, or anger management.

You've taken your first step into healing, and I'm here to assist you through this worthwhile journey. It might have been challenging to seek help, but by doing so you are headed towards release. I'm dedicated to uplifting those experiencing low moods, feeling misunderstood, or navigating shifts in relationship dynamics. Today is your day and I look forward to walking alongside you. Thank you for trusting me!

Hi! I’m a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC) based in North Carolina. I received my Masters Degree from the University of North Carolina at Pembroke and have been practicing for the past 10 years. I help individuals struggling with depression and anxiety become the best versions of themselves. I believe clients are the experts of their lives and look forward to learning about you and how we can work together to move forward to a better future.

Hi! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in North Carolina and Utah. I work with individuals including professionals, first responders, women and adolescents. I enjoy helping women navigate pregnancy and postpartum, relationship issues, health issues and more life transitions. I have experience in hospital crisis and inpatient settings, schools, and the outpatient setting. My background in child development gives me a unique perspective when working with adolescents and their families. I offer a judgement-free space to allow clients to feel comfortable expressing themselves, and value being direct, open and honest.

Hi! I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC) based in North Carolina. I received my master’s degree from Fayetteville State University and have been practicing for six years. I have an array of experiences in working with adults and children with mental health and substance abuse diagnosis. I like to empower my clients in dealing with stress, anxiety, grief, depression, and life transitions.

I have worked in the human service field for approximately 20 years. I have had the pleasure of working with mental health, developmentally disabled and substance abuse populations. I have worked with Assisted Medication Management and active military members and their families. My greatest reward as a therapist is helping my clients explore ways to make the changes in their lives that will allow them to look forward to the future with hope. I believe that we all need someone to talk with who will really listen and accept us as we are, without judgment. I provide my clients with that warm, nonjudgmental environment—a safe place to explore the issues that may be preventing them from living the life they want. I hold a Master’s degree in Counseling. I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Licensed Substance Abuse Supervisor. I use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Motivational Therapy and psycho-education extensively. My experience includes working with clients dealing with divorce and single-parenting, addictions, grief, women’s issues, and mood disorders, among other challenges. I find that my great passion is working with individuals and children.

Hi! My name is Robbyn and I am a seasoned Counselor with years of experience helping individuals navigate anxiety, depression, grief/loss, life transitions, relationship/career challenges, and the emotional weight that comes with being human. My goal is to help people feel seen, supported, and understood with an approach that is warm, down-to-earth, and deeply empathetic. Here, you’ll find a safe space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings without judgment, shame, or pressure to “have it all figured out.” If you’re ready to shift your narrative and step into a stronger version of yourself, I’d be honored to take that journey with you.

Hi! I'm Veronica, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 15+ years of experience. My professional career has centered around supporting individuals through life transitions and address ways to practice better self care , build coping skills and live the lives they envision for themselves . I am a Perinatal mental health specialist (including pregnancy, postpartum, infertility, pregnancy loss, and reproductive challenges) and trained in both Cognitive Behavior therapy and Interpersonal Therapy-so whatever phase of life you find yourself in, you'll find support, care, and understanding in our time together

Hi there! I am Robert Brown, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker based out of North Carolina. I have been practicing for 30 years and have a focus on adults who have experienced depressed mood, anxiety, grief, or trauma. It's always been a privilege for me to serve folks who are ready to create a lasting and meaningful change through our journey together.

Stephanie Green is a Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC and LCMHC. She has an eclectic broad range of experience from Criminal Justice, Geriatric Care, Residential Treatment, Clinical Mental Health and Substance Abuse Therapy for over 18+ years. She has a Graduate Degree (Master’s) in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and Undergraduate Degree (Bachelor’s) in Criminal Justice both from Old Dominion University, Norfolk, VA. She believes in Holistic Healing as the Trinity (Mind, Body, & Soul) are unified. You should find working with Stephanie as a genuine, non-judgmental, and at ease experience. Stephanie understands the need of flexibility is essential as what works for one individual may not necessary work for another. Stephanie's goal is to meet and accomplish YOUR goal(s), build self-autonomy, develop confidence, and to work as a team as you both collaborate on how you can get to living the life you desire and deserve. We all live in and ever changing world that have shifts, turns, hills, valleys, ups and downs. And, I am here to be an empowered support/source and assist you on your healing journey. I speak not from a textbook perspective but from experience as I countine to be a vessel serving people all over the world.

