Aetna Therapists in Virginia

Accessing therapy covered by Aetna insurance can simplify and reduce the cost of therapy, helping you find therapist that fits your budget. With 519 verified therapists in Virginia accepting Aetna, you can choose from therapeutic approaches such as cognitive behavioral therapy, psychodynamic therapy, and mindfulness-based therapy to address concerns like anxiety, depression, or major life changes. Each Grow Therapy-verified provider listed below is open to new clients and has upcoming availability, making it easier to connect with a therapist who meets your needs within the scope of your Aetna plan.

Availability updated: 8/10/2026

Authentic
Empowering
Warm

Specialties

Addiction
Anxiety
Depression
+9
Are you looking for someone who will hear you out and meet you were you ar in life? Do you need a therapist who remembers that you are the expert on you? Then try Jodi Herndon. Jodi Herndon has over a decade of experience providing individualized care for adults and adolescents with depression and anxiety. She has spent the last decade specializing in individuals with substance use disorders and has a dual license in this specialty. Jodi treats individuals impacted by trauma using trauma-specific techniques, like EMDR. She has continued to educate herself in new treatment modalities and is pursuing her Ph.D. in psychology. Jodi Herndon aims to be the best therapist possible for her patients to meet their needs.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Humorous

Specialties

Life Transitions
Trauma and PTSD
Women's Issues
+10
Hello! My name is Meredith. I am an LPC, and have been in private practice since 2021. I am deeply passionate about what I do and I'm so glad to be getting started on Grow. As a therapist, I intentionally try to bring my most genuine and authentic self to my clients. I know how crucial this is as the basis of a productive working relationship. My sessions are primarily client-led, meaning I will prioritize what feels most prescient to you on a given day, and meet you where you are. At the same time, I will help ensure that we are consistently working toward your specific goals. I feel that the best therapeutic outcomes come from the most secure and trusting counseling relationships, and that is what I try to provide. It is probably also important for any potential client to know that my office will always be a safe space for all, regardless of belonging to any underserved, disenfranchised community. When I am not at work, I love cooking, all things macabre and scary- books, movies, podcasts, and I love reading and hanging out with my family. I am passionate about all kinds of art and the written word. I recently took up archery, and it is a great outlet. Otherwise, I am an indoor type of gal, especially in the summer. I am quick to laugh, and will often crack a joke at my own expense.
Available

New to Grow

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Depression
+4
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with over 20 years of experience. I pride myself in continued educational enhancement. With my education, experience, and continued growth, I can help my client to see the counseling session as a rewarding experience and an oasis of serenity. I have serviced a wide population and demographic to include clients from age 6 to 97 years old; all with various ethnicities, income status, occupation, and of course "need"
Available

Often rebooked

Authentic
Warm
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Trauma and PTSD
+8
Hi, I'm Trish Mullen, a licensed professional counselor with over 28 years of experience helping individuals navigate anxiety, stress, trauma, and life transitions by reconnecting with their sense of self. I graduated from VCU Health in 1997 with a Masters Degree in Rehab Counseling. I utilize the Integrative Approach to therapy, including EMDR, parts work, DBT, CBT and Motivational Interviewing to guide therapy in a way that is both effective and empowering. I bring over two decades of clinical experience, along with personal insight shaped by my own growth work. My education and clinical training prepared me to treat anxiety, trauma, family of origin work, and grief with a strong evidenced-based foundation. At the same time, I've done my own growth work to face challenges, different from yours, and to grow through them, recognizing how hard and courageous this process can be. My growth work allows me to show up with deep empathy, steady grounded presence, and a belief in your capacity for meaningful change. When I'm not working, I enjoy spending time with my family, our fur babies, playing golf, pickleball, seeing live music and rooting for my favorite teams.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

First Responders/Healthcare Workers
Life Transitions
Trauma and PTSD
+5
Hello, I'm Erin. I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and Doctoral Candidate in Counselor Education and Supervision. I believe every person has inherent worth and deserves to be seen as more than a diagnosis or the most difficult chapter of their life. My approach to counseling is holistic, trauma-informed, and wellness-focused. Together, we'll explore not only the challenges that brought you to therapy, but also your strengths, relationships, values, and goals so you can build a life that feels meaningful and fulfilling. I work with adults experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, life transitions, relationship concerns, substance use and recovery, and problematic sexual behaviors. I also enjoy supporting counselors, graduate counseling students, and other helping professionals who spend their lives caring for others and need a space where they can simply be cared for themselves.
VirtualAvailable
Solution oriented
Intelligent
Warm

