Blue Cross Blue Shield Therapists in Pennsylvania

Finding therapists who take Blue Cross Blue Shield (BCBS), whether through online therapy or in-person near you, can make getting mental health care more accessible and cost-effective. With 539 verified therapists in Pennsylvania who accept BCBS, you can filter by therapeutic approaches such as cognitive behavioral therapy, interpersonal therapy, and acceptance and commitment therapy to address issues like anxiety, depression, ADHD, and other concerns. Each Grow Therapy-verified therapist who takes Blue Cross Blue Shield listed below is currently welcoming new clients and has availability within the next 30 days, providing you with timely, quality support that fits within your BCBS coverage.

Availability updated: 10/5/2026

Often rebooked

Authentic
Warm
Intelligent
Specialties
Family Conflict
LGBTQ
Life Transitions
Hi there! My name is Koti (KOH-tee). I'm a trans male therapist passionate about supporting queer people to improve quality of life and sense of self. Many queer and non-queer individuals do not get the opportunity to grow up as their authentic selves which only further complicates other challenges in life. I am certified to facilitate psychedelic assisted therapy sessions in states where this treatment modality is legal and accessible (through a separate platform) I am committed to creating a safe, inclusive, empowering and nurturing environment where you can begin to discover and love who you are. I believe that everyone has value and is worthy of love, kindness and compassion. I provide evidence-based, culturally responsive psychotherapy services that honor the diversity of identities and experiences of individuals I work with. My goal is to empower you on your journey to embrace, love and value your uniqueness and thrive in aspects of life you would like to improve.
VirtualAvailable
Empowering
Warm
Solution oriented
Specialties
Anxiety
Self Esteem
Trauma and PTSD
+3
I am a therapist with 10 years of experience in the field, with specialties in treatment of trauma, anxiety, and grief. I also practice utilization of evidence-based practices such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Prolonged Exposure, along with experience in use of mindfulness, emotional tolerance and person-centered techniques with my clients. I've worked in community mental health for much of my career, so I have had experience with clients who had struggled with challenges such as housing insecurity, incarceration and addiction and complex grief. I also enjoy working with people who face challenges with self-image and relational trauma through education on boundaries and healthy communication as well as self-advocacy.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Warm
Solution oriented
Specialties
Parenting
Perinatal Mental Health
Postpartum
+13
The transition to parenthood and constant changes once you’re there are some of the most transformative experiences a person can go through during their life. This time is both beautiful and stressful. Whether it’s your first or your fifth+ child, in today’s world, almost all of us- both moms and dads- can benefit from some additional support in the years of pregnancy and raising children. My practice aims to assist you through all of the normal and abnormal challenges of this time that is short-lived but has long-lasting impacts on ourselves and our families. While each individual and family is unique in their needs and ways that they grow, common goals achieved in counseling include feeling more connected to yourself, your baby or child, and your partner; changing unhealthy family patterns you don’t want to repeat from past generations; feeling more confident in yourself as a parent and partner; improving work-life balance; feeling more supported and less alone; developing your unique identity as a parent and embracing this stage of life; and improving persistent feelings of anxiety, depression, shame, anger, and feeling overwhelmed. If you are struggling, want to better support a partner who is struggling, or would just like to utilize this uniquely powerful time in your life to become more of the person you want to be, I would love to meet you.
