Optum Therapists in Florida

Finding a therapist who accepts Optum insurance can make accessing mental health support more manageable and affordable. With 194 verified therapists in Florida who accept Optum insurance, you can filter by therapeutic approaches such as cognitive behavioral therapy, interpersonal therapy, and solution-focused therapy to address issues like anxiety, depression, or relationship challenges. Each Grow Therapy-verified therapist is currently welcoming new clients and has availability within the next 30 days, ensuring you have access to quality care that fits within your Optum insurance coverage.

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Availability updated: 7/5/2025

Claire Watson-Irving

Claire Watson-Irving, LMHC - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy
LMHC
4 years of experience
Virtual
Hello, I'm a Licensed Mental Health Counselor based in Florida. I received my Master's in Clinical Mental Health from Jacksonville University. I am trained in EMDR and am working towards becoming EMDR certified. I work with adults who are struggling with anxiety, ptsd, and effects of trauma, who want to feel more hopeful about the future, settled and secure in themselves.

Dr. Clay Connelly

(he/him)

Dr. Clay Connelly, LMHC - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy
LMHC
15 years of experience
Virtual
Hi, I'm Clay. I am here to help you better yourself as a whole, through an integrated therapeutic process. I have extensive experience in helping clients with a variety of issues, including depression, anxiety, anger, marital problems, burnout, insomnia, and many more. We'll address the needs of your mind, body, and spirit. Seeking therapy can be intimidating, but if you're reading this, you've already made a great decision in the first step of your journey of healing. Let's work on this together! Looking forward to helping you grow, Clay

Candance Wise Gilberstadt

(she/her)

Candance Wise Gilberstadt, LCSW - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy
LCSW
8 years of experience
Virtual
Hi. My name is Candance, but you can call me Candy. Do you feel as though you are being weighed down by certain thoughts and emotions, like you are out of balance? Is it difficult for you to manage your day to day responsibilities due to these thoughts and emotions? Would you like help in understanding and managing these thoughts and emotions so you can experience balance in your life? I help individuals get to that place of healthy balance, with a goal of remaining there. Together, we can work to identify your strengths and challenges to find solutions for managing your most challenging thoughts and emotions. We will use a person centered and strength based approach, exploring past and present experiences as they relate to your current state of overall well-being. I also integrate mindfulness techniques to help you develop a stronger more balanced state of being. Whether you are dealing with circumstances, thoughts or feelings that are overwhelming, I want to help. Reaching out for help can feel uncomfortable or seem scary, but you are making the right choice. During our sessions together, I will meet you with genuine compassion using evidence-based techniques to help you achieve and remain in a healthy, more balanced state of being. Let’s do this.

Sophia C. Romero

(she/her)

Sophia C. Romero, LMFT - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy
LMFT
9 years of experience
Virtual
As a passionate and direct therapist, I am dedicated to guiding my clients towards breakthrough moments and empowering them with the tools to navigate life's challenges. I take pride in fostering an environment of trust and open communication, where clients feel safe to explore their emotions and experiences. Through active listening and empathy, I work collaboratively with individuals to identify unhealthy patterns of thinking and behavior, while equipping them with healthy coping skills. My approach is rooted in compassion and authenticity, as I believe in the transformative power of self-awareness and self-compassion. Witnessing my clients achieve personal growth and resilience is not only fulfilling but reaffirms my commitment to facilitating positive change in their lives.