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+10
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker dedicated to providing compassionate, client-centered care through secure remote sessions with adult clients. I am currently licensed in the states of New Jersey, Virginia, and Florida. With commitment to fostering a safe and therapeutic environment, I work collaboratively with individuals to address a wide range of emotional, behavioral, and relational challenges. Hence, my approach is grounded in respect, empathy, and a deep belief in each client's capacity for growth and resilience.
Available
Empowering
Solution oriented
Direct

Specialties

Addiction
Couples Counseling
Depression
+7
My name is Dr. Butler (Bennie) and Iam an LPC, LAC and PhD in CO and VA serving those that are dealing with the following: depression, anxiet, bi-polar, maital/couples issues, existential issues (life meaning), issues of faith, addictions, disassociative issues and the Like. I have taught psychology, and plan to again, at the college level and I have been the owner of LoveJoy Counseling for 15+ years in CO and I am now expanding into the GROW platform. I am polite and professional, but fairly straight-forward tending to work with those who are at a point where they understand that change takes some level of challange. In short, I have experience with both theory and the applied science associated with psychology and can draw from both to apply in a professional, non-judgemental, yet honest wayGreat. I am 61 years of age, I have lived in various places around the world and have seen the common threads of humanity throughout.
Available
Intelligent
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

Couples Counseling
Military/Veterans
I am a licensed professional counselor with over 15 years of experience guiding individuals, couples, and families toward healing and transformation. As a retired veteran, pastor, and therapist, I bring a unique blend of professional expertise, life experience, and faith-based wisdom to my practice. I believe true healing starts with prayer. Prayer is the lifeline to our relationship with God, the foundation of our healing process. In our pursuit of health and restoration, prayer validates our deep-seated desires for renewal and supports our mental and physical well-being. It ignites a direct line to God’s heart, where healing is amplified, and transformation takes place. Through this connection, we gain strength, clarity, and the ability to navigate life’s challenges with faith and resilience.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Intelligent
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Couples Counseling
Mood Disorders
+12
I am a licensed professional counselor in Virginia with 12+ years of professional work experience. I hold a BA in psychology, MA in clinical psychology, MA in educational leadership, PhD in counselor education and supervision, and a DBA with a focus in management. When I work with clients, listening to understand instead of hearing to respond is a priority. I believe it is imperative that I develop a sound understanding of my client's subjective worldview to meet them where they are and disrupt maladaptive thoughts and patterns of behavior. My objective is to collaborate with my clients in order to help them identify, address, and resolve matters that reinforce and/or contribute to their presenting concern(s). I have experience in helping clients with relationship issues, trauma and abuse, & motivation, self-esteem, and confidence, anxiety, adjustment issues, college and career readiness, couples, depression, family dynamics, gender identity, identity development, LGBT+, non-traditional relationships, men's issues. In our work together, I work with my clients to create an open and safe environment where thoughts and feelings can be shared without fear of judgment. Taking the first step to sign up for therapy can take courage and I am proud of you for getting started!
VirtualAvailable
Open-Minded
Authentic
Direct

