Self Esteem Therapists in Iowa

Finding a therapist who specializes in self-esteem can be essential for building confidence, fostering self-acceptance, and improving personal resilience. With 31 verified therapists in Iowa who focus on self-esteem support, you can filter by therapeutic approaches such as cognitive behavioral therapy, supportive counseling, and solution-focused therapy to address self-worth, negative self-talk, and personal growth. Each Grow Therapy-verified therapist is currently accepting new clients and has upcoming availability, providing timely access to the support needed to cultivate a stronger, more positive self-image.

Availability updated: 9/21/2026

Solution oriented
Authentic
Direct
Specialties
Self Esteem
Life Transitions
Trauma and PTSD
+10
Hi, I’m Joe. I’ve worked in the mental health field for 27 years across substance use treatment, outpatient care, and hospital settings. I’ve supported individuals and families through crisis, transition, and long-term growth. I work well with young adults, adults, and families who are navigating stress, trauma, anxiety, depression, substance use, or major life changes. I also have extensive experience working with men who may struggle to express emotions directly and instead feel stuck in withdrawal, irritability, or self-doubt. As a veteran, I understand the mindset and pressures that can come with military life. Across all of my work, I aim to provide a grounded, steady presence where honesty, insight, and meaningful change can take place.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Direct
Specialties
Self Esteem
ADHD
LGBTQ
+10
Hi! I'm Dena (she/her). I have 15 years experience and truly love my vocation! I enjoy empowering individuals to achieve their goals and live their best lives. I believe everyone has the ability to heal, sometimes we all need a little help. I am passionate about the power of therapy to aid people in living their best, most authentic lives. I live on the tristate border and provide remote therapy for persons in Illinois and Iowa. An Iowa native, I spent about a decade living and working in SoCal and Phoenix before returning to the Midwest to be with my (now) husband and step kids. Yes, I left sunny San Diego, in December, for the snowy Midwest! The things we’ll do for love! I have personally benefitted greatly from therapy. I am Bi/queer, have ADHD, and several physical disabilities, all of which were diagnosed after college. Therapy helped me develop much needed coping skills so I could be successful in grad school and beyond. Therapy also helped me with the intense stressors related to being a young professional during the Great Recession. I continue to utilize therapy as part of my self care routine. If you are coping with symptoms of anxiety, depression, low self worth, or concerns related to ADHD or chronic health conditions, I would love the opportunity to work with you. I would love to help you to achieve a present no longer overshadowed by past traumas, negative self talk, or uncontrolled anxiety.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Solution oriented
Warm
Specialties
Self Esteem
Anxiety
LGBTQ
+4
Hello! Do you identify as LGBTQIA? Are you struggling to find a therapist who understands your lived experience and the unique challenges the LGBTQIA community is currently facing? I am a member of the LGBTQIA community and have 25 years of experience in mental health and allied fields. As a retired attorney, I also bring a special perspective to working with attorneys and other professionals who are struggling with work-life balance and/or addiction issues. I see therapy as a partnership. I take a client-centered and trauma-informed approach. I find fulfillment in helping clients recover from trauma and addiction, as well as, develop healthy relationships. I specialize in CBT, DBT, EMDR, and mindfulness. I would be honored to help you achieve your mental health goals. Let's schedule a time to talk soon! Jenn
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Open-minded
Warm
Specialties
Self Esteem
Anxiety
Grief
+2
Are you feeling frustrated and overwhelmed, as if you have lost control over your own life and are unsure how to get back on track? It happens to all of us sometimes. Our minds can be our biggest enemies, where our expectations get the best of us. Allow me to collaborate with you in order to unpack your thoughts and emotions to gradually make adjustments to help you become a stronger version of yourself. Whether you are struggling with a life transition, pregnancy and postpartum, caregiving for a loved one, grief and loss, anxiety or depression; I will work with you to process and navigate through these difficult times. I will empower you to find your strengths and use them to make a little progress every day.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Direct
Specialties
Self Esteem
Life Transitions
Mood Disorders
+9
Hello and welcome! My name is Kate Hindle, and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I have been practicing for about 10 years now and am a firm believer that the best way to help someone is to understand the person. Therefore, I take the time to get to know you, your struggles and goals to form a person-centered approach to our sessions.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Direct
Specialties
Self Esteem
Attachment Issues
Trauma and PTSD
+9
I am an experienced Therapist with Specialty focus in the areas of: Shadow Work/Psychoanalysis, Self Love/Self Esteem, Relationships and Attachment, Trauma and Negative Childhood Experiences. I use a Psychodynamic foundation combined with other treatment modalities such Emotionally focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Techniques, Attachment Focused and Trauma focused techniques to help people dig deep into the root causes of their symptoms in order to create long lasting and sustainable healing. I have over 12 years of experience in Behavioral Health after graduating with honors from Wayne State University. Therapy does not have to be scary, it is a journey that we can take together, step by step, one day at a time. I applaud you for taking the first step towards your healing!
