Therapists in Hawaii

Find the best therapist in Hawaii for your needs on Grow Therapy. With 31 verified therapists in Hawaii, you can connect with licensed professionals who are currently accepting new patients. Grow Therapy verifies and credentials each Hawaii therapist to ensure they are active, available, and aligned with your needs. Whether you’re seeking support for anger management, eating disorders, phobias, Hawaii’s therapists offer compassionate, personalized care tailored to your unique circumstances.

Availability updated: 10/8/2025

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Gwendolyn Barnhart, PhD, PsyD, EdD

LP, 1 years of experience

New to Grow

Specialties

ADHD
Autism
Depression
+4
I’m Gwendolyn Barnhart, PhD, PsyD, EdD, a licensed clinical psychologist with a cross-jurisdictional private practice serving Washington, Oregon, Hawaii, Alaska, British Columbia, and PSYPACT states. I have vast experience working with neurodivergence, intellectual and developmental disabilities, in multicultural settings. I primarily serve clients who identify with autism and ADHD. As an AuDHD psychologist, I bring lived experience alongside clinical expertise, which helps me create spaces that feel safer, clearer, and more attuned to neurodivergent needs.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 2 ratings

Stradlyne Saint Julien

LMFT, 3 years of experience

Solution oriented
Open-minded
Warm

Specialties

Autism
Parenting
Trauma and PTSD
My name is Stradlyne Saint Julien. I am a licensed marriage and family therapist and a Board Certified Behavior Analyst. I have been providing individual and family therapy for 3 years. and I have 11years of experience in the field of Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA). I have worked with individuals ranging from 2 to 50 years of age in homes, schools, clinics, hospitals, and communities. I believe human beings are resilient, and given the right support have the ability to activate untapped potential within themselves to love, heal, and thrive
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Rated 4.5 stars out of 5, 10 ratings

Tyne Amos

LCSW, 6 years of experience

Warm
Solution oriented
Open-minded

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
First Responders/Healthcare Workers
+7
My name is Tyne Amos. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who is licensed in Oregon and Florida. I received my Masters of Social Work from Asbury University. I love working with clients in helping them return home to themselves by addressing trauma and adversity and being able to live into their values. I aim to help clients explore what is means to live a full, meaningful, and joyful life. I absolutely love being able to help people reduce distress in their life and move to living the life they have always wanted to live.
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Rated 4.8 stars out of 5, 35 ratings

Crystal Scurr

LMFT, 30 years of experience

Empowering
Solution oriented
Authentic

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Self Esteem
+2
I am licensed in Hawai'i, Arizona, and Washington DC with over 30 years of professional work experience. I've been highly effective in helping clients with stress and anxiety, relationship issues, motivation, self-esteem, and confidence, & coping with life changes. I believe you are the expert of your story and you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. Taking the first step to sign up for therapy can take courage and I am proud of you for getting started!
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 36 ratings

Michelle Foor

LMHC, 5 years of experience

Authentic
Warm
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+9
Hello! I'm Michelle. As a dedicated mental health therapist, I am committed to guiding individuals on their journey towards well-being with a strong emphasis on self-care and intention. My goal is to get my clients started with building awareness of the patterns and behaviors causing distress, setting out to build strategies into seeing the “bigger picture”, and then making the choice to shift away into "new and different". I believe that the mental health journey can feel different for everyone and is valid for all. It’s addressing the pile-on effects of everyday stress and learning how to breathe through anxiety and panic attacks. It’s establishing and keeping a daily routine as part of ADHD symptom management and finding self-compassion when experiencing depressive thoughts. There is no perfect or prescriptive way to approach the process of mental well-being. My role as a therapist is to support, facilitate, and provide collaborative space to examine all the pieces.
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Rated 4.9 stars out of 5, 10 ratings

