Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 29 ratings

Cat Bilski

LMFT, 5 years of experience

Warm
Authentic
Open-minded

About me

Hello there, I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist working out of California. I attended the California Institute of Integral Studies (CIIS) in San Francisco, CA, were I earned a degree in Integral Clinical Counseling. I am an integral therapist, and support people who have experienced trauma in facilitating both healing and creating a thriving sense of self.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

In our first session, we will get to know each other, and collaborate together in setting the goals you would like for yourself in treatment. I may ask you a few questions about your background, current symptoms you might have, and generally what brought you to therapy.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

I am a kind, empathic and intuitive therapist who tends to go to the heart of what needs healing. My life's work is to facilitate organic healing and to help alleviate suffering and discomfort on and individual and community level. My background in working closely with the county district attorney's office entails helping survivors begin to thrive on their own after experiencing traumas.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

I currently work with a wide and diverse population of individuals. I have found that most people who gravitate to me and my work tend to be sensitive types who have experienced traumas (whether relational/attachment or more acute in nature). I tend to support adult and adolescent individuals who struggle with identity and marginalization on some level. My background in social advocacy has helped me to understand how nuanced issues really are in the human experience.

Specialties

Top specialties

Other specialties

DepressionGriefSelf EsteemSpirituality

I identify as

Serves ages

Teenagers (13 to 17)

My treatment methods

Attachment-based

Sometimes we repeat patterns in our relationships or don't understand why we might "keep attracting the same kind of person". Attachment and relationship patterns often originate from family dynamics. An attachment-based approach facilitates insight and healing through the secure base of the therapeutic relationship. As an attachment-based and relational therapist, I believe that healing happens when there is secure, compassionate and empathic attunement. Learning to regulate emotions and anxiety within relationships is key to building secure attachment.

Psychodynamic

With a psychodynamic approach, you and I build a therapeutic relationship wherein we can explore here and now dynamics that arise that might reflect patterns of beliefs and behaviors present outside of therapy. With this approach, I help clients gain insight into some of these patterns which can facilitate a change in perspective.

Culturally Sensitive Therapy

With a culturally sensitive approach to therapy, I stand alongside you in understanding you and your unique background. You are the expert of your experience in this world. My role is to support an exploration into intersectional identities so that we may be able to name and understand experiences of marginalization and certain privileges that might impact our subjective views of the world and ourselves.

Existential

Sometimes we question our meaning and purpose in life, especially while we experience difficulty and adversity. I support you in being there with you in whatever you are experiencing as an ally and will support you in naming your truth and finding agency in how you choose to respond to life's many obstacles.

EMDR

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy is an evidence-based treatment for post-traumatic stress disorder. I am trained in levels 1 and 2 EMDR therapy and have been providing this form of therapy for 3 years to individuals who have experienced acute traumas (victims of crime, sexual abuse and/or rape, and domestic violence) and people who have experienced milder relational traumas that have impacted their sense of self-hood. I incorporate mindfulness exercises as well as IFS principles with my practice of EMDR therapy.

Location

Virtual

Licensed in

Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 29 ratings

3 ratings with written reviews

May 20, 2025

Cat is amazing! She is very nonjudgmental and empathetic. she is relaxed and understanding, as well as supportive and empowering. I look forward to our therapy sessions. I am very grateful to have found her.

Verified client, age 55-64

Review shared after session 54 with Cat

April 26, 2025

Cat is genuine, compassionate, intelligent, and open. I feel safe talking about anything with her and I don’t feel safe easily. Her demeanor is always professional and approachable. As a lesbian, I needed to feel comfortable. I trust her completely and am grateful to have connected with her. She was my second try for a good fit at Grow Therapy and I am so grateful it worked out so well for me. I highly recommend her.

Verified client, age 65+

Review shared after session 49 with Cat

February 20, 2025

I look forward to my sessions with Cat. I have never had a therapist that i felt 100% comfortable with, until i met Cat. I feel like my journey has been so helpful and rewarding with Cat. I feel so lucky and hopeful.

Verified client, age 55-64

Review shared after session 1 with Cat