Blue Cross Blue Shield Therapists in Virginia

Finding therapists who take Blue Cross Blue Shield (BCBS), whether through online therapy or in-person near you, can make getting mental health care more accessible and cost-effective. With 508 verified therapists in Virginia who accept BCBS, you can filter by therapeutic approaches such as cognitive behavioral therapy, interpersonal therapy, and acceptance and commitment therapy to address issues like anxiety, depression, ADHD, and other concerns. Each Grow Therapy-verified therapist who takes Blue Cross Blue Shield listed below is currently welcoming new clients and has availability within the next 30 days, providing you with timely, quality support that fits within your BCBS coverage.

Availability updated: 8/3/2026

Warm
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
+10
Welcome! Transformation is possible. You can choose to step into a fully connected, authentic, and joyful life. It's time to start living the life that's waiting for you. I've experienced profound transformations myself and I'm here to guide you to the life that you desire. Maybe you're just not feeling happy. Or maybe you feel stuck in a never-ending loop. It seems like you're barely doing anything for yourself anymore. You know something has to change and there has to be a better way. I'm glad you're here! I'm Carrie, and I'm ready to help! I love to help people shift. I created LifeVision Counseling, LLC to empower individuals on their journey of personal growth and healing by offering online therapy throughout Virginia. As a seasoned therapist, I offer a safe space where you can explore your emotions, overcome obstacles, and start to live the life you desire. With over 15 years in the field, I bring experience and authenticity to each session, providing guidance and support as you navigate life's challenges from the comfort of your own home. I use a therapeutic approach to promote healing and growth. My style is collaborative and strengths-based, aimed at helping you honor yourself and find your own path forward. I use proven strategies to help you overcome life's challenges and start living a life that's full of peace and joy. I'm happy to help and specialize in treating anxiety, depression, life transitions, career stress, and relationship challenges.
Available
Authentic
Warm
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Grief
Self Esteem
+10
Warm Greetings! I have 32 years of experience in the counseling field since 1993. I earned my Masters degree through Longwood University. I worked in residential mental health care and in-home settings. In 2008, along with 3 colleagues, I founded a day school for youth with learning disabilities and mental health challenges. I have specialized in working with children, tweens, teens, and young adults. Adult clients, ranging up to seniors, can explore in an accepting space as I journey alongside them. I currently work extensively with diverse families and adults with unique backgrounds as well. I believe in creating a safe space for all individuals to be heard and validated. I value building trust and openness with people to support them as they unravel the twists and turns that life presents us all. When I listen attentively in sessions, the person, couple, or family are the most important people in the room as we seek to shed light on the areas we can discover together. I see clients both virtually and in my office. *In-office sessions require prior approval by contacting me directly.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Empowering
Humorous

Specialties

Career Counseling
Couples Counseling
Family Therapy
+7
In August 2010, I graduated from Liberty University with two Master’s degrees: one in Marriage and Family Therapy, and the other in Human Services with a Specialization in Family Therapy. I was a recipient of the Innovative Thinker Award issued by the Prince William County Molinari Juvenile Shelter. I have also previously worked as a Social Worker for Prince William County, where he evaluated the needs of families, provided them with resources, expedited adolescent recovery, and provided crisis intervention.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