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Depression
+19
Hi! I am Alyson Davis, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I am a millennial and military brat that grew up in Northern Virginia. Currently, I reside in Maryland and have licenses in both Maryland and Virginia. I am taking clients in both states via telehealth. For undergrad, I attended the University of Alabama (ROLL TIDE!) and for my graduate education and clinical training I practiced at Valdosta State University. The therapeutic modality I use the most often is Narrative Therapy. Using Narrative Therapy, I help clients change the problem stories in their heads to preferred stories to improve their behaviors, relationships, and life outlook. With this practice, I enjoy using journal prompts, metaphors, and media. I am not a trained Christian therapist, but I do identify as a Christian, and enjoy using all religion and spirituality in my practice, but it is not required. I am LGBTQ-IA+ affirming and believe in honoring and creating space for all identities in session. A personal joy of mine is working with Black clients who are first-timers in therapy to work on destigmatizing mental health and healing the impacts of white supremacy. More specifically, I prioritize supporting Black clients who grew up in predominantly White spaces who did not feel "Black enough." My favorite problem to work with is when someone says "I'm stuck," to help a client not only get moving but move in a healthy direction. In my personal life, I am married, am a mother to a sickle cell warrior son, have a wonderful bonus-daughter and playful Aussiedoodle. That being said, I have an appreciation for working with blended families and exploring dating post-divorce. For self-care I enjoy writing fiction, listening to 90's and 2000s R&B, and watching romcoms. Looking forward to helping your healing journey.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Career Counseling
Trauma and PTSD
+10
I have been licensed since 2017 and I've been working in the mental health arena for just under a decade. I began working in community mental health and that gave me an excellent opportunity to work with people who were dealing with a large variety of issues, including significant trauma, depression, anxiety, self-harm, relationship issues, self-esteem issues, people struggling to find motivation, people who are grieving significant losses, people with attention or focus issues, and people just trying to find their place in the world. My primary concern is ensuring that you feel comfortable and safe to share openly. Wherever you are on your adventure, I want to meet you there and work with you until you reach your destination. I primarily practice cognitive behavioral therapy and I work very hard to keep myself updated on treatments that are identified as best practice therapy models by the state of Virginia. It is important to me to provide a service that is supported by research to ensure that my clients get the best service available. I tend to pull a lot from DBT, strength based counseling, motivational-interviewing, solution focused therapy, and mindfulness. It should also be mentioned that I have a lot of experience working with people who have had significant legal issues. I enjoy working with people from all walks of life, and I love to learn.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Solution oriented
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+9
Life, at times, can present us with extraordinary challenges and circumstances leaving us feeling anxious, overwhelmed, depressed, and even hopeless. Emotions from present or past experiences can become so burdensome that we develop unhealthy ways to cope. Symptoms may become so elevated that they affect our ability to function and interrupt family or social relationships. What I provide is an opportunity to process life's difficulties with someone who cares and has the clinical knowledge to assist you with gaining insight and understanding while developing new strategies and coping skills to manage your mental health day by day. I offer primarily CBT therapy with a person-centered trauma-informed focus.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Warm
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
First Responders/Healthcare Workers
Self Esteem
+10
Hi, I'm Daija Monroe, Licensed Professional Counselor and founder of Monroe Behavioral Insight Consulting. I'm so glad you're here and I want you to know that finding the courage to seek support is something to be proud of. I'm a Virginia-based therapist with over seven years of experience working with individuals across a wide range of life experiences and challenges. I have experience in community mental health, forensic mental health, crisis intervention, and school-based settings which means I bring a well-rounded, real-world understanding of how life, systems, and mental health intersect. My work is rooted in creating a space that feels genuinely safe where you don't have to perform, pretend, or have it all figured out before walking through the door. I'll be honest with you, I'm not the therapist who will sit quietly and just nod. I'm warm, I'm real, and I'm straightforward. I believe you deserve a therapist who will actually engage with you, celebrate your wins, and gently challenge you when you need it. No sugarcoating, but always with compassion. My approach blends evidence-based techniques with genuine human connection. I specialize in working with women, young adults, adolescents, first responders, healthcare workers, and immigrants navigating life's most difficult moments. Whether you're carrying invisible weight, feeling stuck, or simply ready to finally put yourself first, I want to help you get there. Outside of my clinical work I am a mother, author, speaker, and advocate for mental health awareness. Life has taught me firsthand that healing is possible even when it feels impossibly far away. That lived experience shapes everything about how I show up for my clients. You don't have to keep holding it all alone. I'm here.
Available
Authentic
Warm
Solution oriented

Specialties

Depression
Life Transitions
Trauma and PTSD
+2
The woman who has it all together on the outside is often the one carrying the most on the inside. If you're high-achieving, dependable, and exhausted — not from laziness but from carrying too much for too long — this is the space you've been looking for. I'm Whitley Frazier, LCSW, and I specialize in trauma-informed therapy for women and teens navigating trauma, anxiety, emotional overwhelm, and major life transitions. My work is direct, warm, and grounded in approaches that actually produce change. EMDR is at the core of what I do. Unlike traditional talk therapy, EMDR works at a neurological level — helping your brain reprocess stored trauma so it no longer controls how you feel, react, and relate. The result isn't just feeling better temporarily. It's actually being different on the other side. You don't have to keep white-knuckling through life. Healing is possible — and you're worth it.
VirtualAvailable

New to Grow

Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+10
I provide a supportive and compassionate space where you can feel genuinely heard, understood, and respected. In our work together, I aim to strike a balance between validation and gentle challenge, helping you move toward meaningful change and your personal goals. My intention is for you to leave each session feeling seen and valued, with a deeper recognition of your inherent worth and strengths that already exist within you. Together, we will explore your experiences at a pace that feels comfortable, while also encouraging growth and self-awareness that extends beyond our sessions. I strive to foster a trusting therapeutic relationship where you feel safe to be authentic, take risks, and develop greater confidence in your ability to navigate life’s challenges.
Available