My name is Krystal Hall and I am a licensed clinical mental health counselor, as well as a licensed clinical addiction specialist. I am also the owner of Joy's New Beginnings Counseling Services. For the past ten years, I have had the pleasure of assisting individuals in obtaining a new way of life without the day-to-day experience of problematic symptoms related to their own mental health and/or substance use. I have worked in many different roles including individual therapist, group therapist, clinical supervisor, and community advocate.

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in Georgia, with a Master’s from Clark Atlanta University and five years of experience. I specialize in supporting young adults and adults navigating stress, anxiety, depression, and trauma. My practice offers a safe, judgment-free environment where clients feel heard, valued, and supported. From the moment you reach out, my priority is to ensure you feel accepted and cared for, with a focus on your overall well-being. Taking the first step toward healing is a courageous choice, and I applaud you for it. I invite you to a free 15-minute phone consultation I’d love to connect.

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in North Carolina and owner of The Kairos Experience, PLLC. I have been professionally practicing for three years. I am trained and skilled at assisting clients in navigating recovery from childhood trauma and narcissistic abuse, effective parenting using Attachment Theory, couples counseling, and treating individuals with depression, anger issues, and anxiety. I currently have openings for 5-7 couples (self-pay only) and 20 adolescents or adults.

As a licensed clinical mental health counselor with 11+ years of experience, I have worked with a range of clients and mental health challenges. My expertise centers around helping people heal from past hurt, calm down anxious thoughts, and find their voice to create healthier relationships. My approach is collaborative, strength based, and holistic. I believe everyone has everything they need within them to live their best life. My role is to support and encourage you on your journey to uncover your inner strengths to live a life in peace and wholeness. Together we will explore multiple aspects of your life and set goals in each area. I will teach you new skills and support you as you become stronger and more resilient in overcoming your stressors.

Sherell Mobley is a culturally competent and experienced mental health, substance abuse, and trauma therapist with many years of experience serving diverse populations from age 5 through adulthood. Sherell is dedicated to helping others overcome their challenges and experience their greatest potential, going from surviving to thriving. If you are ready to embark on a new you and take your power back then you have founded the right therapist.

Hello! Thank you for taking the time to read my biography. I am so happy you went with your instinct to start counseling. I have been a Therapist for over 15 years and my specialization is marriage and family therapy. I have over 30 years experience working with people in one capacity or another. I was a substitute teacher at an alternative high school; I was a silver star rescue diver and an EMT-Intermediate; and, I had worked at a psychiatric hospital for people ages 12 through 80 as well in a private psychiatric office. These few noted experiences have led to my capacity to be an empathetic Therapist while helping others achieve their own goals using their own strengths.

Hello! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I received my undergraduate degree from Cornell University and my Masters of Social Work from the State University of New York at Buffalo. I have been working in the field for many years and have helped many individuals facing a variety of life challenges to make positive changes and lead their best life. I am looking forward to working with you!

Hello, my name is Felice Hightower Britt and I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, Certified Life Coach, and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional with over 15 years of counseling experience. I received my Masters in Counseling from the University of North Carolina at Charlotte. I help individuals dealing with depression, anxiety, trauma and grief. I also work with couples dealing with relationship issues.

Hi, I’m Dr. Shamanda Burston, a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist. I specialize in working with teens and adolescents who may be feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or struggling with the pressures of school, relationships, and growing up. Today’s teens are navigating a lot—academic pressure, social expectations, identity development, and constant comparison through social media. These challenges can show up as anxiety, mood changes, irritability, withdrawal, or difficulty coping.

Hello. Are you stressed, stuck, and struggling? Do you feel disconnected from others and as if your life is just passing you by? Have you recently gone through a life transition that literally almost took you out mentally? I'm Tonya T, a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor with a passion for helping individuals break free from the shadows of depression and anxiety, navigate life's challenging transitions, and discover their path to personal growth and fulfillment. I work with individuals who are tired of stagnation and recognize that there is a next level in life for them to attain. I specialize in creating a safe and empathetic space where you can explore your feelings, challenge negative thought patterns, and develop practical coping strategies. Together, we'll work to alleviate your emotional suffering and reignite your zest for life. I'm dedicated to helping you break free from stagnation, rediscover your passions and purpose, and set achievable goals for your future. Let's explore your inner strengths and resources to reignite your motivation and drive. I am THAT therapist who believes in movement. Talk soon!