Child or Adolescent
Depression
Women's Issues
+7
Hi, I’m La’Kisha “Kisha” Jordan and I believe therapy is a healing space rooted in truth, transformation, and cultural connection. I work with teens, individuals, women, and families who are tired of just surviving and ready to start healing—for real. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, depression, relationship stress, trauma, or just feeling lost in the noise of life, I hold space that is safe, soulful, and judgment-free. My approach is eclectic and intuitive—I don’t just use one method because you’re not one-size-fits-all. I blend evidence-based techniques like CBT and DBT with creativity, storytelling, spirituality, and real talk. One session might include grounding and deep breathing; another might involve journaling, laughter, or hard truths said with love. I meet you where you are, and walk with you toward where you want to be. I’m not just a therapist behind a desk—I’m a woman who’s lived, lost, loved, and learned. I see you. I hear you. And I believe in your ability to grow through what you go through.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Warm
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Life Transitions
Women's Issues
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Hello there. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, dedicated to helping professional women find hope while navigating through anxiety and burnout. l am passionate about assisting motivated women who are experiencing life transitions such as career changes, moving, divorce, and loss. As well as women experiencing life challenges such as burnout, job dissatisfaction, poor self care routine, high stress, time management issues, and health challenges. My experience includes assisting a variety of clients in community mental health, persons with various forms of trauma, and clients adjusting to life transitions and life stress. I help clients learn how to calm their inner storm through a solution focused approach; along with holistic approaches such as mindfulness, meditation, creative expression, and body movement. I provide therapy that encourages self-compassion, acceptance, and resiliency.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Warm
Authentic
Intelligent

Specialties

ADHD
Anxiety
Depression
If you're grappling with anxiety, stress, worry, or depression, know you've found a compassionate partner here to help. Since 2014, I've guided countless individuals to reclaim their lives, cultivating confidence and ease, no matter what challenges arise. My passion is witnessing your transformation from apprehension to peace. A significant part of my expertise is dedicated to understanding and supporting individuals with ADHD. It's more than just focus; it's a unique way the brain processes information, impacting organization, emotions, and time perception. If you've felt misunderstood, struggled with procrastination, or been overwhelmed, I offer clarity and practical strategies. Many clients discover that by understanding their ADHD brain, they can harness its strengths and build systems that truly work, transforming struggles into paths to success and self-acceptance. My goal is to help you unlock your full potential. Beyond these core areas, I recognize that life's complexities interweave. The anxiety or depression you experience might be exacerbated by big decisions you're struggling to make, or difficulties in navigating relationships. These can be isolating. I offer a supportive space to explore these complexities, developing effective communication and healthy boundaries. We'll empower you to make choices aligning with your values, fostering more peaceful and fulfilling connections in your life.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Warm
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Sexual Abuse
Women's Issues
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Hello, I'm Dr. Natalia. Are you feeling overwhelmed, tired, and worn with all your responsibilities as a young adult woman (ages 18-35)? Maybe feeling anxious, down or depressed and wondering how you will manage it all? Whether you’re a mother, a daughter, a student or an employee, you matter and behind all that you do is a woman wanting to be seen and heard. You Are Not Alone and you don’t have to do life alone. In our sessions, you will be listened to, understood, and given practical evidence-based tools and techniques to manage those difficult emotions while you learn to care for your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. This is your life, your decision to make it better, and you can be empowered to live it at your best. If you’re ready for that empowerment or even considering it , I am here to help. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- Hola, soy la Dra. Natalia. ¿Te sientes abrumada, cansada, y desgastada con todas tus responsabilidades como joven adulta? ¿Probablemente te estas sintiendo ansiosa, decaída o deprimida y pensando como vas a manejar todo lo que tienes en tu plato? Si eres madre, hija, estudiante o empleada, tú importas y detrás de todo lo qué haces esta una mujer que quiere ser reconocida. No estás sola y no tienes que vivir la vida sola. En nuestras sesiones, serás escuchada, entendida, y te daré herramientas y técnicas prácticas que han sido comprobadas para manejar esas emociones difíciles mientras cuidas tu bien estar físico, emocional, y mental. Esta es tu vida, tu decisión para mejorarla, y puedes ser empoderada para vivirla mejor. Si estas lista para ese empoderamiento o lo estás considerando, estoy aquí para ayudarte.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Intelligent