VirtualAvailable
Solution oriented
Warm
Authentic
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Women's Issues
+6
Hi! I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in Pennsylvania. I received my Masters from Rosemont College and have been working in the mental health field for over 20 years. I utilize an integrative approach, looking at my clients whole life, work, home, physical health, nutrition and mental health. Together with my clients, I help them recognize areas of their lives that are impacting their mood and well-being, to lead productive, happy and calm lives.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Intelligent
Specialties
Domestic Violence
Personality Disorders
Trauma and PTSD
+6
Welcome! I'm Melody Dascanio and I am a Licensed Professional Counselor. I hold a Masters degree in Professional Counseling and I also happen to have a Bachelors of Music degree. I specialize in helping survivors of domestic violence, narcissistic abuse, and adult children of emotionally immature parents. I am certified as a Level 2 Complex Trauma Professional, a Narcissistic Abuse Treatment Clinician, and a Personality Disorder Clinician. I am specially trained in EMDR, Hypnotherapy, Pathological Love Relationships, Personality Disorders and Narcissistic Abuse. Prior to opening my own practice, I founded the therapy department for a non-profit Domestic Violence Organization; creating practices, procedures, program assessment, staff training, and the therapeutic curriculum for survivors of domestic violence. I am a frequent guest speaker at conferences, facilitating workshops on Trauma Informed Care, Domestic Violence, and Trauma Interventions. In our work together, you are the expert of your story, and your strengths will help you overcome the obstacles ahead. My role is in helping you realize your power and supporting you through the healing journey. I'm humbled by each person that allows me to be a part of their journey and look forward to working with you! In my free time, I enjoy taking care of my cats, dogs, parrots, and horses. As an semi-professional musician I continue to enjoy playing piano, clarinet, flute, and violin. I am proud to be a bass clarinetist for the North Pittsburgh Symphonic Band and the Musician's Concert Band. I also enjoy bluegrass music and sang family's bluegrass band "Keep Off the Grass" for many years prior to our banjo player, my talented father, passing away. My friends describe me as unique, humorous and quirky; all qualities that I am proud to incorporate into the way I provide therapy.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Open-minded
Specialties
LGBTQ
Mood Disorders
Trauma and PTSD
+9
My name is Percival Fisher, Jr. However, you can call me "Percy" and I have been providing individual and group psychotherapy for 12 years. I am here to assist you in reaching your goals in therapy. I provide a safe, warm, and interactive space to talk about your presenting issues. I have experience providing therapy to individuals experiencing depression, anxiety, anger, trauma, "coming out"/LGBTQIA-related issues, and family conflicts.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Empowering
Direct
Specialties
LGBTQ
Life Transitions
Women's Issues
+2
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker based and licensed in Pennsylvania. I received my masters in Social Work degree in 2019 from West Chester University of Pennsylvania. I have been practicing for 5 years. I have additional knowledge and training in addressing common sexual and intimacy challenges and birth preparation. I love working with folx who are at a crossroads or are experiencing significant change in their life. My specialty is in helping people through life transitions, sexual exploration, anxiety, stress management, communication, creating balance in their life, and strengthening connection with oneself and others.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Open-minded
Specialties
Coping Skills
Self Esteem
Women's Issues
+7
I believe meaningful change happens through authentic connection and genuine understanding of your unique story. With years of clinical experience, I offer a warm, compassionate space where you can feel truly seen and supported. I work with individuals across the lifespan—young adults, adults, and elders—navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, addiction, sleep issues, work stress, life transitions, and much more. My approach is flexible and tailored to you, drawing from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), mindfulness-based stress reduction, strength-based work, and humanistic practices. Whether you're working through a specific challenge or seeking to move beyond survival into genuine growth and fulfillment, I'm here to help you find your way.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Humorous
Specialties
Military/Veterans
Trauma and PTSD
Women's Issues
+10
Hi there. It's a pleasure to meet you. I am a Board-Certified Music Therapist and Licensed Professional Counselor with over 20 years of experience working in inpatient, residential, partial hospitalization, intensive outpatient, and outpatient settings. I work with children, adolescents, adults, and older adults, tailoring therapy to each person's unique needs and goals. My approach is trauma-informed, emphasizing safety, collaboration, empowerment, and a strong therapeutic relationship. I recognize the impact trauma can have on emotions, relationships, and daily life, and I strive to provide a supportive, nonjudgmental space where clients feel heard and understood. As a creative arts therapist, I may incorporate music and other expressive approaches when beneficial, helping clients build insight, develop coping skills, and explore emotions in ways that feel comfortable and meaningful. My goal is to help clients gain confidence, strengthen resilience, and create lasting positive change. Scheduling & Missed Appointment Policy: I understand that life can be unpredictable, especially for families and young clients. I offer one free missed session. After that, a $50 fee applies for no-shows or cancellations made less than 24 hours in advance. To receive the full benefit of therapy, clients should be logged in and ready to begin at their scheduled appointment time. Late arrivals may result in a shortened session, and clients arriving more than 15 minutes late may need to reschedule and may be subject to the missed appointment fee. Occasional technology issues happen. Clients are encouraged to check their device, camera, microphone, and internet connection before telehealth appointments. Sessions unable to proceed due to unresolved technical difficulties may be considered missed appointments. Session Lengths: Intake sessions are 60 minutes. Follow-up sessions may be 30, 45, or 60 minutes depending on individual needs.