Hi, my name is Eva. I have been practicing in the mental health and substance-abuse field for almost 30 years and during that time I have come to learn a lot about what it takes to help a person move from one place to another and it has also taught me how to move from one place to another so that I too can live my best life . I believe that we all need help from time to time and someone to help us see clearly when we have difficulty seeing things clearly ourselves. My best practice of therapy is being eclectic, which means in simple terms that I use whatever technique I need to to reach my client wherever they are at. This includes all best practices that are evidence-based to work with women, young adults, men and children who all have a common need to feel heard and supported. I specialize in a variety of treatment modalities that include trauma, substance abuse, anxiety/ depression, and other mood/mental disorders, and I desire to help all my clients improve their current life situation so that they can begin to live their best lives.

Licensed in FL, NC, VA, MI, MA, CA, WY, and HI, I bring a warm, open, and curious approach to therapy, drawing on CBT, DBT, and ACT to meet each client where they are. Since entering practice in 2021, I've had the privilege of supporting children, adolescents, adults, and older adults navigating anxiety, depression, ADHD, relationship challenges, peer conflict, perfectionism, OCD, and other life stressors. I believe therapy works best as a collaborative process — one built on trust, genuine curiosity, and practical tools you can carry into daily life. My goal is to create a space where you feel truly seen, heard, and supported every step of the way

Hello, I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in North Carolina with a Master's Degree in Social Work and over 20 years of experience in various clinical and non-clinical settings, including hospitals, government agencies, and private practices. My approach emphasizes collaborative partnerships with motivated clients, empowering them to use therapeutic skills and techniques to achieve their goals and move forward.

You don’t have to have it all figured out to start therapy—just a willingness to show up. I’ve worked in emergency rooms, high schools, and other environments in between. I’ve seen a full range of human experience, and I can confidently say—very little shocks me. What matters most is creating a space where you feel safe enough to be real. If you're ready to explore change at your own pace, I'm here to walk with you.

Hi! My name is Erin Tucker and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). I’ve worked as a social worker for over 20 years, and I’ve been licensed since 2014. With extensive experience as a medical and hospice social worker, I take an eclectic approach to counseling, including solution-focused, strengths-based and cognitive-behavioral therapies, giving me the ability to tailor a treatment plan specific to your needs. I’m so glad you’ve reached out for support and help, and I hope we’ll be able to meet soon! To that end, I’d like to let you know some things about me and my practice. I, hopefully like you, have a life and family outside of my work. Because of these responsibilities I must cancel/reschedule sessions more often than is usual. It’s inconvenient and I apologize for the necessity. However, for those clients who choose to move forward with me, I fully extend this same flexibility to them. I will never be upset or feel inconvenienced by your need to cancel or reschedule, even at the last minute. On a separate note completely, I don’t typically feel comfortable completing paperwork, such as FMLA, short-term disability, etc. for clients. I look forward to working with you!

**ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS** Are you ready to break free from the weight of anxiety and depression to show up in your life as your best self? I provide a safe, compassionate, and non-judgmental space for you to explore your challenges, gain clarity, and take meaningful steps toward the life you desire. Using a combination of trauma informed somatic-based interventions, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), attachment theory, and mindfulness techniques, I guide clients to identify triggers, unpack false stories your mind tells you, create healthy boundaries with a personalized plan with practical techniques to manage anxiety effectively.

Welcome! I'm Chelsey! First and foremost, I would like to thank you for coming to Grow to acknowledge your current mental health needs. I know that this can sometimes feel overwhelming, scary, and uncomfortable. It is important to know that you are validated, and heard. As an open-minded therapist, I want you to know that it is important to me to be able to have a relationship with you that is professional but yet comfortable. I want you to feel the ability to speak freely in so you can begin the healing process. I strive to create a safe and welcoming environment that allows clients to explore obstacles with concerns related to anxiety, depression, and/or self-care. I focus on helping clients develop assertive communication & boundaries with themselves and those around them that can help improve their quality of life. Counseling can foster personal development in whatever way you may be seeking and help build the life you so deeply deserve. If that's what you're looking for, I'm here when you're ready to share. • I received my Master’s degree at Indiana Wesleyan University. • I have been practicing therapeutic services since 2020 in the height of the Covid-19 Pandemic. Prior to this, I was fortunate enough to also work as a case manager in both the community, and in the schools. I have experience in telehealth as well as enhanced services in Medicaid on a state & county level. I have experience with all ages and client developmental and life stages. I primary assist with issues of depression, anxiety, trauma, life-transitions, family dynamic transitions, grief, complex illness, and end-of-life issues. Please feel free to ask any questions as I am happy to help in any way I can.

Hi! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I graduated with my Master's in Social Work degree from UNC Chapel Hill in 2007. I am passionate about meeting you where you are, helping you navigate and explore your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors without judgement. If you are feeling ready to learn more about yourself and to find ways to develop more effective coping skills, reach out today!