VirtualAvailable
Solution oriented
Authentic
Warm
Specialties
Self Esteem
Anxiety
Depression
+9
I am a licensed clinical social worker. I am a compassionate social worker who is an active listener, who is dedicated to working tirelessly to help you resolve issues and thrive on your own terms. I am trained in cognitive behavioral therapy, situational family therapy, trauma-informed therapy, EMDR, and NLP I also have experience in grief and bereavement counseling. I primarily use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, with mindfulness.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Direct
Empowering
Specialties
Self Esteem
Anxiety
Depression
+10
Hello, I'm Ayonna, a licensed professional counselor with over 13 years of experience working as a licensed mental health counselor. Throughout my career, I have had the privilege of working with clients facing a wide range of concerns and struggles, including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting problems, divorce issues, and individuals who have experienced physical and/or sexual trauma or emotional abuse.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Solution oriented
Specialties
Self Esteem
Addiction
Anxiety
+10
I work with adults who are navigating depression, relationship struggles, substance use and co-occurring disorders, complicated family dynamics, academic or career stress, life transitions, and the impact of trauma. Whatever brings you to therapy, my goal is to meet you where you are and create a space that feels supportive, steady, and real. In our work together, I bring curiosity, reflection, and a bit of humor into the room. I draw from approaches like cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), solution-focused therapy, and mindfulness, and I tailor our sessions to what feels most helpful for you. Therapy isn’t one-size-fits-all, and we’ll figure out what works best—together. I aim to offer a safe, nonjudgmental space where we can look at patterns that may be keeping you stuck, make room for difficult emotions, and practice being a little kinder to yourself along the way. Therapy doesn’t have to feel intimidating or overly clinical—it can be thoughtful, engaging, and even relieving. Clients often describe me as both compassionate and direct. You don’t have to do this alone. I’d be honored to be on your team as we take it one step at a time.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Solution oriented
Warm
Specialties
Self Esteem
Attachment Issues
Childhood / Intergenerational Trauma
+9
As a licensed clinical social worker, I am committed to collecting evidenced based "tools for my toolbox" to aid those grappling with finding the new normal after their world has shifted. I most love helping people find language to describe their losses, often when there has been difficulty finding the words, inspiring people to find hope again, and facilitate the development of a plan to move forward in a way that both honors their experiences and embraces the future. I take an action-oriented, collaborative approach to therapy. I utilize a combination of psychoeducation, storytelling, and evidenced-based interventions to offer meaningful insight to support clients’ healing. I strongly believe that rock bottom is the foundation upon which we can rebuild our lives. We do regular check-ins to review progress along the way. Our goal is not to change the past, but instead to find some relief from symptoms that impact daily functioning. I will solicit feedback regularly during sessions for takeaways to gauge progress and curate treatment interventions based on what is most engaging and productive for the individual client.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Challenging
Specialties
Self Esteem
ADHD
Anxiety
+8
Hi, I’m Annie, an LMHC who works with women and girls struggling with anxiety, overthinking, and attachment-related patterns in relationships. Do you find yourself constantly analyzing texts, worrying about how you’re perceived, or feeling overly responsible for others’ emotions? Maybe you struggle to set boundaries or feel anxious when there’s distance in your relationships. These patterns can feel exhausting—but they’re also understandable. In our work together, we’ll explore where these patterns come from and how they’re showing up in your life today. I combine insight-oriented work with practical tools so you can better manage anxiety, build secure relationships, and feel more confident being yourself. I aim to create a space that feels safe, supportive, and real—where you can show up exactly as you are.