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Self Esteem
+1
Hello, I am a licensed professional counselor/ licensed mental health counselor whose work includes collaboration with adults, children, and adolescents in inpatient, outpatient, emergency, and field settings. I have more than 20 years of experience and my career has included confidential service to military personnel and their families overseas and stateside. I have had broad professional experience and experience serving on human rights and patient's rights in various communities. My years working in executive leadership, administration and management, including program development provides me with additional insight and understanding of the challenges of maintaining balance across life domains. Are you seeking assistance and support with major life changes like divorce, death of a friend or loved one, or chronic illness? Are you challenged with managing traumatic stress, mood disorder, anxiety, or depression? Do you deal with thoughts or feelings of not being good enough, or simply not succeeding at life? If you would like to work with a therapist who is enthusiastic about you living your very best life, and motivated to help you explore your gifts, talents, and strengths, and learn to utilize these effectively then it would be great working with you.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Empowering
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Depression
+8
Clients shouldn't have to be in therapy forever! Together, we'll co-create a balanced approach combining active listening with practical techniques, helping you reclaim your narrative and overcome obstacles. My clinical and holistic approach aims for deeper alignment and fulfillment—think more water, less soda. As an LCSW, I'm trained in EMDR, certified in Theta Healing, Reiki, Transformational Life Coaching, and Therapeutic Touch, and am a Master Practitioner in Neuro Linguistic Programming, Hypnotherapy, and Time Line Therapy. I provide a compassionate, judgment-free space to explore your wants, needs, and emotions. You know yourself best, and our work is about uncovering your truths rather than imposing mine. Together, we'll determine the tools and approaches that best suit your needs, ensuring you feel heard, validated, and empowered. The goal is to help you confidently manage challenges independently over time. We'll walk side-by-side, with you gradually taking the lead and me offering steady support. If you have pressing concerns, those always take precedence. Our sessions focus on understanding HOW you think, not just WHAT you think, exploring both conscious and unconscious beliefs and emotions. You'll leave with clear, actionable steps, such as mindfulness exercises, creative writing prompts, meditation, and breathwork techniques to regulate emotions and reclaim your narrative. Therapy isn't about fixing what's "broken" but enhancing alignment and fulfillment while overcoming obstacles. By focusing on your goals and measuring progress, we can eliminate stigma, leaving shame behind and empowering you toward greater self-awareness and fulfillment.
VirtualAvailable
Empowering
Warm
Authentic

Specialties

Addiction
Grief
Substance Misuse
+10
My name is Sondra G. Petty. I am a seasoned clinical social worker who has worked with all ethic groups with a specialty in addictions, women's issues, mental health in the areas of Depression, anxiety, mood disorders, crisis intervention, grief and coping family and career issues. I am a graduate of Howard University. I had additional study at Smith College in Object Relations Theory and The George Washington University.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Empowering
Warm