Hello, I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who is patient, attentive, and empathic to my clients. I have over 10 years of experience working within the senior and adult mental health community. I foster a therapeutic environment where adults, seniors, and caregivers feel understood, valued, and supported in their unique life circumstances. I have a Master's of Social Work from the University of South Carolina.

Change is good! I believe anyone can change, although it can be rough. Giving individuals the right tools and having emotional support is important when deciding to be a better version of yourself. I want to help with that. I'm here to help as a support system and a resource for making change accessible. Together we can work on the client's goals and make them a reality.

Hi, I’m Michelle. If you’re feeling stuck in anxiety, constantly worrying, or struggling with feeling “not good enough,” you’re not alone, and there’s nothing wrong with you. Many of the people I work with carry the weight of past experiences, family wounds, or trauma that still show up in their daily lives in ways they don’t always understand. In our work together, I offer a safe, compassionate space where you can slow down, feel supported, and begin to heal. I use approaches like EMDR and CBT to help you process painful experiences, calm anxious thoughts, and build a stronger sense of self-worth. For those who would like, I also integrate faith into counseling in a way that feels natural and supportive. I work mostly with adults who are ready for change but may not know where to start. My goal is to help you feel more at peace, more confident, and more connected, not just in sessions, but in everyday life too. Healing is possible, and you don’t have to do it alone.

Hello my name is Jasmine Reese. I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Certified Grief Counselor with over five years of experience supporting individuals through some of life’s most challenging moments. My background includes extensive work in crisis stabilization, domestic violence, sexual assault, and conducting comprehensive clinical assessments. I bring both expertise and compassion to my practice, creating a safe and supportive space where clients can process their experiences, build resilience, and move toward healing.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, mentally unsteady, or unsure how to move forward — you don’t have to carry that alone. I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and graduate of North Carolina State University. I work with adults navigating anxiety, burnout, life transitions, relationship stress, and questions of direction or purpose. Many of the people I support feel capable and motivated — yet internally worn down, struggling to feel grounded, present, or confident in themselves. My primary focus is helping clients stabilize emotionally and mentally — so you feel more anchored, regulated, and clear. From that place of steadiness, we begin to explore how you can grow into the fullest version of yourself, making the most of your strengths, values, and lived experience rather than trying to become someone you’re not. Therapy with me is not about pushing or fixing — it’s about creating a solid foundation where clarity, confidence, and meaningful change can naturally emerge. For those who find meaning and strength in their Christian faith, I welcome that as part of our work together — though spirituality is never required or assumed. You bring what matters to you, and we build from there.

Hello, I'm Natasha Louder a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in North Carolina. I received my Master of Arts in Counseling from the University of North Carolina in Charlotte. I also have an Master of Business Administration in Human Resources along with multiple certifications in both areas. I have been in practice both in corporate America and counseling a combination of over 20 years.

I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who believes therapy doesn’t have to feel like sitting in a stiff chair while someone silently nods at you. I bring both professionalism and a sense of humor into the room, because sometimes laughter really is the best coping skill .I’ve worked with teens, college students, and adults for the last 7 years. Some common concerns I have helped navigate are stress, anxiety, depression, life transitions, relationships, and the big messy in-betweens that don’t necessarily always fit neatly into a diagnosis.

Dennis Konadu, LICSW, LADC, is an experienced behavioral health clinician with specialized expertise in individual therapy for trauma, co‑occurring disorders, and evidence‑based psychotherapeutic interventions. He has completed all academic requirements for the Doctor of Psychology (PsyD) degree at Rivier University, with degree conferral pending. His doctoral and clinical training further strengthen his focus on Black mental health, cultural mistrust, and trauma‑informed practice. A military Veteran himself, Dennis brings lived experience, humility, and a steady, supportive presence to his work. He has served Veterans and adults across multiple settings, emergency departments, inpatient psychiatric hospitals, and detoxification facilities. His approach is compassionate, structured, and culturally responsive, creating a safe and grounded space for healing and growth. Dennis integrates CBT, DBT skills, ACT, Motivational Interviewing, and relapse‑prevention approaches to help clients build insight, strengthen coping skills, and create meaningful, sustainable change. He is committed to helping clients move toward lives guided by clarity, resilience, and their personal values.

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Illinois, North Carolina, and Connecticut. I am registered to do telehealth in South Carolina and Florida. I have over 30 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, coping with grief and loss, motivation, self esteem and confidence, & depression. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. I will tailor our dialog and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change. I am here to support & empower you in that journey.