Jacqueline Gibb

Jacqueline Gibb, LMHC - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy

Frequently rebooked

LMHC
13 years of experience
Virtual
Hello, it will soon be great to meet you as you visit my Grow Therapy Provider Profile. I'm Jacqueline Gibb, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC). I work with all ages in the Tampa FL area. You can meet with me for an in-office visit or teletherapy. I enjoy working with clients who feel they struggle with a wide range of mental health concerns including depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder, focus and concentration issues, ADHD, and obsessive-compulsive disorder to name a few. It can be frustrating when an individual is struggling emotionally with more negative than positive feelings and it can keep an individual feeling stuck in their emotional pain. I have diligently studied the understanding of the amygdala in the brain and how the amygdala and hippocampus interprets emotional, physical, and sexual abuse that can keep a person feeling that they can't break free from the negative memories of their past. Also, these painful memories will continue to remind individuals of the traumatic event(s) they went through. Remember, you're not alone and you are valuable. The trainings that I've received can move you forward toward your life goals and the good news is that you and I working together to reduce the negative thoughts and feelings you have had to suffer through. Now, you can obtain the sense of belonging and joy you deserve in this life without negative thoughts and feelings popping up in your head when you least expect them. I also believe psychoeducation is an important part of the healing process. This helps you to understand certain types of thinking patterns and behavior reactions the human brain does and how you can reduce and stop those type of negative feelings as you move forward with healing. My counseling style is warm and interactive. I believe in treating individuals with respect, sensitivity, and compassion, and I don't believe in stigmatizing labels. I will tailor our dialog and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs. I work with all faith denominations, ethnic and cultural backgrounds. It takes courage to reach for a more fulfilling and happier life! By making an appointment with me, you're taking the first brave step towards change. If you're ready to take that step, I am here to support and empower you to move boldly into your future! I look forward to working with you, together, we can get your life back on track! Don't forget, believe in yourself, and remember "You Are Valuable."

Kimberly Carlesi

(she/her)

Kimberly Carlesi, LMHC - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy
LMHC
3 years of experience
Virtual
Hi, I'm Kimberly. I’m a licensed mental health counselor (LMHC) based in Florida, and I earned my master’s degree at Florida International University. My clinical journey began in a residential treatment center specializing in eating disorders, where I had the privilege of working closely with individuals navigating various challenges related to disordered eating. This experience deeply shaped my approach and solidified my commitment to helping clients build healthier relationships with food and their bodies. Since then, I’ve expanded my practice to work with individuals facing a range of issues, including anxiety, trauma, and depression, while always remaining rooted in my passion for supporting those with eating disorders. My goal is to provide a safe, non-judgmental space where clients feel heard, supported, and empowered to make meaningful changes in their lives.

Erica Barrett

Erica Barrett, LMHC - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy
LMHC
9 years of experience
Virtual
I am a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in the state of Florida. I am a proud veteran of the US Army. I completed my Masters Degree at Wake Forest University and have been providing services for the past 9 years. I love working with clients to help identify what's happening "behind the scenes" in their lives so they can live the healthy and fulfilling lives they deserve.

Dr Ken

Dr Ken, LMHC - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy
LMHC
23 years of experience
Virtual
Doctor Vehec is a counseling psychologist. As a therapist in the Veterans Administration’s Vet Center program for fifteen years, he was one of the first qualified second-level screeners for the James A. Haley VA Hospital Poly-trauma Unit, (one of four in the country) where he gained invaluable experience working with our most severely neurologically traumatized veterans. Dr. Vehec studied neuroscience under the preeminent neuro-psychologist Dr. Eugene Tootle at Barry University. Dr. Vehec was the chairman of the Board for a Charter School specializing in Specific Learning Disabled children in grades K-8. During this time he championed numerous Brain Based learning programs, i.e. Brain Boost exercises®, Audio Visual Entrainment, and the Interactive Metronome® program. Dr. Vehec is a member of the American Counseling Association, the Florida Mental Health Counseling Association, and the Milton Erickson Foundation. Dr. Vehec has an established Sports and Entertainment psychology practice. He was the Team psychologist for the Orlando Predators and the Kansas City Phantoms, both were professional Arena Football teams. He provided the coaching staff and players training on brain-based learning exercises designed to improve balance and enhance physical and mental performance. He designed treatment plans to assist players with their post-concussion recovery. Dr. Vehec works with PGA Professionals. One of whom was a contestant on “The Big Break” and continues on the professional tour. He is a consultant for the NFLPA of Central Florida. He co-organized the first neurological symposium for the NFL & NFLPA players before the Pro Bowl in Orlando. Dr. Vehec believes that from concussion to Alzheimer’s and Dementia there is hope that a therapy or exercise program exists which can help to improve one’s quality of life. Dr. Vehec’s favorite expression is “Never let anyone tell you what your limitations are.”