VirtualAvailable
Empowering
Warm
Authentic
Specialties
Self Esteem
Anxiety
Life Transitions
+5
Hello and welcome! You've taken a great step by considering if therapy could be right for you. Many situations and life circumstances bring people to this space, and I look forward to talking with you more about your unique story. If you're even wondering if therapy might be right for you, then the answer is yes! My name is Emma Peters. I'm a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Illinois, Iowa, and Wisconsin. I received my Masters degree in Counseling (Clinical Mental Health) at the University of Arkansas. While in Arkansas I worked with adolescents with maladaptive sexual behaviors and co-ocurring disorders in an inpatient setting. Upon relocating to Illinois, I spent several years working in substance use treatment settings, including residential/inpatient, partial hospitalization, and outpatient programs. I've spent the last several years focusing on individual therapy. While in this space, I have developed a passion for working with young adults and supporting the unique challenges they face today. This journey can feel a bit overwhelming at times. I believe in bringing authenticity, compassion, and even a bit of humor into the therapy space to support and empower you through life's most difficult moments.
Available
Authentic
Warm
Empowering
Specialties
Self Esteem
Life Transitions
Women's Issues
+6
I'm a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with over a decade of experience helping clients navigate relationship challenges, self-worth concerns, and major life transitions. I provide virtual therapy in a supportive, nonjudgmental environment where clients can better understand recurring patterns, build confidence, and create meaningful, lasting change. My approach is grounded in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and focused on helping you feel more secure in yourself and your relationships.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Solution oriented
Specialties
Self Esteem
Anxiety
Depression
+7
I’m Angela Miller, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 14 years of experience helping Millennials navigate life’s emotional challenges. I specialize in using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and mindfulness to support clients dealing with anxiety, depression, and self-esteem issues. I’m passionate about creating a warm, judgment-free space where you can feel heard and empowered to make positive changes in your life.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Intelligent
Specialties
Self Esteem
Coping Skills
Military/Veterans
+8
Hello! My name is Ebony Jackson and I am a Clinical Licensed Social Worker with over 23 year of experience. I have provided therapy services in various settings including domestic violence shelters, schools, hospitals, AIDS service organizations and private practice. I am passionate about working with members of communities who experience systemic disadvantages, and I am dedicated to helping individuals empower themselves and connect with their inner resilience.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Empowering
Specialties
Self Esteem
Anxiety
Depression
+10
Hello! My name is Kelly Brock and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in the state of Pennsylvania and also in Iowa. Maybe you are just feeling stuck, and don't know why? Or maybe you know why, but don't quite understand what tools to use or how to use them to get yourself to that next level up in self-understanding and comfort? I believe finding one's peace in life is a journey of exploration… Sometimes our human side tends to make the exploration in life's journey a tad bit complicated. When we know more about ourselves (and others)... we are just able to navigate life better!
