Anxiety Therapists in New Mexico

Find the best anxiety therapist in New Mexico. Finding a therapist who understands the challenges of anxiety and specializes in anxiety therapy can make a world of difference in managing stress, intrusive thoughts, and worry. With 26 verified anxiety therapists in New Mexico, you can refine your search by therapeutic approach (like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, mindfulness-based therapy, or Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)) and specific areas of concern, such as generalized anxiety, panic attacks, or social anxiety. Each anxiety therapist is Grow Therapy-verified, accepting new clients, and has availability in the coming weeks, making it easier to get the help you need to navigate anxiety effectively.

Availability updated: 6/24/2025

Deborah Ridgeway

(she/her)

Deborah Ridgeway, LCSW - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$80/session
LCSW
17 years of experience
Virtual
I am a clinical social worker bringing a lifetime of experience to my work, helping clients to identify what's working and what's not; what is going well, and what they would like to change. I am a creative problem solver and excel at helping people get unstuck! I use my experience as a teacher, a human services professional, a small business owner and a clinical social worker to inform my practice and support client growth. I am eclectic in my approach, most often using cognitive behavioral therapy, brief therapy and positive psychology-- however I draw from other approaches and theories to meet the needs of the client. I am trained in trauma-focused CBT, substance abuse treatment and recovery, work with grief and loss, women's issues and strengths-based therapy. I identify as a long-time member of the LGBTQ community and am constantly striving to become more culturally sensitive and aware. I work with persons across the lifespan: ages preschool through seniors. I bring my sense of humor, ability to adapt and switch gears, and my huge heart and compassion to the work that I do!

Dr. Barry Daly

Dr. Barry Daly, LPCC - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LPCC
25 years of experience
Virtual
I specialize in culturally competent care, providing evidence-based therapy for individuals facing emotional, behavioral, and relational challenges. I meet clients where they are and offer personalized guidance to foster healing, hope, and self-discovery, helping them recognize and achieve their ultimate potential. You don’t have to face life’s challenges alone. Together, we can navigate your journey toward healing, hope, and personal growth. Let’s work to create a safe, inclusive space where your voice matters and your goals are within reach. Take the first step toward transformation today.

Julie Phillips

(she/her)

Julie Phillips, LCSW - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy

Frequently rebooked

$115/session
LCSW
7 years of experience
Virtual
Hello, my name is Julie Phillips and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I believe in supporting each other and one way I can support you is through therapy. Whether you need to process a stressful event or need to vent I am here to support you. I strive to tailor your session to meet your needs. Some sessions may need to be more strictly focused with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, while other sessions are spent on learning a new coping skill such as mindfulness. Your session is about you and what may help you the most to resolve what issues you may have and to help you find your strength and empower you to keep moving forward. My aim is to make you, the client, feel comfortable in a judgement free zone. I want you to feel like you came to the right place, a warm inviting, calm, and empowering space where you can share what you feel you need to share.

Teresa Burbach

Teresa Burbach, LMFT - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$100/session
LMFT
23 years of experience
Virtual
Hello! I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) who has been working with individuals, couples and families for twenty three years. I use interventions based on cognitive behavioral techniques to help you reach your goals and overcome patterns of behavior that are not working well for you. I believe you are the expert in your own life and strive to work with you to understand and move forward toward your goals.

Dennis Konadu

(He/Him)

Dennis Konadu, LCSW - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$160/session
LCSW
18 years of experience
Virtual
Dennis Konadu is a veteran of the US Army, and a dually licensed provider (LICSW and LADC). Dennis has 18 years of experience treating people with mental health disorders and specializes in substance use. Dennis graduated with his Masters in Social Work from the University of Connecticut School of Social Work in 2007 and has been practicing ever since. Currently, Dennis is in the process of completing a doctoral degree in Counseling Psychology (PsyD) from Rivier University in New Hampshire. Beginning mental health treatment can be daunting at first. You may have questions or even feel uncomfortable about speaking with someone. This therapist can help you by providing care that is unique, empowering and respectful of your needs. Whether you are reading this for yourself or for someone you love, you have come to the right place. Please reach out so we can take the next step in your treatment, together.

