Blue Cross Blue Shield Therapists in Virginia

Finding therapists who take Blue Cross Blue Shield (BCBS), whether through online therapy or in-person near you, can make getting mental health care more accessible and cost-effective. With 516 verified therapists in Virginia who accept BCBS, you can filter by therapeutic approaches such as cognitive behavioral therapy, interpersonal therapy, and acceptance and commitment therapy to address issues like anxiety, depression, ADHD, and other concerns. Each Grow Therapy-verified therapist who takes Blue Cross Blue Shield listed below is currently welcoming new clients and has availability within the next 30 days, providing you with timely, quality support that fits within your BCBS coverage.

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Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Depression
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Stephanie Barbour (LPC, LSATP, CSAC) is a licensed professional counselor and licensed substance abuse provider with over 20 years of experience in the mental health and substance use field. She has worked with adolescents, young adults, adults, couples, and families across a variety of settings. Her specialties include substance abuse, depression, stress management, work–life balance, and anxiety. Stephanie believes that our core values shape the way we live, make decisions, and connect with others. When we know what we value—and stay true to those values—we build self-confidence, strengthen self-esteem, and create a greater sense of purpose and direction in life. Her counseling style is proactive, skill-based, creative, and solution-focused. She is direct but supportive, encouraging without being pushy, and active rather than passive. Stephanie also integrates humor into her work when appropriate, believing that laughter can be a powerful part of growth and healing.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Intelligent
Specialties
Addiction
Anger Management
Anxiety
Hello, my name is Sally. For decades it has been my life mission to help people return to resiliency after setbacks, losses, pain, stress, and suffering. Resiliency means you still acknowledge and own the dark times in your life, but you are freed to return to creating, to feeling compassion instead of being needy and fatigued. Resiliency means your body, brain, hormones, and emotions are back in flow and in healthy relationships with others and the environment and that your mind is free to focus on the things you want and need to focus on. Often people come to therapy feeling stuck and feeling unable to change a situation or the suffering in their lives. Many times for life problems that just emerge, all you need to return to resiliency is more options to consider. Most successful outcomes involve finding the right combination of attacking certain aspects, embracing and loving certain aspects, simply letting go of some aspects, and avoiding some aspects of an issue. I bring a comprehensive set of tools and provide coaching on how you can put the right tools for you and your situation into action. In all cases, it is best to build on our strengths. However, in many cases - especially if your ‘weaknesses’ are connected to intractable and chronic pain or long-term damage, like in addictions, it is best not to ignore or push those problems and feelings down or to the back. I can help you navigate through the inner judges, critics, and defender parts back to a centered, reliable starting place. I help you find and connect a ‘good self to come from’. Sometimes emergent life challenges reveal the deep fault lines of old unresolved traumas. Often struggles with competency, completion, relationships, dependence, or other aspects of being consistently functional and resilient are rooted in unresolved events or relational traumas. I can help you make a journey map to get started in coping with and ultimately resolving those traumas. I can assist you in learning how to connect to and relate to those parts that are impediments to healthy relationships, body flow, and resiliency. The task is to reorganize clusters of feelings and find a starting place for change and balance.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
ADHD
Autism
LGBTQ
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Hello! I'm Hannah. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in Virginia. I received my Master's in Counseling and Human Development from Radford University and have been practicing for 6 years. I enjoy assisting people from all walks of life in achieving their therapy goals. Every client is different, so I take an eclectic approach to therapy to tailor it to the individual's needs. Please note that the time you book your appointment for will be the time that we will meet on a weekly basis as my schedule is fairly full.
VirtualAvailable
Challenging
Direct
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Women's Issues
Hello! I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in Virginia, with a Master's degree from Liberty University. My passion lies in helping women navigate life's unexpected challenges. By addressing negative patterns and habits, I support women in overcoming obstacles across various life domains. I provide a safe and supportive space for clients to explore trauma, process experiences, find their voice and cultivate resilience. I guide clients toward self-awareness, authenticity, and empowerment, aiming to help them live in alignment with their true selves and realize their full potential.
