Tracy Parus

LCSW, 25 years of experience
Warm
Authentic
Solution oriented
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I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 25 years of experience helping individuals navigate life’s challenges with clarity, resilience, and hope. I provide compassionate, strengths-based support tailored to your personal goals, drawing from evidence-based approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and person-centered therapy. My work is grounded in empathy, collaboration, and respect for each client’s values and beliefs. For clients who desire it, I am comfortable integrating Christian-based discussion and guidance into therapy in a thoughtful, balanced way—always client-led and never imposed. Faith, when meaningful to you, can be a powerful source of comfort, direction, and strength, and we can explore how it fits into your healing and growth. I am dedicated to building authentic, trusting relationships and creating a supportive space where you feel heard and understood. Together, we’ll work toward practical solutions, emotional growth, and a renewed sense of purpose—at a pace that feels right for you.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

In our first session, we’ll take time to get to know each other. I’ll invite you to share what brings you to therapy, what you’re hoping to work on, and any concerns you’d like to explore. This is a safe, judgment-free space where you can talk at your own pace. My goal is to help you feel comfortable, supported, and understood as we begin building a trusting therapeutic relationship.n our first session, we’ll take time to get to know each other. I’ll ask about what brings you to therapy, your goals, and any concerns you’d like to explore. It’s a safe, judgment-free space where you can share at your own pace and begin building a trusting connection.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

What sets me apart as a therapist is the way I blend deep clinical experience with warmth, compassion, and practical support. With over 25 years in social work and mental health, I’ve walked alongside individuals through some of life’s most difficult transitions—including loss, illness, caregiving, trauma, and uncertainty. I create a space where clients feel genuinely heard, respected, and supported, and I tailor my approach to meet each person where they are—emotionally and, when meaningful to them, spiritually. One of my greatest strengths is my ability to build strong, trusting therapeutic relationships. I take a person-centered, collaborative approach, ensuring clients feel in control of their own healing process. I listen first, validate what you’re experiencing, and help you identify strengths you may not recognize in yourself. Together, we set realistic, meaningful goals that feel achievable and aligned with your values. I integrate evidence-based therapies such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Therapy, and Compassion-Focused Therapy. For clients who desire it, I also incorporate Christian counseling and faith-based perspectives in a respectful, balanced, and client-led way. My background in hospice and medical social work further allows me to support clients navigating chronic illness, grief, aging, and caregiving stress—areas where emotional, spiritual, and practical concerns often overlap. Clients often share that they appreciate my ability to balance empathy with practical tools. I don’t give advice; instead, I help you gain clarity, challenge unhelpful patterns, and build confidence in your ability to cope and grow. At my core, I believe people are resilient and capable of healing. My role is to walk beside you with compassion, professionalism, and steady encouragement as you work toward greater peace, purpose, and emotional stability.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

My ideal clients are adults navigating life transitions, grief, stress, or the emotional impact of chronic illness. I work especially well with individuals who are seeking emotional clarity, practical coping tools, and greater self-compassion as they manage anxiety, depression, or feelings of overwhelm. For those who desire it, I also support thoughtful integration of faith as part of the healing process.

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My treatment methods

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

I have extensive experience using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) as a foundational treatment approach in my clinical work. With over 25 years in the field of social work and mental health, I’ve consistently found CBT to be a highly effective, evidence-based method for helping clients identify and reframe negative thought patterns that contribute to emotional distress and maladaptive behaviors. In practice, I tailor CBT interventions to fit the individual needs and cognitive capacities of each client. For example, with clients experiencing anxiety or depression, I often begin by building awareness of automatic thoughts and cognitive distortions, then guide them through structured exercises like thought records, behavioral activation, and cognitive restructuring. I integrate these tools within a collaborative, strengths-based framework that respects the client’s pace and readiness for change. I also incorporate CBT techniques into brief, solution-focused work, particularly in medical social work and telehealth settings where time is limited. In these cases, I focus on targeted skill-building—such as identifying triggers, practicing grounding strategies, and challenging cognitive distortions—to provide clients with immediate, practical relief and coping strategies. Additionally, I’ve adapted CBT for populations dealing with chronic illness, grief, caregiver stress, and adjustment issues, using it to help clients regain a sense of control and shift from helplessness to empowerment. My approach is flexible and trauma-informed, and I often blend CBT with other modalities such as mindfulness, narrative therapy, or motivational interviewing, depending on client needs.