Yolanda Cavicchio

(she/her)

Yolanda Cavicchio, LPCC - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LPCC
9 years of experience
Virtual
I am an independently licensed mental health counselor with a specialization in Expressive Arts Therapy, currently servicing Massachusetts (LMHC) and New Mexico (LPCC). With over 9 years of experience in community based settings and private practice, I work with individuals navigating trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, and identity-related experiences, particularly within LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC communities. My practice centers on helping people feel more connected to their inner emotional experiences, as well as their external environments with a sense of belonging, trust, and agency. I draw from psychodynamic and depth psychology approaches with the intention of addressing underlying roots of distress, resulting in lasting change. I approach this work from a place of curiosity and a genuine desire to understand. I’m consistently interested in my clients and the unique experiences they bring to therapy. I consider each therapeutic relationship as a collaborative one. My style is warm, client-led, and holistic, with focus on building a trusting bond.

Edward Gibson

Edward Gibson, LPCC - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$110/session
LPCC
18 years of experience
Virtual
I have been in the mental health field since 2007. I was informed when I first started in this field that the average time for people to stay in the field is two years. I am still in the field because helping others is more than a career choice for me, it is my passion in life. Helping others is a personal goal of mine. I look forward to the opportunity. I enjoy seeing people make positive changes in their lives. I have worked with families, couples, children, adolescents and teens, from various cultures and backgrounds. Each case and each client is unique in their way and each client is important. My particular areas of expertise are depression, anxiety, substance abuse, marriage counseling and family counseling. I refer to myself as a "simple-minded therapist" which means we will explore simple ways to address the presenting concerns because many times the solutions are so simple they can be easily overlooked. I am a firm believer that holding a conversation is more productive than expounding on theoretical approaches.

Sharon Vargas

(she/her)

Sharon Vargas, LCSW - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$125/session
LCSW
11 years of experience
Virtual
My approach is based on who you are and what is relevant for you in order to be your best self. I collaboratively work with clients in re-connecting with their innate strength and resilience in their journey to face change and heal unresolved issues. I use a variety of modalities that support a client's ability to reconnect with their inner-self and identify ways in which they want to make positive changes. I treat a number of issues including unresolved complex trauma, addiction, co-occurring disorders, life transitions, anxiety, depression, grief & loss, relationship difficulties, low self esteem, Adult Children of Alcoholics, impact & insight into historical trauma, and sexual abuse. I am warm, empathetic and supportive but not afraid to challenge clients when necessary. I utilize evidence based and creative approaches such as CBT, Strength-Based approach, Trauma Informed CBT, Family Systems, DBT, Jungian art based skills and concepts, Assertive communication skills, and Mindfulness Based. I currently hold active LCSW licenses in both California and New Mexico.

Bonnie Galvan

(she/her)

Bonnie Galvan, LPCC - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LPCC
20 years of experience
Virtual
The one thing we share is the universal need to be heard without judgement or fear of shaming. The truth is , we have all been there , sometimes lost, sometimes angry , on top of the world then disillusioned. As much as we love our family and friends , sometimes they understand us the least. Let me help you to find the ways to cope , to understand what is going on in your life so that you can fix it. 20 years experience with every population to include adults, youth, anxiety, depression, couples, low self esteem , family issues, LGBTQI community welcome, all ethnicities and identification. I speak English and Spanish and will do my best to help and if I can’t I will refer you to someone that can. Here’s to better days , better control of self and your situation

Silvia Ascencio

Silvia Ascencio, LMFT - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$120/session
LMFT
10 years of experience
Virtual
My name is Silvia Ascencio, and I am a bilingual (Spanish-speaking) therapist with ten years of experience in the mental health field. I am licensed in both California and New Mexico. My areas of specialization include helping individuals navigate life transitions, anxiety, depression, and trauma. I utilize a client-centered and collaborative approach in my practice. This means that each session is designed to meet your specific needs and goals. I believe in working closely with you to determine the most effective strategies for your unique circumstances. I am committed to providing a safe and supportive environment where you can feel comfortable being yourself.