VirtualAvailable
Solution oriented
Empowering
Warm
Specialties
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Depression
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I am a therapist with 10 years of experience working with adolescents and adults in various settings, including private practice, schools, inpatient hospitals, outpatient community-based care, IOP (Intensive Outpatient Program), and PHP (Partial Hospitalization Program). I am licensed in the states of MD, VA, and DC. Additionally, I provide DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) group therapy. In addition to my practice, I also serve as an adjunct instructor at Marymount University. I find great fulfillment in my job as it allows me to make a positive impact on the world by helping individuals on a one-on-one basis. Lastly, I am a certified coach practitioner, and I find great joy in assisting my patients in setting and accomplishing their personal goals. Whether it's in their personal or professional lives, I provide support and guidance to help them navigate their journey towards success.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Warm
Direct
Specialties
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Self Esteem
Whether you're looking to improve your emotional wellbeing, strengthen your relationships, or navigate a specific life challenge, talk therapy is an excellent place to begin. I bring a unique interdisciplinary background to my work, holding a Bachelor of Arts in Music and a Master of Arts in Psychology. My approach is creative, collaborative, and personalized. When appropriate, I incorporate elements of music and expressive arts into therapy to help clients access emotions, build insight, and develop new coping skills. With my background in the arts, I am particularly passionate about supporting fellow artists, performers, creatives, and individuals struggling with performance anxiety, perfectionism, self-confidence, and the pressures of high achievement. I also have over a decade of experience working with anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, self-esteem concerns, life transitions, and personal growth. I consider it a privilege to work in this field and to have worked with diverse populations across California, the Hawaiian Islands and most recently, Northern Virginia and Washington, D.C.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Open-minded
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Trauma and PTSD
Women's Issues
Kate (she/her) is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Registered Play Therapist Supervisor with 18 years of experience in community mental health, school-based, and outpatient settings. Kate is dedicated to supporting individuals of all ages as they navigate trauma, grief and loss, anxiety, depression, relationship stressors, and challenging life circumstances. Her goal is to create a warm, non-judgmental, encouraging, collaborative and trauma-informed environment where clients feel safe, supported and empowered as they work towards finding meaning. She is LGBTQIA+ allied and affirming and hopes to create an inclusive space for people of all racial, ethnic, and cultural backgrounds. Her person-centered and strengths-based approach includes psychodynamic therapy and she integrates EMDR, mindfulness, DBT, play therapy, sand tray, and expressive arts. Kate previously worked with animals and has studied animal-assisted play therapy. She also enjoys doing supervision for those working towards their RPT (Registered Play Therapist) credential. Outside of her therapeutic work, Kate enjoys music, spending time with pets and fostering dogs, exploring nature, and taking art classes.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Warm
Intelligent
Specialties
Anxiety
Bipolar Disorder
Depression
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Feeling like you can't quite keep it together? Sometimes we get overwhelmed with the stresses in life and need help sorting them out. Maybe you've just hit a low point or feeling overly worried and anxious. Talking to a therapist has helped many people who are feeling the same way. The last few years have been more than difficult, and people are struggling. I help people figure out what's working well for them and what's not. Then we explore together the many strengths and skills you already have and can use to overcome the problems life throws at us. I teach new skills and introduce new tools that you can use to feel better and get your life back on track. I have many years of experience working with people with depression and anxiety as well as bipolar and schizophrenia. I am accepting of varying types of diversity and use solution focused methods with compassion and caring to create and meet the therapeutic goals that are unique to you. Starting therapy can be hard but it can change your life. I would love to work with you to start that process and look forward to meeting you.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Warm
Empowering
Specialties
Addiction
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
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Hey there! I’m Sacha, a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and Certified Substance Abuse Counselor (CSAC) in Virginia. I provide a compassionate, direct, and collaborative approach to therapy, where you can safely explore challenges while building tools for meaningful, lasting change. My goal is for you to feel more confident, empowered, and understood throughout our work together. I have experience in substance use settings and trauma-informed care, and I support clients navigating stress, trauma, mood challenges, and substance use. My approach is person-centered and tailored to you—this might look like building insight, strengthening coping tools, or helping you feel more grounded and stable day to day. EMDR supports your brain and body in processing experiences that may still feel present, activated, or unresolved. Rather than staying only in the story of what you’ve been through, EMDR helps create space for your system to actually reprocess and shift how those experiences are held.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Warm
