Family Therapy Therapists in California

Finding a therapist who specializes in family therapy can be essential for navigating complex family dynamics and fostering healthier relationships. With 83 verified family therapists in California, you can filter by therapeutic approaches such as cognitive behavioral therapy, solution-focused therapy, and other family-centered techniques to address concerns like communication challenges, parenting conflicts, and relational stress. Each Grow Therapy-verified therapist is currently accepting new clients and has availability in the coming weeks, ensuring you have access to the support needed to strengthen family bonds and improve overall harmony at home.

Dr. Dianna Gonzalez

(she/her)

Dr. Dianna Gonzalez, LMFT - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$175/session
LMFT
15 years of experience
Virtual
In-person
3180 University...
Hi! I'm Dr. Gonzalez and I hold a doctorate of Psychology (PsyD) in Marriage and Family Therapy and licensed as a Marriage Family Therapist (#103979) in the state of California. I've been license for 7+ years. I offer therapy with individuals, families, couples, and groups using an eclectic approach. I enjoy working with individuals who are struggling with different adjustment in their life or adjustments after a trauma was experienced.

Jackie Balarezo

(she/her)

Jackie Balarezo , LCSW - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LCSW
15 years of experience
Virtual
Hello! I am Jackeline Balarezo- Ruvalcaba. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I am passionate about helping individuals from all walks of life. I have 14 years of experience working within the school district, foster system and young and older adults in mental health. I am very passionate in guiding individual to reach their full potentials and empowering them to meeting their goals.

Alik Segal

(he/him)

Alik Segal, LMFT - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LMFT
15 years of experience
Virtual
As a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with a Master's degree in Clinical Psychology from Antioch University, Los Angeles, I have 15 years of experience helping clients navigate complex emotions and enhance their relationships. I typically work with professionals seeking support in areas such as romantic partnerships, parenting, relationships with parents, or workplace dynamics. To reach these relationship goals, in addition to improving communication and conflict resolution, usually it is necessary to help clients with managing anger, reducing anxiety, and overcoming periods of low mood.

Gwendolyn Tyson

Gwendolyn Tyson, LMFT - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$160/session
LMFT
30 years of experience
Virtual
Hello, I am Gwendolyn Tyson, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in Southern California. During my 29 years of experience, I have worked with a diverse range of people aged 3 to 95, providing individual, child, and family counseling. My therapeutic approach consists of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), trauma-focused, strength-based, grief and loss, and Christian-based counseling. I also enjoy working with families with issues related to trauma, terminal illnesses, blended families, and phase of life issues. I believe that the therapeutic relationship is paramount for growth, meaning the relationship between therapist and client is of the utmost importance for success. I have been told that I have a gentle, soft demeanor that makes clients feel relaxed and easily engaged during sessions. By using self-reflection, one becomes more aware of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. My desire is to help you achieve your goals by exploring interventions you can use for a lifetime. Let's start this journey together. My approach I generally use Solution Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral, trauma-focused, grief and loss, and Strength-Based therapy. My focus I provide treatment to patients from 3 to 95 years of age. Providing support around anxiety, depression, grief and loss, blended families, phase of life issues, and dealing with terminal illnesses. With my early education background, I provide family and parenting support.

Robert Ramos

Robert Ramos, LMFT - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LMFT
7 years of experience
Virtual
I am licensed in California with 7 years of professional work experience. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. I will tailor our dialog and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs. Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage. I am here to support you and walk alongside with you in that process.

Shaon Martineau

(he/him)

Shaon Martineau , LMFT - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$155/session
LMFT
8 years of experience
Virtual
Therapy is a journey, and as your therapist, I step into the role of being your journeyman walking alongside you as we navigate the path together. We’ll take time to explore your life experiences and the challenges that brought you here, working in a way that honors your unique perspective and language. I aim to create a safe, collaborative space free from judgment or bias, where you can feel supported and truly understood. As your journeyman, I’m here to help you develop the skills and utilize the tools you need to manage life’s stressors in healthier, more fulfilling ways. Together, we’ll move toward clarity, growth, and balance.