Dr. Tamala Leday

(she/her)

Dr. Tamala Leday, LPCC - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$200/session
LPCC
15 years of experience
Virtual
I am a psychotherapist, consultant, and spiritual mentor with a PhD in Counselor Education and Supervision and an MA in Counseling Psychology. I specialize in working with high-achieving BIPOC and LGBTQ+ individuals navigating self-doubt, imposter syndrome, generational trauma, and systemic oppression. My clients are professionals, creatives, and changemakers seeking a space to explore identity, career, relationships, and healing without the burden of educating their therapist on their lived experiences. Through a trauma-informed and holistic approach, I integrate Mindfulness, CBT, DBT, and Solution-Focused Therapy to help clients heal trauma, regulate emotions, and reclaim their power. I incorporate somatic work, psychedelic integration, and preparation and integration support for ceremonial medicine to foster deep personal transformation. My practice acknowledges the mind-body connection, helping clients access healing on multiple levels while navigating major life transitions. Diversity, equity, and inclusion are central to my work. I create an affirming, culturally responsive space where clients feel safe to explore their experiences and identities without fear of judgment. By addressing systemic barriers and internalized oppression, I help clients reclaim autonomy, develop self-compassion, and cultivate resilience. My therapeutic approach is centered on empowerment, guiding individuals to harness their strengths and rewrite limiting narratives. My work empowers clients to break free from shame and fear, reconnect with their authentic selves, and move through life with confidence and self-trust. Healing is more than symptom management—it is about liberation, self-actualization, and stepping fully into one’s potential. My mission is to support clients in thriving, evolving, and embodying their highest selves to create meaningful, fulfilling lives rooted in authenticity and purpose.

Shirley Cornett

(she/her)

Shirley Cornett, LMFT - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$120/session
LMFT
20 years of experience
Virtual
Hello, I'm Shirley, a PhD and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 20 years of experience. For the past five years, I've been dedicated to providing online therapy to individuals, families, and couples. My practice covers a wide range of issues. My therapeutic philosophy is rooted in the person-centered approach. I strive to meet each client 'where they are' and serve as a catalyst for their unique journey of self-discovery and self-identification. I believe that therapy should be a collaborative process, where clients feel heard, understood, and empowered to make meaningful changes in their lives. I work from a systemic, collaborative, strength-based approach that is mindful of cultural, ethnic, and economic concerns. I utilize leading psychological modalities such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), the Gottman Couples Approach, Solution-Focused Therapy, Family Therapy and Existential approaches. These methods allow me to tailor my approach to each client's specific needs and goals, ensuring that they receive the most effective and personalized care possible.

Lisa Salopek

(she/her)

Lisa Salopek, LCSW - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$110/session
LCSW
35 years of experience
Virtual
With over 30 years of clinical training, education, and experience, combined with more than 55 years of navigating the wonders and challenges of life, my purpose is to empower individuals by honoring their strengths, embracing their hardships, and guiding them toward discovering the beauty and power within themselves. I am deeply committed to assisting individuals in manifesting their desired self-image within their families, friendships, and communities. Drawing upon my extensive background, I offer a unique blend of expertise and compassionate support to help individuals cultivate their full potential. In my practice, I have found humor to be an invaluable tool for navigating life's challenges, both for myself and the individuals I work with. I firmly believe in the transformative power of laughter, as it brings a sense of lightness, offers new perspectives, and fosters camaraderie. Laughter has the remarkable ability to facilitate healing and personal development. With an energetic mindset, spirit, and body, I aim to embody resilience and positivity, and I am committed to utilizing these qualities to support you in cultivating the same in your own life.