Empowering
Specialties
ADHD
Anxiety
Women's Issues
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Hi, My name is Kristel. I am an LCSW who provides talk therapy via Telehealth. I am a multifaceted individual with diverse life experiences that inform my perspective. As a former military brat and spouse, I've intimately understood the complexities of life's transitions. My journey has taken me from being a young wife to mature single and dating, stay-at-home mom to working mom, anxious new parent to accepting mother of teens, rule follower to empowered, scarcity mindset to abundance mindset, employee to entrepreneur, stuck to the growth mindset, financially insecure to thriving, trauma victim to survivor, neuro-ambiguous to neurodivergent, granting me a unique appreciation for all the roles I have experienced in my life. I'm a devoted mother of two children, and my path has been marked by significant challenges, including the struggle with infertility and profound grief. I proudly identify as a feminist and supporter of the BIPOC and LGBTQ+ community. These aspects of my identity deeply influence my approach to life and work. With a background in working with families, individuals, and children, I bring a wealth of experience. My personal journey has shaped my empathetic, compassionate, and inclusive perspective, which I offer as a source of support and understanding to those I work with.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Depression
Addiction
Anger Management
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Welcome, I'm glad you are here! I'm Aline and I empower you to reconnect with your authentic self, and achieve your goals in counseling. I believe you already possess within you the capacity and resources to resolve your own issues and just need the support in therapy to tap into your strengths to enhance your mental wellness. My goal is to provide a safe therapeutic environment for exploration, understanding of current unhelpful patterns, collaborative problem solving, and building of skills that foster growth.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Child or Adolescent
Depression
Women's Issues
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Hi, I’m La’Kisha “Kisha” Jordan and I believe therapy is a healing space rooted in truth, transformation, and cultural connection. I work with teens, individuals, women, and families who are tired of just surviving and ready to start healing—for real. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, depression, relationship stress, trauma, or just feeling lost in the noise of life, I hold space that is safe, soulful, and judgment-free. My approach is eclectic and intuitive—I don’t just use one method because you’re not one-size-fits-all. I blend evidence-based techniques like CBT and DBT with creativity, storytelling, spirituality, and real talk. One session might include grounding and deep breathing; another might involve journaling, laughter, or hard truths said with love. I meet you where you are, and walk with you toward where you want to be. I’m not just a therapist behind a desk—I’m a woman who’s lived, lost, loved, and learned. I see you. I hear you. And I believe in your ability to grow through what you go through.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Trauma and PTSD
Anxiety
Depression
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Hi, I'm Lindsay. I am here to help you on your healing journey. I believe that each and every person holds all of the wisdom they need to overcome life’s traumas directly within themselves. My job as a therapist is to help shine a light on your own inner wisdom, and guide you through the healing process in a safe, nonjudgmental space. I believe that when we approach life’s challenges with curiosity rather than criticism we are better able to reach a sense of peace and acceptance to some of lives most complex circumstances and hardships. I am passionate about helping my clients navigate their journey to their most authentic, free, and true selves. I believe that when we have the tools to attune ourselves to our mind, body and spirit we come home to ourselves. And when we are at home within ourselves, we are free. Whether you are seeking to recover from narcissistic abuse, intimate partner violence, or family or childhood trauma, or you are struggling with a difficult life transition or depression, or anxiety. I will meet you exactly where you are. I believe that each individual is the expert on their own lives. My sole purpose as your therapist is to guide you with compassion and care to help you unlock your innate inner wisdom and equip you with the tools you need to overcome the trauma of your past. I am dedicated to liberation therapy and I reject all systems of oppression including but not limited to white supremacy, racism, and sexism.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Solution oriented
Specialties
Coping Skills
Life Transitions
Sex Therapy
