IFS Therapy Therapists in Connecticut

Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy is a transformative approach that helps individuals connect with and harmonize the different “parts” of their inner world. By cultivating self-compassion and understanding, IFS empowers clients to heal past wounds and navigate emotional conflicts with greater clarity. With 9 IFS-trained therapists in Connecticut, you can access expert support tailored to fostering self-awareness, balance, and personal growth. Each Grow Therapy-verified therapist listed below is currently accepting new clients, offering timely availability for this unique and empowering therapeutic journey.

Availability updated: 10/8/2026

New to Grow

Specialties
Codependency
Self Esteem
Trauma and PTSD
+5
I’m Whitney Wilfred, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, but you can call me Whit. I believe therapy can be a space where you no longer have to carry everything alone. I work with adults, particularly women who are used to being the strong one—the nurturer, the achiever, the one everyone depends on—but who may be quietly navigating anxiety, trauma, relationship challenges, life transitions, or feeling disconnected from themselves. My approach is warm, honest, compassionate, and collaborative. I draw from EMDR, Internal Family Systems (IFS), CBT, and DBT while creating space to explore not only what you’re experiencing, but what may be underneath it. I’m especially passionate about supporting Black and Brown women as they heal, build confidence, strengthen relationships, reconnect with themselves, and move from simply surviving life to living it more fully. And while I’ll bring my clinical experience into the room, I also believe you are the expert on your own life. My role is to come alongside you as we make room for healing, growth, and the version of you that may have gotten buried underneath everything you’ve had to carry.
Available
Solution oriented
Warm
Authentic
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+3
In walking life’s path we can encounter crossroads, or obstacles, which block our ability to see ahead. We might get flooded with anxiety, or bogged down by choice; pausing our journey. One positive way to resume progress is to gain insight into the challenge, and find a next step. Taking that step shifts perspective, enabling the discovery of yet more steps.
VirtualAvailable
Empowering
Authentic
Warm
Specialties
Family Conflict
Parenting
Women's Issues
Hi, I am Tamar, LCSW, I specialize in children, families, and their contextual systems as well as with young adults and adults who present with depression, anxiety, self-harm, trauma, parenting, and relationship and family conflict. I offers a unique, comprehensive approach to chronic pain using mind-body healing. I invite you to connect further and discuss.
VirtualAvailable

New to Grow

Specialties
Attachment Issues
Couples Counseling
First Responders/Healthcare Workers
+9
I’m a warm, collaborative Marriage & Family Therapist dedicated to helping individuals, couples, and families feel grounded, understood, and supported. Over the past nine years, I’ve worked across Connecticut’s community mental health system, including adult outpatient services, jail diversion programs, child and family services, extended day treatment, adolescent and adult substance use treatment, intensive in‑home family therapy, and extensive clinical work with service members, Veterans, and first responders. My therapeutic style is integrative and trauma‑informed, drawing from Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), the Gottman Method, attachment‑based models, and somatic awareness practices. I help clients reconnect with their bodies, regulate their nervous systems, and build secure, meaningful relationships with themselves and others. I believe healing happens within compassionate, attuned relationships. Clients often share that they feel genuinely seen, supported, and empowered in our work together. Whether you’re navigating trauma, relationship challenges, or life transitions, I offer a safe, steady space for meaningful change.
Available

