Therapists in Florida

Hi, I am Victoria B. Freeman, Founder and Lead Therapist of Cosmic Couch Counseling. I’m glad that you are here. I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Florida with experience working with young adults, adults, and families. I have worked with clients with a wide range of concerns including: anxiety, depression, confidence/self-esteem, grief/loss amongst other personal issues. With me, you don’t have to hold it all together. You can let it out. You can sit in silence. You can just be. No pretending. No judgment. Just honesty.

Making the decision and moving forward with seeking therapy is a huge step and usually, it's the biggest challenge in therapy. From the moment you walk through my door, you've already got someone in your corner. I take pride in offering a supportive, calm, accepting, and safe environment for my clients. We will work together to identify thought patterns and behaviors, process your emotions, and explore your values and beliefs. We'll build healthy coping skills together. It may not be easy, but it will certainly be worth it. My education and experience has given me the ability to provide counseling in multiple areas such as depression, anxiety, trauma and PTSD, family issues, teen/adolescent issues, child issues, ASD, ADHD, among others.

Hi, I'm Aly! I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor whose years of experience include time in both inpatient and outpatient settings. I have worked with children, teens, and adults struggling with a variety of different mental health and substance use disorders. I take a client-centered and trauma-informed approach to counseling, using primarily solution-focused, cognitive behavioral, and dialectical behavioral skills to empower individuals to overcome challenges so they can live their best authentic lives.

Welcome and blessings! Wellness is your birthright! I believe in your ability to attain your goals and thrive in your potential. Life happens to all of us. We may feel stuck, down, overwhelmed or frustrated. Together, we can identify any blocks along your pathway toward your goals and potential. I will support you in developing insight and coping skills so that you can meet each challenge with success.

Hello! I'm a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) based in Florida. I received my Masters from Florida Atlantic University and have been practicing for 6 years as a Mental Health and Vocational Counselor. My therapeutic approach is rooted in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and solution-focused therapy. My goal is to help clients overcome challenges by identifying and changing unhelpful thought patterns, while also focusing on their strengths and goals to foster positive change. Together, we work collaboratively to develop practical strategies that empower clients to lead more fulfilling lives.

I’m a therapist who sees and treats you as a unique individual — not just a diagnosis or a checklist of symptoms. My goal is to meet you where you are, walk with you through your journey, and support you in reaching a place where you’re not just surviving, but truly thriving. I offer therapy grounded in compassion, care, and consistency. I believe in holding space for both grace and accountability — creating a safe environment where you can be honest with yourself, challenge unhelpful patterns, and grow. Together, we’ll work to identify and confront the distorted thoughts and false beliefs that often fuel anxiety, depression, and disconnection. My deepest desire is to help you break free from cycles that keep you stuck and to support your movement toward healing, clarity, and wholeness.

Hi all! I'm a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) based in the state of Florida. I earned my Masters Degree from the University of Central Florida, and I've been practicing mental health therapy for 5 years. I truly enjoy helping adolescents and adults who are struggling with anxiety, depression, stress, social issues, life transition, and racial and/ or gendered oppression.

Hi there. I'm a therapist who's passionate about helping people feel heard, understood, and supported. For over twenty years, I've worked with children, adolescents, couples, and families. I've assisted with guiding them through life's challenges, whether it's stress, relationship struggles, behavioral concerns, or feeling stuck. My style is warm and collaborative. I believe therapy needs to be a safe place to be yourself--without judgement--where we can explore the issues you've been dealing with and find a way forward. We will work on building tools to create emotional balance, stronger connections, and more confidence in handling problems coming up in your daily life.

I'm a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) based in Florida. I received my Masters from Florida Atlantic University in 2008. I help adults struggling with OCD, anxiety, and ADHD find lasting change. I take an eclectic approach to treatment, utilizing ERP, CBT, mindfulness, nutrition, & creative & somatic techniques. I enjoy helping clients move from stuck or on auto-pilot to living more authentically.

