Male Therapists in Hawaii

Male therapists bring their perspectives and insights into therapy, creating a supportive space for clients to explore a variety of challenges and goals. With 10 male therapists in Hawaii, you’ll find professional care for concerns like stress, relationships, trauma, or personal growth. Whether you’re seeking a different perspective or a corrective experience, each Grow Therapy-verified male therapist listed below is currently welcoming new clients, with availability in the coming weeks to provide thoughtful, nonjudgmental support tailored to your needs.

Availability updated: 9/22/2025

Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 3 ratings

Raymond Black

LMHC, 25 years of experience

Empowering
Warm
Direct

Specialties

Anxiety
Couples Counseling
Grief
+10
Counseling is my gift that makes room for me. It is more than a job to me. It is a part of who I am. I am a Christian and this you will see even in the counsel that is given. I will not judge anyone but I will challenge anyone to meet the goals they set in counseling. I am a Father figure and very passionate about what I do.
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Rated 4.8 stars out of 5, 26 ratings

Sean T. Lanegan

LCSW, 9 years of experience

Intelligent
Authentic
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+10
Why should you choose ME, over anyone else? That is the burning question. As I sit here and try to think of all the ways to possibly distinguish myself in comparison to my peers and colleagues, one specific thing comes to mind: the exact moment that I knew I wanted to be a therapist. My life’s trials and tribulations have put me in a strangely unique position in regard to understanding and empathizing with much of what is thrown at many of us, and it is because of that, that I found strength in my weaknesses and lowest moments. Readjusting to life after deployments, after the military, after divorce and growing pains and heartache, was a monumentally transitional period of my life, and my therapist bared the brunt of my pain with compassion and grace. In my very last session, I looked him in the eyes and said: “I want to do what you’re doing. I want to help people the way that you’ve helped me. I’ve been on this side of the table – now I want to be on that side.” So, what’re my credentials, expertise, focus and treatment approaches? Credentials: MSW, LICSW (WA), LCSW (HI, TN, TX) Expertise: My background and personal experience of the military and with Post-Traumatic Stress (PTS) ensure that I have a good handling on trauma and know all too well the burdens of Veterans that come with serving your country during war, as well as in the aftermath. Beyond that, I specialize and have experience with anger management, mood disorders, thought disorders, personality disorders, anxiety, social anxiety, depression, grief, eating disorders, self-esteem issues. Approaches: I clinically find myself utilizing a psychodynamic approach to therapy with my clients. I believe we are who we are today based on the many influences we had in our lives, especially in those formidable early childhood years. Oftentimes, we can find the source of your current concerns today by processing how you originally developed your core values and beliefs. These roots run deeper than we typically ever realize without therapy. If you choose to work with me, we will naturally dive deeper into what this may mean for you. The path of healing is not an easy road, nor a short one. Doing the work takes gusto, but I believe that you have it inside of you, and I believe that I am the one for the job to aid in your process and growth. I hope to hear from you soon!!! Respectfully, Sean
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Rated 4.8 stars out of 5, 71 ratings

Brian Burgess

LP, 16 years of experience

Authentic
Solution oriented
Direct

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Mood Disorders
+1
I am a client centered therapist/psychologist with 13+ years of experience working with couples and individuals age 18 and older. My schedule is generally Monday through Thursday from 9-5 PT and Friday from 9-3 PT. You can expect me to be empathic and understanding of your concerns, without judgment. I won't be telling you how to live your life or giving you advice you haven't asked for. If you want advice, please don't hesitate to ask. I will do my best. I work with you to help you gain insight into what is bothering you. Together we can help find new ways of understanding yourself (self-empathy) and discover/change how you are looking at the world around you. We can work to relieve symptoms of depression and anxiety. My goal is to eventually have you be able to better handle feelings and emotions and live a happier more fulfilled life without me being there to help. What are your goals? What would you like to work on with me?
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Rated 4.9 stars out of 5, 42 ratings

Michael Ham

LCSW, 35 years of experience

Frequently rebooked

Direct
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
LGBTQ
Welcome! Starting therapy takes a lot of courage. Having the best fit with your therapist is so important. Maybe if I tell you a bit about myself, this would help you in the process. I have been in the field for many years working with adolescents to seniors in a variety of settings. I’ve worked in private psychiatric hospitals, outpatient clinics, schools, prisons and private practice. Most of my clients experience depression, anxiety, self-esteem issues or relationship struggles. I take a very active approach in therapy as opposed to just listening. I try to modify my approach most suited for the client to facilitate change.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 12 ratings

Charles I. Silverstein, Ph.D.

