Male Therapists in Missouri

Male therapists bring their perspectives and insights into therapy, creating a supportive space for clients to explore a variety of challenges and goals. With 26 male therapists in Missouri, you’ll find professional care for concerns like stress, relationships, trauma, or personal growth. Whether you’re seeking a different perspective or a corrective experience, each Grow Therapy-verified male therapist listed below is currently welcoming new clients, with availability in the coming weeks to provide thoughtful, nonjudgmental support tailored to your needs.

Availability updated: 3/31/2026

Solution oriented
Warm
Intelligent
Open-minded
Authentic
Challenging

Specialties

Addiction
Anxiety
Depression
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When anxiety, depression, intrusive thoughts, self-harm urges, family conflict, or addiction take over, it can feel like your inner voice gets drowned out. You might feel stuck, disconnected, or ready for something different but unsure where to start. No matter where you are in life, you deserve to be heard & taken seriously. Therapy isn’t just about talking. It’s about learning how to shift patterns, challenge unhelpful thoughts, & build communication skills that actually work in real life. This is a space to get clear, grow stronger, & create change that feels authentic to you. Let’s help you reconnect with yourself & move forward I help clients move from surviving to thriving by building practical skills for real change. Specializing in trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship dynamics, alcohol and substance use, identity challenges, and more. I provide a safe, collaborative environment. My goal is to help you understand your experiences, heal, and deeply reconnect with yourself. Reaching out is often the hardest step, but it is also the bravest. You don’t have to carry this weight alone any longer. Finding a therapist you truly connect with is the most important part of the healing process, & you deserve a space where you feel safe, understood, & supported. I invite you to reach out for a consultation to see if we are the right fit
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Direct
Empowering
Intelligent

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Family Conflict
Mood Disorders
Self Esteem
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My name is Dan Cooper, and I have been a licensed counselor since 2008. My path to this work was shaped early on by a year of public service with AmeriCorps, followed by time working in a transitional living program for homeless youth. Watching counselors help young people create meaningful, lasting change in their lives inspired me to pursue this work myself — and that sense of purpose has stayed with me ever since. My approach to counseling is fundamentally collaborative. I believe that you are the expert on your own life and circumstances. My role is not to tell you what to do, but to offer an outside perspective, help you clarify what you want, and support you in taking accountable steps toward your own goals. Together, we work as a team.
VirtualAvailable
Intelligent
Warm

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Anxiety
Bipolar Disorder
Depression
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Dr. Malachi Oledibe is experienced clinical therapist, excellent listener with relaxing therapeutic mood. He integrates both insight-oriented and skills-based in his therapeutic approaches. He gently challenges clients to explore the root cause of their symptoms, gaining new awareness into their emotional, mental and relationship patterns. At the same time, he focuses on practical strategies, with an emphasis on relaxation and meditation practices, to help clients feel better in the here and now. Having served as a consultant and clinician for over 34 years at local Community mental Health, hospitals and in school settings, Dr. Oledibe is uniquely skilled in working with those experiencing chronic pain, chronic illness, depression, anxiety, relationship issues and other serious mental illnesses. He brings a special awareness to the healing power of the mind-body connection, and his office serves as a safe harbor to freely process pain and find relief. Dr. Oledibe is committed to maintaining an inclusive practice. With a background in general clinical practice. He is particularly sensitive to the creative process, lifestyles, and welcomes a wide range of creative professionals, freelancers, executives, parents, children, adults and young adults to his practice.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Intelligent
Open-minded

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Men's Issues
Self Esteem
Spirituality
+10
I am a compassionate, grounded therapist who believes meaningful change happens when clients feel truly seen, heard, and respected. I strive to create a safe, collaborative space where you can show up as you are—without judgment or pressure—and move at a pace that feels right for you. I value authenticity, curiosity, and practical growth, and I view therapy as a partnership rooted in trust. My role is to support you in understanding yourself more deeply, clarifying what matters most, and building tools that help you move toward the life and relationships you want.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Solution oriented
Challenging
Direct
Empowering
Open-minded
Warm

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Anxiety
Child or Adolescent
Couples Counseling
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Hello, my name is Bruce Miller and I'm a licensed clinical social worker and was registered play therapist. I've been providing mental health services to clients of all ages for over several decades. I'm open to helping all clients of all problems, issues, and temperaments. I tend to prioritize by engaging and building rapport. I utilized a great deal of listening, reflecting and understanding a person's issues and problems. From there we collaborate in exploring and identifying the problem(s) that are creating the stress, anxiety, sadness depression and other emotions.
VirtualAvailable

