Evernorth Therapists in Pennsylvania

Finding a therapist who accepts Evernorth insurance can make mental health support more affordable and convenient. With 760 verified therapists in Pennsylvania who accept Evernorth insurance, you can filter by therapeutic approaches such as cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness-based therapy, and supportive counseling to address issues like stress, anxiety, or relationship challenges. Each Grow Therapy-verified therapist listed below is currently welcoming new clients and has availability within the next 30 days, ensuring you have timely access to quality care within your Evernorth insurance plan.

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Philadelphia

Availability updated: 1/13/2026

Rated 5.0 stars out of 52 ratings
Rated 5.0 stars out of 52 ratings
Warm
Authentic

Specialties

LGBTQ
Sexual Abuse
Trauma and PTSD
+10
I’m a trauma-informed, gender-affirming therapist with 7 years of experience helping people navigate trauma, sexual abuse, PTSD, and questions around identity. I also have experience working with young kids, which shaped the way I bring empathy and care into every session. I use a mix of CBT, ACT, attachment-based, and mindfulness approaches to help clients build coping skills, self-compassion, and resilience while staying true to who they are.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 51 ratings
Rated 5.0 stars out of 51 ratings
Warm
Open-minded

Specialties

Anxiety
Trauma and PTSD
Women's Issues
+10
As a holistic therapist, I believe real change happens when you feel understood, supported, and given practical tools that fit your life. I’m down-to-earth, collaborative, and genuinely curious about what makes you *you*. My goal is to help you feel more grounded, confident, and connected to the life you want—one step at a time. I am not a "blank slate" therapist and will both feel with you and for you when you are in a tough situation. While I consider myself a safe and nonjudgmental person, I will challenge you once we have built a relationship to ensure you are focused on your growth.
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Anxiety
Depression
Parenting
+10
I am Lali Binder, LPC, a licensed therapist with over 20 years of experience supporting children, adolescents, young adults, and families. I provide trauma-informed, evidence-based therapy to help clients strengthen emotional regulation, process difficult experiences, and build healthy coping skills. Through a supportive and collaborative approach, I help individuals and families improve communication, increase resilience, and create lasting positive change in their daily lives.
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ADHD
Anxiety
Depression
+4
I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor who helps individuals break free from anxiety, trauma, identity confusion, and patterns that keep them stuck. I combine solid clinical psychotherapy with biblical wisdom to support clients who want faith-integrated counseling. For those who prefer standard therapy, I also offer evidence-based treatment without religious content. My approach is relational, direct, and practical—I focus on helping clients understand who they are, renew their minds, and develop tools that create long-term change. Whether you’re seeking Christian counseling or traditional therapy, I’m here to walk with you toward clarity, healing, and restored identity.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 54 ratings
Rated 5.0 stars out of 54 ratings

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Anxiety
Coping Skills
Depression
+7
Hi there! As a professional that has worked in the mental health field for over 15 years, I am equipped to support you in your journey as you navigate life's challenges. My Christian faith shapes my values but I work with people from all background and will only incorporate faith into counseling if you request. My goal is to provide a safe and welcoming space where you feel understood and empowered to move forward in the goals you have for your emotional and personal growth. My background as a behavioral specialist working in community mental health with children, youth and their families for years, equips me in supporting adults who are diagnosed with ADHD, autism spectrum disorder, or who are raising and supporting children with those diagnoses. I am also equipped to support parents in building healthy relationships with their childrens and teens. I have extensive work with couples and I am a trained Prepare/Enrich facilitator. I am trained to assist couples in walking through conflict, developing healthy communication skills, and can address other relationship concerns. I work from a CBT perspective when seeing individuals to effectively target challenges surrounding depression, anxiety, life transitions and stress.
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Rated 4.9 stars out of 524 ratings
Rated 4.9 stars out of 524 ratings
Warm
Direct
Authentic