Kristien Hollingsworth

(she/her)

Kristien Hollingsworth, LCSW - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LCSW
19 years of experience
Virtual
Do you feel like depression and anxiety are only getting harder to cope with as you get older? Do you feel stressed, overwhelmed, fatigued, and irritable on a regular basis? Do you keep yourself busy and distracted during the day only to feel the most anxiety, racing thoughts, and panic at night when you lie down? If so, I am here to help! I offer a variety of tools including self-regulation, meditation, mindfulness, CBT, belief systems analysis, strengths-based and solution-focused approaches. I have over 18 years of experience. I am licensed to practice in 6 states. Arizona, Florida, Hawaii, Nevada, New Mexico, and Texas. I offer WEEKEND availability! FREE workbook resources to support yourself or a friend! -------------------------------------------------------------------- https://www.cci.health.wa.gov.au/Resources/Looking-After-Yourself (The workbooks include the topics of anxiety, assertiveness, appearance concerns, bipolar, body dysmorphia, depression, disordered eating, health anxiety, panic, perfectionism, procrastination, self-compassion, self-esteem, sleep, social anxiety, tolerating distress, and worry and rumination. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- For those members who are part of the ***LGBTQIA2S+ community, BIPOC, and the Pagan/ Magickal/ New Age/ Alternative Healer/ Spiritualist/ Agnostic or Atheist community this is a safe, accepting, and open space***

Melissa Vazquez

Melissa Vazquez, LCSW - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$100/session
LCSW
8 years of experience
Virtual
Hello! I am Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with extensive experience in mental health counseling, crisis intervention, and social services. With a deep understanding of the complexities surrounding domestic violence, sexual trauma, substance abuse, and military culture, I have dedicated over 10 +years to to supporting individuals and families facing significant challenges. I graduating with a Master of Social Work from New Mexico Highlands University in 2015 and quickly built a reputation in clinical expertise, empathy, and solution-oriented approach. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in New Mexico, Texas, and Utah, i have worked in diverse settings, including the U.S. Air Force, the Veterans Affairs system, and various state and local agencies.

Vanessa Albergo

(she/her)

Vanessa Albergo, LPCC - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$100/session
LPCC
20 years of experience
Virtual
My name is Vanessa and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in the state of Florida, Missouri, New Hampshire & New Mexico and South Carolina. I am bilingual(English & Spanish) and can provide counseling in both languages. My clinical background in Mental Health began as an undergrad and continued through grad school, working for the public sector for the Department of Children & Families where I worked with children, then the elderly in skilled nursing facilities and with adolescents in group homes. I then went on to work as a Nurse Navigator and provided services that included counseling and advocacy for oncology patients at one of the largest cancer hospitals in South Florida. In addition to this, I have also worked with adults in inpatient rehab for substance abuse and court ordered treatment, and served outpatient clients in the LGBTQ community. My training is in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Psychodynamic, Solution Focused, and many others that include treatment planning; where my goal is to get my client back to a normal baseline that they are comfortable with and can function in their daily life. I am an open minded, kindhearted and empathetic individual, where my mantra is that I am here for YOU, my job is to assist you in anyway that I can, and help you manage life's daily stressors that may be recent or long-term. We all have good and bad days, I believe we are all one step away from a mental health crisis. Life is one big roller coaster of stress, worry, emotion that all revolve around something changing in our life that we were not prepared for and do not know how to adjust to it. So my job is to help you navigate all of that and achieve happiness, peace and overall well being.

Trinity Hart

(she/her)

Trinity Hart, LMFT - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LMFT
15 years of experience
Virtual
Hello gorgeous! I'm Trinity, a therapist dedicated to helping adult women who are facing health challenges—whether that means living with chronic pain, coping with stress, or navigating life changes that impact well-being. I take a mindful, compassionate approach to therapy, creating a space where you can slow down, feel seen, and reconnect with yourself. Together, we’ll explore ways to ease emotional overwhelm, build resilience, and move toward a life that feels more grounded and meaningful.