New to Grow

Specialties

Addiction
ADHD
Sex Addiction
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I’m Stephen Greenberg, LPC, CRAADC, CSAT, a licensed therapist based in St. Louis, MO. There’s no shame in seeking someone too talk too. Your support network begins here. I combine evidence-based therapy with real-life strategies to help you break free from what is holding you back. Together, we’ll tackle the tough stuff with honesty, empathy, humor, and make a plan that actually fits your life. Therapy and Recovery Services is a private practice serving clients across St. Louis and St. Louis County. I offer in-person and online counseling for adults navigating addiction, Pornography addiction and mental health issues. I also offer group therapy for pornography addiction. I became a therapist because I got tired of defeating myself—and I don’t believe I could’ve gotten to the other side without the support of others. I specialize in addiction and have training from ITAP to treat Sex and Porn addiction. Also I am a masters level addictions counselor. Others area I specialize in are ADHD, Anxiety, Gambling and Depression. Nobody should have to figure it all out alone. I work best with people who are ready to reflect on their past and present, even if they’re not totally sure what changes they want to make. Please reach out for an initial consult or to set up an appointment .
VirtualOffers in-person in St. Louis, MO - Accepting clients in MOAvailable
Authentic
Open-minded
Intelligent
Direct
Empowering
Solution oriented
Warm

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Anxiety
Couples Counseling
Men's Issues
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Hi, thanks for reaching out for help. I have over 30 years of experience in many areas of mental health, including counseling, psychiatric and substance use assessments in hospital emergency departments ; I have worked with adults, adolescents an$ couples. I have also been consultant to managers and supervisors seeking guidance for employees with mental health/ substance issues. I have an open, compassionate approach and will work together with you to help you break free of the issues that are holding you back or keeping you stuck. You are not alone: so many of us- including myself- face these challenges. I’m available for an initial, brief phone conversation to answer any questions you might have, and to determine if I would be a good fit.
VirtualOffers in-person in Arnold, MO - Accepting clients in MOAvailable
Empowering
Authentic
Open-minded
Solution oriented
Warm
Challenging
Direct
Holistic
Humorous
Intelligent

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Anxiety
Depression
Self Esteem
+10
My name is Chiwoo. I enjoy working with individuals who struggle with overthinking, perfectionism, and people-pleasing. As a recovering people-pleaser myself, I understand the challenge of being your authentic self while trying to meet other people's expectations. In therapy, I combine evidence-based approaches with my own healing journey to help you feel less alone, build self-trust, and live with more confidence.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Direct
Intelligent
Solution oriented
Open-minded
Empowering
Humorous
Holistic

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Anger Management
Anxiety
Trauma and PTSD
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As the Founder of Coyote Hill (coyotehill.org) I have worked with foster children and families in crisis for over 33 years. After retiring as CEO in 2021, I have opened my own private practice. In a world that often demands us to mask our struggles, having a space where your feelings are validated, and your experiences are understood can be transformative. Your story matters, and I am here to listen, understand, and help you write the next chapter—one where you feel empowered and at peace. Together, we can explore the possibilities that lie ahead and take steps towards a more balanced and fulfilling life. We can't undo the past, but we can work together to get to a place where you can finish well.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Warm
Intelligent
Solution oriented
Open-minded
Humorous
Direct
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Mood Disorders
Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
Hello! I am John Getchell, an experienced Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 20 years of experience. My career has taken me from federal prisons, to military hospitals, the VA, and private practice, where I have worked with trauma, depression, grief, OCD, and very complex family dynamics. My goal is to walk alongside you as we face life's challenges, helping you to find clarity, strength, and healthier ways of living. Together, we will work on creating real change so you can experience peace and freedom.
VirtualAvailable

New to Grow

Specialties

Anxiety
Addiction
Men's Issues
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Since 2019 I’ve worked with a wide range of clients, from intensive residential treatment centers to private practice. I help people get unstuck and move forward, whether it’s personal struggles, family challenges, or life transitions. My therapy is direct, practical, and focused on real change. Before becoming a therapist, I studied Finance and Economics and worked as a Healthcare Software Consultant. After years of working in Residential Treatment Centers and seeing mental health struggles up close in my family and community, I shifted my career to do work that felt meaningful and practical. That background shapes how I think about problem-solving, structure, and progress.
VirtualAvailable