Dr. Danica Lehmann

(she/her)

Dr. Danica Lehmann, LMHC - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy
LMHC
27 years of experience
Virtual
Hi there. I’m Danica. Have you struggled to trust others throughout your life because something always seems to go wrong in relationships, leaving you feeling hurt, betrayed, or psychologically/emotionally drained? Is it hard to see your way to stable happiness without feeling like the other shoe will drop? I help individuals navigate and repair the aftermath of just about any sort of traumatic event you can imagine. My approach is eclectic and tailored to your needs. I use EMDR, Brainspotting, and mindfulness strategies to help you soothe your anxiety, improve depression, and neutralize the overwhelming emotions associated with trauma. Feeling fearful of relationships, lonely, anxious and depressed while others seem to be living their lives with little effort can be disheartening. Together we can improve your outlook, improve your mood, and strengthen your relationships with others so you feel supported, loved, and ultimately peaceful inside. I am excited to work with you to achieve your best self!

Andrew Cravey

(he/him)

Andrew Cravey, LMHC - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy
LMHC
8 years of experience
Virtual
My clients are people who want to move from feeling "stuck" to having a greater sense of purpose, empowerment and clarity. My approach to counseling uses a relational model that creates a safe environment where I encourage my clients to develop resiliency and self-empowerment. Life is very hard. My goal is to have each person leave a session feeling more capable to handle whatever life throws at them.

Nicole Head

(she/her)

Nicole Head, LCSW - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy

Frequently rebooked

LCSW
9 years of experience
Virtual
Do you feel overwhelmed? Are you self-medicating to cope? Perhaps you don't know where to start and are unable to find relief from your elevated emotions. We can work together to explore past concerns, current stressors, and find creative avenues to empower you in reaching your goals. This is just one chapter in your life, you determine how your story ends. I specialize in providing therapy for teens and adults. Let's create strategies to reduce your anxiety, eliminate your trauma symptoms, adapt to life changes, and elevate your mind. I am passionate about helping you take charge of your thoughts, feelings, & behaviors to live a fulfilling life. I provide a warm, open, and nonjudgemental space for clients to gain strength, hope, and strategies to become the best version of themselves. Are you ready to become the best version of yourself?

Karina Chernacov

(she/her)

Karina Chernacov, LMHC - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy

Frequently rebooked

LMHC
20 years of experience
Virtual
I have a Master's degree in clinical psychology, and am passionate about what I do. Helping clients reinvent, re signify and solve their own life problems is the best reward to my practice. I believe that the power of a good psychotherapy process lies in its ability to help my clients understand themselves better, address their emotional psychological challenges, and make meaningful changes in their lives. I also believe strongly in the transformative power of connection and communication, and know that psychotherapy is the key to evolve and learn new skills that may be hidden inside someone. I am simply a facilitator of my client's own awareness, their emotional healing, and their growth.

Jed Shlackman, M.S. Ed.

(he/him)

Jed Shlackman, M.S. Ed., LMHC - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy
LMHC
26 years of experience
Virtual
Jed Shlackman, M.S. Ed., LMHC provides a variety of individual, family, and group counseling and healing services. Jed combines traditional humanistic and cognitive oriented psychotherapy approaches with holistic guidance and advanced mind-body and energetic healing methods (such as hypnotherapy, meditation, Reiki, mindfulness, energy psychology, emotional release, trauma healing, sound healing) that can foster deep healing and more rapid transformation - physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Jed has worked as a counselor for over 25 years and has trained in a wide spectrum of counseling and healing methods. Jed provides a client-centered approach that seeks to identify which resources will best support the client and promote well-being and solutions that truly enhance life and build resilience. Jed is a native of South Florida and studied psychology and counseling at the University of Miami. While beginning his career providing counseling for children and adolescents and their families Jed went through a process of spiritual exploration and self-discovery that led to subsequent training in hypnotherapy, Reiki and energy healing, energy psychology, meditation, sound healing, trauma healing, and other complementary and alternative healing methods. Jed is also an author, with books available on Amazon, and is an amateur musician performing as "Jedi Shaman." Jed provides counseling and healing services with a holistic orientation, which refers to addressing the "whole" person and the systems and environments the person is a part of. This approach incorporates cognitive, humanistic, family systems, and psychodynamic therapies as well as transpersonal psychological therapies, hypnosis, energy psychology, expressive therapies, mind-body healing modalities, and vibrational/energetic healing approaches, as well as somatic therapies and addressing biological systems with herbs, essential oils, diet, and nutritional interventions. As a multi-talented, compassionate counselor with extensive knowledge and diverse experience Jed provide comprehensive healing services and collaboration with clients.