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Empowering
Direct
Specialties
Self Esteem
Coping Skills
Depression
+10
Finding the right therapist can be a journey in itself and connecting with your therapist is imperative. I offer services for depression, grief, anxiety, stress, career & workplace difficulties, women's issues, postpartum anxiety, anger management, and coping with life changes. Nutrition is also a key player in some mental wellness issues and I feel is very important to assess. My approach provides empathy, engaged listening and behavior change support as part of my therapy style. I am licensed in both Iowa (MHC License 123416) & Texas (LPC 62282) as a counselor. I look forward to supporting you.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Humorous
Specialties
Self Esteem
ADHD
Anxiety
+10
I am a Licensed Independent Mental Health Practitioner and Licensed Professional Counselor with over 15 years of experience providing trauma-informed care across private practice, healthcare systems, and virtual settings. My work is grounded in compassion, collaboration, and a belief that meaningful change happens when care is tailored to the whole person. I support individuals, families, and professionals as they navigate challenges and strengthen their overall mental wellness. I have experience working with concerns such as trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, workplace stress, and major life transitions. My approach is flexible and responsive, allowing therapy to meet you where you are while helping you move toward greater stability, clarity, and resilience.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Self Esteem
Couples Counseling
Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
+10
Hello and welcome. I’m really glad you’re here. Reaching out for support can take courage, and my goal is to create a space where you feel comfortable, respected, and truly heard from the very beginning. I believe therapy should feel like a warm, supportive conversation where you can slow down, make sense of what you are experiencing, and begin moving toward the life you want with clarity and confidence. For more than two decades I have had the privilege of working with individuals and couples who are navigating anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorder, trauma, relationship challenges, and major life transitions. My approach blends compassion, practical tools, and evidence based treatment so clients not only feel supported but also leave sessions with strategies that help them move forward in meaningful ways. I am Wendy Durant, a Licensed Professional Counselor with advanced training in Exposure and Response Prevention for OCD, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, trauma informed care, couples counseling, and sex therapy. I’m licensed to provide telehealth services in multiple states including Iowa, Louisiana, Michigan, Ohio, Oregon, Pennsylvania, and Texas. My goal is to meet you where you are, walk alongside you in the process, and help you build the confidence and resilience to move toward the life that matters most to you.
Available
Intelligent
Solution oriented
Authentic
Specialties
Self Esteem
ADHD
Depression
+9
When anxiety, depression, or the weight of past trauma takes over, simply getting through the day can feel like an uphill battle. You don’t have to settle for just "getting by," and you don't have to figure out the way forward alone. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I help teens and adults move out of survival mode and into genuine, lasting recovery. My approach looks at the whole picture: who you are, what you’ve carried, and the real-world environment you navigate every day. Integrating Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), mindfulness, and trauma-focused care, our work goes beyond temporary relief. Together, we will target the root of what’s keeping you stuck, quiet the noise, and equip you with practical, everyday tools to reclaim your energy, restore your internal control, and build a life you are genuinely excited to live.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Intelligent
Empowering
Specialties
Self Esteem
Anxiety
Grief
+10
Fully licensed and accepting new clients in NC, WI, and IA. LGBTQ-friendly therapist. Do you want to neutralize effects of emotional trauma/pain without having to relive it? Internal Family Sytems is an evidence-based, psycho-spiritual approach, rooted in systems thinking which, together wIth Polyvagal somatic therapy, is a highly effective way to heal. Also offering art & journal therapy, EFT & relaxation & meditation, we will work together to calm your mind and free parts of you that are frozen in time. I believe each of us have both a unique set of gifts and a world view shaped by past experiences and present circumstance. I believe we each have both a unique set of gifts and a world view shaped by past experiences and present circumstances. As an evidence-based relaxation and meditaiton trainer, I am uniquely qualified to help you learn to cope with grief, anxiety, past trauma, women's issues, and vicarious trauma experienced by veterans and first responders. My approach is eclectic, using interventions from a broad base of solidly-grounded, accepted theoretical orientations, including Cognitive Processing Therapy, an evidence-based, brief modality for resolving PTSD symptoms. I see clcients for anxiety, trauma, life transitions, and women's issues. Through sessions together, I will collaborate with you to assist you in recognizing your individual strengths and strive to empower you with the self-awareness and self-confidence to pursue your dreams. i also practice Internal Family Systems, a means of healing PTSD without having to revisit the event. this is evidence based and rooted in both Attachment Theory and Family Systems Therapy. I take a person-centered, creative, non-judgmental approach to creating a safe space for counseling sessions, allowing you to unburden yourself and share your goals, while helping you to see how your uniquely shaded lenses of experience have color your perceptions.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Empowering
Specialties
Self Esteem
Anxiety
Depression
+9
Greetings, my name is Dr. Katherine Andrade, and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I have 28 years of experience working in Medical, Health, Mental Health, and Substance Use. I have worked as a school, mental health, medical, and military social worker. I have a Master's and Doctorate degrees in Social Work. I specialize in working with adults/seniors with mental health and substance use challenges as well as family issues, stress, adjusting to medical challenges, and military/veteran issues.
