Aetna Therapists in Virginia

Accessing therapy covered by Aetna insurance can simplify and reduce the cost of therapy, helping you find therapist that fits your budget. With 525 verified therapists in Virginia accepting Aetna, you can choose from therapeutic approaches such as cognitive behavioral therapy, psychodynamic therapy, and mindfulness-based therapy to address concerns like anxiety, depression, or major life changes. Each Grow Therapy-verified provider listed below is open to new clients and has upcoming availability, making it easier to connect with a therapist who meets your needs within the scope of your Aetna plan.

Availability updated: 8/7/2026

New to Grow

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Depression
+4
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with over 20 years of experience. I pride myself in continued educational enhancement. With my education, experience, and continued growth, I can help my client to see the counseling session as a rewarding experience and an oasis of serenity. I have serviced a wide population and demographic to include clients from age 6 to 97 years old; all with various ethnicities, income status, occupation, and of course "need"
Available
Authentic
Warm
Humorous

Specialties

Life Transitions
Trauma and PTSD
Women's Issues
+10
Hello! My name is Meredith. I am an LPC, and have been in private practice since 2021. I am deeply passionate about what I do and I'm so glad to be getting started on Grow. As a therapist, I intentionally try to bring my most genuine and authentic self to my clients. I know how crucial this is as the basis of a productive working relationship. My sessions are primarily client-led, meaning I will prioritize what feels most prescient to you on a given day, and meet you where you are. At the same time, I will help ensure that we are consistently working toward your specific goals. I feel that the best therapeutic outcomes come from the most secure and trusting counseling relationships, and that is what I try to provide. It is probably also important for any potential client to know that my office will always be a safe space for all, regardless of belonging to any underserved, disenfranchised community. When I am not at work, I love cooking, all things macabre and scary- books, movies, podcasts, and I love reading and hanging out with my family. I am passionate about all kinds of art and the written word. I recently took up archery, and it is a great outlet. Otherwise, I am an indoor type of gal, especially in the summer. I am quick to laugh, and will often crack a joke at my own expense.
Available
Solution oriented
Intelligent
Warm

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+10
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker dedicated to providing compassionate, client-centered care through secure remote sessions with adult clients. I am currently licensed in the states of New Jersey, Virginia, and Florida. With commitment to fostering a safe and therapeutic environment, I work collaboratively with individuals to address a wide range of emotional, behavioral, and relational challenges. Hence, my approach is grounded in respect, empathy, and a deep belief in each client's capacity for growth and resilience.
Available
Empowering
Solution oriented
Direct

Specialties

Addiction
Couples Counseling
Depression
+7
My name is Dr. Butler (Bennie) and Iam an LPC, LAC and PhD in CO and VA serving those that are dealing with the following: depression, anxiet, bi-polar, maital/couples issues, existential issues (life meaning), issues of faith, addictions, disassociative issues and the Like. I have taught psychology, and plan to again, at the college level and I have been the owner of LoveJoy Counseling for 15+ years in CO and I am now expanding into the GROW platform. I am polite and professional, but fairly straight-forward tending to work with those who are at a point where they understand that change takes some level of challange. In short, I have experience with both theory and the applied science associated with psychology and can draw from both to apply in a professional, non-judgemental, yet honest wayGreat. I am 61 years of age, I have lived in various places around the world and have seen the common threads of humanity throughout.
Available
Warm
Solution oriented
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+9
Life, at times, can present us with extraordinary challenges and circumstances leaving us feeling anxious, overwhelmed, depressed, and even hopeless. Emotions from present or past experiences can become so burdensome that we develop unhealthy ways to cope. Symptoms may become so elevated that they affect our ability to function and interrupt family or social relationships. What I provide is an opportunity to process life's difficulties with someone who cares and has the clinical knowledge to assist you with gaining insight and understanding while developing new strategies and coping skills to manage your mental health day by day. I offer primarily CBT therapy with a person-centered trauma-informed focus.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Warm
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
First Responders/Healthcare Workers
Self Esteem
+10
Hi, I'm Daija Monroe, Licensed Professional Counselor and founder of Monroe Behavioral Insight Consulting. I'm so glad you're here and I want you to know that finding the courage to seek support is something to be proud of. I'm a Virginia-based therapist with over seven years of experience working with individuals across a wide range of life experiences and challenges. I have experience in community mental health, forensic mental health, crisis intervention, and school-based settings which means I bring a well-rounded, real-world understanding of how life, systems, and mental health intersect. My work is rooted in creating a space that feels genuinely safe where you don't have to perform, pretend, or have it all figured out before walking through the door. I'll be honest with you, I'm not the therapist who will sit quietly and just nod. I'm warm, I'm real, and I'm straightforward. I believe you deserve a therapist who will actually engage with you, celebrate your wins, and gently challenge you when you need it. No sugarcoating, but always with compassion. My approach blends evidence-based techniques with genuine human connection. I specialize in working with women, young adults, adolescents, first responders, healthcare workers, and immigrants navigating life's most difficult moments. Whether you're carrying invisible weight, feeling stuck, or simply ready to finally put yourself first, I want to help you get there. Outside of my clinical work I am a mother, author, speaker, and advocate for mental health awareness. Life has taught me firsthand that healing is possible even when it feels impossibly far away. That lived experience shapes everything about how I show up for my clients. You don't have to keep holding it all alone. I'm here.
Available