I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker passionate about helping clients work through trauma, anxiety, stress, and life transitions. My approach combines TF-CBT and DBT to provide practical tools, coping strategies, and insight that fit your unique needs. I strive to create a supportive, nonjudgmental space where you feel both comfortable and challenged, allowing real growth to take place. Together, we’ll build resilience, improve emotional regulation, and work toward meaningful, lasting change so you can move forward with confidence.

Do you find yourself walking through a tough time, as though you are facing more than you can handle? Do you feel alone with nowhere to turn? It would be my honor to walk alongside you as you face trials, pain, change or isolation. To help you navigate through life with meaning and regain a sense of hope. To see you step into freedom from worry, unhealthy thoughts, shame, or self-doubt. Wherever you find yourself, I’d like to meet you there. I believe it is okay to be exactly where you are. However, for your sake, I do not believe it is okay to stay there. God has so much more for you and I would be honored to have the opportunity to help you discover it.

Are you in search of completing your puzzle? The puzzle we call life? Look no further, together we can find the missing piece(s) and bring the function back into the dysfunction and chaos. Navigating through your thoughts, feelings, and actions to create the unique YOU, you have always wanted and needed. The power is yours! I, Paula Patterson, MSW, LCSW look forward to the opportunity to be a part of your journey. Please feel free to reach out and make your dream life of healthy, happy relationships become a reality,

Would you like to create space for work/ life balance? Would it be helpful to learn more about the connection between your behaviors, feelings, and thoughts? Are you ready to talk about coping strategies- both those that work and learn new ones? I work collaboratively with individuals and families to manage stressors, feelings of stress and anxiety, and cope with addictions. I help clients develop coping strategies that may challenge past thoughts and behaviors but lead toward the accomplishment of goals. Sometimes, it is simply reminding ourselves of what worked before and getting back on track and other times, it is about learning something never practiced before.

I am so glad you're here! I am a therapist who specializes in supporting young adults and adults navigating anxiety, depression and major life transitions. I often work with individuals who are balancing work, relationships, or new responsibilities and may feel overwhelmed or unsure how to move forward. I provide a supportive space where we can work together to build coping skills, increase confidence and help you feel more like yourself again.

Greetings! I am Amina Omar Ali and I congratulate you for making this important step in changing your life for the better. It can be difficult decision and the work that follows in not easy, but with an open mind, and practice, you will get where you want to be. My job is to facilitate your journey into self discovery, and help you find and attain what you want. Therapy is about you, and the work you do will determine the success you have in therapy. Let me assure you that coming to therapy does not mean you are "crazy" or weak. It takes courage and strength to open yourself up to a stranger and do that deep dive into your vulnerable self. Be proud you have made this choice, and recognize that with a little help you can change your life.

Welcome! If you are seeking a down to earth and relaxed therapist- you are in the right place! I specialize in creating a safe and affirming space for individuals within the LGBTQ+ communities- where I have lived experience, any individuals navigating chronic illness and caregiving, and folks impacted by hoarding behaviors. I understand how important it is to feel heard and validated, especially when dealing with sensitive topics such as anxiety, chronic disorganization, gender identity, transgender health, trauma, depression, boundary setting, communication skills, and more. I write letters of support for gender affirming care.

Hello, my name is Stephen Pleasant, and I'm a psychotherapist for men. Why therapy for men? Well, because sometimes a man just needs a pork shoulder to cry on. That being said, I will also work with women as well. It’s a recognized human tendency for men to get “stuck” in their lives and to end up “settling” for the status quo when deep down they know they are capable of a great deal more. Here’s the truth; You are never “stuck” with your present circumstances. The Game of Life is a psychological and spiritual journey and winning at this game requires you to change your play and learn to think differently and do things in a new way. I help men break out from being “stuck” in life, resigned to producing results that are disappointing to them and others. My goal is to see transformative progress in men’s confidence, clarity, and self-expression, so that they may gain the fuller personal and work life they thought was beyond them.

Hey! I’m Jodeci Oquendo, a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor based in North Carolina, South Carolina, and Connecticut. I received my Master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from the University of Saint Joseph in Connecticut and have spent the past 8 years working with children, teens, adults, and families in a variety of clinical settings. My experience in outpatient, intensive in-home, and telehealth services has allowed me to meet clients from many different walks of life and support them through both everyday stressors and more complex challenges.

I am someone who spent many years in the business world before finding recovery and figuring out counseling is what I'm supposed to be doing. I believe I don't have the answers for you, you do! I believe it's my job to help you get to the answers. I try real hard not to tell people what to do but will share what my experience has been. I use humor when I can as none of us are getting out here alive so we might as well laugh as to cry.