Lisa Hargrove

(she/her)

Lisa Hargrove, LPCC - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LPCC
27 years of experience
Virtual
Hi! My name is Lisa Hargrove, I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and a Licensed Clinical Addiction Specialist in the state of North Carolina. I am also cross licensed in the state of Nevada as a Clinical Professional Counselor. I have been in the Substance Abuse field since 1996 working as an alcohol counselor in an outpatient setting. I received my applied AAS degree in 1996 and went on to receive my BS in Community Health and Human Services with an emphasis on Grief and Gerontology.

Dr. Sandra Owens

Dr. Sandra Owens, LCSW - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$100/session
LCSW
32 years of experience
Virtual
Hello, I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker practicing in Nevada and New Mexico. I have over 20 years of experience providing therapy, teaching social work, and mentoring. I enjoy and am experienced in helping youth, adults, and seniors identify and solve the problems that are negatively impacting their mental health and well-being. I help my clients improve their present thoughts, behaviors and feelings so that they are more optimistic about their future.

Rebecca Edwards

Rebecca Edwards, LCSW - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$100/session
LCSW
6 years of experience
Virtual
Hi! I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I'm licensed in Florida, Tennessee, Pennsylvania, Massachusetts, Vermont, Alaska, Arizona, Alabama, Arkansas, Indiana, New Mexico, Mississippi, North Carolina. I have experience working with adults and adolescents dealing with depression, anxiety, substance abuse, self-esteem, life changes and other challenges. I feel it is important for a client and therapist to work together a team.

Lus Hernandez

Lus Hernandez, LCSW - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$165/session
LCSW
9 years of experience
Virtual
Hello there, I’m Lus. Do you miss feeling like yourself? Does it feel like you are going around in circles with the same problems yet can’t seem to find a permanent solution? I guide adults from a person-centered approach to find solutions to their problems when experiencing difficult feelings such as those that come with depression and anxiety. I can help you work through major life transitions (newly married, becoming a parent, empty nester, starting school, grief, becoming ill, divorce, etc.) getting to the root of the problem and developing cognitive behavioral techniques that will get you back to stability. Obtaining therapy services can be intimidating but I can guarantee you that you are making the right decision. I possess bilingual abilities (Spanish), if it's your preference. You deserve your own space to heal and evolve. During our sessions, you will have a safe space where I will meet you with empathy and evidence-based practice. Let me help you.

Dr. Chinh Trieu-Keele

(she/her)

Dr. Chinh Trieu-Keele, LCSW - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LCSW
13 years of experience
Virtual
Hi there! My name is Chinh. If you’ve reached my page, chances are that your heart has been broken, you probably just had the umpteenth argument with your significant other, or you are just tired of the endless cycle of self-doubt, low self-esteem, and irrational thoughts/beliefs. Or possibly, you are here because of all of the above! Let me help you. I come from a culture that does not typically believe in mental illness. Emotional issues were either ignored or swept under the rug. I was taught growing up that it wasn't normal to want to talk about my feelings and showing any type of emotion was a sign of weakness. Because of my upbringing, my hope as a therapist is not only to help end the stigma associated with mental illness but also help normalize it. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Texas, Louisiana, and New Mexico. I also have a Ph.D. in Counseling. I have years of experience as a social worker, working with adults, couples, and families. I use a strength-based and holistic approach to motivate and empower my clients to problem-solve new ways to create positive and lasting changes in their lives.

Shelly Mark Lewin

(he/him)

Shelly Mark Lewin, LCSW - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$90/session
LCSW
30 years of experience
Virtual
My name is Shelly Mark Lewin, and I am deeply honored to be joining the team of therapists at Grow Therapy. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with over 30 years of experience working with individuals, groups, and families in a variety of settings including private practice, outpatient mental health clinics, hospitals, healthcare systems, hospice care, and private organizations. My work is informed by my own personal life experience with mental health challenges and my goal is always to provide you with support and guidance during difficult times and on your healing journey. My professional career includes clinical positions in renown healthcare organizations including Northwestern Memorial Hospital and Joint Commission in Chicago, Kaiser Permanente in California and Mount Sinai Health System In New York City. I have extensive experience working with multi-cultural and diverse populations providing individual and group therapy, case management and crisis intervention.