New to Grow

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Grief
+10
Welcome — I’m glad you’re here. I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor who specializes in helping individuals and couples navigate life's challenges with greater clarity, confidence, and self-compassion. Whether you're struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, grief, trauma, life transitions, or feeling emotionally overwhelmed, I provide a supportive and collaborative space where you can feel heard, understood, and empowered. My approach is warm, nonjudgmental, and tailored to your unique needs. Together, we'll explore what's keeping you stuck, build on your strengths, and develop practical tools to help you create meaningful, lasting change. My goal is to help you move beyond simply coping and toward living a more connected, fulfilling life.
Available

New to Grow

Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+10
I provide a supportive and compassionate space where you can feel genuinely heard, understood, and respected. In our work together, I aim to strike a balance between validation and gentle challenge, helping you move toward meaningful change and your personal goals. My intention is for you to leave each session feeling seen and valued, with a deeper recognition of your inherent worth and strengths that already exist within you. Together, we will explore your experiences at a pace that feels comfortable, while also encouraging growth and self-awareness that extends beyond our sessions. I strive to foster a trusting therapeutic relationship where you feel safe to be authentic, take risks, and develop greater confidence in your ability to navigate life’s challenges.
Available
Warm
Authentic
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+1
Hi! My name is LaPetra Whigham. I am a licensed clinical social worker with 20 yrs of experience working with individuals and families. I'm a highly skilled and compassionate therapist who works with individuals with issues ranging from trauma, depression, anxiety, adjustment issues, emotional eating, psuedoseizures and women issues. I utilizied different therapuetic models to empower clients to make the necessary changes to impove their quality of life.
VirtualAvailable

New to Grow

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Life Transitions
+10
I believe that collaboration and partnership are what yields the best results in therapy and this is reflected in how we talk about goals and what "progress" looks like for each individual client. My aim is to empower clients and bring them closer to what is most important and meaningful to them. I believe that each person is the expert of their own experience. Through the lenses of compassion and resilience-focused approaches, we will build insight to gain a better understanding of your past and present experiences and how these impact your relationships, behaviors, beliefs, and quality of life.
Available
Warm
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Sexual Abuse
Women's Issues
+5
Hello, I'm Dr. Natalia. Are you feeling overwhelmed, tired, and worn with all your responsibilities as a young adult woman (ages 18-35)? Maybe feeling anxious, down or depressed and wondering how you will manage it all? Whether you’re a mother, a daughter, a student or an employee, you matter and behind all that you do is a woman wanting to be seen and heard. You Are Not Alone and you don’t have to do life alone. In our sessions, you will be listened to, understood, and given practical evidence-based tools and techniques to manage those difficult emotions while you learn to care for your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. This is your life, your decision to make it better, and you can be empowered to live it at your best. If you’re ready for that empowerment or even considering it , I am here to help. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- Hola, soy la Dra. Natalia. ¿Te sientes abrumada, cansada, y desgastada con todas tus responsabilidades como joven adulta? ¿Probablemente te estas sintiendo ansiosa, decaída o deprimida y pensando como vas a manejar todo lo que tienes en tu plato? Si eres madre, hija, estudiante o empleada, tú importas y detrás de todo lo qué haces esta una mujer que quiere ser reconocida. No estás sola y no tienes que vivir la vida sola. En nuestras sesiones, serás escuchada, entendida, y te daré herramientas y técnicas prácticas que han sido comprobadas para manejar esas emociones difíciles mientras cuidas tu bien estar físico, emocional, y mental. Esta es tu vida, tu decisión para mejorarla, y puedes ser empoderada para vivirla mejor. Si estas lista para ese empoderamiento o lo estás considerando, estoy aquí para ayudarte.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Solution oriented