Specialties

Addiction
Depression
Family Conflict
+6
I'm Cindy, a psychotherapist dedicated to helping individuals find clarity, healing, and lasting change. I specialized in working with clients affected by addiction and their loved ones, depression, self-esteem, relationship challenges, and existential anxiety. You may feel stuck in repetitive patterns and/or negative self-beliefs and have a desire to heal. I do not judge; in time, you will feel that our sessions are a safe place to share yourself honestly. Whether you’re dealing with personal challenges or relationship issues, I aim to support you in building resilience and reconnecting with your authentic self. I would be honored to work with you on this journey.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 58 ratings
Rated 5.0 stars out of 58 ratings
Empowering
Authentic

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Trauma and PTSD
+10
Hi everyone! My name is Stefanie, Trauma Specialist, Licensed Professional Counselor and Licensed Massage Therapist. As a trauma specialist, and very non-traditional therapist, I use both Body Work treatments & Psychotherapy to help you heal. Servicing PA and NJ, together we come up with a healing treatment plan personalized to you. I have a passion for helping Victims of violent crimes and a special focus on First Responders, LEO'S and Veterans. Also noted, I am an advocate for Mens mental health. Ready to heal? Prior to our first session, I offer a free 15 minute consultation! I am looking forward to working with you on YOUR healing journey !
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Anxiety
Coping Skills
Life Transitions
+10
I'm licensed in both NJ and PA. I have over 20 years experience helping adults, both individually and couples feeling overwhelmed, alone, stressed, sad or worried. I offer support as we work through feelings of anxiety, depression, isolation, and stress related to work, life changes, loss, transitions, identity, health challenges, family and relationship issues. With a warm, empathetic, inclusive approach, you will feel supported as we navigate the challenges in relationships (colleagues, friends, marriage, significant others, family) as well as from caregiving responsibilities (to children, spouse, and aging parents.) I work with individuals, couples, gender, ethnic, LGBTQ and racially diverse clients. All sessions are virtual, in the comfort of your own home. Reach out to me and I will support you through the challenges of life.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 527 ratings
Rated 5.0 stars out of 527 ratings
Warm
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Men's Issues
+10
I’m a husband and dad to three boys (ages 16, 13 and 8), and family is a huge part of my life. We live on a 20-acre homestead where we raise chickens, goats, pigs, and cows, and we spend a lot of time in the garden. Life on the farm keeps me grounded and reminds me daily of the value of patience, hard work, and slowing down to enjoy what really matters. Faith and community are also central for me. I’m actively involved in my church, and I see my work as an extension of that calling to walk alongside others. I’ve always had an entrepreneurial streak. Alongside my therapy work, I am starting a tech start-up, I’ve run an online store, and I even dabble in Bitcoin mining. I enjoy the challenge of building things from the ground up and thinking outside the box. I also read a lot, and my libertarian leanings have been shaped by writers like Murray Rothbard. The conservative/libertarian focus on freedom, personal responsibility and low time preference connects deeply with how I approach life and therapy: we’re at our best when we are free to live with responsibility in society, own our choices, and pursue truth apart from coercion. When it comes to therapy itself, I integrate my faith with practical, proven methods. I use Christian Counseling, CBT, Reality Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, and the Gottman Method to help people grow emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. My goal is to give you a space where your values are respected, your faith is honored, and you feel equipped to face life’s challenges with hope and clarity. If you’re looking for a therapist who understands the importance of faith, family, freedom, and practical tools for change, I’d love to walk with you on your journey.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 514 ratings
Rated 5.0 stars out of 514 ratings

