I work with clients who want to improve the way they experience life. The desire for better relationships with themselves and with others, and to gain a sense of purpose and meaning. I’ve always been interested in what drives people and believe that we can usually discover what is best for ourselves if we slow down, take the time to think things through, talk about it with a person we trust, and express the feelings we have in healthy ways—even the negative ones we may try to avoid. I use a number of therapeutic modalities in my practice, which connect thoughts to feelings and feelings to thoughts, enabling my clients to change and grow in the positive direction that they might envision for themselves. I work with clients who have struggled with addiction, anger, anxiety, depression, relationship separation, internal conflict and conflict with others, grief and loss, and other transitions and adjustment issues. I have completed Gottman trainings, as well as Emotion-Focused Therapy, which offers a structured approach and an emotional map for couples or individuals to learn how successful couples make their relationships last and how to handle conflict in a way that prevents damage to the relationship and helps them feel better connected to their partner. I am also trained in EMDR, a therapy designed to help a person unlock their nervous system to recover from trauma, PTSD, depression, anxiety, and other problems that can take hold.
Clients can expect to see what may happen in their next session in terms of a plan for treatment. It is important also to convey that therapy can be brief or extensive dependent upon the issues or conditions that they may have. Working on life’s issues can be challenging, as we deal with the ups and downs it presents while wanting to make progress, or to just make it through the day. Life doesn’t always turn out the way we hope or believe it should. By relating the story of your experiences in a safe and supportive environment, and gaining new insight into how to look upon problems, a renewed belief in yourself may offer you a sense of relief and a new direction to follow.
My greatest strengths as a provider are how I get to know my clients so that I can match where they are in life with the best treatment modality that I am familiar with. For many clients this might be "talk therapy" until I note that they might have possible traumatic experiences that may best be helped by EMDR or IFS (Internal Family Systems)-informed treatments . Another example may be those that need to be reminded of their own strengths as clients and might only need a solutions approach towards therapy. Other clients can benefit from one of the Cognitively driven approaches such as CBT, DBT, or CPT in which a dialogue with me as their provider benefits them with their own discoveries of how they might be subjected to their own misconceptions of what they are capable of and may be able to resolve.
I'm best positioned to serve adolescents, adults, couples, or families.
I look at how a patient processes information and how that then causes problematic behaviors. If there are negative conclusions that may not be accurate I will explore this with the patient to consider a better alternative which is also realistic.
I utilize this treatment for patients who've experienced at least one traumatic event or to treat anxiety or depression as a result of disturbing events in their lives. I might also integrate EMDR with "talk therapy" to explore more complex origins of PTSD or trauma response to have the patient focus on how that has impacted them to inspire them to build their own awareness. This allows the patient to better self-heal.
I see couples as a regular part of my practice. I utilize Gottman and EFT (Emotion Focused) therapeutic modalities to remind clients that the emotional part of their interactions plays a very significant role in the health of their relationship.
This method can be used either individually, or with couples to find and trace back how problems begin as communication rises to an emotionally difficult level. This is how I implement this in my practice, through the course of our discussions, to trace back to how emotions are triggered.
I utilize both a structured as well as an informal way to arrive at a number of issues or relational patterns that could stand some improvement to make for a healthier relationship.