Sean Gardner

LMHC, 11 years of experience

Authentic
Open-minded
Humorous

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
+9
Hey there! I'm a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, licensed in both states of Hawaii and Arizona. I was born and raised in Phoenix, AZ. I served active duty in the US Navy as well as public-service as a city firefighter-paramedic. I earned my Bachelor's in Psychology from Arizona State Univ. and my Masters Degree in Counseling Psychology from Chaminade University of Honolulu. I lived in Hawaii for many years working as a counselor with various populations. Hawaii is where my career in psychology all began. I enjoy helping people make meaningful changes in themselves, in their relationships and to their lives. I can help you feel more present and more authentically connected to yourself and others. Whether you are feeling stuck in life or are navigating a life-altering event, I am here to provide a safe, nonjudgemental space for you to overcome your obstacles and concerns. I know from both personal and professional experiences that each of us has the ability to awaken to Truth and find our light, even in the darkest of times. I can help guide you back to return home to your innate mental health and true nature.
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Aiyana Kanakaole

LCSW, 1 years of experience

New to Grow

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Self Esteem
+4
Aloha, my name is Aiyana Kanakaole and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I was born and raised on the island of Maui and gained my experience serving the community of Oahu through medical social work. I now provide telehealth services and enjoy being able to work with adults across Hawaii. I am passionate about therapy and am looking forward to learning how I can best support you in your journey.
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Rated 4.8 stars out of 5, 71 ratings

Brian Burgess

LP, 16 years of experience

Authentic
Solution oriented
Direct

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Mood Disorders
+1
I am a client centered therapist/psychologist with 13+ years of experience working with couples and individuals age 18 and older. My schedule is generally Monday through Thursday from 9-5 PT and Friday from 9-3 PT. You can expect me to be empathic and understanding of your concerns, without judgment. I won't be telling you how to live your life or giving you advice you haven't asked for. If you want advice, please don't hesitate to ask. I will do my best. I work with you to help you gain insight into what is bothering you. Together we can help find new ways of understanding yourself (self-empathy) and discover/change how you are looking at the world around you. We can work to relieve symptoms of depression and anxiety. My goal is to eventually have you be able to better handle feelings and emotions and live a happier more fulfilled life without me being there to help. What are your goals? What would you like to work on with me?
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 7 ratings

Raymond Black

LMHC, 25 years of experience

Intelligent
Empowering
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Couples Counseling
Grief
+10
Counseling is my gift that makes room for me. It is more than a job to me. It is a part of who I am. I am a Christian and this you will see even in the counsel that is given. I will not judge anyone but I will challenge anyone to meet the goals they set in counseling. I am a Father figure and very passionate about what I do.
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Victoria Bautista

LMFT, 6 years of experience

New to Grow

Specialties

Anxiety
Couples Counseling
Self Esteem
Hi, I'm Victoria! I’m so glad you’re here. I’m a licensed marriage and family therapist who supports individuals and couples navigating life transitions, relationship challenges, stress, and emotional overwhelm. I specialize in helping clients deepen self-awareness, strengthen connections, and heal from patterns that no longer serve them. My approach is compassionate and collaborative, blending attachment-based work with mind-body techniques and practical tools to support lasting change. Whether you’re feeling stuck, disconnected, or simply ready to grow, I’m here to help you move forward with clarity, confidence, and care.
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Linda Lee

LCSW, 2 years of experience

New to Grow

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
+7
Hello, I’m Linda, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker dedicated to fostering meaningful change and personal growth through a person-centered, strengths-based approach. My style is warm, empathetic, and grounded in deep respect for your lived experience. I offer a safe, nonjudgmental space where you can explore your thoughts, emotions, and life transitions—whether you’re navigating career shifts, relationship challenges, or personal identity exploration. I work with a diverse range of clients across cultures, backgrounds, identities, and ages. My practice is inclusive and affirming, welcoming those seeking support in cultivating resilience, self-awareness, and a deeper understanding of themselves. Through active listening and collaborative dialogue, I aim to understand your unique perspective and co-create a therapeutic path that feels empowering and aligned with your values
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 2 ratings