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Warm
Authentic

Specialties

Coping Skills
Life Transitions
Trauma and PTSD
+10
I'm an artist and art therapist based in Philadelphia, PA. I've worked within the community mental health field for more than a decade, providing group and individual counseling and art therapy. As a therapist, I lead with kindness, compassion, and humor. I believe that connection is the foundation of healing. I feel passionately about the importance of community care and the deep, transformative potential of creative expression. I’ve personally experienced how art can be a tool for processing trauma and making sense of life’s challenges. I believe every person has a unique and valuable perspective to share, and that your voice matters. I also have an old cat who may make an appearance from time to time. I love connecting with nature, birding, hiking, and being outdoors. I enjoy baking, making art, dancing, collecting books I hope to read, and tea. I dabble in tarot cards, reiki, and playing music.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 521 ratings
Rated 5.0 stars out of 521 ratings
Open-minded
Intelligent

Specialties

Depression
Men's Issues
Trauma and PTSD
+4
“My style of therapy draws from Cognitive Behavioral, Acceptance and Commitment therapy/mindfulness. My passion is for learning your story and working alongside you to find the solutions that work for you. I’m here to help you examine what you’ve already lived through and find the path forward. In my work with people with trauma I’ve learned that we often need the reminder – no matter what you have struggled with; you are a survivor and that needs to be brought to light. Keeping that in mind, I am guided by the client towards the goals that they feel are necessary for their treatment.”
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 53 ratings
Rated 5.0 stars out of 53 ratings
Empowering
Authentic

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Self Esteem
+10
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with a Master's Degree in Counseling Psychology and over 25 years of experience providing therapy to individuals. I draw from a variety of therapeutic modalities and I'm dedicated to offering high quality care in a safe, supportive environment where insight, healing, and personal growth can flourish. My approach to therapy is grounded in support, insight, and collaboration. I work with clients to address current challenges and long-standing patterns, offering guidance and compassion along the way. Together, we explore your story, identify your needs, and develop strategies to help you reach your personal goals. Feeling heard and understood is at the heart of healing, and it’s something I strive to offer every client. I approach each person with genuine curiosity and compassion, seeking to understand the experiences that have shaped who they are. I believe everyone deserves the chance to become their best self and create a life that feels meaningful and fulfilling.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 51 ratings
Rated 5.0 stars out of 51 ratings
Authentic
Humorous

Specialties

Anxiety
Child or Adolescent
Coping Skills
+4
Welcome! My name is Maris Melino, and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I have worked in various settings, including community agencies and educational settings. I use a strengths-based approach to form a positive partnership and foster growth. I have experience working with school-age children, teens, and adults. My hope is to create a safe space for you to express thoughts and emotions.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 52 ratings
Rated 5.0 stars out of 52 ratings

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Bipolar Disorder
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+9
Hi, I’m Brandon Fisher, a licensed therapist with 10 years of experience helping individuals navigate life’s challenges. My approach is grounded in empathy, collaboration, and creating a safe space where clients feel heard and understood. I believe in the power of the therapeutic relationship to foster growth, insight, and healing. Whether you're struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, or life transitions, I’m here to help you find clarity and peace.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 55 ratings
Rated 5.0 stars out of 55 ratings
Warm
Humorous
Empowering

Specialties

Addiction
Anxiety
Depression
+10
You don’t have to keep holding everything together on your own. When life feels heavy, uncertain, or overwhelming, it can be hard to know where to start. My goal is to offer a calm, supportive space where you can pause, make sense of what you’re carrying, and begin finding your way back to yourself. Together, we’ll explore what’s been getting in the way of feeling balanced and connected, using evidence-based approaches and genuine collaboration to help you heal, grow, and rediscover a stronger sense of self. Hi, I’m Heather Schmauk MS LPC (Licensed Professional Counselor). With over a decade of experience supporting individuals through challenges related to mental health, addiction, and personal growth. I help adults navigate anxiety, depression, trauma, burnout, and major life transitions. My approach is grounded in compassion and collaboration—meeting clients where they are, while helping them reconnect with their authentic self. I provide a supportive and inclusive space for healing and growth.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 528 ratings
Rated 5.0 stars out of 528 ratings
Authentic
Direct