Hello, I am Jerry Phillips, a licensed mental health therapist. Welcome to our Grow platform. I'm so thankful you reached out for help. My personal and business motto has been for many years, "Helping People Help Themselves". This is also my goal with each client. I recognize that most people do not need to be fixed. Rather they need to be heard and understood. By listening and attempting to understand, I am often able to help guide people to real solutions for their personal issues. It will be a privilege to assist you exploring the concerns you discuss.

Are you struggling with feeling worried or depressed? Are you experiencing difficulty focusing or coping with life situations? Congratulations on taking the steps to improve your mental health. I feel that it is important to have your voice heard and I am here to provide a safe space just for that. I have worked as a therapist for the past 16 years with individuals and families. My goal is to help you reach for personal therapy goals.

Hi! I'm a Licensed Mental Health Counselor based in Florida. I received my Masters from the University of South Florida and have been practicing for 4 years after spending 20 years in the education field. I have a background in education, healthcare, end of life care, student support and advocacy for students with 504 Plan accommodations and in home therapy for a community program.

I'm a licensed mental health counselor who believes that healing begins with feeling seen, heard, and understood. My approach is compassionate, genuine and empowering. I meet my client where they are, creating a safe and supportive space to explore life's challenges and uncover new possibilities for solutions and growth. What makes me unique is my ability to blend warmth with practical guidance - I don't just listen; I will help you find real strategies to move forward. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, depression, relationship struggles or simply feeling stuck, I help you gain clarity, strengthen your sense of self and build the confidence to create meaningful change. My passion is helping you rediscover your inner strength and begin living with purpose, peace and confidence.

I am a licensed mental health therapist dedicated to helping individuals navigate challenges and build healthier, more fulfilling lives. I am a native of Florida and have spent over 20 years serving different populations and of different age groups. I am empathic and love building upon clients' existing strengths and each individual's resiliency and perseverance to want to be a better version of themselves.

With a direct yet compassionate approach to therapy, I help clients identify issues that are causing distress in their lives. I have 36 years of experience and have written two books: "Bipolarized" and "Borderline" -- one on bipolar disorder and the other on borderline personality disorder. Many clients gain insight into their disorders through reading my books and identifying a list of issues to work on in therapy. Hypnotherapy is extremely valuable and I ask clients to record the sessions to listen to the recording every day. This reinforces positive messages to improve self-esteem, reduce anxiety, stress and depression and identify relevant issues on a subconscious level.

Hi! I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and a Master level Certified Addiction Professional (MCAP) based in Florida. I received by Masters from the University of Central Florida. I have been practicing for over 20 years to help adolescents and adults deal effectively with problems and become the best versions of themselves. I look forward to helping you on your journey towards better mental health and functioning.

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker committed to eliminating the stigma surrounding mental health, particularly in communities of color. With a Master of Social Work from Florida Atlantic University and a background in sociology from Hunter College, I provide a compassionate, trauma-informed space where individuals can heal, grow, and reclaim their power. specialize in addressing trauma, limiting beliefs, and identity-related challenges using a combination of evidence-based and holistic approaches. I recognize the importance of holistic and spiritual perspectives in healing. Whether you are seeking traditional therapy, a spiritually integrated approach, or a blend of both, I meet you where you are to create a path toward meaningful transformation. I have a particular passion for working with adoptees, especially those navigating transracial adoption, helping them explore identity, belonging, and emotional well-being. If you're ready to begin your healing journey, let’s connect.

I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with extensive experience providing psychotherapy to both adults and children. My clinical background includes working with individuals and families facing substance use disorders, mood disorders, and LGBTQ+ concerns. I take a solution-focused and collaborative approach, helping clients identify challenges and implement practical strategies for positive change. In addition, I draw on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) techniques to expand treatment options and support long-term growth. Fluent in both English and Spanish, I strive to create a supportive and inclusive environment where clients feel understood and empowered to achieve their goals.