New to Grow

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Grief
+10
Welcome — I’m glad you’re here. I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor who specializes in helping individuals and couples navigate life's challenges with greater clarity, confidence, and self-compassion. Whether you're struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, grief, trauma, life transitions, or feeling emotionally overwhelmed, I provide a supportive and collaborative space where you can feel heard, understood, and empowered. My approach is warm, nonjudgmental, and tailored to your unique needs. Together, we'll explore what's keeping you stuck, build on your strengths, and develop practical tools to help you create meaningful, lasting change. My goal is to help you move beyond simply coping and toward living a more connected, fulfilling life.
Available
Warm
Authentic
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Life Transitions
Women's Issues
+3
I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who works with women navigating relationship anxiety, attachment wounds, self-abandonment, and recurring relational patterns. Many of the women I work with are highly capable in other areas of life but feel emotionally overwhelmed, disconnected from themselves, or unsure whether what they’re feeling in relationships is anxiety, fear, or intuition. My work helps clients reconnect to themselves with greater clarity, self-trust, emotional safety, and authenticity.
Available
Solution oriented
Authentic
Warm

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Couples Counseling
+10
TAKE EVENING CLIENTS! I am a licensed Clinical Marriage & Family Therapist, Credentialed Alcohol and Substance Abuse Counselor (CASAC), with more than 20 years of experience helping adolescents, young adults, individuals, couples, and families navigate life's challenges. My approach is compassionate, collaborative, and solution-focused, providing a safe, supportive environment where clients feel heard, understood, and empowered to create meaningful change. I specialize in working with adolescents who are struggling with peer relationships, bullying, self-esteem, identity development, anxiety, emotional regulation, and family conflict. I also enjoy helping young adults navigate major life transitions, including returning home after college, adjusting to adulthood, launching careers, developing independence, and managing changing family dynamics. For adults, I provide therapy for anxiety, depression, stress management, work-life balance, life transitions, relationship concerns, and personal growth. Whether you are feeling overwhelmed by work demands, experiencing burnout, struggling with communication, or trying to regain balance in your personal life, I work collaboratively with you to develop practical strategies that support long-term emotional wellness. I have extensive experience working with couples at every stage of their relationship, including dating, premarital counseling, marriage, intimacy concerns, communication difficulties, conflict resolution, infidelity recovery, and rebuilding emotional and physical connection. As an AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist, I also help couples address sexual concerns, desire differences, intimacy challenges, and other sensitive topics with professionalism, compassion, and without judgment. I earned a Master of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy from Hofstra University and a Master of Arts in Military Psychology from Adler University. I am licensed in both Virginia and New York and hold certifications in Divorce Mediation and Alcohol and Substance Abuse Counseling. My therapeutic approach integrates evidence-based practices, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Solution-Focused Therapy, mindfulness techniques, and family systems theory to create individualized treatment plans for each client.
VirtualAvailable
Solution oriented
Empowering
Authentic

Specialties

ADHD
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+7
I am an expert in mental health who helps clients reduce depression, anxiety, ADHD symptoms, Hypomania symptoms; while making major life transitions in the domains of career and employment, important relationships, and grief/loss. Developing an identity and self that believes in change towards wellness is where we begin. I challenge clients, I ask questions, I direct and I redirect. I hold a few spaces on my calendar for women who want to understand the impact of chaotic childhoods and childhood trauma where the threat of violence was too often present. I support clients in getting comfortable with being assessed for medications to treat the above conditions, when I recognize medication as the best possible course along side regular psychotherapy. I work best with clients who are highly motivated and take responsibility for how they make major life transitions.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Life Transitions
Trauma and PTSD
+10
Hi! I'm Alexis and I am glad you are here. I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor in the DMV with over 12 years of experience and I've worked with individuals navigating a wide range of concerns from anxiety and relationship trauma to life transitions and unexpected turns. I’ve earned a Master's in Mental Health Counseling and a Nonprofit Management, and that dual background shapes how I work. I care about outcomes as much as I care about the therapeutic process which means you'll leave sessions with more than just insight. You'll leave with practical methods to apply to your everyday life.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