James J. Cordiano

James J. Cordiano, LMHC - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy
LMHC
11 years of experience
Virtual
My name is Jim, and I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in the state of Florida. I understand that something in your life has initiated this search for support and you’ve come to the right place. You may be feeling, sad, angry, anxious, depressed or you may be struggling with addiction or family issues. I can empathize with and learn how you may be feeling at this moment and I am here to help you through this stressful, troubling time by empowering change. My Specialties Include: Anxiety, Depression, Substance Use / Addiction, and Trauma

Cody Star Mulliner

(she/her)

Cody Star Mulliner, LCSW - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy
LCSW
3 years of experience
Virtual
I have been working in the mental health field since 2018, in settings from inpatient psychiatric units, inpatient and outpatient settings for substance use, and holistic private practice. I hold additional certifications in trauma therapy modalities and am a Registered Yoga Teacher. I am passionate about working with individuals to heal and live a life that feels meaningful to them.

Sam Morrison

Sam Morrison, LCSW - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy
LCSW
5 years of experience
Virtual
With a deep passion for breaking the stigma surrounding addiction and mental health, I have dedicated the last nine years to assisting individuals who grapple with the complex interplay of mental health issues and underlying substance abuse. I’ve witnessed how the societal stigma often conceals the very real barriers individuals face in their daily lives. My mission is to empower them with coping skills and strategies that allow them to embrace a life of recovery and resilience. As a therapist, I focus on guiding patients towards building essential skills to overcome their challenges. I believe that mental health issues come in myriad forms, and it is our duty to provide support, unburdened by negative stereotypes and judgment. Together, let’s shatter the silence and create a path towards hope, recovery and well-being.

Natalie Lewis

(co/co)

Natalie Lewis, LMFT - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy
LMFT
11 years of experience
Virtual
Hello, My name is Natalie Lewis and I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the state of Florida, Georgia, Virginia, and the U. S. Virgin Islands. My educational background is in psychology, marriage and family therapy, and industrial organizational psychology. I specialize in providing counseling to individuals, groups, children, teenagers, young adults, couples, and married couples. I work on issues of anxiety, stress, depression, ADHD and family discord etc.

Kelly Coronel

(she/her)

Kelly Coronel, LMHC - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy

Frequently rebooked

LMHC
12 years of experience
Virtual
Hello Potential Client! My name is Kelly, and I am a licensed mental health counselor working in the state of Florida since 2013. I have worked in populations of all ages, particularly adolescents, young adults and middle-aged adults with a wide range of issues relating to depression, anxiety, grief & loss, trauma, abuse, addiction, relationships, parenting, family conflict, blended/foster family, work/career, school, life changes, self-harm, suicidal ideation, self-esteem, felony/probation, LGBTQ, gender identity... and so much more! My counseling style is unique, because I focus on the Relationship with my client. I believe that once a Genuine Connection is established, Trust can then take place, and the Sky is the limit on what can be accomplished at that point. Without a connection, there is no foundation to stand on. My clients have described me as "very easy to talk to." My approach combines Cognitive Behavioral, Strength-Based, Mindfulness, and Wellness therapies tailored to meet your needs. I became a counselor, because I truly Care about people. I meet my clients where they are at and without judgement. I am a Survivor of my own traumas, and am solid proof that it doesn't matter where you came from and what you've been through in life, you can still have the life you so Desire. All that matters is where you go from here. I truly believe that there's a Better life out there for everyone if.. 1) You truly Want it , and 2) You are willing to put forth the Commitment and Effort it takes in order to achieve it. "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." - Lao Tzu I look forward to working with you! :)