Specialties

Anxiety
Life Transitions
Women's Issues
+3
I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who works with women navigating relationship anxiety, attachment wounds, self-abandonment, and recurring relational patterns. Many of the women I work with are highly capable in other areas of life but feel emotionally overwhelmed, disconnected from themselves, or unsure whether what they’re feeling in relationships is anxiety, fear, or intuition. My work helps clients reconnect to themselves with greater clarity, self-trust, emotional safety, and authenticity.
Available
Intelligent
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

Couples Counseling
Military/Veterans
I am a licensed professional counselor with over 15 years of experience guiding individuals, couples, and families toward healing and transformation. As a retired veteran, pastor, and therapist, I bring a unique blend of professional expertise, life experience, and faith-based wisdom to my practice. I believe true healing starts with prayer. Prayer is the lifeline to our relationship with God, the foundation of our healing process. In our pursuit of health and restoration, prayer validates our deep-seated desires for renewal and supports our mental and physical well-being. It ignites a direct line to God’s heart, where healing is amplified, and transformation takes place. Through this connection, we gain strength, clarity, and the ability to navigate life’s challenges with faith and resilience.
VirtualAvailable
Empowering
Authentic
Warm

Specialties

Coping Skills
Life Transitions
Women's Issues
+8
For over 13 years, I have dedicated my practice to supporting women as they navigate the many demands of modern life. I understand firsthand what it means to move between worlds. Growing up in Brooklyn as the daughter of immigrant parents, and now living in South Florida, I have been shaped by diverse cultures, communities, and perspectives. My love of travel has deepened that curiosity about the human experience. In the therapy room, this translates into a genuine ability to meet you where you are regardless of your background, your story, or how far from yourself you may feel right now.
Available
Intelligent
Authentic
Challenging

Specialties

Anxiety
Mood Disorders
Trauma and PTSD
+10
Hi, I'm Kristen. If you're feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or simply tired of carrying everything on your own, you're not alone. I provide a warm, supportive space where you can feel heard, understood, and comfortable being yourself. With more than 10 years of experience, I work with children, teens, adults, and families navigating anxiety, ADHD, depression, trauma, grief, relationship struggles, parenting stress, and major life transitions. My approach is collaborative, practical, and tailored to your unique needs. Together, we'll build on your strengths, develop coping skills, and create meaningful changes that support the life you want to live.
Available

New to Grow

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Women's Issues
+6
I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with a telehealth practice licensed in Pennsylvania and Virginia, and over 23 years of experience in the mental health field working with children, teen and adults. . I specialize in trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship stress, and life transitions, and I work from a warm, collaborative, and supportive approach. My work blends talk therapy with somatic practices, self-compassion, mindfulness, and pattern-tracing to help you better understand yourself and what keeps you stuck. Many clients come to me feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or caught in cycles of self-doubt and overthinking. Together, we slow things down, explore what’s happening beneath the surface, and build practical tools that support real, lasting change. I also help clients gently connect how past experiences may still be impacting present-day emotions, relationships, and self-worth, while building a more grounded and compassionate relationship with themselves.
Available
Authentic
Intelligent
Direct