Leiana Reyes

LMFT, 13 years of experience

Open-minded
Warm
Solution oriented

Specialties

Child or Adolescent
Life Transitions
Self Esteem
+10
As a compassionate and solution-focused family therapist, I work closely with children, adolescents, families and individuals navigating life 's transitions, challenges, and emotional struggles. My approach is grounded in empathy, collaboration, and practical tools that foster growth and healing. I provide a supportive space where clients feel safe to open up, explore new perspectives, and move confidently toward meaningful, and lasting change.
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Rated 4.9 stars out of 5, 73 ratings

Aquarius Cox

LMHC, 5 years of experience

Authentic
Empowering
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Bipolar Disorder
Depression
+12
So, what brings you to therapy? My name is Aquarius and I am a Christian woman, mother of 5 and grandmother of 6. I have overcome so much in my life, and I would love to help you see that you can do the same. I am a Cognitive Behavioral Therapist who uses an ecclectic approach to help you acquire the control over your thoughts, emotions, behaviors, mental health symptoms, and life issues that plague you. I am a Licensed Professional Therapist who does telehealth therapy for Texas and Florida.
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Angela Heiligenthal

LP, 20 years of experience

New to Grow

Specialties

Life Transitions
Trauma and PTSD
Women's Issues
+6
My name is Dr. Angela Heiligenthal. I am a licensed clinical psychologist with over twenty years of experience. I work with adults who have experienced trauma and/or are in the midst of significant life transitions. Therapy can be a safe and non-judgmental space to open up, reflect, and grow. Each session is tailored to meet your unique needs. My approach is collaborative and culturally responsive, recognizing that you are the expert on your own life. Together, we will work towards achieving your goals. I will provide that safe space to help you overcome pain, empower yourself, and cultivate hope. Therapy can be a journey of healing and growth, and I would feel privileged to walk beside you on that journey.
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Rated 4.9 stars out of 5, 22 ratings

Teresa Torres-Johnson

LMHC, 16 years of experience

Open-minded
Direct
Solution oriented

Specialties

Addiction
Anger Management
Hello, my name is Teresa, practicing mental health for over 16 years working with the military population. Working as a middle school teacher in a lower socioeconomic area. This led to my desire to go back to school for my master’s degree in counseling psychology. Receiving my LPC licensure, led me to pursue my chemical dependency counselor license (LCDC). I began working as a substance abuse counselor with the US Army in substance abuse counseling. While working with the military I worked at a local hospital developing a program for civilians in chemical dependency. The need to work with individuals, and families including Service Members, led me to work as a contractor for private corporations. During this time, I received a certification in behavioral therapy to work with the autism spectrum population. Raised as a military dependent, then wife and mother, I experienced many aspects of different personalities. I was led to understand what it means to try to hide who you are to eventually become someone you may not recognize. The goal is to have you see, life is wonderful, we go through the storm to appreciate the sunshine. The experience developed led me to work with addiction, anxiety, PTSD, and many other mental health issues. We are a beautiful bouquet with different views on life. Using an eclectic therapeutic array of mental health care has allotted me to develop individual care. This concept of care is the same for couples and group therapy. Some techniques include cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), and psychosocial therapeutic techniques.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 10 ratings

Solee Cowley

LCSW, 20 years of experience

Open-minded
Solution oriented
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Self Esteem
+7
As a person-centered therapist, I provide a safe and supportive environment to help clients explore their concerns. My approach is direct yet compassionate, utilizing creative, reflective, and engaging therapy modalities. I encourage the development of body awareness to examine the mind-body connection. Additionally, I incorporate a holistic view of spirituality, recognizing its importance in overall well-being and integrating it into the therapeutic process.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 14 ratings