Hi there, I am Charly. As a clinical therapist, I admire your willingness to seek therapy support. I want to offer understanding, and empathic emotional support to assist anyone experiencing emotional distress. Most people tend to suffer silently in their heads, or minds, due to conscious or subconscious, self-blame, shame, or guilt feelings as they seem to feel helpless. Individuals experiencing acute emotional distress due to mental health conditions often fail to realize that unresolved, deep internal pain or heartache is silently triggering their emotional distress. One school of talk therapy called, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), proposes that the lack of the capacity for "Psychological Flexibility" and our brain's default, or Survival Mode functioning the instinctual responses of "Flight or Flight," as required for human survival. As, your therapist, I am willing to support you in exploring your difficulty or distress and examine the mental barriers or psychological blinders causing you to feel internally conflicted and stuck. Some of my past and current clients tell me that "my ability to relate to them with an open mind and withholding personal judgment and a solution-focused perspective," helps them to feel at ease and connect with me and my style of therapy. I follow an eclectic approach to therapy, drawing from academic learning, experiential knowledge, and over 30 years of practicing experience using evidence-based treatment modalities based on scientific literature and up-to-date neuroscience research. I have training and experience in the following major treatment modalities such as CBT, REBT, SFBT, ACT, Mindfulness, and specifically to deal with trauma, a newer form of Rapid Eye Movement Therapy (Accelerated Resolution Therapy).

From the outside, you look like you’ve got it all together ... but it feels like a totally different story on the inside. You may be fed up with constant worries and sadness, feeling overwhelmed or on edge. You might not even remember a time things didn't feel this way. But one thing is for sure: you're ready for some relief. You're ready to feel calm. You're ready to feel grounded and at peace with yourself. Most of all, you're ready to rediscover your true confident self. Let's throw political correctness out and get down to business, cut through the BS, and help you solve your problems.

I am an LCSW with a Master’s in Social Work, passionate about supporting children, teens, and adults through life’s challenges. I take a Trauma-Informed, Strengths-Based approach, using tools like CBT, Motivational Interviewing, and Psychodynamic therapy to help clients create lasting change. Outside of work, I love practicing yoga, spending time in nature and reading, which inspire mindfulness and balance in my life and practice.

I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) who integrates both clinical expertise and Christian principles when desired by the client. My approach is warm, supportive, and goal-oriented, designed to help clients navigate challenges such as stress, anxiety, depression, relationship concerns, and life transitions. I believe in creating a safe space where clients can feel heard, understood, and empowered to grow.

Hello! I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker based in Florida. I received my Master's degree at Florida Atlantic University and have over 10 years of experience working with children, teens, adults and families. I truly want my clients to believe that they deserve help and the care for their mental health and wellbeing. I am here and ready to help you Find Your Light, your motivation or simply your hand so I can pull you through whatever you are struggling with. I have a toolbox of coping skills for you to learn about and practice so you can discover what works best for you.

Hello! My name is Ray Castiglia. I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in the state of Florida. I have a masters degree in Mental Health Counseling from Nova Southeastern University. I have worked in the counseling field for more than 20 years. I enjoy helping others to navigate through their life stressor, and to become more happy, successful, and positive.

I am licensed in Florida with over 22 years of Clinical Mental Health & Wellness experience. I have extensive training with helping clients with stress and anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, LGBTQ+, grief and loss, motivation, self-esteem/self development, and confidence. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion, and I ask for the same. I will tailor our dialogue and treatment to meet your unique and specific needs. Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier quality of life takes courage. I am here to support you in that process. I congratulate you on taking this step on your journey to overall wellness and optimal health.

Hello! I am Jenny, a graduate of University of South Florida. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and am trained in Dialectical Behavior Therapy and Accelerated Resolution Therapy. I am passionate, trauma informed, and I hope to bring warmth and authenticity to our sessions. I am ready to meet you where you are and work together to cultivate your dreams.

Michaela is more than an experienced therapist; she is a true ally on your path to self-discovery and healing. She combines professionalism with deep empathetic understanding in her therapeutic relationships. Michaela's personal experiences enhance her professional practice, allowing her to integrate practical knowledge with evidence-based approaches. This combination empowers her to guide clients with a profound sense of empathy and compassion that can be both therapeutic and transformative

Hello, my name is Beatrice Lafleur. I believe that in my practice, my patients can achieve their goals if they believe in themselves, put in the work, and have support. I am inspired by “not being a product of ones circumstances but, being a product of the decisions and actions made.” I have established an empathetic and supportive approach that has been a crucial part of my practice and my patients' success and progress.