VirtualAvailable
Empowering
Solution oriented
Authentic
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+10
Hi, I’m Julisa. I am a masters level Licensed Professional Counselor, practicing remotely in Rhode Island and Pennsylvania. As a Philadelphia native and person of color, I am driven by my desire to provide healthy representation of breaking generational trauma. I aim to get rid of stigmas related to seeking professional help. I am passionate about using my 11+ years of experience to help clients feel genuinely seen, without judgement. I work with adult individuals and couples on various issues including anxiety, depression, PTSD, bi-polar disorders, relationship concerns, body positivity, LGBTQIA+ concerns, women's issues, and life transitions.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Warm
Open-minded
Authentic
Specialties
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Parenting
+5
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor in PA and have my Board Certification in Dance/Movement Therapy. I have been practicing for 13 years, and look forward to meeting you. My goal is to provide a safe place for us to talk, laugh, cry, make jokes, dance, wiggle, draw, listen, reflect, and work towards whole body healing. When I am not working, I like reading, watching horror movies, playing with my cats, and hanging out with my kids.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Trauma and PTSD
I am dedicated to providing compassionate and personalized therapy to individuals, couples, and families. My focus is to help you navigate life's challenges and achieve emotional well-being. My practice is safe and confidential allowing you to explore your thoughts and feelings and work towards personal growth and healing. We will work together to identify your desired goals and then create a plan to achieve them.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Open-minded
Direct
Specialties
Addiction
Child or Adolescent
Crisis Intervention
+4
After over 30 years of serving co-occurring clients in a residential setting, I am transitioning to the world of virtual therapy. I am a nationally known subject matter expert on adolescent, young adult, family systems and male executive issues. I am also adept at crisis management and helping families in conflict. My ability to marry the languages of psychiatry, psychology, and substance use disorder treatment will allow me the versatility to assist many families in need.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Intelligent
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Hello! I am a Licensed Professional Counselor based in Philadelphia. I have experience working with adults in an inpatient and outpatient setting for individual and groups. I utilize CBT, DBT, mindfulness, solution focused, and narrative therapies. My treatment focus includes depression, anxiety, trauma, and substance abuse use disorders. I especially enjoy working with women who can benefit from additional support to cope with daily health needs, self-worth, relationship issues and building on their community resources.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Empowering
Authentic
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Self Esteem
+10
Hi there, I'm Erin. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with experience working with individuals as well as groups regarding various mental health concerns. I earned my Bachelor's degree from the University of Florida (Go Gators!) and my Master's degree from Lehigh University (Go Mountain Hawks!). I am passionate about helping individuals learn, grow, and thrive by providing a solution-focused approach to therapy. I help individuals to gain insight into their concerns and issues, create plans for positive change, and take action towards healthier lifestyles. In our sessions you will have the space and support to work through the challenges you are facing. I will incorporate techniques from mindfulness, cognitive behavioral therapy, and positive psychology to assist in your treatment. Life is filled with challenges and setbacks that can at times feel completely overwhelming. By attending therapy you are choosing to take back the control to pursue an enhanced and improved quality of life. No matter where you are at or what you are going through, I’ll be here to walk by your side.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
LGBTQ
Life Transitions
+10
