EAP:United Healthcare Optum Therapists in Washington

Utilizing mental health support through UnitedHealthcare/Optum’s Employee Assistance Program (EAP) can provide you with convenient and affordable access to care. With 29 verified therapists in Washington who accept UnitedHealthcare/Optum EAP, you have options across therapeutic approaches such as cognitive behavioral therapy, solution-focused therapy, and supportive counseling to help address work-related stress, personal challenges, or life transitions. Each Grow Therapy-verified therapist listed below is currently open to new clients and has availability in the coming weeks, ensuring timely access to quality, EAP-covered care tailored to your needs.

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Availability updated: 10/5/2026

Authentic
Warm
Open-minded
Specialties
LGBTQ
Mood Disorders
Trauma and PTSD
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My name is Percival Fisher, Jr. However, you can call me "Percy" and I have been providing individual and group psychotherapy for 12 years. I am here to assist you in reaching your goals in therapy. I provide a safe, warm, and interactive space to talk about your presenting issues. I have experience providing therapy to individuals experiencing depression, anxiety, anger, trauma, "coming out"/LGBTQIA-related issues, and family conflicts.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Open-minded
Specialties
Coping Skills
LGBTQ
Life Transitions
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Hi! I'm Sherry. Does life ever seem overwhelming, like you are pulling in a million different directions? Or do you feel stuck, like you are struggling to keep up? Have you forgotten who you are and how to be kind to yourself? Let's work together to create a way for you to find joy and purpose. My goal is to provide an environment where you feel safe to explore and express your thoughts and feelings. Let's create a room for you to heal and grow. In our sessions together, I'll meet you with compassion, warmth, and evidence-based techniques so you can overcome the hangups and habits holding you back. Let's work together!
VirtualAvailable
Solution oriented
Intelligent
Authentic
Specialties
Addiction
Anxiety
Depression
+10
Hello! I'm delighted you're taking the courageous step of seeking support. As an independently licensed therapist with over 20 years of practice, I bring a wealth of experience and a deep commitment to helping individuals and couples achieve their desired mental health outcomes. My educational foundation includes a Master of Clinical Social Work with a focus on Mental Health and Addictions Practice from Indiana University, and a Ph.D. from Western Michigan University. I'm licensed to practice across multiple states, including Michigan, Oregon, Illinois, Texas, and Washington, allowing me to serve a broad range of clients. My passion is helping adults successfully navigate challenges such as: • Stress • Mood Disorders (including anxiety and depression) • PTSD, anger management • Substance Use Disorders and other co-occurring conditions I also work with couples who are facing relationship challenges, guiding them toward stronger connection and communication. Ready to start your journey toward better mental health and a more fulfilling life? I look forward to partnering with you.
VirtualOffers in-person in Tumwater, WA - Accepting clients in WAAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Solution oriented
Specialties
Coping Skills
Couples Counseling
Grief
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My approach is solution focused with the belief that you are coming to me for ideas and strategies that you may not have tried before. It is a collaborative approach that is by invitation. That means if one skill set doesn't work for you, we can explore another which may be more in line with your experience. This is also known as a client centered approach.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Empowering
Authentic
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Grief
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I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker providing teletherapy to teens, adults, and couples. I collaborate with patients to find solutions to the challenges that disrupt their lives. Overcoming a crisis in your relationship, working your way through loss as you grieve a loved one or life change, managing feelings or moods that overwhelm you and keep you from healthy functioning......these are just a few of the reasons that people begin therapy. Whatever might be challenging you and keeping you from living your best life, we can find solutions together, in therapy. Let's get started!