Jamal Fletcher

LCSW, 10 years of experience

Intelligent
Authentic
Open-minded

Specialties

Anxiety
Military/Veterans
Trauma and PTSD
+4
Congrats on taking the first step in initiating therapy. It may not always be easy, but taking time for your well-being is always worth it. I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with 12 years of experience in mental health. I've had the privilege of working with trauma survivors from a broad range of sociocultural backgrounds, including combat Veterans, survivors of sexual trauma, older adults, and couples.
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Rated 4.9 stars out of 5, 80 ratings

Sharon Smith

LMFT, 2 years of experience

Solution oriented
Intelligent
Warm

Specialties

Addiction
Depression
Grief
+9
I am a dual board-certified nurse practitioner in psychiatric mental health and family medicine primary care. I am deeply committed to helping individuals facing complex mental health challenges. I provide medication management for adults and children. I prioritize creating a safe, non-judgmental environment for personalized, patient-centered care. My goal is to be your trusted partner on the journey to mental well-being, providing support, understanding, and guidance for a fulfilling life. I am committed to being your trusted partner on this transformative journey.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 24 ratings

Mat Kaneshiro

LMFT, 20 years of experience

Warm
Empowering
Authentic

Specialties

Anxiety
Trauma and PTSD
Hi, my name is Mat Kaneshiro. I am a dual-licensed marriage and family therapist working in Florida and Hawaii. If you are looking for help with anxiety, depression, trauma, stress management or relationships then consider scheduling with me. I have extensive experience working in mental health. I’ve worked in the community, home visits, homeless or crisis shelters, substance abuse treatment centers, psychiatric hospitals, incarceration and any other setting. I have also worked with behavioral health organizations, leading teams and managing programs. My clients grow or heal by addressing emotions, reducing anxious thoughts and feelings in their bodies. Working through relationship issues through communication, conflict resolution and other factors that shape our experience. In trauma work, I find EMDR ( eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) to be the most powerful therapy to heal core issues.
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Kori Kiesel-Weatherford

LCSW, 25 years of experience

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Depression
+9
I have been a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 15 years working in the Hawaii community. I am also a Board Certified Diplomate of Clinical Social Work (BCD). I have focused my clinical practice on the treatment of anxiety, depression and transitional stress. I have worked in the community after receiving my MSW in 2001. I've spent my career working with youth and adults in the Hawaii community.
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Rated 4.9 stars out of 5, 101 ratings

Keith Scherdt

LMHC, 9 years of experience

Open-minded
Authentic
Warm

Specialties

ADHD
Child or Adolescent
LGBTQ
+4
Teenage years are stressful on the teen and the family. Is your teen having a hard time making healthy choices? Are they angry for no apparent reason? Is your teen a bully or are they being bullied? Parenting a teenager is difficult. I also specialize in counseling teens that identify as LGBTQ+. It can get better, with the right help. I’ve been working with teens for many years and I know how tough it can be on the teen and the parent. Imagine your teen being able to communicate their thoughts/feelings without anger or resentment. I can help you build trust with your teen and communicate without arguing in family counseling.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 19 ratings

Sanayah Marriott

LCSW, 9 years of experience

Authentic
Empowering
Solution oriented

Specialties

Addiction
Anxiety
Depression
+9
Hello, I am Sanayah Marriott, a licensed clinical social worker in CA, AZ and HI. I am fluent in English and Haitian Creole. I am also a Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor-II with 9 years of extensive experience in addiction treatment settings and 19 years of military experience. I am thrilled that you have chosen to embark on a journey towards personal growth and self-care. Are you ready to let go of your worries, discover your purpose, embrace emotional wellness, adapt to change, and lead a balanced life? While the journey may be challenging, I aim to support you as you gain awareness and understanding.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 12 ratings