Frederick Young

(he/him)

Frederick Young, LCSW - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$125/session
LCSW
25 years of experience
Virtual
Frederick Young, LCSW, is a skilled mental health professional known for his eclectic and client-centered approach to therapy. With extensive experience in the field, he employs a variety of therapeutic techniques tailored to meet the unique needs of his clients. Young’s practice is marked by a deep understanding of the complexities of trauma, anger management, and adolescent issues. In working with trauma and PTSD, Young utilizes evidence-based methods such as Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Client Centered Therapy. He focuses on creating a safe and supportive environment for clients to process their experiences, challenging distorted beliefs, and developing effective coping strategies. His approach is designed to help clients achieve stability and integrate their traumatic experiences into their broader life narrative.

Colette Craig

(she/her)

Colette Craig, LMFT - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$185/session
LMFT
7 years of experience
Virtual
Hello! I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in California and have been practicing for 7 years. I graduated from Hope International University in 2018 with my Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy. I believe our therapeutic journey is a path to be walked on with a healing partner. I work with organic and eclectic therapeutic methods specifically tailored to meet your goals. I consider it a privilege to be given entrance into the lives and hearts of my clients.

Candace Walls

(she/her)

Candace Walls, LMFT - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$140/session
LMFT
8 years of experience
Virtual
As a Marriage and Family Therapist with over eight years of dedicated service in mental health and behavioral services, I offer personalized care by integrating various therapeutic treatments. My approach is grounded in evidence-based practices, tailored to the unique needs of children, adolescents, and young adults, ages 5-24, as well as families. With over 10 years of experience in the human and social services field, and six years specifically in direct care for behavioral health services, I provide compassionate support and guidance to clients seeking to navigate challenges and cultivate healthier relationships. Based in California, I am registered to offer my expertise and assistance to those in need.

Dr. Alandrea Martin

Dr. Alandrea Martin, LMFT - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$200/session
LMFT
15 years of experience
Virtual
Hello. My name is Dr. Alandrea Martin. I am a Licensed Marriage Family Therapist. I received my Masters from Argosy University in Alameda, California. I have been practicing 15 years. I am passionate about helping clients achieve success while going through struggles and life challenges. I have also worked with couples and families to help increase communication and to resolve conflicts.

Rande Dorn

(she/her)

Rande Dorn, LMFT - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$200/session
LMFT
8 years of experience
Virtual
In-person
12722 Riverside...
You are grieving, heartbroken, or lost. You didn’t get the job, you broke up with your partner, someone important has died. Grief is normal and exquisite and painful. You want to talk about it, but you don’t want to burden anyone. Here you have permission to be a burden. To be messy, seen, repetitive, and stuck. I’ll meet you there, but won’t leave you there. We work towards managing the unimaginable. Reckoning with the stories we tell and the paths lost, in order to reconcile with where we truly are. There you will find possibility. New stories, new love, new hope. There you will find the courage to start again.

Mahsa Chadorchi

(she/her)

Mahsa Chadorchi, LMFT - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$200/session
LMFT
20 years of experience
Virtual
As a licensed marriage and family therapist, I have dedicated my career to helping individuals and families navigate the complexities of mental health and relationships. For the past decade, I have worked in a jail setting, where I have gained invaluable experience in crisis management. My work in this challenging environment has honed my skills in de-escalation and conflict resolution, and has taught me the importance of compassion and empathy in even the most difficult of situations. In addition to my work in the jail system, I have also maintained a thriving private practice, where I take an eclectic approach to therapy.

Lesly Abanto

Lesly Abanto , LCSW - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$125/session
LCSW
6 years of experience
Virtual
I am a licensed clinical social worker in the states of CA and MO. I'm originally from Peru, I moved to the California as a teenager and english is my second language. I have experienced treating children, youth and families dealing with different challenges and in different settings. I utilize an integrative approach to help my clients get through life challenges. In my experience working with children, youth, and families, I've had the opportunity to work with individuals and families from different backgrounds to help them make positive changes in life.

Sheryl Soo

(she/her)

Sheryl Soo, LMFT - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$200/session
LMFT
10 years of experience
Virtual
Have you been struggling with a mental block that has been keeping you from reaching your goals or living according to your values? Are you tired of just surviving instead of living? You've come to the right place, and I want to reassure you that it is possible for change and things to get better. My name is Sheryl, and I have a passion for helping others live a less restrictive lifestyle, identify goals, and gain a greater sense of fulfillment. I can help you process things of the past, tune in more to the present, and address your worries about the future. I can help you set healthy boundaries so you can live a balanced life and reach your goals. If you don’t have goals, no problem, we can find something together that would be meaningful for you. I have helped people overcome depression and anxiety in order to live more fulfilling lives, build healthy relationships, and repair strained relationships. More importantly, I have supported young people in identifying their sense of self or who they want to be. I also have experience working with families who struggle with cultural and generational gaps. I like to promote fitness/exercise and mindfulness in my work. I truly believe in the mind and body connection, and like to incorporate a lot of mindfulness and body exercises into my practice. If any of these sound interesting then let’s work together!

