Couples Counseling Therapists in Iowa

Finding a therapist who specializes in couples therapy and fits your needs and goals can be a transformative step for partners seeking to improve communication, resolve conflicts, and deepen their emotional connection. With 12 verified couples counselors in Iowa, you can explore approaches such as Emotionally Focused Therapy, the Gottman Method, Imago Therapy, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to address concerns including relationship challenges such as sex therapy and infidelity, building trust, and fostering mutual understanding. Each Grow Therapy-verified therapist listed below is currently welcoming new clients and has availability in the coming weeks, offering supportive, evidence-based care tailored to your relationship’s unique needs and goals.

Availability updated: 9/21/2026

Humorous
Open-minded
Authentic
Specialties
Couples Counseling
Anxiety
Trauma and PTSD
+10
Hello! My name is Nessa and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I also have a Master of Science in General Psychology. I offer therapy that fits you by understanding your challenges, creating a plan, and celebrating your progress. I offer a safe, inclusive space with in‑person or virtual sessions. We will work together on tough things like boundaries, grief, transitions, and patterns that keep you stuck. I am certified in therapeutic table-top gaming which allows for the therapy experience to happen through table-top role playing games. I also offer EMDR to help you with processing your deepest traumas and triggers. I can also work with you and your partner to build a relationship that is solid and fulfilling for everyone involved. I am a huge nerd and love to incorporate pop culture and gaming into my practice. If you have something that you connect with, let me know and we can absolutely relate that to your healing journey! We can bring in your favorite show, anime, video game, or TTRPG. I believe that therapy is a journey we take together down a river. You are driving the boat, and my job is to prepare you for rough waters and things that might trip you up. I view therapy as a collaboration between us, and a journey that moves at your pace. I look at therapy from a very trauma informed lens, and make sure to adjust my interventions to what you need most.
Available
Authentic
Warm
Direct
Specialties
Couples Counseling
Attachment Issues
Self Esteem
+9
I am an experienced Therapist with Specialty focus in the areas of: Shadow Work/Psychoanalysis, Self Love/Self Esteem, Relationships and Attachment, Trauma and Negative Childhood Experiences. I use a Psychodynamic foundation combined with other treatment modalities such Emotionally focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Techniques, Attachment Focused and Trauma focused techniques to help people dig deep into the root causes of their symptoms in order to create long lasting and sustainable healing. I have over 12 years of experience in Behavioral Health after graduating with honors from Wayne State University. Therapy does not have to be scary, it is a journey that we can take together, step by step, one day at a time. I applaud you for taking the first step towards your healing!
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Humorous
Specialties
Couples Counseling
Anxiety
Depression
+10
Hi, I’m Tara. I’m a professional counselor with 19 years of experience helping children, teens, adults, couples, and families navigate life’s challenges, strengthen relationships, and create meaningful change. I became a therapist because I’ve always had a heart for helping people feel seen, heard, understood, and supported—especially during seasons when life feels overwhelming, relationships feel difficult, or you simply aren’t sure what comes next. My approach to therapy is warm, genuine, collaborative, and down-to-earth. I want therapy to feel like a safe place where you can show up as you are without fear of judgment. You don’t need to have the perfect words or know exactly where to begin. We’ll start where you are and figure out the next steps together. I work with clients experiencing concerns such as anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, relationship and family difficulties, life transitions, self-esteem concerns, parenting challenges, and communication struggles. I use an individualized approach that may incorporate CBT, DBT, EMDR, trauma-focused therapy, solution-focused therapy, mindfulness, and client-centered therapy. I am also a Registered Play Therapist, and working with children and families is an important part of my practice. I use play and developmentally appropriate approaches to help children express emotions, develop coping skills, and work through experiences in ways that feel natural to them. One phrase that guides much of my work is “Awareness creates choice.” When we begin to understand ourselves, our patterns, and our experiences differently, we create opportunities to make different choices. My goal is for you to leave therapy not only feeling better, but also understanding yourself better and feeling more confident navigating whatever comes next.
Available
Authentic
Warm
Empowering
Specialties
Couples Counseling
Life Transitions
Self Esteem
+6
I'm a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with over a decade of experience helping clients navigate relationship challenges, self-worth concerns, and major life transitions. I provide virtual therapy in a supportive, nonjudgmental environment where clients can better understand recurring patterns, build confidence, and create meaningful, lasting change. My approach is grounded in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and focused on helping you feel more secure in yourself and your relationships.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Couples Counseling
Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
Trauma and PTSD
+10