Chrys Dawkins

LCSW, 7 years of experience

Warm
Humorous
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Life Transitions
+1
My name is Chrys Dawkins and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based on the Big Island of Hawaii and working with clients in both Hawaii and Georgia. I received my MSW from Boston University and I have been practicing for 5 years. I work primarily with adults, including young adults. My areas of specialization include stress management, women's issues, boundary setting, parenting issues, life transitions.
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Rated 4.7 stars out of 5, 68 ratings

Robin Hall

LCSW, 10 years of experience

Warm
Empowering
Authentic

Specialties

Anxiety
Autism
Military/Veterans
+10
Robin Hall, LCSW, is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker practicing in the state of California and Hawaii. She attained her Master's in Social Work from the University of Alabama, Tuscaloosa, in 2009. Robin's professional journey has led her to work extensively in areas such as sleep challenges, PTSD, anxiety, and trauma, where she uses a combination of evidence-based therapeutic approaches. In her therapy sessions, Robin prioritizes creating a safe, judgment-free environment where people can openly express themselves, ensuring that you feel seen, heard, and valued throughout the journey towards healing and growth.
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Rated 4.9 stars out of 5, 36 ratings

Marvia Scott

LCSW, 7 years of experience

Warm
Authentic
Open-minded

Specialties

Depression
ADHD
Anger Management
+8
I am a licensed therapist in the states of Alabama, Massachusetts, and Hawaii with 8 years of professional work experience. Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage. I am here to support you in that process. In my sessions, the client leads, and I provide guidance along with way. I tailor each session to fit the need of the individual. We will typically use the M.A.P.S (measurable, achievable, positive, and specific) technique to establish realistic goals
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 85 ratings

Kat Andrade

LCSW, 28 years of experience

Authentic
Solution oriented
Warm

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+9
Greetings, my name is Dr. Katherine Andrade, and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I have 28 years of experience working in Medical, Health, Mental Health, and Substance Use. I have worked as a school, mental health, medical, and military social worker. I have a Master's and Doctorate degrees in Social Work. I specialize in working with adults/seniors with mental health and substance use challenges as well as family issues, stress, adjusting to medical challenges, and military/veteran issues.
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Rated 4.9 stars out of 5, 52 ratings

Gino Memoli

LMFT, 2 years of experience

Authentic
Open-minded
Intelligent

Specialties

LGBTQ
Mood Disorders
Hello, I'm Gino Memoli, a licensed therapist dedicated to supporting individuals, couples, and families through personalized therapy sessions. I specialize in addressing personality disorders, mood disorders, and trauma using client-centered modality to help clients explore and heal various aspects of themselves. Additionally, I apply the Gottman Method to enhance relationship dynamics for couples and families, focusing on building stronger, more understanding connections. My approach is direct, honest, and compassionate, aimed at fostering deep personal growth and resilience in a supportive environment.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 7 ratings

Sahiti Karumuri

LMHC, 4 years of experience

Warm
Empowering
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Self Esteem
Trauma and PTSD
+9
Hi, I’m a licensed therapist, clinical supervisor, and the proud owner of Sunshine Holistic Health. With two Ivy League degrees — an M.Phil. in Professional Counseling and an M.S.Ed. in Mental Health Counseling from the University of Pennsylvania — I bring both extensive clinical expertise and a compassionate, holistic approach to the work I do. I specialize in supporting individuals who are ready to invest in their mental, emotional, and physical well-being. My practice is built on the belief that healing happens when we care for the whole person — mind, body, and spirit — and create space for people to reconnect with themselves in meaningful ways. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, trauma, life transitions, or relationship challenges, I’m here to provide a safe, supportive, and collaborative environment where you can grow and heal at your own pace. In addition to individual therapy, I offer clinical supervision and mentoring for fellow therapists, helping them develop their skills while honoring their own self-care and professional growth. At Sunshine Holistic Health, my goal is to create a warm, welcoming space where clients feel truly seen, valued, and empowered to live the lives they deserve.
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Rated 4.8 stars out of 5, 59 ratings