New to Grow

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Men's Issues
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I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with over 6 years of experience, working with adults, adolescents, and school age children. I bring a collaborative approach to therapy sessions to try and work toward goals to best benefit clients. While creating a safe space for client’s to discuss their needs, I also challenge thought processes and problematic behaviors to work toward progress.
VirtualAvailable
Solution oriented
Authentic
Intelligent
Warm

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Men's Issues
+10
Throughout my career, I’ve worked in a variety of settings, including hospitals, community mental health centers, private practice, and nonprofit organizations. My personal and family history also affords me valuable lived experiences that inform my approach with clients and advances my ability to extend empathy to my clients. This diverse experience has allowed me to work with people from many different walks of life, each with their own unique challenges, hopes, and dreams.
VirtualAvailable
Empowering
Intelligent
Open-minded

Specialties

Anxiety
Health/Medical Issues
Older Adults
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I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with nearly 20 years of experience supporting individuals, families, older adults, and medically complex patients across a wide range of healthcare and community settings. My approach is grounded in compassion, collaboration, and practicality—I help clients navigate life’s challenges by focusing on what matters most to them. My background spans emergency departments, primary care clinics, long‐term care facilities, hospice, crisis response, and private practice. This breadth allows me to offer therapy that is warm, grounded, and deeply informed by real‐world experience.
VirtualAvailable
Humorous
Open-minded

Specialties

Anxiety
Life Transitions
Trauma and PTSD
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As a Licensed Professional Counselor, I’ve had the opportunity to work with people from many different walks of life. I often work with clients facing challenges like addiction, PTSD, anxiety, life transitions, and so on. I truly believe that change is possible for anyone who wants it. Growth starts with that first step. My role is to help you take it with clarity, compassion, and confidence.
VirtualAvailable

New to Grow

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Personality Disorders
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My name is Thomas Barhorst, and I started counseling in 2004. In addition to having a small private practice shortly after I received my Missouri license in 2007; I have worked as a K-12 school counselor, in substance use treatment, in a residential treatment setting, in a community mental health agency, helping individuals with disabilities transition into the workforce, and helping graduate students manage stress in their professional programs (i.e. medical school, dental school, etc.). Recently, I have begun providing telehealth therapy after obtaining licensure in Arizona and California. Outside of work, spending time with family and friends is important to me. I also enjoy stories, laughing, listening to stand-up comedy, cooking, playing sports like wallyball and ultimate frisbee on a non-competitive level, watching film noir and psychological thrillers, recently had the opportunity to take my car to a racetrack, and have played bass guitar in a rock band.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Solution oriented
Empowering
Warm
Open-minded
Direct
Intelligent

Specialties

Chronic Illness
Health/Medical Issues
Insomnia/Sleep Issues
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Evening and weekend appointments available for working adults. I help adults who are exhausted from anxiety that won't shut off, depression that drains all energy, sleepless nights, or chronic pain that's controlling their lives. Many of my clients have been struggling for months or even years, trying different approaches without finding real relief. They're ready for something that actually works. I specialize in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) because the research is clear: it provides practical strategies that create measurable change, not just insight. I'm particularly trained in CBT for insomnia (CBT-I) and chronic pain (CBT-CP), which means if you're dealing with sleep problems or pain alongside anxiety or depression, I have specialized tools to help. With over 20 years of experience treating veterans in VA primary care and hospital settings, I've worked with thousands of people facing anxiety, depression, insomnia, chronic pain, and trauma. What I've learned: effective therapy requires practical tools you can use immediately, a structured approach that respects your time, and a therapist who genuinely believes you can get better. I opened my private practice specifically to offer evening and weekend appointments because I know working adults can't always take time off during the day. You shouldn't have to choose between your job and getting help for what's keeping you up at night or draining your energy during the day. My approach: We identify what's keeping you stuck, build a practical plan with strategies you can use right away, and track progress weekly. The focus is on tangible results: reduced anxiety, improved mood, better sleep, less pain interference in your daily life. Best fit: Adults ready to actively participate in structured, evidence-based treatment and practice skills between sessions.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Solution oriented
Authentic
Empowering
Intelligent
Open-minded
Direct