Person-centered (Rogerian)

Person-centered therapy is at the core of my clinical approach. I believe that a strong therapeutic relationship—grounded in empathy, unconditional positive regard, and genuineness—is essential for meaningful change. My role is to create a safe, nonjudgmental space where clients feel heard, respected, and empowered to explore their thoughts, feelings, and goals at their own pace. In practice, I use person-centered principles to guide every interaction, whether in long-term therapy or brief interventions. I focus on meeting clients where they are emotionally and developmentally, honoring their autonomy and unique lived experiences. This approach is especially valuable when working with individuals navigating grief, life transitions, chronic illness, or caregiving stress, as it allows clients to feel validated and supported without pressure or imposed direction. Even when I integrate other modalities like CBT, motivational interviewing, or solution-focused therapy, person-centered values remain the foundation. I believe true healing begins when clients feel seen and accepted just as they are—and from that space, they are more open to reflection, growth, and lasting change.

Christian Counseling

As a clinician who respects and understands the importance of faith in the healing process, I have experience integrating Christian counseling principles into my practice when it aligns with the client’s values and preferences. For clients who identify their faith as a central part of their life, I incorporate biblical truths, prayer (when requested), and spiritual exploration into the therapeutic process, always with sensitivity and respect for their individual beliefs and denomination. Christian counseling allows me to support clients in aligning their mental and emotional well-being with their spiritual convictions. This is especially helpful in times of grief, moral conflict, family strain, or life transitions, where faith often plays a guiding role. I draw from Scripture, Christian worldview concepts (such as grace, forgiveness, hope, and identity in Christ), and faith-based resources to help clients find meaning, direction, and peace. It’s important to me that this approach remains client-led. I never impose spiritual content, but rather create space for it when clients express a desire for Christian integration in therapy. In this way, Christian counseling can serve as both a source of comfort and a powerful tool for change within a values-based therapeutic alliance.

Compassion Focused

I incorporate Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT) in my work, particularly with clients who struggle with deep self-criticism, shame, or trauma-related symptoms. Many of the individuals I work with—especially caregivers, older adults, and those facing chronic illness or grief—carry internalized guilt or harsh self-judgments that intensify emotional suffering. CFT provides a powerful framework for helping them develop a kinder, more supportive relationship with themselves. In my practice, I use CFT to help clients understand the evolutionary nature of their threat-based emotional responses, normalize their struggles, and strengthen their “compassionate mind.” This often includes guided imagery, mindfulness, and soothing rhythm breathing, along with structured exercises to cultivate self-compassion and reduce internal shame. I find that integrating CFT principles enhances the effectiveness of other modalities like CBT or person-centered therapy by creating a foundation of emotional safety. Clients often express a sense of relief when they learn that their suffering is not a personal failure, but part of a shared human experience—and that they can respond to themselves with the same kindness they extend to others. Overall, CFT is a valuable tool in helping clients move from self-blame to self-acceptance, allowing for deeper healing and long-term emotional resilience.

Strength-Based

Strength-based therapy is a core component of my clinical approach, and I consistently integrate it into both short-term and long-term work with clients. I believe every individual possesses unique abilities, values, and life experiences that can be harnessed to foster resilience, healing, and growth—even during times of distress. In practice, I help clients identify and build upon their existing strengths, such as perseverance, faith, creativity, compassion, or past successes in overcoming adversity. This is particularly effective with clients facing chronic illness, caregiving roles, grief, or life transitions, where focusing solely on problems can feel overwhelming or disempowering. By highlighting what is working, I help clients reframe challenges and develop a more hopeful, empowered narrative about themselves and their capacity to cope. I often use strength-based questioning, collaborative goal-setting, and affirming feedback to reinforce client agency. Even when integrating other modalities like CBT or person-centered therapy, I maintain a strength-based lens to ensure the work remains affirming and forward-moving. This approach not only boosts client confidence, but also enhances engagement and long-term outcomes by fostering a sense of purpose, autonomy, and self-efficacy.

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2 ratings with written reviews

October 22, 2025

I chose Tracy based on her biography and her photo, which did not lie - she's every bit as warm and funny as I'd hoped she'd be. She listened, asked very pertinent and important questions that gave me a lot to think about. I'm really going to enjoy working with her.

Verified client, age 55-64
Review shared after session 1 with Tracy

October 22, 2025

I was at ICFR for anger management. I have had a counselor for a couple of years, but I need someone to call me out and direct me. My EAP counselor does that, but only have 8 visits a year. She pointed out that I have anger issues and I finally decided to get help. ICFR gave me so good grounding techniques to start, but I need to empower myself to be the best me I can be (without sliding backwards). I picked Tracy because she looked to be kind yet direct me in the ways I need.

Verified client, age 55-64
Review shared after session 1 with Tracy