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I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with over 20 years of experience in the mental health field and 10 years in private practice. As a certified sex therapist through AASECT, I specialize in supporting individuals and couples navigating intimacy, relationship challenges and personal growth. My approach is warm, relational, and grounded in evidence-based practices like Emotionally Focused Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Cognitive Behavior Therapy and Integrative Behavioral Couple Therapy. I specialize in working with couples to strengthen their connection, improve communication, and navigate challenges together. I integrate couples therapy with sex therapy to help partners deepen emotional and physical intimacy, address concerns around desire and sexual functioning, and foster a more fulfilling relationship. I feel it is important to offer clients practical tools and exercises they can use outside of therapy, because real change happens not just in the session, but daily life. These strategies help reinforce what we explore together, support continued growth between sessions, and empower clients to manage challenges as they arise. Whether it's mindfulness practices, communication techniques, journaling prompts, or coping skills, these resources give clients something tangible to hold onto as they build confidence and resilience on their own path. I view therapy as a collaborative process-an active partnership between client and therapist. We work together to explore challenges, identify goals, and create meaningful changes. While I bring clinical insight and guidance, the client brings their lived experience, wisdom, and willingness to grow.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Humorous
Specialties
ADHD
Life Transitions
Anger Management
+7
Hello and welcome. I really enjoy getting to know people and building genuine connections as we move through the ups and downs of life together. In our work, we might focus on relationships, managing stress, improving communication, navigating life transitions, and finding steadiness with emotions and thoughts. We can also make space to understand past experiences, explore patterns in dating and intimacy, and work toward a more balanced and meaningful life. I’m especially interested in the parts of ourselves that don’t always get attention—the quieter or “hidden” pieces that often have a lot to teach us. If you’re willing to show up as you are, I’ll meet you there with care and consistency. Thank you for being here.
Available
Warm
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Life Transitions
Spirituality
Trauma and PTSD
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Hi! I'm Christy, and I'm a T​herapist, Hypnotherapist, and an Energy Healer. I fell in love with the idea of being a therapist in middle school and never wavered from that path. Through schooling and diverse professional experience, I became a Licensed Professional Counselor, a career I've taken seriously and loved for 25 years and counting. I've continued to learn and grow my healing toolkit with hypnotherapy, transpersonal psychology, spirituality, energy healing, somatic expression, and healing of my own personal traumas and experiences so that I can continue to offer more and more opportunities for growth for my clients. I take pride in my ability to relate to clients, listen with a non-judgmental ear, and provide the support and guidance needed for clients to improve their lives. In addition to traditional methods of counseling, I incorporate hypnotherapy, life coaching, empowerment techniques, relaxation and meditation, energy healing, transpersonal and spiritual therapy, and other modern and mystical techniques that challenge clients to grow in their lives. My passion is healing, growing, learning, shining my light, and supporting others to heal, grow, learn, and shine their light as well. Now that you know about me, I look forward to getting to know you too!
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Solution oriented
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
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Hello, I'm a licensed professional therapist practicing in California and Virginia since 2003. I have such respect and admiration for my clients because seeking therapy is very courageous. My goal for your therapy journey is to develop a relationship where you can feel trust so that you can become your authentic self. My therapeutic style is very eclectic and versatile. I want to provide a warm environment for you to feel better and grow. I specialize in treating you as a person and starting in a place where you are comfortable while adjusting to your needs as we move forward. I have expertise in treating depression/anxiety disorders, grief/loss, infertility, trauma, and relationship conflicts.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Women's Issues
+4
Hi, I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in Virginia. I received my PhD in Counselor Education from Virginia Tech and have been practicing for over 22 years. I have worked with clients from many different backgrounds and circumstances. I help young adults who are struggling to figure out their future as well as older adults with mid-life challenges and difficulties.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Warm
Authentic
Solution oriented
Specialties
ADHD
Parenting
Women's Issues
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Hello! My name is Kody and I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Virginia. I work with individuals who are feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, stuck in unhealthy patterns, or navigating significant life transitions. Many of my clients are women working to rediscover themselves, parents trying to find balance, or individuals with ADHD seeking greater self-understanding. My goal is to provide a supportive, down-to-earth space where clients feel understood, gain deeper self-awareness, build healthier coping skills and relationships, and create lasting change that helps them feel more confident, connected, and aligned with the life they want to live.
