Rhonda Smillie

(she/her)

LPCC, 25 years of experience
Authentic
Empowering
Warm
VirtualAvailable

Hello, I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) based in California, with over 20 years of experience in this field. I have extensive expertise in assisting individuals with mood and thought disorders, addiction, and relationship issues. During our initial session, we will work together to determine the most appropriate therapeutic approaches for your unique needs. I look forward to working with you on this journey of self-discovery.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

In our initial meeting, we will explore the purpose behind your decision to seek therapy, endeavor to build a connection that promotes safety and reliance, examine the negative stories that have held you back, and rewrite them. We will discover your strengths together. Additionally, we will discuss the objectives you want to achieve, with the liberty to communicate your thoughts without fear of criticism.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

As someone who has worked in this field for a significant amount of time, I understand that every individual is unique. In my sessions, I prioritize empathy and safety. I am genuine in my interactions. My belief is that the most effective way to bring about change is to have someone who is willing to be present with you during your most difficult moments and serve as a source of light, reminding you that you are not alone.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

I enjoy working with individuals within the LGBTQ, kink, and poly communities. I understand the complexities of their relationships and focus on promoting healthy, positive, and affirming relationships for all involved.

Specialties

Top specialties

Anxiety

Other specialties

I identify as

Serves ages

Licensed in

Accepts

Location

Virtual

My treatment methods

Acceptance and commitment (ACT)

I have found that using Acceptance and Commitment Therapy in therapy sessions is a combination of various skills that are effective in treating different thought disorders, such as anxiety and depression. The key aspect of this therapy is to acknowledge that you are not your thoughts, and to learn how to be present in the moment while figuring out what actions you can take to overcome your struggles.

Attachment-based

I find Attachment Theory to be a helpful tool in understanding our interactions with loved ones. During our session, we will delve into significant memories and examine how clients have internalized messages and identified unmet needs in their relationships. I believe this approach is beneficial for all types of relationships.

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

My experience with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy has been life-changing. During our sessions, we will analyze your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors to determine if they are realistic and beneficial to you. We will then validate your emotions and assist you in changing your behaviors.

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1 rating with written reviews

July 31, 2025

Thank you so much. Look forward to next week.

Verified client, age 35-44
Review shared after session 1 with Rhonda