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+4
Hello, I'm Adam. Do you feel that your past or present internal and external experiences are holding you back from experiencing what you truly want to feel in your life? Do you feel that you will never be able to live the life you want to live if you continue to let your feelings and thoughts be the narrator of your life? If you answered "Yes" to any of these questions, the therapy approach I use may be what you need. You may not see it now, but you demonstrate the courage, compassion, and ability to move forward in your life even with the most difficult challenges that life has or is currently bringing to you. You could live the life you want to live and gain the ability to write out the rest of your life the way you want. I will empower and help guide you to be "psychologically flexible". I incorporate modalities such as Acceptance and commitment therapy, cognitive-behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, and trauma-informed approaches to help give you the opportunity to win the struggles that you have with yourself every day. Whether that be past or present trauma experiences, depression, anxiety, mood disorders, self-esteem issues, ADHD, personality disorders, OCD, or relationship issues. Together, we can identify and explore what it is that is causing you psychological pain and learn what skills/strategies will help provide you with the ability to not let life struggles/stressors cause you distress.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 5123 ratings
Rated 5.0 stars out of 5123 ratings
Warm
Open-minded
Authentic

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
LGBTQ
+3
Hi - my name's Keith Miles! I'm a licensed therapist in NJ, PA, and FL. I do telehealth talk therapy for people living in all 3 states. I imagine you find yourself here because there is something you are struggling with that maybe you could use some support in dealing with. Maybe you feel overwhelmed by difficult emotions, anxiety, or depression. Perhaps you’ve got lots of negative, self-critical, or racing thoughts affecting your self-esteem. It could be that there's aspects of your relationships and social life that you're unhappy with. Life responsibilities like work or school might be stressful or unfulfilling. Maybe you're struggling with your identity, or the heavy weight of what’s happening in our country and the world. Whatever the case may be, it's my job to help you address it and start moving towards a life that feels more worth living. I use my experience and training to help you build insight, process emotions, gain skills, set goals, and take action. I affirm, support, empower, love and advocate for gay and queer people, trans people, women, people of color, and adults of all ages and abilities. If you are looking for a safe therapist to be yourself with, we may be a good fit.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 51 ratings
Rated 5.0 stars out of 51 ratings

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Depression
LGBTQ
Trauma and PTSD
+5
I can help you navigate through change: job loss, grief, family estrangement, divorce/breakup, gender exploration, working on anxious attachment or people-pleasing. Together, we can work to integrate trauma, depression, anxiety and other symptoms into a life that feels worthwhile, however you define that. There's definitely more than one path for healing, and what can look like stability to some can be uncomfortably stifling to others. I will utilize a combination of narrative therapy, motivational interviewing, DBT/CBT skills (very optional!), feminist therapy and insight-oriented therapy to help you find your way forward. My biggest rule in therapy is "no trauma shaming." That is, if you are sharing your trauma and include a qualifier such as "other people have it worse," I will remind you that your trauma is valid! Surviving trauma is difficult enough; shame is a log lying on the train tracks. We can move it, and move forward, with the correct equipment.
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Rated 4.9 stars out of 539 ratings
Rated 4.9 stars out of 539 ratings
Empowering
Warm
Humorous

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Self Esteem
+4
Hey everyone! I am here to help with providing ways to get started in developing a new and happier you. I graduated from the University of Alabama with a Master's Degree in Education/Counseling. I specialize in anxiety, depression and relationships. In addition, I have a post-graduate certificate in Addiction Studies. I am a believer that if the mind and body are focused on goals, obstacles can be overcome, as you become more confident and powerful. We will begin our journey together as we work in small steps toward developing your new goals. These will always be your goals and I am here to help guide you towards them. My work begins by listening to you and then we will summarize what your expectations are. Then I will reflect to you what you have communicated. I will tell you what we can expect to change and how we will be able to make that change happen. My therapeutic techniques are driven by your needs and how you will respond to the new direction. No one said life would not send us off the pretty path that we all want to remain on. It happens. I can't think of anyone who has not had obstacles to overcome. I specialize in helping people overcome rejection, low self-esteem, work issues, anxiety, living in the past, how to forgive themselves, addictions, how to stop living your life as the victim, and how to love and accept yourself and others.
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Rated 4.8 stars out of 581 ratings
Rated 4.8 stars out of 581 ratings
Solution oriented
Authentic
Open-minded