VirtualAvailable
Humorous
Warm
Open-minded
Specialties
Self Esteem
Anxiety
Depression
+6
I am Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Colorado, Texas, Nevada, Iowa, and Hawaii and Washington. I view therapy as a partnership focused on healing, self-discovery, and empowerment. I work with a wide range of adults seeking relief from anxiety, depression, trauma, or stress-related concerns, and I tailor my approach to each person’s unique story. My goal is to help you strengthen your sense of self, improve relationships, and develop practical tools to live with greater peace and authenticity.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Open-minded
Warm
Specialties
Self Esteem
Anxiety
Life Transitions
+10
I am a licensed clinical social worker and substance abuse counselor providing therapy services to adults. I have been practicing therapy for 12 years but have been in the field of social work since 2000. My professional experience includes work in child welfare, treatment foster care, adoption, parenting concerns, substance use, domestic violence, trauma, anxiety, depression, LGBTQIA, and life transitions.
VirtualAvailable

New to Grow

Specialties
Self Esteem
Family Conflict
Life Transitions
+6
Hi, I'm Teresa. Have you spent much of your life taking care of everyone else-your children, your spouse, your parents, your family, your work-only to reach this point and realize you're not quite sure where you fit in anymore? If that sounds familiar, you're not alone. I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor who especially enjoys working with women 55+ who are navigating the changes that come with this stage of life. You may be adjusting to an empty nest, changes in your marriage or family relationships, caregiving responsibilities, retirement, or simply finding yourself asking, "What do I want to do for myself now?" Sometimes, the hardest part is giving yourself permission to find out.
Available
Warm
Empowering
Authentic
Specialties
Self Esteem
Addiction
Anxiety
+10
Hello there, I’m Elizabeth Jensema. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and have been practicing social work for 20 years. I enjoy helping adults struggling with their mental health and also those struggling with addiction. My goal is to meet you where you are at and to help you achieve goals that are meaningful to you. I like to have fun with humor, stay positive, and focus on moving forward one day at a time. I feel it's important to provide support and the reassurance that you are not alone, we are all struggling. I hope I can help you to feel comfortable and supported.
VirtualAvailable
Empowering
Authentic
Solution oriented
Specialties
Self Esteem
ADHD
Anxiety
+9
Claire has a warm and welcoming style where you will go at the pace that is comfortable for you. Claire specializes in treating anxiety, ADHD, and concerns about substance use. Other areas that Claire is helpful is with trauma, grief, and OCD. Claire is well trained in DBT and ACT, and incorporates these into treatment seamlessly so therapy does not feel overly clinical. You will have to comfort of going at your own pace while being challenge to grow in the direction that meets your goals, values, and priorities.
