Effective therapy is about a few things: experience, expertise, a clear diagnosis, concise goals, and the knowledge and the tools to effectively navigate difficult life issues. It’s also about a possessing a genuine concern for the patient and their pain.” Vonda Warren-Lilly strives to bring an effective blend of experience, expertise, clarity, concern and action to the therapy process in order to maximize outcomes and provide genuine healing and wholeness to individuals, marriages and families. While personally navigating through “life,” Vonda has discovered that the only difference between individuals is “how” they choose to handle “what” they deal with. This allows her to understand that none is exempt from needing help from time to time, which not only makes her excited, but eager to assist others in discovering the underlying issues that explain the presenting concerns that has led them to get help. Vonda specializes in areas of depression, anxiety, couples therapy and counseling for women who have self-image and identity issues. Vonda understands that there are certain elements necessary in the counseling process required in order to maintain a space of positivity, growth, and healing. She also understands that it is essential that she provides a judgment-free space that is challenging but consoling, and a process that is educative as well as retrospective.
A client can expect a warm and supportive environment where they can discuss their concerns openly. This therapist will typically begin by gathering background information, including the patient’s history, current challenges, and goals for therapy. This therapist will explain the principles of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), emphasizing how thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are interconnected. The session may include an initial assessment of negative thought patterns and coping strategies, with the therapist helping to identify specific areas to work on. Patients can also expect to discuss the structure of future sessions, and collaborative goal-setting to ensure progress. Most importantly, the first session is an opportunity to establish a trusting therapeutic relationship and create a personalized treatment plan.
Collaborative and Empowering – I work alongside clients, encouraging active participation in the therapeutic process and fostering a sense of self-efficacy. Problem-Solving and Practical Skills – I equip clients with concrete coping strategies and tools that can be applied in daily life to manage distress and improve functioning. Adaptability and Personalization – I tailor interventions to each client’s unique needs, ensuring therapy remains relevant and effective. Emphasis on Present and Future – While acknowledging past experiences, I focus on present challenges and future goals, helping clients develop healthier thought patterns and behaviors.
Someone seeking support for emotional distress, relationship challenges, or personal growth. This individual may experience persistent feelings of sadness, worry, or stress that interfere with daily life, or they may struggle with self-esteem, work-life balance, or life transitions. They might be navigating challenges related to relationships, parenting, or family dynamics and are open to exploring patterns in their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. The ideal patient is willing to engage in the therapeutic process, actively participate in developing coping strategies, and implement insights gained in sessions to improve their well-being and relationships.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is used in my private practice to help clients identify and modify negative thought patterns and behaviors. By working collaboratively with clients, CBT helps in exploring how thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are interconnected. This method empowers clients to develop effective coping strategies, challenge distorted thinking, and achieve sustainable changes in their mental health and well-being.