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
If you’ve spent a long time feeling unseen, overwhelmed, or carrying the weight of old experiences, I want you to know that you don’t need to do that alone, nor do you need to change who you are. You deserve to feel more like yourself, not less. My work is about getting to know the real you and nurturing the strengths, intuition, and resilience you already have. I’m here to offer a space where you can be supported and understood without judgment. I’m on your side.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+1
Hello! I am passionate about helping people increase self-understanding and self-compassion to become the best version of themselves. I enjoy helping others navigate challenging life transitions, increase resilience, and heal from past trauma. Together, we will identify areas for growth and existing strengths, to improve your quality of life and relationships. I offer a warm, collaborative, and nonjudgmental space for meaningful work. I am here to help you connect with yourself to feel whole, grounded, and empowered.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Warm
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Mood Disorders
+1
Hi, my name is Stephen As a Christian do you ever feel like you are letting God down, or like you are not being faithful enough because you have real-life problems? Problems In your relationship, emotionally, behaviorally, or even with substance abuse. Is it hard to be kind to yourself? I help individuals manage their anxiety, depression, or burnout by addressing the needs of your body, mind, and spirit using the bible. I integrate current counseling theories with sound biblical principles to help develop a stronger relationship with God, and a stronger you. Whether you are dealing with being overwhelmed, relationship issues, or cycles of anxiety and depression, I am here to help. Seeking therapy can seem scary and maybe even against some of the teachings you've learned in church, but you are making the right choice. You deserve a safe space to heal and grow. In our sessions together I will meet with you, and your spouse if you want, with compassion and evidence-based techniques while using biblical principles so you can overcome the hang-ups and habits holding you back. The research says that 1 in 4 people in the United States, at any given time, have mental health issues. This does not exclude the church. The average church in Virginia has 250 members attending on any given Sunday. That means that at least fifty people in your church service last Sunday are struggling with some type of mental illness or emotional problem. I work with churches to help them with ministering to the hurting, please let me help you.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Empowering
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
LGBTQ
Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
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Welcome! I'm Giovonni- a poet, writer, licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) and certified OCD and Anxiety specialist serving residents in DC, MD, and VA. As a multicultural lesbian, I am dedicated to creating safe and affirming spaces for healing within communities of color and LGBTQ+ individuals. If you aren't experiencing anxiety or OCD, I would not be the right clinician for you. Allow me to visually paint a picture for you of what it's like to experience anxiety or OCD using a poem. Anxiety: There is a hum beneath everything I do. Restless. On edge. My mind scanning for threats that probably aren't there probably. I snap. I tense. I lie awake untangling the same worry I untangled last night. I smile fine. I function...barely. I am fine. The hum disagrees. Six months of this. Maybe more. The body keeps the score even when I pretend it doesn't. The Loop (OCD): Did I lock it? I locked it. But did I really? The thought arrives like a verdict intrusive, unwanted, wearing my voice. So I check. I count. I do it again and again until again feels safe. It never feels safe. Not contamination, not the door, not the stove it's the uncertainty I cannot hold. The ritual buys me sixty seconds of quiet before the loop loads again. I am not my thoughts. But they haven't learned that yet.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Empowering

Specialties

Life Transitions
Mood Disorders
Spirituality
+6
We all have the opportunity in our life to start fresh. During the journey, we change, grow, heal, destroy, and can improve our lives. You will experience difficulties, and you are not alone. We are not alone in this world, but we are compelled to isolate ourselves from the fear of experiencing too much pain. I have many years of clinical training with life experiences, including successes and failures, but we are not provided a how to manual at birth. I have a sense of humor, but good sound clinical judgment, so take a leap of faith.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Open-minded

Specialties

ADHD
Anxiety
Life Transitions
+8
If your brain never fully shuts off, you overthink everything, or you feel mentally exhausted even when life looks “fine” from the outside, you’re in the right place. I work best with thoughtful, reflective adults navigating anxiety, ADHD, burnout, relationship patterns, life transitions, and the pressure of trying to hold everything together. Many of my clients are young adults, college students, and working professionals who are thoughtful, high-functioning, and often spend more time in their own heads than they’d like. My approach is conversational, direct, and insight-oriented. I don’t believe therapy is about me having all the answers. You are the expert on your own life. My role is to help you identify patterns, challenge assumptions, explore different perspectives, and uncover solutions that already fit who you are. Clients often appreciate my open-minded approach, curiosity, and ability to create a space where they can think out loud without judgment. Therapy with me is less about being told what to do and more about developing a deeper understanding of yourself and how you want to move through the world.
Available
Warm
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

Anger Management
Depression
Men's Issues
+10
Hi, I’m Bryan McHenry. I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Virginia. Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. First and foremost, I applaud your courage in seeking mental health counseling. In this season of your life, you might’ve discovered a lot of uncomfortable feelings and thoughts. That is very difficult to manage alone. Coming into the counseling process is a new beginning of wholeness and healing. Thank you for allowing me the honor to be apart of that journey. Though I’ve worked with a variety of populations and settings, my primary work includes men’s health/issues, depression, anxiety, grief, anger management, and life coaching. I would be honored to work with you during this time of your life. Let’s get to work.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Warm
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Depression
+2
Do you feel like you're just existing in life? Have you lost your sense of self or identity? Throughout this journey called life, obstacles, stressors, and disappointments contribute to feeling the "blahs." Often, when not addressed, these stressors can lead to depression, anxiety, a loss of self-identity, and low self-esteem. Therapy with me can help you reclaim your confidence, improve your self-esteem, and foster a meaningful relationship with yourself and others without compromising your daily activities. Hi, I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Virginia with 10 years of experience in the mental health field. I specialize in depression and anxiety, burnout, and self-esteem concerns while providing education and developing practical coping skills. My counseling style utilizes various therapeutic approaches and theories to promote positive outcomes.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Empowering
Warm