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Grief
+7
Great to meet you! Self-care is something I wholeheartedly believe in. I hold a master's degree in counseling psychology and have been helping others since 2009. The fundamental aspect of therapy is helping others to overcome life toughest seasons; addressing issues that may become a stumbling block. Life challenges can eventually lead to mental discomfort. Helping others for many years, I apply different treatment modalities that will assist you in reaching your therapy goals.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Direct
Warm
Specialties
Anxiety
Couples Counseling
Depression
+5
Congrats on deciding on therapy! Choosing a therapist is a daunting task. I have over 14 years of experience with couples, families and individuals. I believe you are the expert on you. I bring the outside perspective to help highlight challenges, find new ways of interacting with your self and others. I use humor, straight talk and empathy to build trust and find solutions.
VirtualOffers in-person in Vancouver, WA - Accepting clients in WAAvailable
Authentic
Solution oriented
Humorous
Specialties
Addiction
ADHD
Anxiety
+5
I am a licensed independent clinical social worker with over 14 years of experience working as a clinician, therapist , and crisis interventionist. I have worked with clients with a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, substance use problems, psychosis, and ADHD. I also helped people who have experienced trauma and/or emotional abuse. I would like to clarify my expertise does not include eating disorders, or pornography addiction, although I do understand some of the symptoms and causes. AGAIN, NO PORN ADDICTIONS, COUPLES COUNSELING, OR MARRIAGE COUNSELING. My therapy style is genuine and solution focused.. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. My approach is dialectical behavioral based with strengths perspective and motivational interviewing. Any treatment plan to meet your needs will be collaborative, timely, and with measurable goals. Usually following the "S.M.A.R.T." goal format. Specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and timely. I have worked extensively in crisis intervention in the agency and on the streets, in hospitals, and in mental health courts and case management agencies, and have managed in this capacity. I also have many years experience related to substance use disorders and have worked as a therapist utilizing primarily Dialectical Behavioral Therapy as my main approach as well as utilizing Cognitive Behavior Therapy . These tools can be modified in a number of ways to help clients achieve their goals . Regardless of any experience, upbringing, current, or past situation, everyone has choices they can make that best serves them and the life they want to live. I look forward to working with you!
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Career Counseling
Life Transitions
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I have extensive experience in serving adults, adolescents, children, and families by providing mental health counseling, domestic violence prevention, substance use prevention, addiction recovery, career counseling, family support, career coaching and education. I enjoy live theater productions, watching classic movies, reading biographies, listening to music, traveling, and spending time with family. I will look forward to working with you soon.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Empowering
Warm
Specialties
Anxiety
Life Transitions
Trauma and PTSD
+10
I’m Kimberly M. Brooks, LCSW. I help adults and couples facing anxiety, stress, trauma, relationship strain, and emotional overwhelm find clarity and peace. My style is warm, direct, and grounding. I offer practical tools, honest insight, and optional faith-integrated support to help you heal, strengthen your relationships, and move forward with confidence. Clients often tell me they appreciate the calm space I create, the clarity that comes from honest conversations, and the steady guidance that helps them move forward.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Empowering
Solution oriented
Specialties
ADHD
Anxiety
Depression
+10
Hi, I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I graduated with my Master's Degree from Rutgers University. I have experience working with teens, and adult dealing with depression, anxiety, substance abuse, self-esteem, self -harm, ADHD, life changes and other challenges. I specialize in working with teens, women and men who are experiencing depression, anxiety, stress, relationship issues, negative self-image and trauma. I work with clients to help them discover their true self. I will meet you where you are in your journey, and will you facilitate the changes you need to reach your fullest potential. If your tired of your emotional rollercoaster consider coming to see me.
