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My name is Stephen and I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist serving clients remotely in California and Florida. As a therapist I’m passionate about awe and the belief that to be fundamentally heard transforms our suffering at its core. I will provide you with a place to say and explore what you can't anywhere else in your life. In our work all of you is welcome: your heartbreak, depressions, dreams and rage, your jealousies, anxiety, all of your crises and shattered parts, the tangles and glories of your sexuality and your relationship with power, money and the intangible. I do this work because life is happening now, and not one second of it can be gotten back. My approach is person-centered, it honors your uniqueness. I blend insights from psychoanalysis with expertise gained over two-decades of deep commitment to meditation. I completed my MA Clinical Psychology at California Institute of Integral Studies in San Francisco. I also hold a BA in film and contemporary philosophy from Brown University. I have worked in community, school based, private practice and recovery settings. I continue to
In our first encounter, we will spend about an hour where I will invite you to talk about what is going on in your life - especially the reason driving you to start therapy in this moment. I will listen carefully in a way that gives you a sense of what our work together will be like, of what we might discover about yourself and your suffering. Therapy is a journey through your past and memories, the origins of your pain. It is a path that leads to new forms of life, built on new choices and deepening awareness of your core desires. My approach is person-centered, it honors your uniqueness. This means I will be very curious about the things you say and how you say them. I blend insights from psychoanalysis with expertise gained over two-decades of deep commitment to meditation. I will ask more questions and rarely give advice. Our work focuses on find your answers to your life that are already waiting to be found.
I offer my clients tremendous openness in every session. I cultivated that capacity deep encounters with the unknown in my own psychoanalysis and through intensive meditation. The unknown has been my greatest teacher. It has taught me humility, silence and how to look and listen deeply. I also found in it a real care for each human life in its uniquenesses and anguish. A deep relationship with my own unconscious continues to ripple through all of the ways I live, work, and relate in this world. In addition to my clinical practice, I have served as a meditation teacher for individuals in recovery and at various stages on the paths of insight and awareness for a decade. One of my favorite spots to teach is at Esalen on the cliffs overlooking the ocean and the infinite.
I appreciate and welcome a diverse range of identities and lifestyles in my practice. One core of my work is with older teens and young adults. They face a unique set of challenges with launching and finding their place in our contemporary world. I developed expertise at RAMS Child, Youth and Family Clinic and Ruth Asawa High School of the Arts in San Francisco supporting teens and twenty-somethings to navigate life challenges that intersect with neurodiversity, gender and identity, addictions, impulses for self-harm, political and ecological anxiety and more generally with finding their calling in school or career. Having spent more than half of my life outside of America, I am particularly sensitive to how complex, de-centering and overwhelming relationships, career and even the most basic enjoyments can be in a foreign country, or at least in one that is not in all senses home. I have extensive experience working with travelers, immigrants, nomads and third-culture folks of all kinds to work through alienation, identity and questions around core-self and integration in family or society. Weaving together with my background in meditation and art, I find a unique fulfillment in working with people on deeper connection to their creativity or spiritual practice.
Psychoanalysis as I practice it confronts each person with the dignity, freedom and dreams of their unique truth. A truth you will discover and create in our sessions together. We will open a rigorous and nuanced inquiry into your authentic dreams, desire and suffering. It is not about conforming to the demands of society, family or even your own expectations of what you are. Our work together will be a radical encounter with all the dimensions of your humanity - your beauty, your shadows, your sexuality, anxieties, your pain and your embodiment.
My approach is person-centered. We will focus on knowing and welcoming all of you. That includes accepting your traumas, dreams, losses, ambitions and everything else. As you begin to know and accept all of the parts of you with a deeper honesty, you will start to live from a place of fuller authenticity and make realer choices. In this way self-sabotage, feeling alienated or like an impostor can end.
As a relational, psychodynamic therapist I will work with you collaboratively to explore the problems you face internally and externally, and create new strategies for you to embody your vision for life. Psychodynamic therapy places a special emphasis on formative childhood experiences, including traumas and patterns of relating you may be holding onto that no longer work in your present life.
Sometimes we touch moments or states that transcend everyday, consensus reality. This can happen through spiritual practice or faith, psychedelics, during sex or a moment of trauma or crisis, or it can seem to come out of nowhere entirely. These experiences can be difficult to make sense of and very often have profound insights about your life and the world to offer. I make space for us to explore these experiences with openness and care.