Specialties

Anxiety
Couples Counseling
Family Conflict
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I am a graduate of both Saint Leo University and Regent University. I hold a B.A. in Psychology and a M.A. in Marriage & Family Therapy. I use a structural, solution-focused, and CBT approach when working with clients coupled with a calm spirit that helps clients feel accepted. I enjoy helping clients discover their strengths while highlighting how their thoughts and feelings contribute to their daily living and functioning. I am passionate about marriage, at-risk youth, and military communities. I enjoy working with individuals, couples, adolescents and adults. I believe relational intelligence is the key that unlocks our greatest potential. Therapy can be a huge step, therefore I find it important to build a relationship with you as my client by getting to know you and your experiences while empowering you to identify the change you would like to make. When I am is not helping clients, I serve as an Active Duty Sailor and full-time mom. I enjoy reading and exercising with my family. I am grounded in mindfulness and can implement meditation and spirituality into practice if preferred. I also provides pre-martial and life coaching services.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

Depression
Addiction
Anger Management
+6
Welcome, I'm glad you are here! I'm Aline and I empower you to reconnect with your authentic self, and achieve your goals in counseling. I believe you already possess within you the capacity and resources to resolve your own issues and just need the support in therapy to tap into your strengths to enhance your mental wellness. My goal is to provide a safe therapeutic environment for exploration, understanding of current unhelpful patterns, collaborative problem solving, and building of skills that foster growth.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Solution oriented
Direct

Specialties

ADHD
Anxiety
Trauma and PTSD
+15
If you can read this, you made the first step. Congratulations. Seeking therapy is hard. Most people delay and tell themselves that whatever they are experiencing must be the way life is. Chances are if you have reached the point to begin exploring therapy, counseling can help make your life better. While therapy is often hard, it can be an enjoyable and uplifting experience as well. I believe that you cannot laugh without a combination of insight and relief. You can expect some humor in most sessions. I have been a Licensed Professional Counselor for over 20 years. In that time I have worked with men, women, teens, and families on a wide variety of issues. Sometimes that work simply involved helping them through a particular incident or life change that overwhelmed them. Other times our work together centered around longstanding issues of depression, anxiety, trauma, and addiction. In addition to traditional cognitive behavioral therapy, I also offer a fourth-wave therapy, Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT). I have found this technique to be highly effective in helping people with trauma and or anxiety. Our minds and bodies are connected. Anyone who has experienced a tight neck and shoulders or an upset stomach when they were stressed knows this. EFT uses acupressure (done by the client) and cognitive interventions to provide fast and effective relief. With over 20 years of clinical experience, I am ready to help you through the challenges you are facing. In addition to counseling, I also provide vocational testing, coaching, and consulting. I provide both Christian and secular counseling depending on the needs of my clients. For clients with high level confidentiality concerns due to corporate or clearance issues, there are ways we can do EFT without you ever speaking out loud about events.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Intelligent
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+10
I graduated Eastern Michigan University with a major in psychology and a minor in nutrition in 2007. I completed my PhD program at the University of Detroit Mercy in 2014. During that time period I worked with patients in outpatient and inpatient settings including the University psychology clinic, Wayne State Family Medicine Center, Providence Alaska Family Medicine Center, and Providence Alaska inpatient services.I’m a clinical psychologist (PhD) specializing in trauma, anxiety, depression, and the mind–body impact of stress. My approach is warm, relational, and psychodynamic — I help you understand not just what you’re feeling, but why it keeps happening. Many of my clients come to me after trying short-term or skills-only therapy and not feeling truly understood. Together, we look at the deeper patterns shaped by past experiences, trauma, and relationships. This includes medical trauma, chronic illness, health anxiety, and eating issues rooted in shame or self-criticism. I offer teletherapy to adults who want thoughtful, insight-oriented work that leads to lasting change.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Solution oriented
Direct

