I offer collaborative telecounseling services to men wrestling with anger and/or resentment and couples navigating conflict in their relationship. My approach is straightforward & practical: helping men & their partners manage stress, repair trust, rebuild dreams, resolve conflict, communicate in healthier and more effective ways, and tackle real-life problems that matter most by creating strategies then implement action plans. No jargon. No fluff. Just straight talk and practical strategies—delivered with humor, candor, and the hard-earned insight of a guy who calls himself a "Frequent Flyer to Hell and Back".
Our first session is about connection and getting to know each other. And making decisions too. I respect the courage it takes to do The Therapy Two-Step: Making an Appointment then SHOWING UP. Research consistently shows that the relationship between counselor and client is the most important factor in successful therapy. And I agreee. I want to understand what brings you to a point in your life where counseling is an option. We will focus on the current narratives of your life and the stories that are driving your desire to consider therapy. We’ll talk about your goals and want you want to get out of your experience in counseling. And I’ll share my approach, philosophy, and style so we can decide together if I’m the right fit to support you. If we connect, you are confident with my skills and abilities and believe that our time together will be productive, we will schedule another meeting. If not, we can discuss options for your continued journey.
I am a strengths-based counselor who works to normalize what we all call "life"—the challenges, changes, and chaos that come with being human. Using humor and a narrative, life-story approach, I help people build the psychological fitness skills needed to improve the quality of their lives. I’ve faced my own share of struggles: recovery from addiction, rebuilding after financial devastation, surviving two open-heart surgeries, and grieving the loss of two of my four children. These experiences, combined with my clinical training, professional background, and a personality that leans on honesty and humor, shape the way I connect with clients. My clinical work spans ERs, Community Mental Health, and Private Practice, along with years of teaching and keynote speaking—sharing stories and insights drawn from both life and counseling. All of this informs my mission: to help people reframe their struggles, embrace challenges, and design the life they want to live with greater confidence, resilience, and meaning.
I work with men and couples who struggle to communicate & problem solve effectively and in healthy ways—the very challenges that often fuel anger and conflict in relationships. Counseling works best when you’re willing to trust your instincts, roll up your sleeves, take a leap of faith and advantage of the power of your story and your ability to write what comes next. I offer a collaborative place that encourages candid and fearless engagement, because the more you invest in the process, the more lasting the change. Counseling is for those who WANT it not NEED it.. As a male therapist, I bring a perspective that resonates with men, whether in individual sessions or couples counseling, and with women, who want the man they love to engage fully in couple’s therapy. My approach is straightforward and practical: helping men and their partners manage stress, repair trust, rebuild dreams, resolve conflict, improve happiness, communicate in healthier and more effective ways, and tackle real-life problems that matter most. No jargon. No fluff. Just results, straight talk, and practical strategies—delivered with humor, candor, and the hard-earned insight of a guy who calls himself a "Frequent Flyer to Hell and Back". I’ve faced my own share of struggles including recovery from addiction, rebuilding after financial devastation, surviving two open-heart surgeries, and grieving the loss of two of my four children. These life stories, combined with my clinical training, media & therapy professional experiences, and a personality that leans on honesty and humor, shape the way I connect with clients and build an environment for growth and change.
Narrative
Narrative Therapy helps us separate who we are from what we struggle with. Problems are problems. People are people. We are not the problem—and neither are the people we love. Through exploring life stories—past, present, and future—I help clients step back from dysfunctional behaviors, difficult emotions, and frustrating outcomes. From that distance, they can see more clearly, respond more intentionally, and begin to rewrite their story in a way that aligns with who they truly are.
Reality Therapy
Reality Therapy is built on four practical steps: Plan. Do. Check. Act. Simple in concept—powerful in application. Improving the quality of our lives requires more than insight. It requires action. We begin by creating a clear, realistic plan. Then we put that plan into motion. From there, we evaluate—what’s working, what’s not—and make the necessary adjustments. Plan. Do. Check. Act. This process helps clients develop stronger coping, problem-solving, and communication skills—not just in theory, but in real, everyday life. Because meaningful change isn’t accidental. It’s intentional, measurable, and adaptable.
Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy
Rational-Emotive Behavioral Therapy teaches a simple truth: we think, we feel, and we act. In therapy, these are often discussed in a linear way. Life isn’t linear—it’s process-driven. Our thoughts shape our emotions, our emotions drive our behaviors, and our behaviors reinforce the outcomes which then the process. Understanding this process is key to improving mental wellness. When we change how we think, we influence how we feel. When we shift how we feel, we change how we act. And when we change how we act, we create different—healthier—outcomes and better lives for ourselves.
Motivational Interviewing
Motivational Interview is grounded in a simple reality: if a baseball bat actually motivated people to change, I’d use it. But it doesn’t. Change is hard. And often, it’s not very appealing. Deciding on and making change is WORK! Motivational Interviewing respects where people are, without pressure or force. Together, we explore what change might look like, what makes it difficult, and what makes it worth it.
Person-centered (Rogerian)
Person Center is a foundational, holistic approach grounded in one essential truth: the relationship matters most. Research consistently shows that the therapeutic relationship between counselor and client is the single most important factor in effective therapy. In session, I show up as myself—warts and all. I strive to be authentic, genuine, and transparent, and I invite my clients to do the same. Because meaningful change happens through real connection, honest conversation, and a space where people feel seen, heard, and understood.
4 ratings with written reviews
March 24, 2026
My first session with Bob already helped me feel more at ease. I can already tell from this appointment that he will help me with my struggles. He was funny, kind, intelligent, he listened and made me feel like a friend.
May 28, 2025
Bob is very caring. He’s got a great sense of humor He’s quite knowledgeable &relatable. I’m glad I’ve got him as my counselor.
May 24, 2025
Bob brings a real caring and understanding to every situation. We lay out a plan for growth with progress not perfection. Great overall and i look forward to connecting with him for my therapy.