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Parenting
+10
Kelly was born in Lynchburg Virginia and raised in Southern California but has been back east in this area since the early 90s. Kelly is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), with over a decade of experience across many different settings consisting of inpatient, outpatient, intensive in-home, university, mental health agency work. Kelly graduated from liberty University with his PhD in professional counseling in January 2013; and has taught graduate students in group therapy skills and individual therapy techniques. Kelly tends to be eclectic in his counseling approach, employing CBT, and Person Centered. Active listening, CBT, Cognitive Challenging, Cognitive Refocusing, Cognitive Reframing, Conflict resolution, Exploration of Coping Patterns, Exploration of Emotions, Exploration of Relationship Patterns, Free Association processing, Interactive Feedback, Person centered, Preventative Services, Relaxation/Deep Breathing, Role-Play/Behavioral Rehearsal... Kelly seeks to meet you where you are in life and strives to help you grow in personal/social/work awareness, insight, and emotional/cognitive/behavioral change.
VirtualAvailable
Solution oriented
Empowering
Authentic

Specialties

ADHD
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+7
I am an expert in mental health who helps clients reduce depression, anxiety, ADHD symptoms, Hypomania symptoms; while making major life transitions in the domains of career and employment, important relationships, and grief/loss. Developing an identity and self that believes in change towards wellness is where we begin. I challenge clients, I ask questions, I direct and I redirect. I hold a few spaces on my calendar for women who want to understand the impact of chaotic childhoods and childhood trauma where the threat of violence was too often present. I support clients in getting comfortable with being assessed for medications to treat the above conditions, when I recognize medication as the best possible course along side regular psychotherapy. I work best with clients who are highly motivated and take responsibility for how they make major life transitions.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Warm
Solution oriented

Specialties

ADHD
Anxiety
Grief
+8
Holding space is the practice of providing a safe and supportive environment for someone to express their thoughts, emotions, and experiences without judgment or interruption. It involves being fully present and attentive, allowing the other person to explore their feelings and navigate their own process. My 20 years of experience have allowed for a diverse background of traditions and practices that clients can implement in their personal journey. I value transparency in the therapist/client relationship.
VirtualAvailable
Authentic
Intelligent
Warm

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
+3
My aim is to help clients navigate major life transitions, anxiety, depression, and overwhelming stress — especially when life feels uncertain, heavy, or out of control. Whether you’re dealing with a big change, emotional burnout, or financial pressure, therapy with me is a place to slow down, get grounded, and start making sense of what you’re going through. I take a warm, supportive, but direct approach to therapy. I won’t just nod and listen, I’ll help you notice patterns, challenge what’s keeping you stuck, and build practical tools so you can feel more steady, confident, and in control of your life. My background is a clinical social worker working full time in medical social work so I witness people's life change every day in major ways. This has lead me to prioritize self care and build intentional ways to help myself and others manage stress. My top self-care activities include traveling, spending quality with family and friends, seeking out thrilling adventures, discovering new RNB music, and walking. I'm hopeful that we can identify some coping skills that work for you.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Warm
Empowering

Specialties

Anxiety
Coping Skills
Depression
+6
Isoke Griffin, a LPC with years of experience, has gained knowledge at South University and through invaluable experiences in education and therapeutic settings. Early in her career, she knew her work would involve supporting others. Isoke enjoys working with individuals, couples, and families, helping them discover their passions, overcome obstacles, and live a life of purpose. She deeply understands the critical role of therapeutic experiences in creating a level playing field, underscoring the importance and impact of her work.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Warm
Solution oriented
Authentic

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+10
Are stress, anxiety, relationship struggles, or life changes starting to take over? Do you feel stuck in worry, low mood, or patterns shaped by past experiences? If something is holding you back, you don’t have to figure it out alone. Together, we’ll make sense of what’s going on beneath the surface and focus on building clarity, learning practical tools, and creating a path that helps you feel more steady, confident, and in control.
VirtualAvailable
Warm
Authentic
Empowering