LP, 45 years of experience

Authentic
Intelligent
Warm

Specialties

Anger Management
Career Counseling
Child or Adolescent
+7
I have been a licensed psychologist since 1978 and worked in Oregon, North Dakota, California, and Hawaii. I have worked in mental health centers, state Hospitals, county welfare, child protective service agencies, the prison system, and hospital emergency room, as well as having a private practice since 1981. I am experienced with the mental health and social issues associated with individuals involved in the criminal justice system, and the families of such persons. I have testified as an expert witness on many occasions in child custody, child welfare, and mentally disordered offender court proceedings. I also retired from Santa Rosa Junior College after teaching for many years. I have been married for 35 years, we have a son and a beautiful 2-year-old granddaughter. I live in Northern California and Hawaii, where I hope to eventually retire.
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Rated 4.8 stars out of 5, 12 ratings

David Nabea

LCSW, 11 years of experience

Solution oriented
Humorous
Intelligent

Specialties

Anxiety
Couples Counseling
Depression
+8
Hi! I am a psychotherapist (LCSW) with 11 years of practice in the clinical field and over 30 years of experience in the Christian approach. I graduated from the University of Hawaii but serve both Hawaii and Tennessee. I do my best work with clients who are seeking an amalgamation of the clinical and Christian approaches specifically in couples work and infidelity recovery. I have also seen some remarkeable transformations using experiential therapies for more trauma-related presentations.
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Rated 4.9 stars out of 5, 99 ratings

Keith Scherdt

LMHC, 9 years of experience

Open-minded
Warm
Authentic

Specialties

ADHD
Child or Adolescent
LGBTQ
+4
Teenage years are stressful on the teen and the family. Is your teen having a hard time making healthy choices? Are they angry for no apparent reason? Is your teen a bully or are they being bullied? Parenting a teenager is difficult. I also specialize in counseling teens that identify as LGBTQ+. It can get better, with the right help. I’ve been working with teens for many years and I know how tough it can be on the teen and the parent. Imagine your teen being able to communicate their thoughts/feelings without anger or resentment. I can help you build trust with your teen and communicate without arguing in family counseling.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 24 ratings

Mat Kaneshiro

LMFT, 20 years of experience

Frequently rebooked

Warm
Empowering
Authentic

Specialties

Anxiety
Trauma and PTSD
Hi, my name is Mat Kaneshiro. I am a dual-licensed marriage and family therapist working in Florida and Hawaii. If you are looking for help with anxiety, depression, trauma, stress management or relationships then consider scheduling with me. I have extensive experience working in mental health. I’ve worked in the community, home visits, homeless or crisis shelters, substance abuse treatment centers, psychiatric hospitals, incarceration and any other setting. I have also worked with behavioral health organizations, leading teams and managing programs. My clients grow or heal by addressing emotions, reducing anxious thoughts and feelings in their bodies. Working through relationship issues through communication, conflict resolution and other factors that shape our experience. In trauma work, I find EMDR ( eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) to be the most powerful therapy to heal core issues.
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Rated 4.9 stars out of 5, 52 ratings

Gino Memoli

LMFT, 2 years of experience

Authentic
Open-minded
Intelligent

Specialties

LGBTQ
Mood Disorders
Hello, I'm Gino Memoli, a licensed therapist dedicated to supporting individuals, couples, and families through personalized therapy sessions. I specialize in addressing personality disorders, mood disorders, and trauma using client-centered modality to help clients explore and heal various aspects of themselves. Additionally, I apply the Gottman Method to enhance relationship dynamics for couples and families, focusing on building stronger, more understanding connections. My approach is direct, honest, and compassionate, aimed at fostering deep personal growth and resilience in a supportive environment.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 10 ratings

Jamal Fletcher

LCSW, 10 years of experience

Authentic
Intelligent
Open-minded

Specialties

Anxiety
Military/Veterans
Trauma and PTSD
+4
Congrats on taking the first step in initiating therapy. It may not always be easy, but taking time for your well-being is always worth it. I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with 12 years of experience in mental health. I've had the privilege of working with trauma survivors from a broad range of sociocultural backgrounds, including combat Veterans, survivors of sexual trauma, older adults, and couples.
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Frequently asked questions

Why filter by Hawaii rather than a city like Honolulu?

When looking for online therapy, you can see anyone that is credentialed in the state. We want you to find the best fit, therefore, Grow Therapy shows available therapists across Hawaii from Pearl City to Hilo! If you’d rather see someone in-person, you can change the filter from virtual and find a therapist near you in Hawaii.

Will my therapist take insurance?

When booking you’ll be asked to verify with your Member ID. However, if you don’t have any of the insurances available you can select cash. Our therapists will have their cost of appointment on their profile. Individual session costs will vary.

How does the Specialty Filter work? Can I find a therapist that focuses on a specific issue?

The specialty filter is optional. You don’t need to check any boxes to see a provider. However, fit is very important when selecting an online therapist. If you have knowledge or experience to recognize what specialties you may need.

What are the "Clients say I'm" badges?

Grow Therapy asks patients about their experience with therapists after they have had a certain number of sessions. After enough responses, we add those characteristics to their profiles to help you find the best online therapists for you. We're still working on collecting this information from all our therapists.

Why use Gender, Age, and Identities filters?

Finding a provider with a similar life experience can be beneficial because it can be easier to establish rapport and potentially be understood quicker and clearer.

What to expect during your first session?

Your first therapy session is for you and your therapist to meet each other and to ask any questions that you have about the counseling process. This is where you can expect your therapist to do the same as they will ask questions to gain insight into your specific situation. In this first session the therapist is doing their part to gather as much information so they can better assess if they are able to meet your therapeutic needs.

Depending upon your provider's specialty, you may also discuss the methods the therapist will use. For additional information on therapy methods, please visit the Grow Therapy Help Center. Some people feel nervous before their first appointment, and that is totally normal! Coming prepared with a list of questions for your therapist may help. Remember, you're taking a brave step by seeking therapy, and it is okay to be nervous as you try something new.