Are you having a hard time and in need of someone to listen and help you figure things out? Then now is the time to begin therapy. Hello, I’m Michael Zwizanski, a licensed therapist in Philadelphia, working with individual clients throughout Pennsylvania. I hold a Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy from Thomas Jefferson University and I’ve been honored to support clients through a wide range of personal challenges and life transitions. I offer a safe, affirming space for clients to explore challenges such as anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, family conflict, identity issues, and life transitions. My practice is anti-racist, sex-positive, LGBTQ+ competent, and gender-affirming. I recognize my privilege as a cisgender, white, male professional and strive to position myself as an equal collaborator in the therapeutic process, fostering mutual respect and growth. My approach integrates attachment-based therapy, parts work, somatic awareness, and trauma-informed care to help clients understand the emotional roots of their struggles and develop healthier ways of relating to themselves and others. I have experience supporting transgender clients through all stages of social, medical, and legal transition, and I am also competent in working with ethically non-monogamous individuals. Before becoming a therapist, I worked in the entertainment industry. Now, I provide therapy to artists, musicians, actors, and entrepreneurs. Understanding the unique pressures and creative self-doubt they experience, I help clients navigate the drive for self-expression and the obstacles that can impede personal growth. I specialize in helping clients navigate major life transitions—such as becoming a parent, getting married or divorced, changing careers, or coping with health challenges and grief. No matter the transition, I’m here to support you in finding clarity, healing and a path forward. Whether you're feeling anxious, stuck, or seeking a space to grow, I would be honored to support you on your path.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Solution oriented
Intelligent
Specialties
Fertility & Reproduction Issues
Perinatal Mental Health
Postpartum
+4
Hi, I'm Julia! Seeking therapy can feel overwhelming, and I commend you for taking this important step toward caring for yourself and your well-being. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Perinatal Mental Health Certified therapist (PMH-C through Postpartum Support International) who specializes in supporting women through pregnancy, postpartum, and the many emotional experiences that can surround becoming a parent. My practice focuses on helping individuals navigate fertility challenges, adoption journeys, pregnancy and infant loss, birth trauma, perinatal mood and anxiety disorders, and the often unpredictable transition to parenthood. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, feeling unlike yourself after having a baby, grieving a loss, or adjusting to a life you never expected, you do not have to go through it alone. I provide a warm, compassionate, and collaborative space where you can explore your experiences without judgment while gaining practical tools to help you feel more grounded, confident, and connected to yourself. I believe therapy should be a place where you can show up exactly as you are. My goal is to help you better understand what you're experiencing, strengthen your coping skills, and move through this vulnerable season with greater clarity and self-compassion.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Warm
Empowering
Specialties
Life Transitions
Peer Relationships
Self Esteem
+6
PLEASE BE ADVISED, I CURRENTLY DO NOT HAVE EVENING (AFTER 4PM) AVAILABILTY. Welcome, As your counselor, I want to empower you to discover what motivates you. I’m deeply committed to helping individuals live more fulfilling and satisfying lives. I believe each person has unique strengths, talents, and abilities as well as personal resiliency—my goal is to help you uncover these qualities so you can build a life of purpose and meaning. I specialize in supporting individuals navigating life transitions—whether you're experiencing a career shift, marriage or divorce, relocation, educational changes, parenting challenges, or grief and loss. Together, we’ll work to find clarity, confidence, and joy on your journey through this thing we call life! I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor in Pennsylvania, and a Certified Co-occurring Disorders Specialist. I hold a bachelor’s degree in Psychology from Pennsylvania State University and a master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Shippensburg University. Over the past 17+ years, I’ve worked in a range of therapeutic settings, including family-based therapy, outpatient and intensive outpatient mental health and substance use programs, residential treatment, and private practice trauma therapy. Outside the Office I enjoy being active and being outdoors—walking, hiking, and and spending time with loved ones. I raise and train service dogs, attend dirt track races, meditate, and love cooking and baking. Family and friendship are the heart of my life, and I find joy in making meaningful memories every step of the way.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Chronic Illness / Medical Issues
Mood Disorders
Trauma and PTSD
+5