Judy Jordan

Judy Jordan, LMFT - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$75/session
LMFT
20 years of experience
Virtual
My name is Judy Jordan and I a a licensed Marriage family Therapist with over twenty years of professional experience in counseling with children, adolescents, adults, couples, and families. I am adept at accepting children, adolescents, adults, couples, and families and allowing them to be who they are. Dedicated to creating a safe environment for children, teens, adults, couples, and families to maximize their full potential. A proven work record with diverse client population and effectively managing a wide range of personalities. Able to quickly establish rapport.

Dr. Paul Fernandez

(he/him)

Dr. Paul Fernandez, LP - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$85/session
LP
30 years of experience
Virtual
I am Dr. Paul Fernandez. I have been a licensed therapist and psychologist for more than 30+ years. I have spent my career concentrating on providing mental health services to the Latino/Hispanic community in Southern California, with a special emphasis in substance abuse, addiction recovery, anxiety/stress, depression, and anger management. I bring a unique, spiritual, Latino/Hispanic perspective to mental health counseling that focuses on the needs of our community. Soy el Dr. Pablo Fernández. He sido terapeuta y psicólogo autorizado durante más de 30 años. He pasado mi carrera concentrándome en brindar servicios de salud mental a la comunidad latina/hispana en el sur de California, con especial énfasis en abuso de sustancias, recuperación de adicciones, ansiedad/estrés, depresión y manejo de la ira. Aporto una perspectiva única, espiritual, latina/hispana al asesoramiento de salud mental que se centra en las necesidades de nuestra comunidad.

Ana Zuniga

(she/her)

Ana Zuniga, LMFT - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$200/session
LMFT
17 years of experience
Virtual
Hello! I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in California, with over 17 years of experience guiding individuals, couples, and families toward healing, growth, and transformation. Holding a Bachelor's degree in Human Development, a Master's degree in Clinical Psychology from National University, and a Doctorate in Applied Psychology, has given me the knowledge, expertise, and compassion to support you on your journey. My therapeutic approach is depth-oriented, yet adaptable and inclusive, drawing from extensive study in psychology, human development, relational, and spiritual orientations. This foundation enables me to seamlessly integrate various modalities and theories to address complex issues, such as childhood trauma, complex trauma, and early emotional pain. Through my experience, I've come to understand the importance of developing personalized treatment plans tailored to each individual's unique needs, experiences, and goals.

Dr. Esme Ordonez

(she/her)

Dr. Esme Ordonez, LMFT - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$250/session
LMFT
15 years of experience
Virtual
As a Doctor of Psychology (PsyD) and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), I bring years of specialized expertise to guiding individuals, couples, and families through life’s challenges. My practice focuses on trauma recovery, anxiety, panic disorders, obsessive-compulsive disorder, depression, eating disorders, and relationship betrayal. Creating a compassionate and safe space is at the heart of my work. I am committed to helping clients heal, rebuild trust, and regain their sense of self after emotional pain or loss. Using evidence-based techniques such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), I empower clients to go beyond symptom management and foster meaningful, lasting change. My personal journey and the transformative power of therapy inspire my passion for helping others. I work with clients to address not only emotional challenges but also broader life concerns like career development, family dynamics, parenting, attachment healing, and boundary-setting. Whether navigating postpartum depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, body image concerns, or relationship trauma, I meet each client with empathy, dedication, and a commitment to their growth. Integrating a humanistic and existential lens, I tailor therapy to celebrate each client's unique path. This holistic approach fosters self-discovery, builds self-compassion, and helps clients break free from perfectionism, shame, and self-doubt. Together, we cultivate resilience and authenticity, unlocking new potential and fostering deep connections both within and beyond therapy. Your journey is one of empowerment and transformation. My mission is to guide you toward healing and inspire confident

Ariana Allgeier

(she/her)

Ariana Allgeier, LCSW - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LCSW
8 years of experience
Virtual
Hi! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker based in California. I received my Master’s from California State University in 2014 and have been providing therapy to clients of all ages, to help improve their well-being in all areas of their life. I use a holistic and collaborative approach, exploring how family, environment, and physical well-being all impact your mental health.