Available
Open-minded
Solution oriented
Authentic
Specialties
Depression
Life Transitions
Men's Issues
+10
I believe that every person has the capacity for growth, healing, and meaningful change when they are met with compassion, respect, and genuine understanding. My approach to therapy is grounded in Person-Centered Therapy, creating a safe, supportive, and nonjudgmental space where clients feel heard, valued, and empowered to explore life's challenges at their own pace. I have experience working with individuals facing anxiety, depression, addiction, and suicidal ideation, providing compassionate, evidence-based care during some of life's most difficult moments. I also have experience supporting military members, veterans, first responders, and couples, recognizing the unique stressors and relationship dynamics these populations often experience. Clients often describe me as inquisitive, personable, and easy to talk to. I believe that curiosity, authentic connection, and thoughtful listening are essential to understanding each person's unique story, Rather than taking a one-size-fits-all approach, I collaborate with clients to identify their strengths, clarify their goals, and develop practical strategies that foster resilience, healing, and lasting change. Whether you are navigating a life transition, working through emotional pain, strengthening your relationships, or seeking personal growth, I am committed to walking alongside you with empathy, respect, and encouragement as you move toward the life you want to create.
Available

Often rebooked

Authentic
Empowering
Warm
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+9
Hi! I'm Lindsey. Have you been feeling stuck lately and have overwhelming thoughts or emotions you just can't seem to manage? Do you find it hard to move on from difficulties faced in the past that continue to impact your present self negatively? I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and specialize in working with children and young adults to become a better version of themselves by processing trauma, current life stressors, and overall difficult emotions. I believe that you are the foundation for your own success and work to highlight your current abilities in an effort to support continued growth. My passion is helping those who have experienced a traumatic event in being able to become resilient and stronger people moving forward. I often use humor in conversations that seem difficult to face. Together, we can work to identify your goals and ways that you can work toward achieving them in an environment that feels safe and compassionate.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Empowering
Authentic
Specialties
Military/Veterans
Self-Harming
Trauma and PTSD
+9
Hi, I'm Lauren! I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor who believes therapy should be a space where you feel heard, respected, and supported without judgment. I am certified in EMDR, CBT, and trauma sensitive yoga therapy practices. I work with adults experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, and life transitions. I also have a passion for supporting first responders, law enforcement professionals, and others in high-stress careers who often carry more than they let others see. My approach is collaborative, evidence-based, and tailored to your individual goals. Together, we'll build practical coping strategies, explore patterns that may be keeping you stuck, and work toward meaningful, lasting change. Whether you're navigating a difficult season or simply looking to better understand yourself, I'm committed to helping you move forward with confidence and resilience
Available
Warm
Authentic
Solution oriented
Specialties
Mood Disorders
Serious Mental Illness
Trauma and PTSD
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Hi, I’m a licensed psychotherapist specializing in individual, marriage, and family therapy. Since 2016, I’ve had the privilege of supporting individuals, couples, and families on their journeys toward healing. My path began as a behavior technician, giving me practical insight into emotional and behavioral challenges. As a therapist, I help people navigate trauma, depression, anxiety, relationship conflicts, emotional dysregulation, and burnout. My approach blends psychodynamic therapy, psychoeducation, and body-mind (somatic) techniques so we can explore emotional patterns, increase self-awareness, and heal the effects of stress and trauma held in the body. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck in cycles, or struggling to connect with yourself or others, I offer a collaborative, trauma-informed space for deep healing and growth. I support clients with a wide range of concerns, including: Grief and loss, mood instability, and psychotic spectrum disorders Major life transitions like career changes, divorce, relocation, and new parenthood LGBTQ+ support, spiritual exploration, and existential questions Relationship and family dynamics, including co-parenting, communication, and attachment wounds Chronic pain, body image, and somatic trauma symptoms Workplace stress, burnout, perfectionism, and executive functioning challenges
