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Hi! I'm Aileen and I'm an LCSW serving the adult and older adult populations in the states of New Jersey, Pennsylvania, and Delaware. I have been practicing for over 25 years and am dedicated to supporting individuals on their journey toward personal growth and healing. My current practice is focused on helping adults and older adults with anxiety, grief, bereavement, and life transitions such retirement and family/career changes. I’m here to offer a compassionate , evidence-based, and client-centered approach to therapy.
What to Expect from Our Sessions Each session with me is designed to create a warm, supportive environment where you feel heard and valued. We start by laying a strong foundation in our first meeting, known as the intake session. The aim is to understand your unique needs and build a safe space for your personal growth. Our First Session Together In this part of our meeting, we’ll gently go through the forms you’ve filled out, including your medical history and any specific areas you wish to address. This helps me understand your experiences and how best I can support you. Discussing Your Reasons for Therapy This is a time for you to express what brought you to therapy. Whether it’s a particular concern, emotion, or goal, you are welcome to share as much or as little as you feel comfortable. If you're unsure about where to begin, don't worry—I'll guide the conversation with care. Setting Goals Together We’ll explore what you hope to achieve through our sessions and set meaningful goals to guide your progress. This collaborative approach ensures that your therapy is tailored to your personal aspirations. Addressing Your Questions Your comfort and understanding are paramount. Please feel free to ask any questions about the therapy process, what to expect, or anything else you might be curious about. I'm here to make sure you feel informed and at ease. Building a Supportive Foundation The first session marks the beginning of our collaborative relationship, where we start to establish trust and mutual respect. It’s natural to feel a bit nervous, but rest assured, I am here to walk alongside you. Reaching out for support is a courageous first step, and I understand that taking this step requires strength and vulnerability. I want you to know that I care about you, your needs, and your privacy. Thank you for considering me to be a part of your healing process.
I genuinely care about your well-being and will help you identify practical skills to help you deal with anxiety, grief and loss, and an array of other concerns. Therapy is not a one-size-fits-all approach,and together, we will find the solutions that work for you. Beyond my work with clients, I have spent the past two decades teaching at the bachelors, masters, and doctoral levels. This experience in academia has allowed me to refine my knowledge and share it with the next generation of therapists. I have published textbooks and mainstream self-help titles, contributing to the broader discourse on mental health and wellness. These areas of specialization are not merely theoretical; they are informed by my personal and professional experiences as well as the countless stories of resilience and healing that I have witnessed over the years. While my academic and professional credentials are important, I believe that the strongest qualification I bring to my practice is my own lived experience. Like most humans, I have faced multiple losses and trauma, which have imbued me with a compassionate and empathetic lens through which to view others' struggles. Most importantly, I understand how hard it can be to ask for and receive help, especially when you are a healthcare professional and/or caregiver for others. I earned a doctoral degree in clinical social work from the University of Pennsylvania, a master's degree in social work from Widener University, and bachelors degrees from the University of Delaware and West Chester University, in nursing and social work, respectively. In addition to private practice counseling, for over 25 years I have worked as a mental health professional/social worker for the Department of Veterans Affairs and the Salvation Army, as well in non-profit community mental health, child welfare/adoption, hospice, and drug and alcohol treatment settings.
I genuinely care about your well-being and will help you identify practical skills to help you deal with anxiety, grief and loss, and an array of other concerns. Therapy is not a one-size-fits-all approach,and together, we will find solutions that work for you. I earned a doctoral degree in clinical social work from the University of Pennsylvania, a master's degree in social work from Widener University, and bachelors degrees from the University of Delaware and West Chester University in nursing and social work, respectively. In addition to private practice counseling, for over 25 years I have worked as a mental health professional/social worker for the Department of Veterans Affairs and the Salvation Army, as well in non-profit community mental health, child welfare/adoption, hospice, and drug and alcohol treatment settings.
Attachment theory offers valuable insights into how our early relationships shape our brain biology and influence our ability to connect with ourselves and others. By understanding these patterns, we can identify how our past experiences affect our current relationships, allowing them to foster healthier connections. For instance, recognizing a tendency to seek constant reassurance might stem from an insecure attachment, empowering individuals to work on building secure bonds. Ultimately, this awareness can lead to improved relationship satisfaction and personal happiness.
Mindfulness-based theory offers powerful tools for clients seeking to enhance their coping skills and achieve a state of inner peace. By cultivating increased self-awareness, individuals can better understand their thoughts and emotions, leading to more effective stress management. This theory emphasizes the importance of the mind-body connection, helping clients feel more grounded in the present moment and less overwhelmed by external stressors. One practical technique is mindful breathing, which involves focusing on the breath to anchor the mind and promote a deep sense of calm. Another approach is body scanning, which encourages clients to systematically notice bodily sensations, fostering a sense of relaxation and awareness. Through mindfulness practices, clients can learn to respond to challenges with greater resilience and clarity, ultimately leading to a more peaceful and balanced life. In my individual work, I tailor these specific practices to best meet a client's unique needs. Attending group yoga classes and watching breathwork/meditation videos on Youtube can be very helpful, but working one-on-one with a therapist who is tuned into your individual needs and has experience using these tools as interventions in the treatment of mental health issues is important.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a powerful tool in helping clients manage anxiety, grief, and life stressors. By focusing on the connection between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, CBT provides concrete, evidence-based skills to help individuals measure and track their symptoms and improvements over time. One of the key techniques used in CBT is relaxation training, which equips clients with methods to reduce physical tension and promote calmness amidst distress. Another effective method is the thought log, where clients document and analyze their thoughts to identify patterns and challenge negative thinking. This structured approach empowers clients, fostering a better understanding of their mental processes and promoting healthier coping strategies. With continuous practice, CBT can lead to significant positive changes in how clients perceive and respond to life’s challenges.
Gestalt therapy empowers clients by focusing on present moment awareness and encouraging authenticity in their lives. Therapists help clients explore introjections—beliefs or behaviors absorbed from others—which can hinder self-awareness and authentic living. New found awareness enables clients to recognize patterns and make conscious choices aligned with their true desires. I completed a three-year post graduate training at the Gestalt Institute of Philadelphia in 2005, and think that Gestalt approaches are underrated and are often profound catalysts for healing and lasting change.
Every client brings unique challenges and strengths to therapy, so I utilize diverse evidence-based interventions tailored to each individual's needs. For those facing anxiety, I often incorporate mindfulness-based therapy, helping clients stay present and reduce overwhelming thoughts. The Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) is another tool I use frequently to address emotional blockages and limiting beliefs, especially effective for clients coping with anxiety, grief, bereavement and loss. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) aids clients in re-framing negative thoughts and behaviors, providing a structured way to tackle life transitions such as divorce, recovery, or retirement. Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) is particularly beneficial for clients needing help with emotional regulation, offering strategies to manage intense emotions. For clients seeking to explore their feelings more deeply, therapeutic journaling encourages introspection and connection to their inner wisdom. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) supports clients in embracing life changes, such as the birth or adoption of a child and/or death of a loved one, fostering acceptance and forward movement.