Jamie Murray

Jamie Murray, LMFT - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$185/session
LMFT
19 years of experience
Virtual
Hello. Great to meet you! I am a psychotherapist who works with teens, families and adults. Providing psychotherapy treatment that offers you support; helping you improve your relationships, reduce stress, depression, anxiety and acute/chronic mental health distress. I have worked with a wide variety of individuals, families and couples to find their path to wellness and reducing acute distress.

Matthew Tentler

(he/him)

Matthew Tentler, LMFT - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$200/session
LMFT
10 years of experience
Virtual
Matthew Tentler is a marriage and family therapist in Southern California. He specializes in treating in depression, post traumatic stress disorder, addiction and cultural, spiritual, and identity issues. After working as a teacher, a professional behavioral analyst, and later as a first responder on a mental health crisis team, Mr. Tentler worked as a lead clinician for a non-profit providing aid for survivors of human trafficking, where he developed a trauma informed martial arts, self defense and somatic therapy program.

Tina Nguyen Wolff

(she/her)

Tina Nguyen Wolff, LCSW - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LCSW
5 years of experience
Virtual
I am a mental health therapist who is based in Orange County, CA. I received my B.A in psychology and social behavior at the University of California, Irvine. My area of study there centered on psychological and neurological functions of a person and how this contributes to each person's unique life experiences. I went on to receive my M.A for social welfare from the University of California, Los Angeles. My area of concentration there were health and mental health across the lifespan. My previous research centered around looking at rates of burnout and compassion fatigue in different work settings. I have also been involved in research centering around how adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) can affect an individual's stress response and how individuals with higher ACEs are more likely to have more negative physical health outcomes later in life. My specialty areas involve working with clients who have gone through different traumas and helping clients adapt, cope and grow. I believe that every client is uniquely different so I tailor my therapeutic modalities to the client's presenting needs. I enjoy my role in helping individuals achieve the best version of themselves. In my free time, I love keeping my mind and body active with physical fitness, reading, being out in nature, traveling and spending time with my dog.

Dr. Tracy Mallett

(she/her)

Dr. Tracy Mallett, LP - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$200/session
LP
25 years of experience
Virtual
Kudos on taking this first step toward change! I am a licensed psychologist, licensed marriage and family therapist, and an international parenting, divorce, and coparenting coach. You can read my full bio here: family-options.com/dr-tracy-mallett-bio. I have been working with single adults, couples, children and families for over 20 years. My clients learn to overcome issues such as anxiety, depression, stress, and trauma; poor self-worth; relationship struggles; and many other challenges in their lives. I have expertise working with couples and families in conflict, or who are struggling with communication. I am Level II trained in the Gottman Method, and utilize this extensively with couples. My clients report successes such as trauma recovery; anxiety and depression reduction; managing existential and identity issues; gaining peace of mind; reducing stress; and controlling anger. I have counseled in mental health, addiction treatment, and criminal justice settings. I have a private practice in south Florida (family-options.com), where I supervise master's level mental health counseling and psychology trainees. In addition to Florida, I am licensed as a psychologist in Arizona and Iowa, and am a PSYPACT credentialed clinician, having obtained an Authority to Practice Interjurisdictional Telepsychology (APIT) from the PSYPACT Commission, which also allows me to serve clients via telehealth in AL, AR, CT, CO, DE, DC, GA, ID, IL, IN, KS, KY, ME, MD, MI, MN, MO, NE, NV, NH, NJ, NC, ND, OH, OK, PA, RI, SC, TN, TX, UT, VA, WA, WV, WI, WY. I also teach graduate-level courses in ethics, disaster and trauma response, abnormal behavior, community counseling, and criminal behavior, and I mentor graduate dissertation students in forensic psychology.

Jessica Jarrett

(she/her)

Jessica Jarrett, LCSW - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$188/session
LCSW
8 years of experience
Virtual
I am a dedicated therapist and strong advocate for growth, healing, and wellness. I support my patients journey to wellness by looking deeply into the whole person and the impacts of social demands/expectations, stress, lived experience, circumstance, relationship, shame, and trauma on those I work with. I have immense passion for supporting people with self discovery, centering the selves and healing.