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Open-minded
Specialties
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Trauma and PTSD
+4
Hi and welcome to the first step in your healing journey. I understand that taking this first step can be difficult, but it is courageous and I'm here to support you on your journey. I have 15 years of experience in the mental health field working with adults, adolescents, children, and families with a wide range of mental health needs including anxiety, trauma, depression, grief and loss, parenting, and life stressors. My diverse background equips me to help people in different stages of life with a variety of needs. I truly enjoy working with children but I have a general belief that in-person care is the best option. I have treatment specific interest in treating anxiety disorders and the inevitable complications with daily life struggles that develop with anxiety-based symptoms. Anxiety is often linked to events that were experienced as traumatic or confusing in childhood or during our adult lives. I believe that everyone is unique as well as their life experiences therefore treatment interventions need to be individualized.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Solution oriented
Humorous
Specialties
Career Counseling
Life Transitions
Women's Issues
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Are you a woman facing big decisions? Navigating relationship challenges, family dynamics, parenting difficulties, career pivots? My background shapes how I approach therapy with clients facing such women's issues, which includes years as a licensed mental health counselor, but also as serving in senior leadership within higher education, supporting clients as a transformational coach, and balancing parenting along the way. This mix (and juggling act) gives me a practical understanding of how emotional wellbeing is often shaped by work, caregiving, relationships, and major life responsibilities. Many of the woman I work with are thoughtful, capable, and carrying more than others realize. They often appear highly functional on the outside while privately feeling overwhelmed, depleted, uncertain, or disconnected from themselves. I help clients slow things down enough to understand what is happening beneath the surface, identify what needs attention, and move forward in ways that feel grounded and realistic. I am licensed in Washington, Virginia, and Rhode Island, am a nationally certified counselor, and hold a doctorate in adult and higher education. While my colleagues may call me Dr. T, in counseling I'm just Melanie. I'm here to support you, help you find clarity and calm, offer guidance, levity, and a safe space for tears, perimenopausal rage, or a well placed curse word. Together, we find solutions to the barriers keeping you from your next chapter.
VirtualAvailable
Frequently asked questions

When looking for online therapy, you can see anyone that is credentialed in Virginia. We want you to find the best fit, therefore, Grow Therapy shows available therapists across Virginia from Norfolk to Roanoke! If you’d rather see someone in-person, you can change the filter from virtual and find a therapist near you in Virginia.

Yes! If you use Blue Cross Blue Shield you’ll be asked to verify your Member ID at the time you book the appointment. However, if you don’t have Blue Cross Blue Shield you can select cash. Our therapists will have their cost of appointment on their profile. Individual session costs will vary.

The specialty filter is optional. You don’t need to check any boxes to see a provider. However, fit is very important when selecting an online therapist. If you have knowledge or experience to recognize what specialties you may need.

Finding a provider with a similar life experience can be beneficial because it can be easier to establish rapport and potentially be understood quicker and clearer.

Your first therapy session is for you and your therapist to meet each other and to ask any questions that you have about the counseling process. This is where you can expect your therapist to do the same as they will ask questions to gain insight into your specific situation. In this first session the therapist is doing their part to gather as much information so they can better assess if they are able to meet your therapeutic needs. Depending upon your provider's specialty, you may also discuss the methods the therapist will use. For additional information on therapy methods, please visit the Grow Therapy Help Center.Some people feel nervous before their first appointment, and that is totally normal! Coming prepared with a list of questions for your therapist may help. Remember, you're taking a brave step by seeking therapy, and it is okay to be nervous as you try something new.