Hello and welcome. I’m really glad you’re here. Reaching out for support can take courage, and my goal is to create a space where you feel comfortable, respected, and truly heard from the very beginning. I believe therapy should feel like a warm, supportive conversation where you can slow down, make sense of what you are experiencing, and begin moving toward the life you want with clarity and confidence. For more than two decades I have had the privilege of working with individuals and couples who are navigating anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorder, trauma, relationship challenges, and major life transitions. My approach blends compassion, practical tools, and evidence based treatment so clients not only feel supported but also leave sessions with strategies that help them move forward in meaningful ways. I am Wendy Durant, a Licensed Professional Counselor with advanced training in Exposure and Response Prevention for OCD, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, trauma informed care, couples counseling, and sex therapy. I’m licensed to provide telehealth services in multiple states including Iowa, Louisiana, Michigan, Ohio, Oregon, Pennsylvania, and Texas. My goal is to meet you where you are, walk alongside you in the process, and help you build the confidence and resilience to move toward the life that matters most to you.
Available
Authentic
Warm
Specialties
Couples Counseling
Anxiety
Depression
+8
Originally from Haiti, I migrated to the U.S. at age 9 and grew up in Queens, NY. Fluent in Haitian Creole and French, I deeply understands the impact of childhood trauma, xenophobia, and adjustment difficulties on mental health. I hold a master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Walden University and a bachelor's in Forensic Psychology from John Jay College. I was trained at an Intensive Outpatient facility, working with dual-diagnosis clients. My approach fosters a supportive, non-judgmental environment for self-exploration, healing, and Self-leadership. Passionate about animals, I volunteered at the Humane Society Wildlife in Miami. In my free time, I enjoy being with family and my 6-year-old pocket bully.
Available
Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Couples Counseling
ADHD
LGBTQ
+10
I have not taken the traditional route in my life to get to this career, but I am so thrilled to be here. I have a background in journalism and secondary education. I believe my background and experience offers a unique perspective when working with clients. I have been licensed for over five years now and consider myself a lifelong learner. Pets are my favorite part of telehealth counseling! Since I work from home, there may be occasional disruptions from my pets. Your animals are always welcome to join a session! (I am currently looking for office space in the Peoria, IL area)
VirtualAvailable
Empowering
Authentic
Solution oriented
Specialties
Couples Counseling
ADHD
Anxiety
+9
Claire has a warm and welcoming style where you will go at the pace that is comfortable for you. Claire specializes in treating anxiety, ADHD, and concerns about substance use. Other areas that Claire is helpful is with trauma, grief, and OCD. Claire is well trained in DBT and ACT, and incorporates these into treatment seamlessly so therapy does not feel overly clinical. You will have to comfort of going at your own pace while being challenge to grow in the direction that meets your goals, values, and priorities.
Available
Authentic
Warm
Specialties
Couples Counseling
Anxiety
Self Esteem
+9
Creating a space where you can find what works best for you in your journey. Focusing on strengths helps individuals recognize their own resilience and capabilities, which is vital for growth. By tailoring my approach to each person's unique situation, I honor their individuality and foster a deeper sense of self-understanding and agency. People often thrive when they feel heard and supported in a way that aligns with their own needs and goals, rather than being pushed into a redefined mold.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Solution oriented
Warm
Specialties
Couples Counseling
Anxiety
Depression
+10
Hi, I’m Emy Carlson. I’m a licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Integrative Health Therapist practicing in South Dakota, Minnesota, Iowa, Washington, and Oregon (MS, LPC-MH, LPCC, LPC, NCC, CCTP, QMHP). I’m also a Board-Approved Supervisor in South Dakota, Minnesota, and Iowa. I specialize in working with adults and couples navigating anxiety, trauma, relationship challenges, and life transitions. My approach is warm, collaborative, and grounded in evidence-based practices such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), trauma-informed care, and motivational interviewing. I integrate whole-person strategies that support mental, emotional, and physical well-being. I believe therapy should feel safe, empowering, and purposeful—a space where you can heal, grow, and reconnect with your authentic self.
VirtualAvailable
Solution oriented
Warm
Authentic
Specialties
Couples Counseling
Anxiety
Depression
+10
I’m Julio Cruz Rodríguez, a Clinical Mental Health Counselor, and I provide services exclusively in Spanish. I have extensive experience in clinical mental health and dedicate my work to supporting individuals in their emotional growth process, helping them navigate challenges such as anxiety, depression, grief, and life transitions. I use an integrative approach, tailoring interventions to the unique needs of each person to promote their well-being and personal development. Soy Julio Cruz Rodríguez, Consejero Clínico en Salud Mental, y ofrezco servicios exclusivamente en español. Cuento con amplia experiencia en salud mental clínica y me dedico a acompañar a personas en su proceso de crecimiento emocional, ayudándolas a manejar retos como la ansiedad, la depresión, el duelo y las transiciones de vida. Utilizo un enfoque integrativo, adaptando las intervenciones a las necesidades únicas de cada persona para promover su bienestar y desarrollo personal.
VirtualAvailable
Direct
Authentic
Solution oriented
Specialties
Couples Counseling
Career Counseling
Men's Issues
+16
Hi there, my name’s Ephraim Tokar. I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with 20+ years of experience. My specialties consist of relationships, men’s issues, career counseling, and psychosomatic illnesses. I received my Bachelors degree in Child Psychology, working initially with the adolescent population before transitioning over to adults. I then received my Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy. Whether it's individuals or couples, I'm happy to get to work with whomever comes my way. I do my best to facilitate a warm, trusting environment. Looking forward to meeting with you soon!
VirtualAvailable
Frequently asked questions