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
LGBTQ
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I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with over 19 years of behavioral health experience across various clinical, managed care, and military family settings. I am skilled in case management, utilization review, crisis intervention, and therapeutic services for diverse populations. I am a proven licensed mental health professional with supervisory experience in Medicaid MCOs, and a consistent track record of delivering quality care through evidence-based practices.
VirtualAvailable
Open-minded
Empowering
Authentic
Intelligent
Warm
Direct
Holistic
Open-Minded
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Life Transitions
+10
Hello! I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) currently based and practicing in Oregon, though with an active license in California as well. I attended California Institute of Integral Studies (CIIS) for graduate school and lived in the Bay Area for a decade before moving to Portland, OR shortly before the pandemic. I have over thirteen years of experience as a "generalist" therapist, though I specialize in supporting individuals in the midst of life transitions, including but not limited to: relationship challenges, moves to a new city or state, new or chronic medical diagnoses, career and work problems, spiritual questioning, transitions into the workforce or retirement. I do NOT work with couples at this time. While I consider the psychological theories behind my work, I hold them lightly in the room, believing most fundamentally in the importance of an adaptive, culturally-sensitive, non-judgmental stance with my clients. PLEASE NOTE: your chosen intake appointment time is subject to my final approval based on my shifting availability. I see clients on multiple platforms and am unable to sync all of my calendars in real time. Following the initial appointment, we will find a mutually agreeable meeting time and I will manage the booking on the Grow platform going forward, including rescheduling and cancellations. You will need to message me directly to cancel or reschedule your appointment. I request the courtesy of as much advanced notice as possible. I am not able to work with clients who cancel without 24 hrs advanced notice or no show more than twice.
VirtualAvailable
Solution oriented
Authentic
Intelligent
Warm
Empowering
Open-minded
Direct
Humorous
Holistic
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Insomnia/Sleep Issues
Career Counseling
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Because sleep quality is critical to physical and mental health I am passionate about helping people get good sleep. I received my PhD from Duke University and have been a practicing psychologist for several decades. I work primarily with behavioral sleep medicine because sleep problems are so widespread, and there are not enough specialists to meet the need. I have published several articles and a book on sleep and am the director of the insomnia course for the World Sleep Academy, as well as a member of the Outreach and Public Education Committee, Society of Behavioral Sleep Medicine. I continue working with people with anxiety, depression, and couples issues on a limited basis. The methods I use are evidence-based and trauma-informed. I am also an ordained member of the clergy (rabbi) and consider one's spirituality an important part of treatment for many, though not all, people. I’ve practiced telehealth exclusively since early 2020. Most people appreciate working this way because of convenience. Therapy is not adversely affected, and I am even able to do hypnotherapy via telehealth.
VirtualAvailable
Intelligent
Authentic
Solution oriented
Challenging
Open-minded
Warm
Direct
Humorous

Specialties

Addiction
Anxiety
Depression
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I've provided mental health services within rural Missouri countryside and urban locations in St. Louis and New York, along with work within every level of care (outpatient, inpatient, and residential treatment) since the mid-1990s. I hold two graduate degrees from Lindenwood University in the metro St. Louis area with post graduate training in the areas of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Motivational Interviewing. I am currently licensed as a Professional Counselor in New Jersey and Missouri. My approach has been refined over years for a person-centered focus with young to older adults struggling with multiple issues, such as depression, anxiety and addiction.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Open-minded
Direct
Open-Minded
Intelligent
Humorous
Solution oriented
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
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I have worked in the behavioral health field for over 25 years, in both inpatient and outpatient settings. I am a licensed mental health professional in multiple states. I have earned progressively higher leadership responsibilities throughout my career, including providing clinical and executive leadership. Additionally, I have been providing telehealth services and striving to improve access to quality behavioral health services across the country since 2015. I have been fortunate to gain experience in diverse areas and feel I am equipped to help people with a variety of issues. I received a Master’s Degree in Professional Counseling from Lindenwood University and a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Psychology from McKendree University.
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Specialties

Anxiety
Career Counseling
Self Esteem
+3
Entrepreneurs & working professionals, you're looking to gain more confidence so that you can feel more happier & successful with your life! This would allow you to scale your business, improve your performance at work, & EVEN enjoy time with your loved ones without worrying about what they think! But you feel so overwhelmed with self doubt & anxiety, that you overthink & never take action! So you're looking to overcome your anxieties & it's important to you because your life, business, & career will transform FOREVER! That means no more feeling stuck, depressed or doubting yourself! Is that correct? I will provide you with a framework that is designed to help you overcome anxiety, depression, low-self esteem, and many other life obstacles, which means you will save time and money going to see another therapist once you implement this system! I will teach you how to get what YOU want out of life without letting your negative thoughts get in the way! P.S. If you want to add more meaning to your life, but are worried that your anxiety will always be there to stop you, then you should reach out to me so that I can be your guide! Imagine what your life will be like once you are able to stand up to your anxiety & become more confident? Are you willing to miss that opportunity?
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Solution oriented
Humorous
Direct
Intelligent
Empowering
Warm
Open-minded
Holistic
Challenging
Solution oriented
Open-Minded