VirtualAvailable
Humorous
Authentic
Direct
Specialties
ADHD
Anxiety
Depression
+6
I am a Clinical Social Worker dedicated to creating a safe, compassionate space where individuals, military members, veterans, and their families can explore challenges, build resilience, and move toward meaningful change. I work with clients navigating anxiety, depression, life transitions, relationship stress, and emotional overwhelm. My goal is to help clients gain insight, strengthen coping skills, and reconnect with their sense of purpose so they can experience greater balance, confidence, and fulfillment in their daily lives. I am licensed in Alabama, Mississippi, Montana, and Washington.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Solution oriented
Warm
Specialties
Anxiety
Couples Counseling
Depression
+5
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with vast experience in mental health and health sciences in multiple settings for over sixteen years. I am licensed in the state of Virginia, Washington, District of Columbia, and Georgia. I obtained my Bachelor's in Psychology at North Carolina State University, and my Master's in Clinical Mental Health Counseling with a specialization in Crisis and Trauma from Walden University. My certifications are as follow; National Certification in Counseling (NCC), Sexual offender treatment provider (CSOTP), Clinical trauma adolescent provider (CTAP), Certified Clinical Anxiety Treatment Professional (CCTAP) and Certified Advanced Grief Counseling Specialist (CAGCS). Prior to establishing MentalMorphosis, LLC, I worked as a therapeutic independent contractor for multiple organizations. My experiences include the following: providing therapy in a residential psychiatric facility, intensive in-home counselor, clinical coordinator, forensic interviewer and foster care case manager. In addition to, I am a proud Veteran of the United States Armed Forces where I serviced honorably for 8 years as a Medical Laboratory Technician also known as a 68K.
VirtualAvailable
Direct
Authentic
Warm
Specialties
Addiction
Grief
Trauma and PTSD
+10
I try to provide a safe and private space where someone can process their feelings and emotions and discuss the difficulties they are experiencing. I like to help people find solutions to the problems they are having and help them continue living their lives without their traumas or their past weighing them down. Every person deserves to live life to the fullest. You can search my website on www.collinscounselingcenter.org. Beginning May 1st, 2026, only Thursday 9-3pm will be available for in-office times.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Open-minded
Specialties
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Depression
+6
Hello, and welcome to my virtual office! I would first like to acknowledge your strength and courage in taking this step toward making your mental health and wellness a priority. To tell you a bit about my background, I am a licensed counselor in FL, MA, OR, and WA with over 10 years of experience working with a variety of populations as I have strived to assist clients on their journey toward hope, growth, and healing. I am also well-versed in providing teletherapy services throughout the FL area.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Open-minded
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Older Adults
+1
Accepting new clients. Yes, life can feel overwhelming—whether you're dealing with anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, or just feeling stuck. If you're looking for support, you're not alone. I provide a warm, judgment-free, and safe space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings, and I will assist you in developing healthy coping strategies and tools to move forward. Together, we’ll work toward greater clarity, self-compassion, and a life that feels more aligned with who you are. I work with adults and couples, utilizing CBT and Family Systems to support meaningful and lasting change. My approach combines empathy, structure, and practical tools to help you understand patterns, strengthen relationships, and move forward with clarity. If you're feeling stuck or ready for change, I'm here to support you with compassion and practical tools. I’m currently accepting new clients and offer telehealth, as well as evening and weekend sessions to fit your schedule. Reach out when you’re ready—I’d be honored to support you on your path forward.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Open-minded
Specialties
Depression
Foster Care/Adoption
Spirituality
I am a licensed counselor, with 20 years of experience. I have a warm and interactive style. I believe that real change occurs in a safe and accepting counseling environment. My approach is to combine cognitive-behavioral, developmental and person centered counseling. I will tailor our dialog and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Solution oriented
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