Hi there, I'm Mentoria. Do you feel pulled in a million directions, unable to fit it all in? Are you struggling to keep up with your relationships, work and health? Is it hard to be kind to yourself? I help high performers manage anxiety and avoid burnout. Together, we can identify what's not working and get you back to balance. We'll use a whole self approach, addressing the needs of your mind, body and spirit. I also integrate mindfulness and imagery to help you develop a stronger relationship with yourself. Whether you're dealing with overwhelm, relationship issues or cycles of anxiety and depression, I'm here to help. Seeking therapy can feel scary but you're making the right choice. You deserve a safe space to heal and grow. In our sessions together, I'll meet you with compassion and evidence-based techniques so you can overcome the hangups and habits holding you back. Let's work together!

Thank yu for visiting my page. I am a licensed mental health provider and have had my private practice since 2017. I work with a variety of clients ages range from toddelrs to elderly. I mostly use Cognitive Behavior Therapy. I am a christian and when requested, I do incorporate Biblical principles. I provide individual therapy and offer both in-person as well as telehealth. I look forward to working with you.

Welcome to a decision that can change your life- therapy! Whether you want help with anxiety or depression, or you’re struggling in communication or your relationship(s), you’ll learn how to be kind to yourself, understand yourself and others more, and come out feeling better than you came in. Here, you will understand what it means to be worthy of love despite your circumstances, because you are, and so is every person around you!

Hi! I'm Jose H. Caraballo, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker based in Miami, Florida. I received my Master's Degree in Clinical Social Work from Barry University. I specialize in helping individuals manage and overcome anxiety, depression, and stress. By employing techniques from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Motivational Interviewing, I guide my clients towards achieving personal well-being and navigating life’s challenges effectively.

Hello everyone, my name is Carolina Gonzalez. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 24 years of experience providing compassionate, evidence-based care to individuals, including adolescents, couples and families. I support clients through challenges such as depression, anxiety, life transitions, trauma, relationship concerns and parenting. My approach is collaborative and tailored to each person's needs with methods such as Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), mindfulness techniques, and strength-based interventions. I strive to create a safe, nonjudgmental space where clients feel heard, respected and empowered to make meaningful changes in their lives.

Hi! I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Certified Rehabilitation Counselor based in Florida. I received my Master's degree in Counselor Education with a Concentration in Rehabilitation Counseling from Florida Atlantic University. I have been practicing for just over two years and my primary experience has been working with adults who live with substance use combined with mental health disorders. Prior to working as a therapist, I worked in behavioral health for various in/outpatient treatment centers. I have also recently began working with adolescents who are navigating behavioral issues.

Hello, my name is Stephanie and I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in the state of Florida. My experience includes working with adolescents, adults, couples and families with various psychiatric needs to include: depression, anxiety, bipolar disorders, obsessive-compulsive disorders, panic disorders, posttraumatic stress disorder, schizophrenia, dissociative disorders, self esteem and co-occurring disorders. I utilize different therapeutic modalities such as EMDR, Accelerated Resolution Therapy , CBT, TF-CBT, Christian counseling, art therapy, mindfulness techniques and guided imagery. My experience includes private practice, public speaking, adjunct professor and working for 3 psychiatric hospitals, both in Arizona and Florida. I am grateful for the opportunity to work with individuals who trust me with their story, and am dedicated to be a part of your mental health journey to recovery.

Hey! I am Renata. If you are here, you are probably contemplating change. My favorite quote is "tradition is the enemy of progress." There will not be sustained change without addressing potential problems in the way we have traditionally approached our circumstances. If you are open to stepping outside of traditional patterns, you may be ready for a journey of change.