Lindsay Scoffil

(she/her)

Lindsay Scoffil, LMHC - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy
LMHC
5 years of experience
Virtual
Do you feel trapped in the aftermath of trauma, abuse, or narcissistic relationships? Lindsay understands the deep impact trauma and emotional wounds can have on your life and wants to help on your healing journey. Specializing in trauma recovery, abuse (including narcissistic abuse), self-esteem rebuilding, intimacy issues, anxiety, and depression, Lindsay provides a compassionate, integrative approach tailored to your unique journey. Lindsay is a Mental Health Counselor in the state of Florida with 7 years of experience. Lindsay has experience in helping clients with addictions, relationship issues, and trauma & abuse. Lindsay also has experience working with intimacy related issues. Lindsay believes that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. Taking the first step to sign up for therapy can take courage and Lindsay is proud of you for getting started! In 2009, I received my bachelor’s degree in psychology from Western Kentucky University. In 2014, I received my master’s in clinical Mental Health Counseling from Florida Gulf Coast University. I worked for Heads Counseling as a traveling trauma therapist for two and a half years. During this time, I worked with children that have open DCF cases and became certified in Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. For the past, year and a half I have been working in Corrections. Corrections has expanded my experience to include working with substance abuse, personality disorders and psychotic disorders.

Brandee Jones

(she/her)

Brandee Jones, LMHC - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy
LMHC
8 years of experience
Virtual
Hey! I'm Brandee - I'm a licensed mental health counselor in Florida and I'm currently offering telehealth services throughout the state. I graduated from Nova Southeastern University in 2014 with a masters degree in Mental Health Counseling, and received my bachelor's degree in psychology in 2011 from the University of South Florida. Since then, I have worked in various in person and telehealth settings.

Odalis Romero

(she/her)

Odalis Romero, LMHC - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy
LMHC
7 years of experience
Virtual
Have you experienced some life experience or change, which you feel you need help to overcome, divorce, grief, or trauma? Have you felt as if sometimes you are drowning in your emotions instead of just experiencing them? Does anger, sadness, anxiety, or fear keep impacting your life in ways you don't want it to? Do you struggle managing your emotions and would love to learn how to cope with them effectively? Do you struggle with thoughts of self-harm, of not being good enough, hopelessness, or emptiness? Or do you have children/teens that might be going through these things? If you want a therapist who will not judge you and will help you manage what seems unmanageable, you have found me! I want to help you or your child/teen, start your new healing journey and enjoy life once more! I want you to learn to love yourself and build good relationship and have power to control your emotions and thoughts, while learning to have self-control and conquer the journey ahead! I have spoken in some conferences and am very involved in establishing awareness of mental health. I have two kids of my own and love helping parents and kids/teens understand each other and form better bonds. I also enjoy holistic medicine and therapy and therefore due practice it when needed. I am always eager to learn some new technique or read new research to better help my client's. I would be honored to help you in your healing journey.

Sunshine Wilder

(she/her)

Sunshine Wilder, LCSW - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy

Frequently rebooked

LCSW
21 years of experience
Virtual
Hello, my name is Sunshine Wilder and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Florida. In 2004, I graduated with a Master’s degree in Social Work and have been working for the past 19 years with children, teens, and adults in various settings such as child welfare, specialized therapeutic foster care, and outpatient therapy. I have experience working with individuals with a wide range of needs such as stress and anxiety, trauma and abuse, anger management, depression, ADHD, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), attachment issues, and Bipolar Disorder.