Specialties

Anger Management
Anxiety
Mood Disorders
+9
Twenty-five years of experience working with a wide range of individuals with a wide range of presenting problems and needs. I have helped individuals work through grief, trauma, adjustment disorders, difficult life transitions, acculturation issues and end of life counseling. I have helped many individuals gain new insights and coping abilities in managing chronic mood disorders, anxiety and fear disorders, personality disorders and impulse control disorders. I have experience working with addiction and recovery including compulsive gambling and sex addictions. I have also worked with individuals in various stages of commitment to change. I began my career working in community mental health serving individuals with severe and persistent mental illness/primary psychosis disorders such as schizophrenia, schizoaffective, delusional and bipolar affective disorders. I have worked in a variety of settings within the mental health field including hospital settings, partial hospitalization settings, outpatient therapy, intensive case management, as well as remote services. I have been clinical director of two outpatient treatment centers. I have facilitated many therapy groups including anger management, anxiety management, wellness and recovery, co-occurring disorders and trauma-focused groups.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Solution oriented

Specialties

ADHD
Anxiety
Coping Skills
+10
Hi there! I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and I am passionate about working with people, helping them find peace, healing, and resolution. I do not use a predetermined approach, but rather, I tailor the therapeutic experience to meet each individual's needs and treatment goals. Our goals will be centered around helping you establish coping skills in order to build your confidence to overcome life's challenges. I want to help you overcome your internal battles you thought were impossible.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Intelligent

Specialties

First Responders/Healthcare Workers
Mood Disorders
Suicidal Ideation
+10
Hi there, I'm Andi. Do you feel like you are thriving or are you just surviving? Are you looking to take the next steps to living a balanced life? Do you feel overwhelmed and you're possibly struggling with relationships, work, or your health? Is it time for change but you just don't know where to begin? Feel safe in starting here. Together, we can work to manage stress, anxiety, and/or depressive symptoms. You can have successes in your relationships and in your personal journey to living a happy and well balanced life. I have extensive training and background in family work and trauma counseling that I bring to the table to provide a safe and judgement-free zone. In our sessions, I will meet you with a healthy sense of humor, compassion, and perseverance to find the strategies that will help you take the next steps on your path to thriving. Contact me today and we starting the process in placing those stepping stones of tomorrow.
VirtualAvailable
Frequently asked questions

When looking for online therapy, you can see anyone that is credentialed in Virginia. We want you to find the best fit, therefore, Grow Therapy shows available therapists across Virginia from Norfolk to Roanoke! If you’d rather see someone in-person, you can change the filter from virtual and find a therapist near you in Virginia.

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Finding a provider with a similar life experience can be beneficial because it can be easier to establish rapport and potentially be understood quicker and clearer.

Your first therapy session is for you and your therapist to meet each other and to ask any questions that you have about the counseling process. This is where you can expect your therapist to do the same as they will ask questions to gain insight into your specific situation. In this first session the therapist is doing their part to gather as much information so they can better assess if they are able to meet your therapeutic needs. Depending upon your provider's specialty, you may also discuss the methods the therapist will use. For additional information on therapy methods, please visit the Grow Therapy Help Center.Some people feel nervous before their first appointment, and that is totally normal! Coming prepared with a list of questions for your therapist may help. Remember, you're taking a brave step by seeking therapy, and it is okay to be nervous as you try something new.