Emily Schram

(she/her)

Emily Schram, LPCC - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$100/session
LPCC
14 years of experience
Virtual
Hi! I'm a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) providing online therapy via telehealth. I received my Master’s degree and have been practicing for 13 years, specializing in DBT, ACT, and CFT, with an additional 5 years of experience using an eclectic approach. I help adults struggling with anxiety, trauma, polyamorous relationships, and infertility develop practical tools for emotional resilience, self-compassion, and healthier, more fulfilling lives. My goal is to support you in creating lasting change and finding balance in every area of your life

Angelique Gettle

Angelique Gettle, LMFT - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$105/session
LMFT
27 years of experience
Virtual
As a licensed psychotherapist in California, I have been working in the field for over 25 years. I received my Master’s Degree in Clinical Psychology with an Emphasis in Marriage Family Therapy. I am here to empower both women and men who struggle with anxiety, trauma, grief, and depression. I have also incorporated the use of journaling, art, and sandtray therapy into my practice.

Dr. Shandra Wilson

Dr. Shandra Wilson, LPCC - New Mexico Therapist at Grow Therapy
$150/session
LPCC
27 years of experience
Virtual
Do you need someone to talk to, and someone to listen? Are you ready to make some changes in your life? You may need help dealing with struggles and challenges of day-to-day life. If so, you have just made an important step in the change process and are on your way to improved self-awareness and growth. I am an experienced, compassionate and caring counselor who helps people live better lives. Working with the right counselor can help you change your life and your relationships. You do not have to do this alone. By working together, we decide how to achieve your personal goals, even if you don't know what they are yet. As a licensed professional counselor with a warm and personable approach, I specialize in providing solution focused counseling, bringing over 20 years of experience working with couples, families, and individuals. I believe in the humanistic approach and treat everyone with respect and compassion. I work with clients of all ages. It can be hard to put your trust in someone else. I strive to create a comfortable environment that supports you voicing your concerns openly and honestly. My goal is to help you achieve behavioral and emotional growth while restoring harmony and balance in your life. Feel free to call to schedule an appointment. Available: weekdays, evenings, and weekends.

Frequently asked questions

Why filter by state rather than a city?

Why filter by state rather than a city? When looking for online therapy, you can see anyone that is credentialed in the state. We want you to find the best fit, therefore, Grow Therapy shows available therapists across the entire state. If you’d rather see someone in-person, you can change the filter from virtual and find a therapist near your address.

Will my therapist take insurance?

When booking you’ll be asked to verify with your Member ID. However, if you don’t have any of the insurances available you can select cash. Our therapists will have their cost of appointment on their profile. Individual session costs will vary.

How does the Specialty Filter work? Can I find a therapist that focuses on Anxiety?

The specialty filter is optional. You don’t need to check any boxes to see a provider. However, fit is very important when selecting an online therapist. If you have knowledge or experience to recognize what specialties you may need. For example, your selected specialty, Anxiety, is filtering therapists in New Mexico that work with patients with similar concerns.

Why use Gender, Age, and Identities filters?

Finding a provider with a similar life experience can be beneficial because it can be easier to establish rapport and potentially be understood quicker and clearer.

What to expect during your first session?

Your first therapy session is for you and your therapist to meet each other and to ask any questions that you have about the counseling process. This is where you can expect your therapist to do the same as they will ask questions to gain insight into your specific situation. In this first session the therapist is doing their part to gather as much information so they can better assess if they are able to meet your therapeutic needs.

Depending upon your provider's specialty, you may also discuss the methods the therapist will use. For additional information on therapy methods, please visit the Grow Therapy Help Center. Some people feel nervous before their first appointment, and that is totally normal! Coming prepared with a list of questions for your therapist may help. Remember, you're taking a brave step by seeking therapy, and it is okay to be nervous as you try something new.