Johnnie Kramer

(he/him)

Johnnie Kramer, LMFT - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy
LMFT
10 years of experience
Virtual
Johnnie Kramer graduated from the University of Central Florida with his Bachelor’s in Psychology (2013) and his Master’s in Marriage, Couples, & Family Therapy (2016). Johnnie is passionate about empowering his clients to blaze their own trail to recovery over the traumas they have experienced or the difficulties they are facing. He continuously strives to serves those in need while advocating for positive culture change within our society at large. Johnnie has been working in the field of mental health since 2016, focused primarily on helping individuals overcome relational difficulties through both Individual and Couples Counseling. Johnnie also continues to work as a Trauma-focused Therapist at the Victim Service Center of Central Florida, which is the Rape Crisis Center for Orange, Osceola, and Seminole Counties. During his years of work there, he has developed a thorough understanding of sexual violence, its impact on individuals, couples, and families, and how to walk with survivors in overcoming it. When not working, Johnnie enjoys adventuring in Florida’s outdoors with his wife of four years. He is an avid runner, rock climber, and yogi and cultivates a garden of hot peppers and citrus trees in his backyard.

Walt McCreary

(he/him)

Walt McCreary, LCSW - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy
LCSW
35 years of experience
Virtual
Hello, I am an experienced MSW, LCSW with 30+ years of experience providing therapy and social services in a wide range of clinical settings: individual/group therapy, emergency crisis counseling, EAP and inpatient psychiatric hospitals. I have experience working with individuals, men and women, adolescents, couples and families. I have expertise working with clients/families dealing with bipolar, schizophrenia, anxiety, OCD, depression, adjustment disorders, anger, grief/loss, and family and medical issues. Personal info: Married 33 years, 4 children, 9 grandchildren. I enjoy cycling, fishing and visiting family. I am an active, healthy cancer survivor. I am retired, and my most recent full-time position; a medical case manager. I have a very flexible open schedule. I am a genuine- easy-going, non-judgmental person. I believe everyone has value and worth.

JC Caro

(she/her)

JC Caro, LMHC - Florida Therapist at Grow Therapy

Frequently rebooked

LMHC
25 years of experience
Virtual
You may be nervous about participating in therapy due to worries of feeling vulnerable or being judged. I work hard to provide an environment that is accepting and supportive and simultaneously looks for ways that increase growth and healing. My approach emphasizes skill-building, self-knowledge, and balance. My experience has included working with people who struggle with depression, anxiety, self esteem issues, family conflict, trauma, and other issues that accompany adolescence and adulthood. Together we'll explore the tools that will work for you in working through your issues and coming out stronger! I view my role in your life as being part of your team where I can help you determine what is best for you. It is through working together that I believe positive changes can occur.

Frequently asked questions

Why filter by Florida rather than a city like Tampa?

When looking for online therapy, you can see anyone that is credentialed in the state. We want you to find the best fit, therefore, Grow Therapy shows available therapists across Florida from Miami to Jacksonville! If you’d rather see someone in-person, you can change the filter from virtual and find a therapist near you in Florida.

Will my therapist take Optum?

Yes! If you use Optum you’ll be asked to verify your Member ID at the time you book the appointment. However, if you don’t have Optum you can select cash. Our therapists will have their cost of appointment on their profile. Individual session costs will vary.

How does the Specialty Filter work? Can I find a therapist that focuses on Sexual Abuse?

The specialty filter is optional. You don’t need to check any boxes to see a provider. However, fit is very important when selecting an online therapist. If you have knowledge or experience to recognize what specialties you may need. For example, your selected specialty, Sexual Abuse, is filtering therapists in Florida that work with patients with similar concerns.

Why use Gender, Age, and Identities filters?

Finding a provider with a similar life experience can be beneficial because it can be easier to establish rapport and potentially be understood quicker and clearer.

What to expect during your first session?

Your first therapy session is for you and your therapist to meet each other and to ask any questions that you have about the counseling process. This is where you can expect your therapist to do the same as they will ask questions to gain insight into your specific situation. In this first session the therapist is doing their part to gather as much information so they can better assess if they are able to meet your therapeutic needs.

Depending upon your provider's specialty, you may also discuss the methods the therapist will use. For additional information on therapy methods, please visit the Grow Therapy Help Center. Some people feel nervous before their first appointment, and that is totally normal! Coming prepared with a list of questions for your therapist may help. Remember, you're taking a brave step by seeking therapy, and it is okay to be nervous as you try something new.