Hello, Please know that I believe in creating a safe and non-judgmental environment for you where you will find your voice and tell your story, for which you are the expert. Thank you for sharing information about yourself. I'm delighted that you've reached out for help. I am Dr. P. Myria Bailey Whitcomb. I hold an LCSW license in Pennsylvania, a Master of Divinity, and a Doctorate in Pastoral Counseling. I have 11 years of experience in the field, holding a diverse range of positions, including Hospice and grief. I strive to be a well-rounded practitioner who can meet my clients' needs to live a holistic life of wellness and gratitude.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Warm
Open-minded
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
+2
I believe that if every human being had someone to provide them with unconditional positive regard, especially during the formative years of childhood, our world would be a safer place. Unfortunately, many of us don’t even make it through childhood without wounds from emotionally painful experiences. Sometimes the consequences of these experiences are long-lasting and can impact our well-being, relationships, and work. Fortunately, therapy can help. I have worked in community and university settings for the past 9 years, and I have experience treating a variety of mental health struggles such as anxiety, depression, sexual abuse, trauma, marriage/family issues, and communication challenges.
VirtualAvailable
Empowering
Warm
Solution oriented
Specialties
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Mood Disorders
+7
Welcome — I’m glad you’re here. I’m a therapist who helps individuals untangle anxiety, heal from trauma, and build a stronger, more compassionate relationship with themselves. My style is warm, grounding, and collaborative. I believe every person deserves to feel seen, supported, and empowered as they navigate life’s challenges. Many of my clients come to me feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure how to move forward. Together, we work gently but effectively to help them regain clarity, reduce emotional intensity, and create meaningful change. My Approach I draw from evidence-based and holistic modalities including: EMDR for trauma healing and emotional processing Attachment-focused therapy to explore relational patterns DBT skills, including ABC PLEASE, for emotional regulation Mindfulness and somatic awareness to reconnect with the body Supportive counseling to offer grounding, guidance, and validation My goal is to help you understand your story, break unhelpful patterns, and build the confidence and calm you’ve been working toward. What We Can Work On Together Anxiety, overthinking, and burnout Trauma, childhood wounds, and stuck memories Self-esteem, confidence, and identity Relationship patterns & boundaries Emotional regulation and coping skills Healing from family conflict or feeling “not enough” What Sessions Feel Like You can expect a space that is: Compassionate Non-judgmental Structured when you need it Flexible when you need room to breathe Always centered on your pace and needs Our work will focus on understanding where you’ve been, what you’re carrying, and what you want your life to feel like moving forward. A message to potential clients You don’t have to sort everything out on your own anymore. Healing is possible, and you deserve support that truly fits you. If you’re ready to begin—or simply curious about what therapy could look like—I’d be honored to walk alongside you.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Chronic Illness
Depression
+10
I am licensed in Pennsylvania with more than 16 years of professional counseling experience. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. I will tailor our dialog and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs. Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage. I am here to support you in that process.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Intelligent
Specialties
ADHD
Anxiety
Depression
+8
Do you find yourself asking, “Why am I so overwhelmed all the time?” or "Why does it seem like everyone else is handling life better than I am?” If so, please know you’re not alone, and you don’t have to figure it all out by yourself. I’m Beth, a Licensed Professional Counselor in Pennsylvania, and I believe therapy should be a place where you can finally exhale—a space where you can show up exactly as you are, without judgment or needing to have the perfect words. Maybe you’re exhausted from trying to hold everything and everyone together, wondering why what seems so easy for everyone else feels like such a struggle for you, or questioning why you don’t feel like yourself anymore. I’m a warm and empathetic person, and I believe compassion, authenticity, and trust are at the heart of meaningful therapeutic work. Before becoming a therapist, I spent nearly 20 years as an educator in the School District of Philadelphia, an experience that shaped my passion for understanding and supporting people beyond what we see on the surface. As a wife and mother of two young adults, I understand that life can be complicated, messy, and exhausting! I believe therapy can be a place to do meaningful work while still making room for humor and a little lightness when appropriate. And I’m a firm believer that a little chocolate can’t hurt either. 🍫 Most importantly, I believe where you are today does not have to determine where you end up. Meaningful change is possible, and I’d be honored to help you find your way forward.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Warm