Hello, My name is Oshena, but many call me Shena. I am an Licensed Clinical Social Worker in the state of Florida. I have over 5 years of mental health experience. My experience consists of working in case management, hospice - bereavement- grief counseling, dialysis, mental health field, inpatient psychiatric facility, outpatient mental health services, mobile response crisis counselor, group therapy, adolescent therapy, and substance use counselor. I am deeply passionate about working with a wide range of individuals, including young adults, older adults, older teens, and adults, to help them navigate the everyday challenges that life presents. These challenges often manifest as societal pressures and the need to conform, which can result in lower self-esteem, anxiety, and depression. My approach is rooted in harnessing an individual's identified strengths and empowering them to overcome life's hurdles. These obstacles may include anxiety, depression, grief, self-doubt, anger management, boundary-setting, communication issues in relationships, burnout, and the challenges of transitioning into adulthood. My favorite metaphor is based on a rubber band. "Like people, rubber bands come in different shapes, sizes, textures, lengths and flexibility. If you stretch a rubber band to the max it typically bounces back into shape due to elasticity." Based on this, I firmly believe in starting where you are to work on breaking down those walls of narrow thinking to bounce back with your elasticity to positive thinking and push towards resilience. Having faith in yourself marks the initial stride, by seeking guidance, you've already embarked on the next leg of your journey. You hold the resilience needed to conquer the challenges you've encountered, even if it feels daunting. In the realm of therapy, my guiding principle is to embrace the process of healing and personal development with an open heart. I'm here to support you on this journey.

Are you feeling overwhelmed by life’s transitions, questioning your identity, or seeking healing from past wounds? Whether you’re a college student stepping into independence and wondering, “Who am I now?”, exploring your sexuality or gender, rethinking beliefs, navigating a major life change, grieving a loss, trying to reconcile your past with your present, or struggling with anxiety, relationships, communication or boundaries, I’m here to help you find clarity, build confidence, and thrive. I’m passionate about providing a compassionate, judgment-free environment where you can explore, heal, and grow. My approach is relational, strengths-focused, and empathetic to empower you to navigate challenges and discover your authentic self, getting to know different parts of you- how they developed, and how they protect, empower, and hold you back. If you’re ready to explore your identity, heal from past hurts, or navigate life’s challenges with support, I’d love to work with you. You don’t have to navigate this alone. I’m here to walk alongside you with compassion and care. You can contact me through Grow or HealingEmpoweredCounseling.com for a free phone call to see if we would be a good match. *I may have availability outside of hours shown on Grow

Are you looking for a space to navigate current stressors—somewhere you can unwind and express thoughts or emotions that feel too heavy to carry alone? Do you want support in understanding mental health symptoms or building a personalized toolbox of coping skills? Hi, I’m Maryam. I’m a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Florida, born and raised, and of Venezuelan descent. I’m bilingual in English and Spanish. I graduated from the University of South Florida with degrees in Psychology and Health Sciences and later earned my Master’s in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Florida Gulf Coast University. My clinical experience includes working in mobile crisis response, outpatient counseling, addiction treatment, and telehealth therapy. Across all settings, my priority is to create a non-judgmental, safe, and welcoming environment where you can work toward your goals at a pace that feels right for you. I take a holistic approach and integrate a variety of therapeutic interventions, including art and music-inspired techniques, cognitive reframing to challenge negative self-talk, solution-focused strategies, and what I like to call “care-frontation.” I often offer optional tasks or reflections between sessions to help deepen your progress. I’d be honored to support you as we begin this healing journey together.

I specialize in helping individuals navigate the challenges of substance use, emotional dysregulation, and life transitions. My work is rooted in evidence-based practices, including Motivational Interviewing (MI) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)—approaches that support real change by combining empathy, skill-building, and a strong therapeutic alliance. With 8 years of clinical experience and lived experience with addiction and family trauma, I bring both professional knowledge and real-world understanding into the therapy room. Above all, I offer a space where you don’t have to explain or justify your struggle—you can just be real. And from that place, we work together to create the life you want to live.

Do you feel in control of your mind or do certain thoughts seem to be taking control of you? Our mind is a powerful tool. My desire for you is to regain control of your thoughts, feelings, and actions by understanding the meaning behind those feelings and behaviors that are causing stress and negative consequences. I've found that by working together to identify hidden triggers we can make significant changes that help us get closer to our desired goals in the journey to self-awareness.