Specialties

Addiction
ADHD
Anxiety
+5
I am a licensed independent clinical social worker with over 14 years of experience working as a clinician, therapist , and crisis interventionist. I have worked with clients with a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, substance use problems, psychosis, and ADHD. I also helped people who have experienced trauma and/or emotional abuse. I would like to clarify my expertise does not include eating disorders, or pornography addiction as of yet, although I do understand some of the symptoms and causes. My therapy style is genuine and solution focused.. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. My approach is dialectical behavioral based with strengths perspective and motivational interviewing. Any treatment plan to meet your needs will be collaborative, timely, and with measurable goals. Usually following the "S.M.A.R.T." goal format. Specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and timely. I have worked extensively in crisis intervention in the agency and on the streets, in hospitals, and in mental health courts and case management agencies, and have managed in this capacity. I also have many years experience related to substance use disorders and have worked as a therapist utilizing primarily Dialectical Behavioral Therapy as my main approach as well as utilizing Cognitive Behavior Therapy . Regardless of any experience, upbringing, current, or past situation, everyone has choices they can make that best serves them and the life they want to live. I look forward to working with you!
VirtualAvailable
Direct
Authentic
Solution oriented
Humorous
Empowering
Challenging
Intelligent
Open-minded
Warm
Holistic

Specialties

Career Counseling
Men's Issues
Self Esteem
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Hi there, my name’s Ephraim Tokar. I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with 20+ years of experience. My specialties consist of relationships, men’s issues, career counseling, and psychosomatic illnesses. I received my Bachelors degree in Child Psychology, working initially with the adolescent population before transitioning over to adults. I then received my Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy. Whether it's individuals or couples, I'm happy to get to work with whomever comes my way. I do my best to facilitate a warm, trusting environment. Looking forward to meeting with you soon!
VirtualAvailable
Intelligent
Open-minded
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Child or Adolescent
Spirituality
+10
I am a Christian-informed therapist licensed in multiple States. With a background in clinical social work and a desire to see the building up of the body of Christ, I am passionate about supporting and encouraging my brothers and sisters as they seek to navigate the difficulties of life and develop resilience that can lead to personal healing and spiritual growth. My areas of expertise include managing stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, faith formation, identity and purpose, peer relationships, transitional challenges, conflict resolution, forgiveness, etc.
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Frequently asked questions

Why filter by Missouri rather than a city like Kansas City?

When looking for online therapy, you can see anyone that is credentialed in Missouri. We want you to find the best fit, therefore, Grow Therapy shows available therapists across Missouri from Saint Louis to Springfield! If you’d rather see someone in-person, you can change the filter from virtual and find a therapist near you in Missouri.

Will my therapist take insurance?

When booking you’ll be asked to verify with your Member ID. However, if you don’t have any of the insurances available you can select cash. Our therapists will have their cost of appointment on their profile. Individual session costs will vary.

How does the Specialty Filter work? Can I find a therapist that focuses on a specific issue?

The specialty filter is optional. You don’t need to check any boxes to see a provider. However, fit is very important when selecting an online therapist. If you have knowledge or experience to recognize what specialties you may need.

Why use Gender, Age, and Identities filters?

Finding a provider with a similar life experience can be beneficial because it can be easier to establish rapport and potentially be understood quicker and clearer.

What happens during the first therapy session?

Your first therapy session is for you and your therapist to meet each other and to ask any questions that you have about the counseling process. This is where you can expect your therapist to do the same as they will ask questions to gain insight into your specific situation. In this first session the therapist is doing their part to gather as much information so they can better assess if they are able to meet your therapeutic needs. Depending upon your provider's specialty, you may also discuss the methods the therapist will use. For additional information on therapy methods, please visit the Grow Therapy Help Center.Some people feel nervous before their first appointment, and that is totally normal! Coming prepared with a list of questions for your therapist may help. Remember, you're taking a brave step by seeking therapy, and it is okay to be nervous as you try something new.