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Dr. KaShanda Ray is a Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Georgia who has two decades of experience working with teens and adults experiencing depression, anxiety, adjustment issues and managing stress. Dr. Ray has worked in both community agencies as well as in higher education providing counseling and advising to college students on both 2-year and 4-year campuses. KaShanda completed a Bachelor of Science in Psychology at the University of Mobile, received a Master’s of Science in Community Counseling from the University of South Alabama and a doctorate in Organizational Leadership at Gardner-Webb University. Dr. Ray uses strength based, cognitive behavioral and solution-focused approaches to therapy, while working to meet the unique needs of each individual. Dr. Ray uses a combination of talk therapy and therapeutic assignments to work with each individual. Relationships are important to Dr. Ray and the therapeutic process. As a result, Dr. Ray strives to establish an environment that is comfortable and caring. The goal is to support you and help you work towards your goals. Specialties: Depression Anxiety Stress Management
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Empowering
Intelligent
Specialties
ADHD
Anxiety
Depression
+10
I have over 10 years of experience as a mental health therapist. I primarily work with individuals who struggle with anxiety, depression, ADHD, and family or relationship difficulties. Many clients seek treatment because they feel overwhelmed, stuck in unhelpful patterns, or unsure how to manage the challenges they’re facing. My approach is structured and evidence‑based. I focus on helping you understand the factors contributing to your symptoms and developing clear, practical strategies for change. I use cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, and mindfulness‑based interventions to support emotional regulation, improve coping skills, and build healthier behavioral patterns. Accountability is an important part of the work we do together. I will support you, but I will also provide direct feedback and encourage consistent follow‑through on the changes you identify as important. Progress requires active participation, and I work best with clients who are ready to take responsibility for implementing new skills and strategies between sessions. My Style is: Straightforward – Honest and clear, but always respectful. Practical – Tools that work in everyday life, not just theory. Explorative – Space to reflect deeply in a safe, non-judgmental environment. Encouraging – Support that helps you feel capable, validated, and motivated to change. Accountability-focused – Growth comes from owning your choices and committing to real change. This works well if you are willing to: • Look at your own patterns and find areas for growth and change • Practice new skills between our sessions and create a plan for change • Stay open to feedback, exploration, and trying approaches that fit your unique needs
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Depression
+7
My clinical experience has been providing individual therapy services to adolescents, adults and seniors. I have worked with clients with a wide range of concerns, including anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, grief and family issues. My goal is to create a space where clients can authentically express themselves without fear of judgment or misunderstanding and to empower individuals to present their true selves confidently to the world. I aim to help clients embrace all parts of themselves as they heal and grow. You are the narrator of your story and I am here to guide and help support you through your journey.
VirtualAvailable
Direct
Solution oriented
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+6
I am a social worker who provides a warm, supportive, and collaborative space where clients can explore challenges and build on their strengths. My approach is grounded in person-centered therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), motivational interviewing, and trauma-informed care. I work with individuals experiencing anxiety, depression, life transitions, stress, self-esteem concerns, and adjustment challenges. Together, we will identify goals, develop practical coping strategies, and work toward meaningful change. Life can sometimes feel overwhelming, especially when you’re facing difficult experiences, relationship challenges, major life changes, or struggles with substance use. If you’re looking for a space where you can feel heard, supported, and understood, I would be honored to walk alongside you on your journey. My goal is to provide a safe and compassionate environment where you can explore your thoughts and emotions, build on your strengths, and develop practical tools to help you move toward the life you want. No matter where you are in your journey, we will work together at a pace that feels comfortable and meaningful to you.
Available
Authentic
Empowering
Solution oriented
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
LGBTQ
I am licensed with over 20 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, LGBT-related issues, relationship issues, & family conflicts. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. I will tailor our dialog and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs. Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage. I am here to support you in that process.