ADHD
Anxiety
Trauma and PTSD
You may find yourself feeling things that don’t seem to make sense. You feel like you should be happy, able to manage it all, or that you shouldn’t feel stressed or worried because your problems don’t seem ‘big enough.’ Maybe you’re dealing with changes—whether planned or unexpected—that are difficult to navigate. Perhaps areas of life are being negatively impacted by stress related to the current state of the world. Hi! I’m Gina, and I specialize in empowering people to uncover the valid reasons behind their thoughts, feelings, and actions. I love helping clients reach those ‘light bulb’ moments when they begin to understand themselves in a new way and realize they’re not inherently flawed. Together, we explore how your thoughts, feelings, and responses truly make sense, allowing you to see yourself with greater compassion and clarity. I work with older adolescents and adults facing anxiety, past or recent trauma, life transitions, ADHD, and depression. My approach is strengths-based, focusing on the whole person to support genuine well-being. Through a straightforward, down-to-earth style, I engage with clients using proven techniques such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and EMDR, creating a supportive space to build resilience and foster growth.
VirtualAvailable
Solution oriented
Warm
Direct

Specialties

First Responders/Healthcare Workers
Life Transitions
Trauma and PTSD
+1
Hi there! I’m Stephanie. I work with teens ages 16+ and adults navigating anxiety, trauma, depression, life transitions, and relationship stress. My approach is warm, collaborative, and trauma-informed. In my work, I integrate talk therapy, EMDR, ART, parts work, and sometimes even some art therapy to help clients feel understood, supported, and empowered. I look forward to working with you.
Available
Warm
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Depression
+10
Life can feel overwhelming when stress, anxiety, or life challenges begin to affect your relationships, work, or sense of well-being. I am passionate about helping individuals explore emotional and behavioral wellness while strengthening the connection between mind and body. With nearly 20 years of experience working with children, adolescents, and adults in hospitals, schools, nursing homes, and outpatient settings, I have supported many people through life’s challenges. I work with adults and teens who are experiencing anxiety, stress, life transitions, trauma, or emotional difficulties. My goal is to create a supportive, non-judgmental space where clients feel comfortable exploring their concerns and developing healthier ways to cope and move forward.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Warm
Open-minded
Authentic

Specialties

Family Conflict
LGBTQ
Life Transitions
+10
Hey there! I'm an LCSW based in VA/ID, originally from the PNW. I'm a military spouse and proud dog mom. My presentation is warm, laid-back, and open-minded with some appropriately sprinkled humor. I am human, as are you. Therefore my therapeutic style tends to be conversational, curious and collaborative as I seek to meet you where you are for us to co-create a healing space that is conducive to addressing your needs.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Empowering
Warm

Specialties

Anxiety
Couples Counseling
Family Conflict
+6
I am a graduate of both Saint Leo University and Regent University. I hold a B.A. in Psychology and a M.A. in Marriage & Family Therapy. I use a structural, solution-focused, and CBT approach when working with clients coupled with a calm spirit that helps clients feel accepted. I enjoy helping clients discover their strengths while highlighting how their thoughts and feelings contribute to their daily living and functioning. I am passionate about marriage, at-risk youth, and military communities. I enjoy working with individuals, couples, adolescents and adults. I believe relational intelligence is the key that unlocks our greatest potential. Therapy can be a huge step, therefore I find it important to build a relationship with you as my client by getting to know you and your experiences while empowering you to identify the change you would like to make. When I am is not helping clients, I serve as an Active Duty Sailor and full-time mom. I enjoy reading and exercising with my family. I am grounded in mindfulness and can implement meditation and spirituality into practice if preferred. I also provides pre-martial and life coaching services.
VirtualAvailable
Frequently asked questions

When looking for online therapy, you can see anyone that is credentialed in Virginia. We want you to find the best fit, therefore, Grow Therapy shows available therapists across Virginia from Norfolk to Roanoke! If you’d rather see someone in-person, you can change the filter from virtual and find a therapist near you in Virginia.

Yes! If you use Aetna you’ll be asked to verify your Member ID at the time you book the appointment. However, if you don’t have Aetna you can select cash. Our therapists will have their cost of appointment on their profile. Individual session costs will vary.

The specialty filter is optional. You don’t need to check any boxes to see a provider. However, fit is very important when selecting an online therapist. If you have knowledge or experience to recognize what specialties you may need.

Finding a provider with a similar life experience can be beneficial because it can be easier to establish rapport and potentially be understood quicker and clearer.

Your first therapy session is for you and your therapist to meet each other and to ask any questions that you have about the counseling process. This is where you can expect your therapist to do the same as they will ask questions to gain insight into your specific situation. In this first session the therapist is doing their part to gather as much information so they can better assess if they are able to meet your therapeutic needs. Depending upon your provider's specialty, you may also discuss the methods the therapist will use. For additional information on therapy methods, please visit the Grow Therapy Help Center.Some people feel nervous before their first appointment, and that is totally normal! Coming prepared with a list of questions for your therapist may help. Remember, you're taking a brave step by seeking therapy, and it is okay to be nervous as you try something new.