Available
Authentic
Warm
Specialties
Self Esteem
Anxiety
Trauma and PTSD
+9
Creating a space where you can find what works best for you in your journey. Focusing on strengths helps individuals recognize their own resilience and capabilities, which is vital for growth. By tailoring my approach to each person's unique situation, I honor their individuality and foster a deeper sense of self-understanding and agency. People often thrive when they feel heard and supported in a way that aligns with their own needs and goals, rather than being pushed into a redefined mold.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Solution oriented
Humorous
Specialties
Self Esteem
Addiction
ADHD
+5
I am a licensed independent clinical social worker with over 14 years of experience working as a clinician, therapist , and crisis interventionist. I have worked with clients with a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, substance use problems, psychosis, and ADHD. I also helped people who have experienced trauma and/or emotional abuse. I would like to clarify my expertise does not include eating disorders, or pornography addiction, although I do understand some of the symptoms and causes. AGAIN, NO PORN ADDICTIONS, COUPLES COUNSELING, OR MARRIAGE COUNSELING. My therapy style is genuine and solution focused.. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. My approach is dialectical behavioral based with strengths perspective and motivational interviewing. Any treatment plan to meet your needs will be collaborative, timely, and with measurable goals. Usually following the "S.M.A.R.T." goal format. Specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and timely. I have worked extensively in crisis intervention in the agency and on the streets, in hospitals, and in mental health courts and case management agencies, and have managed in this capacity. I also have many years experience related to substance use disorders and have worked as a therapist utilizing primarily Dialectical Behavioral Therapy as my main approach as well as utilizing Cognitive Behavior Therapy . These tools can be modified in a number of ways to help clients achieve their goals . Regardless of any experience, upbringing, current, or past situation, everyone has choices they can make that best serves them and the life they want to live. I look forward to working with you!
VirtualAvailable
Solution oriented
Warm
Authentic
Specialties
Self Esteem
Anxiety
Depression
+10
I’m Julio Cruz Rodríguez, a Clinical Mental Health Counselor, and I provide services exclusively in Spanish. I have extensive experience in clinical mental health and dedicate my work to supporting individuals in their emotional growth process, helping them navigate challenges such as anxiety, depression, grief, and life transitions. I use an integrative approach, tailoring interventions to the unique needs of each person to promote their well-being and personal development. Soy Julio Cruz Rodríguez, Consejero Clínico en Salud Mental, y ofrezco servicios exclusivamente en español. Cuento con amplia experiencia en salud mental clínica y me dedico a acompañar a personas en su proceso de crecimiento emocional, ayudándolas a manejar retos como la ansiedad, la depresión, el duelo y las transiciones de vida. Utilizo un enfoque integrativo, adaptando las intervenciones a las necesidades únicas de cada persona para promover su bienestar y desarrollo personal.
VirtualAvailable
Direct
Authentic
Solution oriented
Specialties
Self Esteem
Career Counseling
Men's Issues
+16
Hi there, my name’s Ephraim Tokar. I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with 20+ years of experience. My specialties consist of relationships, men’s issues, career counseling, and psychosomatic illnesses. I received my Bachelors degree in Child Psychology, working initially with the adolescent population before transitioning over to adults. I then received my Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy. Whether it's individuals or couples, I'm happy to get to work with whomever comes my way. I do my best to facilitate a warm, trusting environment. Looking forward to meeting with you soon!
VirtualAvailable
Frequently asked questions

When looking for online therapy, you can see anyone that is credentialed in Iowa. We want you to find the best fit, therefore, Grow Therapy shows available therapists across Iowa from Cedar Rapids to Davenport! If you’d rather see someone in-person, you can change the filter from virtual and find a therapist near you in Iowa.

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The specialty filter is optional. You don’t need to check any boxes to see a provider. However, fit is very important when selecting an online therapist. If you have knowledge or experience to recognize what specialties you may need. For example, your selected specialty, Self Esteem, is filtering therapists in Iowa that work with patients with similar concerns.

Finding a provider with a similar life experience can be beneficial because it can be easier to establish rapport and potentially be understood quicker and clearer.

Your first therapy session is for you and your therapist to meet each other and to ask any questions that you have about the counseling process. This is where you can expect your therapist to do the same as they will ask questions to gain insight into your specific situation. In this first session the therapist is doing their part to gather as much information so they can better assess if they are able to meet your therapeutic needs. Depending upon your provider's specialty, you may also discuss the methods the therapist will use. For additional information on therapy methods, please visit the Grow Therapy Help Center.Some people feel nervous before their first appointment, and that is totally normal! Coming prepared with a list of questions for your therapist may help. Remember, you're taking a brave step by seeking therapy, and it is okay to be nervous as you try something new.