Driven by purpose, grounded in compassion, and backed by over a decade of diverse clinical expertise, I am a bilingual (Spanish & English) licensed psychologist with a unique blend of training in Clinical, Industrial/Organizational, and Sports/Performance Psychology. From pioneering mental health programs for Division I student-athletes at UCF to designing mindfulness interventions using movement and dance, my work merges evidence-based practices with innovative wellness strategies. Whether in private practice or academic institutions, I am passionate about cultivating resilience, enhancing performance, and making mental health accessible, inclusive, and empowering for all.

I believe in a holistic approach to healing that nurtures the mind, body, and spirit. Together, we'll explore a personalized path to well-being, using a combination of traditional counseling techniques, mindfulness practices, and self-care strategies to help you achieve lasting peace and balance in your life. If you're ready to create meaningful change, I’m here to guide you on that journey.

Hi! I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in South Florida. I received my Masters from St. Thomas University and have been practicing for 24 years. I help adults and families in developing tools to address individual and/or family concerns and assist with personal growth and healing. My goal is to work collaboratively with you in constructing interventions that fit for you based on your story, resources and the resilience that lies within.

Hi there, I'm Kristina! Are you struggling with feeling like you're not enough? Have life's challenges caused you to feel overwhelmed, depressed, and even anxious at times? I'm sure you're tired of repeating the same cycles and are looking for real change. Together you and I will explore defeating patterns, negative thinking, and hidden themes that keep you from achieving success. Let's work together to remove these barriers, jump over the hurdles and get moving in life. I help women of faith to gain confidence, increase their self-esteem and self-image, and live a life knowing their value! It doesn't matter if you've been in therapy before for an extensive period, or if this is your first experience with counseling. Either way, I am here to guide you from a place of feeling lost with no direction to a place of satisfaction, peace, and enjoyment! You are enough, you are worth it, you deserve all the success and the best life has to offer. Let me help you prove to yourself it's true through action and becoming a BETTER YOU!

I am a Licensed Mental Counselor with over 12 years of experience who provides clients with a safe and non-judgmental environment that will inspire them to continue their journey of healing and help improve their quality of life. I provide individual therapy to adults who experience symptoms of anxiety, depression, anger issues, trauma related issues, grief, ADHD, sexual abuse, self-esteem issues, and many others.

I think it is important for a therapist to be able to implement multiple approaches to the therapy process in order to best serve a client. I do predominantly utilize cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and trauma-informed approaches, but I may modify the approach to best meet your needs and goals. My main focus is helping you make progress and meet your identified goals. I initially was drawn to being a therapist because I wanted to help others meet life's challenges and understand that sometimes we need a partner/support on that journey. I have worked with many different populations over the course of my career, including children, teens, adults, and seniors. Additionally, I have experience working in many different settings, including community mental health, inpatient mental health units, juvenile justice, nursing homes, and adult corrections. I believe these varied experiences and populations have helped to make me a well-rounded therapist.

Hello there! I am Carole Gigliotti, a License Professional Counselor hailing from Pittsburgh, PA and now residing in Florida. I believe in kindness, empathy and humor as the most important elements of building a therapeutic relationship. I have 15 years working as a therapist- working with various age ranges and in multiple settings. I would love to help you reach your goals, improve your relationships and be present in the moment.

I'm Sheri, and I'm dedicated to making a positive impact in the lives of individuals and families through compassionate counseling. With years of experience in the fields of mental health and personal development, I've had the privilege of guiding numerous clients toward healing, growth, and fulfillment. With a background in mental health counseling, coaching, and education, I bring a unique perspective to my practice. My training has equipped me with a deep understanding of psychological principles and therapeutic techniques to address a wide range of concerns, including behavior challenges, anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHD, emotional regulation, self-worth and parenting support among many other topics.

My name is Katerin Chavez and I specialize in working with clients who have faced different traumas in their lives. I believe in working with the client and that the client can heal in a safe and caring space. I am person centered and will meet the client where they are at. I love solution focused therapy, there is no point in dwelling on what we cannot change, instead we should focus on what we can change.