(he/him)
I’m Ryan McNeel—therapist, Air Force veteran, and someone who’s lived through the chaos I now help others walk through. With over 20 years as a trauma medic and 6 years as a therapist, I bring grounded, no-nonsense care to people who’ve spent too long being the strong one. I’m here to help you heal, move forward, and reclaim your momentum—with zero fluff and full presence. I’ve worked in war zones, ICUs, and now therapy rooms—helping clients break out of emotional paralysis and take meaningful steps toward change. My approach blends trauma-informed care, EMDR, group work, and forward-motion therapy to meet you where you are. I believe healing doesn’t have to mean sitting still—it can mean moving, expressing, rebuilding, and reconnecting with a version of you that feels alive again.
In the first session, we keep it real and keep it simple. You’ll have space to talk about what’s brought you in—no pressure to get it all out at once. We’ll go over your story, what you’ve tried so far, and start shaping a plan that actually feels doable. I ask some questions, you talk as much or as little as you want, and we begin making sense of what’s been weighing you down. No stuffy office vibes, no therapist nodding silently. You’ll leave knowing I’ve got your back and a clear idea of what working together will look like.
Before I became a therapist, I spent 21 years as a medic in the U.S. Air Force—running trauma rooms in Afghanistan, working ICU, and piloting healthcare initiatives across the Pacific. I learned to stay calm in chaos and listen when lives were on the line. That experience shaped how I show up now: direct, steady, and with zero judgment. After retiring, I earned my MSW from USC and spent the last 6 years as a therapist helping people face hard truths and create forward motion—especially veterans, first responders, and adults stuck in emotional loops. I’ve run process groups for suicide prevention, taught mindfulness to clients who can’t sit still, and combined movement with therapy for those who think talk therapy alone isn’t enough. I also know what it’s like to feel lost. To question your purpose. To wonder if you’ve used up all your second chances. That’s why this work matters to me. I’m not here to fix you—I’m here to help you remember your strength and rebuild your momentum.
I work best with people who are carrying a lot—but don’t always show it. Veterans, first responders, high-functioning adults, and those in major life transitions who look like they have it together but feel stuck, numb, or overwhelmed inside. Maybe you’re dealing with trauma, addiction, burnout, relationship disconnection, or anxiety that doesn’t respond to the usual stuff. You’ve probably already tried therapy—or avoided it because it felt too slow or soft. You want something real. Someone who isn’t afraid of the dark corners you’ve avoided. Someone who will push when needed and sit with you when the weight is too much. You might be navigating the end of a career, a tough relationship dynamic, or facing down regrets that keep you up at night. You’re probably more resilient than you realize—and I’m here to help you access that again, on your terms.
“You don’t have to relive it to heal from it.” EMDR is a proven method for processing trauma, anxiety, and stuck emotional patterns. Using bilateral stimulation (like eye movements or tapping), we help your brain reprocess painful memories—so they no longer hold the same power. You’ll remember the event, but it won’t feel like it’s happening right now anymore.
"Because your past shouldn't dictate your future.” With 21 years in the military and firsthand trauma experience, I specialize in working through PTSD and trauma using grounded, real-world tools—not fluff. This approach focuses on safety, empowerment, and moving forward with confidence.
"Feel big, think clear, stay steady.” DBT helps when emotions feel overwhelming or relationships get messy. We focus on four key skills: mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness. You’ll learn how to ride the emotional waves without getting pulled under—tools for real life, not just the therapy room.
“I meet you where you are—and help you move toward where you want to be.” This technique supports ambivalence and stuckness without judgment. We get curious, not critical, helping you access your own reasons for change.
“You are not your worst day.” The stories we tell ourselves shape how we live. We work together to rewrite unhelpful narratives and reclaim the authorship of your own life—with honesty, grace, and a touch of grit.