Empowering
Specialties
ADHD
Anxiety
Hi! I am Kim Allen. I am excited to meet with you! I have been working with individuals of all ages for over 15 years. I have always been passionate about helping others and would love to support you whether you are simply going through some tough times, needs some motivation in making a change in your life or are struggling with some more difficult challenges. I have worked with a variety of populations including victims of trauma; parents, adolescents and children struggling with mental health or other neurodivergent individuals (ADHD, autism, etc). and individuals working to make lifestyle changes such as diet and nutritional changes. I have also worked with couples on improving their communication and relationship skills. I am particularly passionate about helping others find ways to make changes using natural means including things such as meditation, dietary changes, nutritional supplementation and behavior modification. Whether you are new to therapy or just seeking someone new to work with, I understand that taking the step to meet with someone new can be overwhelming. You have taken the first step toward making change. I hope you will let me help you take the next step!
VirtualAvailable
Empowering
Warm
Authentic
Specialties
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Spirituality
+7
A few moments to introduce myself. Professionally I am known as I. Barry Bell, Ph.D. I am a 73-year-old, male, Caucasian Clinical Psychologist who has been in practice for 39 years. I have worked in a variety of settings, in both in-patient psychiatric hospitals and out-patient clinical settings. I have also maintained my own private practice from September 2016 to the present. Prior to receiving my Doctorate in Clinical Psychology in 1985, I trained extensively as a Modern Dancer for 10 years. During these years I became deeply involved in emerging positive psychologies and Eastern/Buddhist/Taoist studies. This was the beginning of the interface between what is now referred to as Mindfulness based approaches to psychotherapy and Eastern philosophies, especially Buddhist. Mindfulness approaches to psychotherapy are now at the forefront of evidence-based interventions. I have spent more than the past 20 years studying and practicing the interface between psychotherapy and personal psychological growth. Over the years I have integrated various theoretical approaches, including depth psychodynamic theories. I will be happy to discuss my approach with you further should you choose to contact me to consider engaging in psychotherapeutic work with me.
VirtualAvailable
Frequently asked questions

When looking for online therapy, you can see anyone that is credentialed in Pennsylvania. We want you to find the best fit, therefore, Grow Therapy shows available therapists across Pennsylvania from Pittsburgh to Scranton! If you’d rather see someone in-person, you can change the filter from virtual and find a therapist near you in Pennsylvania.

Yes! If you use Blue Cross Blue Shield you’ll be asked to verify your Member ID at the time you book the appointment. However, if you don’t have Blue Cross Blue Shield you can select cash. Our therapists will have their cost of appointment on their profile. Individual session costs will vary.

The specialty filter is optional. You don’t need to check any boxes to see a provider. However, fit is very important when selecting an online therapist. If you have knowledge or experience to recognize what specialties you may need.

Finding a provider with a similar life experience can be beneficial because it can be easier to establish rapport and potentially be understood quicker and clearer.

Your first therapy session is for you and your therapist to meet each other and to ask any questions that you have about the counseling process. This is where you can expect your therapist to do the same as they will ask questions to gain insight into your specific situation. In this first session the therapist is doing their part to gather as much information so they can better assess if they are able to meet your therapeutic needs. Depending upon your provider's specialty, you may also discuss the methods the therapist will use. For additional information on therapy methods, please visit the Grow Therapy Help Center.Some people feel nervous before their first appointment, and that is totally normal! Coming prepared with a list of questions for your therapist may help. Remember, you're taking a brave step by seeking therapy, and it is okay to be nervous as you try something new.