Marc Kitano

(he/him)

Marc Kitano, LMFT - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LMFT
10 years of experience
Virtual
I am Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the states of Texas, California and Florida. I hold a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy. My baccalaureate studies included Human Development and Christian Ministry. I am an honorably discharged veteran of the U.S. Air Force. I specialize in counseling adolescents and adults with mood disorders, anxiety, depression and traumatic experiences.

Dr. Yalda Nourshahi

Dr. Yalda Nourshahi, LP - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$250/session
LP
8 years of experience
Virtual
I am a licensed clinical psychologist in California, committed to helping adults and couples navigate life’s challenges with empathy and expertise. My work focuses on addressing mood disorders, anxiety, personality-related concerns, grief, life transitions, and relationship complications. I also provide support for overcoming trauma, building self-confidence, and enhancing self-esteem.I am fluent in both English and Farsi (Persian) and have extensive experience working with clients from diverse backgrounds.

Taina Connelly

Taina Connelly, LMFT - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LMFT
24 years of experience
Virtual
Hi! I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist providing services in Florida and California. I graduated from Pace University and have been practicing as a clinician for 23 years. I am a strengths-based clinician with extensive training and experience in cognitive behavioral therapy. The decision to seek therapy can be hard and intimidating. My goal is to provide a space for exploration, reflection and change.

Eric Lunn

Eric Lunn, LCSW - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$125/session
LCSW
14 years of experience
Virtual
I am an Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in California. I received my Masters from University of Southern California (USC) and have been practicing for 14 years. My primary work has been with children, adolescents, young adults. The presenting issues I've worked on with Clients vary greatly but I have the most experience with mood disorders, life transitions, trauma, ADHD.

Arnold Presley

Arnold Presley, LP - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$200/session
LP
19 years of experience
Virtual
I am a Clinical Psychologist with over 19 years of experience in the area of Physical, Emotional and Sexual Trauma. I have provided services to military, law enforcement and crime victims as well as those who have less violent experiences that cause problems with their family members and spouses. I feel that it is essential for people to have a safe, respectful and healthy relationship with their loved ones in order to fully appreciate and enjoy life to the fullest.

Johanna Fernandez

(she/her)

Johanna Fernandez, LMFT - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$125/session
LMFT
10 years of experience
Virtual
In-person
650 Hobson Way,...
Hi! I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in California. I received my Masters from Antioch University and have been practicing for over 9 years. I enjoy helping people become the best versions of themselves. I believe in allowing my clients to guide me while teaching them how to ride the waves of life's difficulties. I believe everyone has the answers they are looking for within themselves; I am only a sounding board designed to guide.

Jet Hermes

(he/him)

Jet Hermes, LP - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$250/session
LP
1 year of experience
Virtual
I am a licensed psychologist with a deep passion for integrating evidence-based therapy, transpersonal psychology, and theatrical techniques to support clients in achieving meaningful growth and transformation. I specialize in working with individuals struggling with depression, anxiety, family conflicts, psychosis/schizophrenia, and geriatric concerns. My approach is holistic and client-centered, helping people gain self-awareness, develop resilience, and find fulfillment in their lives.

Robin Alfaro

(she/they)

Robin Alfaro, LCSW - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LCSW
10 years of experience
Virtual
Dígame, if you just want to talk about life, stress, or just have life goals you want to reach and need motivation to take the leap. Dígame if you’re looking to focus on your mental health, heal from traumas, and/or break intergenerational cycles. Dígame about your nervios/anxiety, el espanto/trauma, or cuando te pusistes mal/depression. Let’s translate wellness and mental health into our inherent rights as defined by you. I use a Person Centered, Culturally Driven approach; Decolonizing our minds, hearts, and behaviors to break cycles and barriers.

Kristin L Perkins

(she/her)

Kristin L Perkins, LCSW - California Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LCSW
17 years of experience
Virtual
In-person
1100 Main St, F...
I work with individuals, couples, parents, and families. I specialize in sex therapy, couples counseling, parenting education, and family conflict. I have a trauma based somatic practice. I believe that trauma can be better released from the body through hands-on modalities. Towards that end, In May, 2025, I will begin the foundation training in Neuro Affective Touch. I will begin offering this somatic based approach in person only in November 2025. Please let me know if you would like to get on my waiting list.

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