VirtualAvailable
Direct
Empowering
Open-minded
Specialties
Career Counseling
Life Transitions
Parenting
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You carry big responsibilities, and it’s been heavy for too long. I work with executives, founders, business owners, and high-performing professionals who balance demanding careers with the responsibilities of being partners and parents. Together, we transform overwhelm, perfectionism, chronic stress, and work-life imbalance into clarity, resilience, and purposeful action. We will identify blind spots, remove roadblocks, and build workable boundaries so you can lead well at work, show up at home, and feel grounded in your relationships. Constant stress and exhaustion aren’t the cost of success. Drive and focus don’t make you immune to anxiety, burnout, sleepless racing thoughts, shame, manipulation, family complexity, or the echo of old injuries. Excellence doesn’t require perfection and saying no is okay. With over a decade of experience across multiple states, I blend psychotherapy with practical solutions by offering confidential, results-focused care tailored to your unique world. I also provide corporate mental health training, parent coordination, custody evaluations, co-parenting, reunification, and other psycho-legal consultations all delivered with discretion, expertise, and a deep understanding of high-stakes environments. If you’re ready for focused, actionable support, I’m here to help.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Direct
Solution oriented
Specialties
Addiction
Life Transitions
Trauma and PTSD
+8
Renee Tong, LCSW, LISW is a highly skilled and compassionate clinical therapist dedicated to providing exceptional mental health care and support to adults over age 18, and seniors and is LGBTQ-friendly. Her private practice began in 2007. With a wealth of experience and a profound understanding of human behavior, Renee is committed to helping her clients navigate life's challenges and achieve personal growth. Renee earned her Master's degree in Social Work from Barry University, Florida, equipping her with a solid foundation in evidence-based therapeutic techniques and theories. She went on to obtain her clinical licensure as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), demonstrating her commitment to professional excellence and ethical practice. She is currently licensed in the following states: Florida, Arizona, Virginia, Massachusetts, North Carolina, South Carolina, Washington, Oregon, Ohio, and Kansas. Throughout her career, Renee has successfully assisted clients from diverse backgrounds and with a wide range of mental health concerns. Her expertise spans various areas, including life transitions, anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship issues, grief and loss, self-esteem struggles, Stress and worry, Caregiver stress, PTSD, Trauma, ACOA (Adult Child of Alcoholic or Drug Addict), addictions, Relapse Prevention, Dual Diagnosis, Grief, Shame and Guilt, Abandonment issues, Betrayal, Codependency, Toxic Relationships, Postpartum Depression, and Infertility-informed. By employing a holistic and client-centered approach, Renee fosters a safe and non-judgmental space for individuals to explore their emotions, thoughts, and experiences. Renee's therapeutic style combines empathy, active listening, and collaboration, ensuring that each client's unique needs and goals are addressed effectively. She employs evidence-based interventions such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness techniques, solution-focused therapy to promote personal insight, resilience, inner child wound work, narrative therapy, attachment style theory method along with client center humanistic approach towards positive change.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Empowering
Specialties
High Clinical Acuity
Trauma and PTSD
Women's Issues
+1
Welcome to Dr. Mitchell’s Safe and Brave Space I began my career in social services in 1995, working with children, youth, and families often labeled as “at-risk”—many of whom were impacted by substance use, poverty, child abuse, and neglect. Over time, my commitment to equity and justice led me to the field of social work, where I continue to center the person-in-environment perspective and actively support antiracist policies, ideas, and actions. This work is grounded in an acknowledgment that we live and practice on the stolen lands of Indigenous peoples, and that much of the wealth and infrastructure of this nation was built through the unpaid labor and enduring suffering of enslaved Africans. I honor these histories and their ongoing impact as part of my commitment to justice, healing, and collective liberation. I am deeply committed to self-awareness and reflective practice, both personally and with those I serve. I walk alongside clients on a healing journey rooted in self-care, resilience, and transformation. I integrate narrative therapy and other evidence-informed approaches through the lens of intersectionality to remain fully person-centered. My practice pays particular attention to the impacts of trauma and race-based stress on one’s inner world. As appropriate, I incorporate Feminist Theory, Queer Theory, and Liberation Psychology to support healing that honors identity, lived experience, and systemic context. I welcome all who value peace, healing, and justice to join me in this space—to try, to grow, and to be.