When looking for online therapy, you can see anyone that is credentialed in Iowa. We want you to find the best fit, therefore, Grow Therapy shows available therapists across Iowa from Cedar Rapids to Davenport! If you’d rather see someone in-person, you can change the filter from virtual and find a therapist near you in Iowa.

When booking you’ll be asked to verify with your Member ID. However, if you don’t have any of the insurances available you can select cash. Our therapists will have their cost of appointment on their profile. Individual session costs will vary.

The specialty filter is optional. You don’t need to check any boxes to see a provider. However, fit is very important when selecting an online therapist. If you have knowledge or experience to recognize what specialties you may need. For example, your selected specialty, Couples Counseling, is filtering therapists in Iowa that work with patients with similar concerns.

Finding a provider with a similar life experience can be beneficial because it can be easier to establish rapport and potentially be understood quicker and clearer.

Your first therapy session is for you and your therapist to meet each other and to ask any questions that you have about the counseling process. This is where you can expect your therapist to do the same as they will ask questions to gain insight into your specific situation. In this first session the therapist is doing their part to gather as much information so they can better assess if they are able to meet your therapeutic needs. Depending upon your provider's specialty, you may also discuss the methods the therapist will use. For additional information on therapy methods, please visit the Grow Therapy Help Center.Some people feel nervous before their first appointment, and that is totally normal! Coming prepared with a list of questions for your therapist may help. Remember, you're taking a brave step by seeking therapy, and it is okay to be nervous as you try something new.