Trevor Agar

LCSW, 23 years of experience

Humorous
Authentic
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
Licensed clinical social worker in the State of California with over 23 years of professional experience. Committed to helping my clients by providing comprehensive mental health treatment services, psycho-education, and advocacy. A strong commitment to serving the needs of individuals suffering from mental health issues, difficult relationships, work stress, and chronic unhappiness. Here to help you feel better now and work towards creating a satisfying and joyful life.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 91 ratings

Kimberly West

LMHC, 15 years of experience

Warm
Empowering
Authentic

Specialties

Parenting
Trauma and PTSD
Women's Issues
+1
Welcome – You have started the process of finding the right therapist for you, and that’s huge! Reaching out is a big step and can sometimes feel scary. I promise that I will keep your information confidential, keep the room non-judgmental and assure you that I will create a safe place to explore your ideas, feelings, beliefs and experiences. Give yourself the gift of healing and health by reaching out today.
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Rated 4.8 stars out of 5, 13 ratings

David Nabea

LCSW, 11 years of experience

Solution oriented
Humorous
Intelligent

Specialties

Anxiety
Couples Counseling
Depression
+8
Hi! I am a psychotherapist (LCSW) with 11 years of practice in the clinical field and over 30 years of experience in the Christian approach. I graduated from the University of Hawaii but serve both Hawaii and Tennessee. I do my best work with clients who are seeking an amalgamation of the clinical and Christian approaches specifically in couples work and infidelity recovery. I have also seen some remarkeable transformations using experiential therapies for more trauma-related presentations.
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Learn more about our therapists in Hawaii

Average cost per session:

$39

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Average years in practice:

15

Top conditions treated:

  • 63% Anxiety
  • 55% Depression
  • 37% Trauma and PTSD
  • 36% Coping Skills

Top 3 insurances accepted:

  • Cigna
  • Oscar
  • All Savers

Providers see clients:

  • 84% online only
  • 16% in-person and online

Providers are:

  • 65% Female
  • 23% Male
  • 6% Other

Frequently asked questions

Why filter by Hawaii rather than a city like Honolulu?

When looking for online therapy, you can see anyone that is credentialed in the state. We want you to find the best fit, therefore, Grow Therapy shows available therapists across Hawaii from Pearl City to Hilo! If you’d rather see someone in-person, you can change the filter from virtual and find a therapist near you in Hawaii.

Will my therapist take insurance?

When booking you’ll be asked to verify with your Member ID. However, if you don’t have any of the insurances available you can select cash. Our therapists will have their cost of appointment on their profile. Individual session costs will vary.

How does the Specialty Filter work? Can I find a therapist that focuses on a specific issue?

The specialty filter is optional. You don’t need to check any boxes to see a provider. However, fit is very important when selecting an online therapist. If you have knowledge or experience to recognize what specialties you may need.

What are the "Clients say I'm" badges?

Grow Therapy asks patients about their experience with therapists after they have had a certain number of sessions. After enough responses, we add those characteristics to their profiles to help you find the best online therapists for you. We're still working on collecting this information from all our therapists.

Why use Gender, Age, and Identities filters?

Finding a provider with a similar life experience can be beneficial because it can be easier to establish rapport and potentially be understood quicker and clearer.

What to expect during your first session?

Your first therapy session is for you and your therapist to meet each other and to ask any questions that you have about the counseling process. This is where you can expect your therapist to do the same as they will ask questions to gain insight into your specific situation. In this first session the therapist is doing their part to gather as much information so they can better assess if they are able to meet your therapeutic needs.

Depending upon your provider's specialty, you may also discuss the methods the therapist will use. For additional information on therapy methods, please visit the Grow Therapy Help Center. Some people feel nervous before their first appointment, and that is totally normal! Coming prepared with a list of questions for your therapist may help. Remember, you're taking a brave step by seeking therapy, and it is okay to be nervous as you try something new.