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
+9
Are you experiencing high levels of stress, anxiety and burnout? Is life feeling a bit too much for you right now and leading to depression, low energy, decreased productivity and interpersonal relationship problems? Would you like to take some time to get your life back from all of this? Better days are ahead, and I am here to help! At the root of many of issues that bring people to therapy is past trauma and adverse events. I am a professional counselor licensed in Pennsylvania and a trauma, OCD an PTSD specialist with over 20 years of experience helping clients with a diverse set of concerns including depression, anxiety, career issues, stress management, substance abuse, work-life balance, and bereavement. I believe in a compassionate, collaborative, and integrative approach acknowledging the contributions of mind, body and spirit to help you identify your strengths and external resources and to develop tools to not only meet life's challenges, but to thrive despite them. Therapy with me is a safe place to explore thoughts and feelings, gain insight into patterns, intrapersonal and interpersonal dynamics and to put that insight into action in your day-to-day life so that you are achieving all that you have set out to do.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 542 ratings
Rated 5.0 stars out of 542 ratings

Often rebooked

Authentic
Solution oriented
Warm

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
LGBTQ
I began my professional career in 2005 working as a caseworker helping children and families maintain safe and healthy environments as well as financial stability. Since then I have completed masters degrees in counselor education and clinical counseling and was first licensed as a professional counselor in 2014. I'm currently credentialed as a Licensed Professional Counselor in Pennsylvania and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Florida. In my career, I've been privileged to serve many individuals in crisis, community based, and outpatient counseling settings. I've worked with individuals experiencing mood and anxiety concerns, addiction, trauma, and severe and debilitating mental health issues. Also, as a gender and sexually diverse member of the LGBTQIA+ community, I am well suited to address the unique needs of individuals exploring ideas related to their own gender and sexuality or that of a loved one.
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 544 ratings
Rated 5.0 stars out of 544 ratings

Often rebooked

Solution oriented
Intelligent
Warm

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Self Esteem
+6
Hi there, I'm Kaitlin Do you feel pulled in a million direction? Are you struggling to keep up with your relationships, work and health? Is it hard to be kind to yourself? I help high performers manage anxiety and avoid burnout. Together, we can identify what's not working and get you back to balance. We'll use a person-centered approach, addressing the needs of your mind, body and spirit. Whether you're dealing with overwhelm, stressed, relationship issues or cycles of anxiety and depression, I'm here to help. Seeking therapy can feel scary but you're making the right choice. You deserve a safe space to heal and grow. In our sessions together, I'll meet you with compassion and evidence-based techniques so you can overcome the hang-ups and habits holding you back. Let's work together!
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 553 ratings
Rated 5.0 stars out of 553 ratings

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Authentic
Solution oriented
Warm

Specialties

ADHD
Anxiety
Hi! I am Kim Allen. I am excited to meet with you! I have been working with individuals of all ages for over 15 years. I have always been passionate about helping others and would love to support you whether you are simply going through some tough times, needs some motivation in making a change in your life or are struggling with some more difficult challenges. I have worked with a variety of populations including victims of trauma; parents, adolescents and children struggling with mental health or other neurodivergent individuals (ADHD, autism, etc). and individuals working to make lifestyle changes such as diet and nutritional changes. I have also worked with couples on improving their communication and relationship skills. I am particularly passionate about helping others find ways to make changes using natural means including things such as meditation, dietary changes, nutritional supplementation and behavior modification. Whether you are new to therapy or just seeking someone new to work with, I understand that taking the step to meet with someone new can be overwhelming. You have taken the first step toward making change. I hope you will let me help you take the next step!
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Rated 5.0 stars out of 59 ratings
Rated 5.0 stars out of 59 ratings