New to Grow

Specialties
Addiction / Substance Use
Anger Management
Sexual Health
+7
I believe therapy should be compassionate, practical, and purposeful. I work with people who feel stuck, find themselves repeating the same patterns, or know something needs to change but are not sure where to begin. My approach is collaborative and active. I will listen and support you, while also asking honest questions and helping you look at what may be getting in the way. Together, we will identify patterns, clarify what matters most to you, and take practical steps toward meaningful change. My goal is simple: to help you build a life that feels more aligned with who you are and who you want to be. Simple, not easy—but you do not have to figure it out alone.
Available
Warm
Empowering
Authentic
Specialties
Anxiety
Life Transitions
Trauma and PTSD
+7
Hi, I'm Ashley, a Licensed Professional Counselor and Reiki II practitioner. I believe that somewhere underneath the anxiety, the self-doubt, and the patterns that keep repeating, there is a version of you that already knows the way. My job isn't to fix you. It's to create a space steady enough that you can actually hear yourself. Together we get curious about the thoughts that won't quiet down, the emotions that feel bigger than the moment, the behaviors that keep showing up even when you don't want them to, and what all of it is actually trying to tell you. I utilize a holistic approach, bringing tools into our work that help you understand what's happening in your mind and body when you're overwhelmed, so you can actually do something about it instead of just surviving it. But more than any method or modality, I show up as a real person walking alongside you, trusting that you are the expert on your own life. If you're ready to listen to that wiser part of yourself and create meaningful change, I'd be honored to walk with you.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Specialties
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Trauma and PTSD
I am a compassionate, trauma-informed therapist who values creating a safe and supportive space for clients to explore, heal, and grow. I work with individuals experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, life transitions, and relationship challenges, using approaches such as EMDR, IFS, and CBT. My goal is to help clients better understand themselves, build healthier patterns, and feel more connected and empowered in their daily lives.
Available
Authentic
Warm
Specialties
Anxiety
Military/Veterans
Trauma and PTSD
+6
I’m a therapist who supports adults who carry a lot—people who often feel like the steady one for everyone else while quietly feeling overwhelmed or disconnected inside. I show up in therapy with warmth, grounding, and a calm presence, and I want this space to feel like somewhere you can finally slow down, breathe, and be fully yourself. As a queer therapist, a military spouse, and a former minister, I understand what it’s like to navigate identity, belonging, faith transitions, and the pressure to stay strong during major life changes. I provide culturally sensitive and LGBTQIA+ affirming care, and I’m experienced supporting military service members, veterans, and the loved ones who share the emotional load alongside them. I’m here to walk with you as you explore who you are, heal old patterns, build healthier boundaries, and create a life and relationships that feel more grounded, honest, and sustainable.
Available
Solution oriented
Authentic
Empowering
Specialties
Anxiety
Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
Self Esteem
+10
Welcome! I help insightful, motivated, and sensitive adults, young adults, and teenagers break free from anxiety and low self-esteem so that they can be their authentic selves and build lives they love. I also support those struggling with depression, perfectionism, performance anxiety/enhancement, life stress/transitions, trauma, phobias, grief, and relationships/parenting. Are you ready to slow the chaos, enhance your self confidence, and rebuild your sense of peace and control?
VirtualOffers in-person in Southington, CT - Accepting clients in CTAvailable
Frequently asked questions

When looking for online therapy, you can see anyone that is credentialed in Connecticut. We want you to find the best fit, therefore, Grow Therapy shows available therapists across Connecticut from New Haven to Springfield! If you’d rather see someone in-person, you can change the filter from virtual and find a therapist near you in Connecticut.

When booking you’ll be asked to verify with your Member ID. However, if you don’t have any of the insurances available you can select cash. Our therapists will have their cost of appointment on their profile. Individual session costs will vary.

The specialty filter is optional. You don’t need to check any boxes to see a provider. However, fit is very important when selecting an online therapist. If you have knowledge or experience to recognize what specialties you may need.

Finding a provider with a similar life experience can be beneficial because it can be easier to establish rapport and potentially be understood quicker and clearer.

Your first therapy session is for you and your therapist to meet each other and to ask any questions that you have about the counseling process. This is where you can expect your therapist to do the same as they will ask questions to gain insight into your specific situation. In this first session the therapist is doing their part to gather as much information so they can better assess if they are able to meet your therapeutic needs. Depending upon your provider's specialty, you may also discuss the methods the therapist will use. For additional information on therapy methods, please visit the Grow Therapy Help Center.Some people feel nervous before their first appointment, and that is totally normal! Coming prepared with a list of questions for your therapist may help. Remember, you're taking a brave step by seeking therapy, and it is okay to be nervous as you try something new.