Licensed to practice in 2 states and accepts 26 insurances. Specializes in ADHD, Coping Skills, Couples Counseling and 10 more.
(she/her)
Hello, I'm Heather, a seasoned counselor dedicated to providing compassionate, client-centered care to individuals and couples navigating life's challenges. With over 20 years of experience in social work and counseling, including service as a Navy veteran, I bring extensive clinical experience, empathy, and practical guidance to my work. As an author, I have written books that simplify complex medical and mental health topics, including hospice, home health, and palliative care. My passion is helping people better understand themselves, their relationships, and the challenges they face. My counseling approach is collaborative, supportive, and grounded in active listening. I strive to create a safe, respectful, and nonjudgmental environment where clients feel heard, understood, and empowered to make meaningful, lasting changes. Whether you are working through emotional distress, relationship concerns, life transitions, or personal growth, your goals remain at the center of our work together. I provide individual counseling as well as couples therapy, helping partners improve communication, resolve conflict, rebuild trust, and strengthen emotional connection. Couples are welcome to attend an initial assessment together using their insurance benefits when applicable. This first appointment allows us to better understand your concerns, identify treatment goals, and determine the best path forward. If ongoing couples therapy is recommended, those sessions are offered on a private-pay basis, and we'll discuss the available options during the initial appointment. Whether you're beginning therapy for the first time or continuing your journey, I look forward to supporting you in building the skills, resilience, and confidence needed to create meaningful and lasting change.
In their first session with me, clients can expect a warm and welcoming environment where they will feel safe, heard, and respected. I understand that starting therapy can be an unfamiliar and sometimes daunting experience, so I aim to create a space that is comfortable and conducive to open communication. During the initial session, I will take the time to get to know the client and gain a comprehensive understanding of their unique concerns, background, and goals for therapy. This may involve asking questions about their current symptoms, life circumstances, past experiences, and what they hope to achieve through counseling. I will also provide an overview of the counseling process, including discussing confidentiality, the therapeutic approach I use, and what clients can expect in future sessions. It's important for clients to feel informed and empowered throughout the therapeutic journey, so I encourage questions and feedback at any point during our time together. Additionally, I aim to establish a collaborative and trusting relationship with clients from the very beginning. I value the client's expertise about their own experiences and perspectives, and I see therapy as a partnership where we work together towards their desired outcomes. By the end of the first session, clients can expect to have a clearer understanding of the therapeutic process and feel supported in taking the next steps towards healing, growth, and positive change. They will leave with a sense of hope and empowerment, knowing that they have a dedicated ally on their journey towards greater well-being.
As a provider, I believe my greatest strengths lie in my ability to cultivate authentic connections with clients, my diverse range of skills and expertise, and my unwavering commitment to client-centered care. First and foremost, I prioritize building trusting and supportive relationships with clients. I strive to create a safe and nonjudgmental space where clients feel comfortable expressing themselves and exploring their deepest thoughts and emotions. My empathetic and compassionate approach allows me to meet clients where they are, validating their experiences and empowering them to embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth. Secondly, my diverse background in counseling, social work, and authorship equips me with a broad toolkit of therapeutic techniques and interventions. Whether it's drawing from cognitive-behavioral strategies, mindfulness practices, or existential exploration, I tailor my approach to meet the unique needs and preferences of each client. This flexibility allows me to address a wide range of issues and support clients in achieving their goals. Finally, my unwavering commitment to client-centered care drives everything I do as a provider. I believe that each client is the expert of their own life and deserves to have their voice heard and respected in the therapeutic process. By actively involving clients in decision-making and collaboratively setting goals, I empower them to take ownership of their healing journey and work towards positive change. Overall, I am deeply passionate about supporting clients in overcoming obstacles, finding meaning and fulfillment, and ultimately leading more fulfilling lives. My greatest strengths as a provider lie in my ability to forge genuine connections, leverage a diverse range of skills, and prioritize the needs and goals of each individual client.
I work with adults and couples who are motivated to better understand themselves, strengthen their relationships, and develop healthier ways of navigating life's challenges. My background in counseling, social work, military service, and healthcare allows me to support clients experiencing a wide range of concerns, including anxiety, depression, relationship conflict, trauma, life transitions, caregiver stress, grief, emotional regulation difficulties, and the unique experiences associated with military service and veteran life. I especially enjoy working with individuals and couples who value insight, practical skill development, and meaningful personal growth. Whether you are working to improve communication, rebuild trust, establish healthier boundaries, manage overwhelming emotions, or navigate significant life changes, I provide a collaborative and supportive environment tailored to your unique goals and circumstances. For couples seeking relationship support, I welcome partners to participate together in an initial assessment so we can gain a comprehensive understanding of your concerns, identify shared treatment goals, and determine the approach that will best support your relationship moving forward. Above all, I believe therapy should be a place where clients feel genuinely heard, respected, and understood. My goal is to provide a safe, compassionate, and collaborative space where you can increase self-awareness, strengthen resilience, develop practical coping skills, and make meaningful progress toward a healthier and more fulfilling life. I enjoy working with couples and welcome partners to attend an initial assessment together using their insurance benefits when applicable. This first appointment allows us to gain a comprehensive understanding of your concerns, establish treatment goals, and determine the most appropriate path forward. Should ongoing couples therapy be recommended, those sessions are available on a private-pay basis.
