You want to be present, find ease, and fully enjoy your life and relationship but anxiety, trauma, and big transitions keep getting in the way. You've worked hard to create this life and your relationships. You do your best to "have it all together" for friends, family, colleagues, your partner. In the middle of all the roles, changes, and expectations you've lost yourself, disconnected from your needs, and lost track of your values and joy. Whether it is constant anxiety, imposter syndrome disconnection, or pain that keeps holding you back - you're just done living this way and ready to live more fully. I help you do the deep work, understand the roots of your patterns, transform trauma, and building new intentional patterns centered on joy, connection and your core values. I'm a warm, affirming, somatic therapist who blends mind-body practices, EMDR, and parts-work to help you heal so you can build a more aligned life and relationships.
My first sessions are engaged and primarily focused on building rapport and relationship with new clients. I focus mostly on understanding clients' current world and lives, their strengths, their current ways of coping, and patterns, and getting a sense of their ability to self-soothe, regulate, and notice what is going on in their nervous systems/ bodies. From there I get a sense of client's goals and the healing they would like to see in their lives so that I understand what progress looks like for them and we can create a plan that is focused on those goals.
I create a warm and safe space for you to show up as your full self while also giving you feed back and challenging you to grow with a lot of compassion. I work to deeply understand your cultural, personal, spiritual, and relational strengths so that we can build on them in session. I am committed to helping you understand or create your vision for your life and achieve the growth that you want to see in your life and relationships.
I see primarily women and people who identify as BIPOC. I am focused on clients who struggle with anxiety, trauma, life transitions, racial trauma, boundaries, family challenges and relationship challenges. I work well with clients who are committed to their healing journey, engaged in the process, and open to trying different practices. I also welcome individuals who identify as 2SLGBTQIA+.
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing EMDR is a structured therapy that I use with clients who are struggling with trauma, persistent negative beliefs, or anxiety. EMDR encourages clients to focus briefly on the trauma memories or past adverse or painful experiences while simultaneously experiencing bilateral stimulation (typically eye movements), which helps reduce the emotional weight associated with the memories. EMDR activates the parts of the mind that are able to process these memories in ways that are adaptive and support healing and connect this experiences with beliefs that support clients in moving forward in their lives.
ACT focuses on helping clients to relate to old thoughts and emotions in new ways. ACT supports client in accepting and making space for the full range of their emotions us mindfulness practices, clarifying core values, visualization, and other skills that help client to take committed actions to reaching their goals.
The emotions, beliefs, and experiences that impact our ability to heal, grow, and live an aligned life do not just live in your mind. They live in all the different parts of your nervous system which run throughout your whole body. Somatic therapy helps you to understand your nervous system, identify how emotions show up in your body in the form of sensations, and how to soothe, regulate, and work with those sensations to open up space for new patterns. Somatic therapy helps re-train your nervous system to move towards well-being more consistently and with more ease.
Every pattern you have in your life served you in some way at some point, even the ones that bother or pain you the most. Compassion focused therapy helps you to understand the root of your patterns with curiosity and kindness so that you can take accountability and connect with your power without getting totally wrapped up in shame. Compassion centered therapy focuses on skills like self-nurturing, self-kindness, connection, presence, and mindfulness to help you to move forward.