Specialties

ADHD
Anxiety
Trauma and PTSD
You may find yourself feeling things that don’t seem to make sense. You feel like you should be happy, able to manage it all, or that you shouldn’t feel stressed or worried because your problems don’t seem ‘big enough.’ Maybe you’re dealing with changes—whether planned or unexpected—that are difficult to navigate. Perhaps areas of life are being negatively impacted by stress related to the current state of the world. Hi! I’m Gina, and I specialize in empowering people to uncover the valid reasons behind their thoughts, feelings, and actions. I love helping clients reach those ‘light bulb’ moments when they begin to understand themselves in a new way and realize they’re not inherently flawed. Together, we explore how your thoughts, feelings, and responses truly make sense, allowing you to see yourself with greater compassion and clarity. I work with older adolescents and adults facing anxiety, past or recent trauma, life transitions, ADHD, and depression. My approach is strengths-based, focusing on the whole person to support genuine well-being. Through a straightforward, down-to-earth style, I engage with clients using proven techniques such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and EMDR, creating a supportive space to build resilience and foster growth.
VirtualAvailable

Often rebooked

Authentic
Warm
Intelligent

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
+9
I know how easy it is to become the person everyone depends on while quietly carrying stress, pressure, anxiety, or emotional pain underneath the surface. Many of the clients I work with are high functioning professionals, caregivers, parents, and leaders who are used to pushing through life while putting their own emotional needs on the back burner. Over time, that emotional weight can start showing up in relationships, work, sleep, mood, self esteem, or simply feeling disconnected from yourself. My goal as a therapist is to create a space where you no longer feel like you have to hold everything together alone. I specialize in EMDR therapy and work with adults and couples navigating trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship stress, and emotional overwhelm. My approach is warm, grounded, and direct. I believe therapy should feel like a real conversation with someone who is present, engaged, and genuinely invested in helping you heal and grow. Together, we will explore not only what is happening in the present, but also how past experiences may still be shaping the way you think, feel, react, and connect with others today. EMDR can help reduce the emotional intensity connected to painful experiences so you can move through life with greater clarity, confidence, and peace. With over 16 years of experience in mental health and substance use recovery, I am passionate about helping people move out of survival mode and feel more emotionally connected, balanced, and like themselves again. I provide virtual therapy to clients in Georgia, Florida, and Virginia.
VirtualAvailable

New to Grow

Specialties

Anxiety
Depression
LGBTQ
+3
I am a firm believer that every encounter in our life causes change in all parties involved, no matter how small the encounter. Even if the client and I agree or disagree about us being a good fit we are both changed. We might not notice the change at first, but it's there. I try to bring my 100% to every session and I hope my clients do the same with the understanding that our 100% changes everyday due to life situations. I do share personal experiences with clients if it is appropriate to do so and I feel it would benefit the client. I am a mom of three young children and a wife, so I understand how life can get busy and overwhelming at times. I live to call these times our Life's Storms and just by getting through the day(s) even if it just barely getting by; by clients choosing to try to continue on even at the hardest points in the Life's Storms they are Braving Life's Storms. This doesn't mean that are aren't time when clients will have thoughts of wanting to just pause life, or run away and start over because that is normal and coming to counseling to seek help is brave and hard in and of itself.
Available
Frequently asked questions

When looking for online therapy, you can see anyone that is credentialed in Virginia. We want you to find the best fit, therefore, Grow Therapy shows available therapists across Virginia from Norfolk to Roanoke! If you’d rather see someone in-person, you can change the filter from virtual and find a therapist near you in Virginia.

Yes! If you use Aetna you’ll be asked to verify your Member ID at the time you book the appointment. However, if you don’t have Aetna you can select cash. Our therapists will have their cost of appointment on their profile. Individual session costs will vary.

The specialty filter is optional. You don’t need to check any boxes to see a provider. However, fit is very important when selecting an online therapist. If you have knowledge or experience to recognize what specialties you may need.

Finding a provider with a similar life experience can be beneficial because it can be easier to establish rapport and potentially be understood quicker and clearer.

Your first therapy session is for you and your therapist to meet each other and to ask any questions that you have about the counseling process. This is where you can expect your therapist to do the same as they will ask questions to gain insight into your specific situation. In this first session the therapist is doing their part to gather as much information so they can better assess if they are able to meet your therapeutic needs. Depending upon your provider's specialty, you may also discuss the methods the therapist will use. For additional information on therapy methods, please visit the Grow Therapy Help Center.Some people feel nervous before their first appointment, and that is totally normal! Coming prepared with a list of questions for your therapist may help. Remember, you're taking a brave step by seeking therapy, and it is okay to be nervous as you try something new.