Cash - $150 per session
Aetna
Aetna - Allied Benefits
Aetna - ASR Health Benefits
Aetna - Lucent Health
Aetna - Luminare
Aetna - Moda
Aetna - WebTPA
Aetna – HealthEZ
All Savers
AvMed
Carelon Behavioral Health (Commercial)
Golden Rule
Harvard Pilgrim/UnitedHealthcare
IHSS Healthy Workers
Optum
OptumHealth Complex Medical Conditions
Oscar
Oxford
Sharp Health Plan
Surest (formerly Bind)
Sutter Health Plan
United Medical Resources
UnitedHealthcare Life Insurance
UnitedHealthcare Shared Services
UnitedHealthcare StudentResources
UnitedHealthcare/Optum
One fundamental aspect of CBT involves identifying cognitive distortions, which are patterns of thinking that contribute to negative emotions and behaviors. These distortions often involve irrational beliefs or misinterpretations of situations. Through collaborative exploration with clients, I assist them in recognizing and challenging these distortions. Once cognitive distortions are identified, the next step involves cognitive restructuring. This process entails examining and reshaping maladaptive thought patterns into more realistic and balanced perspectives. I guide clients through techniques such as examining evidence for and against their beliefs, considering alternative explanations, and reframing negative self-talk. Mindfulness practices are also integrated into CBT to enhance awareness and acceptance of present-moment experiences. By cultivating mindfulness, individuals can better observe their cognitive patterns and choose more adaptive responses. In my experience as a counselor, I've witnessed the transformative effects of CBT on clients struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, and various other mental health concerns. Through structured sessions and practice of homework assignments, clients learn practical skills to manage their symptoms and improve their overall well-being. Moreover, CBT empowers clients by fostering a sense of agency and self-efficacy. By actively participating in the therapeutic process and applying CBT techniques in their daily lives, clients develop greater confidence in their ability to navigate challenges effectively. Overall, CBT serves as a versatile and powerful tool in my counseling practice, enabling me to collaborate with clients in addressing cognitive distortions, promoting cognitive restructuring, cultivating mindfulness, and ultimately facilitating meaningful and lasting change.
Mindfulness Therapy is an approach grounded in the cultivation of present-moment awareness and acceptance. As a counselor, I integrate mindfulness techniques into my practice to help clients develop a non-judgmental stance towards their thoughts, emotions, and experiences, ultimately promoting greater well-being and resilience. Central to mindfulness therapy is the practice of being present. Clients are encouraged to bring their attention to the present moment, fully engaging with their immediate sensory experiences without getting caught up in past regrets or future worries. By cultivating present-moment awareness, clients can develop a deeper connection to themselves and their surroundings, fostering a sense of groundedness and peace. Moreover, mindfulness therapy fosters a sense of self-compassion and kindness towards oneself. Clients learn to treat themselves with greater gentleness and understanding, recognizing that self-criticism and self-judgment only perpetuate suffering. By cultivating self-compassion, clients can break free from negative thought patterns and develop a more nurturing relationship with themselves. Overall, mindfulness therapy serves as a powerful and accessible approach to counseling, enabling clients to cultivate present-moment awareness, acceptance, and self-compassion in their lives. As a therapist that utilizes mindfulness in my practice, I am deeply committed to integrating these techniques into my practice to support clients on their journey towards greater well-being, resilience, and inner peace.
Couples therapy is a specialized form of counseling aimed at addressing various challenges and conflicts within romantic relationships. As a counselor, I help partners navigate issues such as anger, communication breakdowns, infidelity, blended-family problems, parenting conflicts, transition strains, and life-changing events. In my practice, I create a safe and supportive environment where couples can openly express their feelings and concerns. I employ evidence-based techniques to improve communication skills, facilitate empathy and understanding, and promote conflict resolution. Through structured sessions and homework assignments, I guide couples in exploring the underlying issues contributing to their relationship difficulties. Whether it's addressing unresolved anger, rebuilding trust after infidelity, or navigating the complexities of blended-family dynamics, I tailor the therapy process to meet the unique needs and goals of each couple. My experience with couples therapy has taught me the importance of fostering mutual respect, empathy, and cooperation between partners. By helping couples develop effective communication strategies and cultivate a deeper understanding of each other's perspectives, I empower them to build stronger, more resilient relationships capable of weathering life's challenges together.
8 ratings with written reviews
December 17, 2025
She was great! Very thoughtful and thorough!
July 28, 2025
I think Heather is doing just an awesome job. Always love to see you and talk to her on my days that I do. Can’t wait till the next appointment gotten a lot of use and tools out of this. I just wanna keep going.
July 18, 2025
Love meeting with her. I have gained so much insight of myself from her.