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Specialties

Addiction
Anxiety
Depression
+10
Hey there! I am Amy McGowan, a Licensed Professional Counselor who holds an advanced certificate as a Drug and Alcohol Counselor. I graduated from Lehigh University with a BA in Social Psychology as well as Kutztown University with a Master's in School Counseling. I have been working in the mental health field for over 20 years. I've worked in various settings throughout my career, making my experience diverse. I have spent time in residential and outpatient treatment facilities, community-based programs and school settings where I have supported adults and children. I believe everyone is unique and your experience in therapy should be as well. I will individualize your therapy session and approach our time together with compassionate and genuine care. My goal is help you feel comfortable addressing your experiences and struggles - I am here to walk beside you as we navigate your life together.
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Rated 4.9 stars out of 5155 ratings
Rated 4.9 stars out of 5155 ratings
Authentic
Warm
Direct

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
LGBTQ
+10
Life is hard. Sometimes it feels like problems come one after another. It is overwhelming. You don't have to get through it alone. Therapy is a great place to talk about life's problems where you can say anything and not be judged. No matter what you’re facing, talking with someone can help. My goal is to create a supportive, judgment-free space where you feel like you’re grabbing coffee with a friend…a friend who happens to be a licensed counselor with more than 11 years of experience. In my time working as a counselor, I have helped patients manage and overcome obstacles like anxiety, depression, and major life transitions. From challenges with the overwhelming pressure of academic life, work life, career choices, relationship challenges, and more, I will be there to offer an objective perspective on your situation and provide healthy tips and resources to navigate it. My approach empowers personal growth while always ensuring you feel safe, seen, and heard. Depending on your needs, I utilize CBT, DBT, and Reality Therapy approaches in sessions. Currently, all sessions will be conducted virtually, allowing you to participate from the comfort of your own home and on a more flexible schedule. Let's do this together.
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Frequently asked questions

Why filter by Pennsylvania rather than a city like Philadelphia?

When looking for online therapy, you can see anyone that is credentialed in Pennsylvania. We want you to find the best fit, therefore, Grow Therapy shows available therapists across Pennsylvania from Pittsburgh to Scranton! If you’d rather see someone in-person, you can change the filter from virtual and find a therapist near you in Pennsylvania.

Will my therapist take Evernorth?

Yes! If you use Evernorth you’ll be asked to verify your Member ID at the time you book the appointment. However, if you don’t have Evernorth you can select cash. Our therapists will have their cost of appointment on their profile. Individual session costs will vary.

How does the Specialty Filter work? Can I find a therapist that focuses on a specific issue?

The specialty filter is optional. You don’t need to check any boxes to see a provider. However, fit is very important when selecting an online therapist. If you have knowledge or experience to recognize what specialties you may need.

Why use Gender, Age, and Identities filters?

Finding a provider with a similar life experience can be beneficial because it can be easier to establish rapport and potentially be understood quicker and clearer.

What to expect during your first session?

Your first therapy session is for you and your therapist to meet each other and to ask any questions that you have about the counseling process. This is where you can expect your therapist to do the same as they will ask questions to gain insight into your specific situation. In this first session the therapist is doing their part to gather as much information so they can better assess if they are able to meet your therapeutic needs. Depending upon your provider's specialty, you may also discuss the methods the therapist will use. For additional information on therapy methods, please visit the Grow Therapy Help Center.Some people feel nervous before their first appointment, and that is totally normal! Coming prepared with a list of questions for your therapist may help. Remember, you're taking a brave step by seeking therapy, and it is okay to be nervous as you try something new.