VirtualAvailable
Empowering
Warm
Authentic
Specialties
Anxiety
Grief
Women's Issues
+8
Hi, I’m Dr. Ebony B. I’m a licensed therapist, healing guide, and space-holder for people who are tired of being the strong one. If you’ve been carrying the weight of emotional pain, burnout, or the pressure to keep showing up for everyone else, this is your space to put it all down and just be. I work with Black women, caregivers, and high-achieving professionals who often feel anxious, overwhelmed, disconnected, or like they’ve lost themselves somewhere along the way. Many of my clients seem to have it all together on the outside but feel exhausted inside. You don’t have to keep holding it in or pretending to be okay. You deserve a space to be real, to rest, and to heal. In our work together, we’ll move at your pace. I help clients understand what they’re feeling, where those emotions come from, and how to care for themselves with more compassion and clarity. We talk through patterns, explore your past, build boundaries, and learn new ways to cope that actually feel good to you. You’ll feel supported, not judged. My style is warm, down-to-earth, and collaborative. We’ll laugh sometimes, reflect often, and create room for honesty, softness, and growth. I honor your lived experience and believe in healing that respects your identity, your story, and your values. You don’t have to do this alone. If you’re ready to feel more like yourself again, I would be honored to walk with you.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Older Adults
+2
I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based and licensed in Indiana but also licensed in Washington State. I received my Masters from Indiana University and have been practicing for 29 years in multiple settings. I work with adults struggling with depression, anxiety, trauma, aging, life changes, transition and adjustment across the life-span. I utilize several modalities in therapy but am goal focused to help clients find the balance they are seeking with new tools for now and in the future.
VirtualAvailable
Direct
Intelligent
Solution oriented
Specialties
Men's Issues
Peer Relationships
Self Esteem
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Texas with five years of independent clinical experience and over ten years of experience in human services, case management, vocational rehabilitation services, and working at inpatient and outpatient clinical therapy offices. I have a Ph.D. in Counselor Education and Supervision from Ohio University, a masters degree in Clinical Rehabilitation and Mental Health counseling from UNC-Chapel Hill, and a bachelors of science degree in psychology from North Carolina State University. I chose to get a PhD in counseling because of my desire to help others, and my continuous drive to learn and grow. Therapy was essential to me as a teenager, then as a young adult, and now as a middle-aged adult. I have always found it to be a powerful tool in allowing me to process my thoughts and feelings, both about my past and my future. As a result, I chose to become a therapist, to provide the same support and guidance to the people I work with!
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Eating Disorders
+1
Hello! For almost two decades, I have been counseling clients, and I find it a great honor to walk alongside people, partnering with them in the hard. I grew up with a schizophrenic father. I felt intense fear, shame, and loneliness throughout my formative years. I did a phenomenal job at numbing pain and people pleasing, while my pain festered. Learning how to see and feel my pain has been transformative. I am grateful for the story I have and believe the restored is always better than the original.
VirtualAvailable
Frequently asked questions

When looking for online therapy, you can see anyone that is credentialed in Washington. We want you to find the best fit, therefore, Grow Therapy shows available therapists across Washington from Spokane to Tacoma! If you’d rather see someone in-person, you can change the filter from virtual and find a therapist near you in Washington.

Yes! If you use EAP:UnitedHealthcare/Optum you’ll be asked to verify your Member ID at the time you book the appointment. However, if you don’t have EAP:UnitedHealthcare/Optum you can select cash. Our therapists will have their cost of appointment on their profile. Individual session costs will vary.

The specialty filter is optional. You don’t need to check any boxes to see a provider. However, fit is very important when selecting an online therapist. If you have knowledge or experience to recognize what specialties you may need.

Finding a provider with a similar life experience can be beneficial because it can be easier to establish rapport and potentially be understood quicker and clearer.

Your first therapy session is for you and your therapist to meet each other and to ask any questions that you have about the counseling process. This is where you can expect your therapist to do the same as they will ask questions to gain insight into your specific situation. In this first session the therapist is doing their part to gather as much information so they can better assess if they are able to meet your therapeutic needs. Depending upon your provider's specialty, you may also discuss the methods the therapist will use. For additional information on therapy methods, please visit the Grow Therapy Help Center.Some people feel nervous before their first appointment, and that is totally normal! Coming prepared with a list of questions for your therapist may help. Remember, you're taking a brave step by seeking therapy, and it is okay to be nervous as you try something new.