Hi! I am Gene Gibbs, a trained counselor and mental health therapist. I enjoy helping people as they navigate the issues and concerns that arise as one lives from day to day. I seek to provide a sounding board that allows clients to hear what they are saying and then to process their thoughts and ideas and get a clear view of how they are heard and what it means. From the processing step I move to clarification and application. They goal is to help the client do what is helpful for them and for those with whom they interact.
In my initial session of psychotherapy, I know how crucial this phase is for setting the tone for the therapeutic journey ahead. It is a time dedicated to creating a foundation of understanding and collaboration between my client and me. This session aims to foster a safe and trusting environment where my client felt comfortable sharing their thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Introduction and Rapport Building Exploring My Client's Story Setting Goals and Expectations Establishing Boundaries and Confidentiality Addressing Immediate Concerns Planning Future Sessions The first psychotherapy session is a foundational step in my client's therapeutic journey. It is a time for building rapport, understanding my client's story, setting goals, and establishing the parameters of our therapeutic relationship. By focusing on collaboration and communication, my client and I create a strong foundation for effective and meaningful therapy. In conclusion, the initial session is not just about gathering information but about laying the groundwork for a trusting and collaborative partnership. This foundation is crucial for achieving my client's therapeutic goals and fostering personal growth and healing.
Empathy is the cornerstone of effective counseling. As an empathetic counselor, I strive to create a safe and supportive environment where my clients feel truly heard and understood. This approach is not merely about offering solutions, but about journeying alongside my clients as they navigate their personal challenges. Listening is the most fundamental skill in counseling. It goes beyond merely hearing the words spoken; it involves understanding the emotions and intent behind those words. When a client shares their experiences, my goal is to listen with full attention and an open heart. This means eliminating distractions, maintaining eye contact, and acknowledging their feelings without judgment. Active listening also entails reflecting back what the client has said, which not only demonstrates that I am paying attention but also helps to clarify their thoughts and feelings. By doing so, I can help clients feel validated and respected, which is essential for building trust and rapport. While listening is crucial, it is equally important to ask clarifying questions. These questions are designed to help clients explore their thoughts and feelings in greater depth. They can reveal underlying issues that the client may not have been aware of or help to clarify ambiguous statements. For instance, if a client expresses feeling overwhelmed, I might ask, "Can you tell me more about what is overwhelming you?" or "What specific situations or thoughts contribute to this feeling?" Such questions encourage clients to reflect more deeply on their experiences and can lead to greater self-awareness and insight. One of the primary goals of counseling is to promote self-awareness in clients. Self-awareness involves understanding one's own thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, and how they impact one's life. By gaining insight into these aspects of themselves, clients can make more informed decisions and take control of their lives. In my practice, I use various techniques to foster self-awareness. This might include mindfulness exercises, journaling, or exploring past experiences that have shaped the client's current perspective. Encouraging clients to explore their values, beliefs, and goals can also aid in developing a deeper understanding of themselves.
DBT is recognizing that difficult experiences happen but that we can live with them if we learn how to do so. Life is hard. You cannot change that but you can change the way that you approach it. I empower clients to accept the good with the bad, which in turn helps them to deal with what really matters, embracing life, giving it their best shot, and enjoying what there is over which they have control.
Adlerian, or Individual Psychology helps people to focus on what they want to achieve and developing the mindset of creating a desired future. I encourage clients to accept responsibility for the future they want and how to begin crafting it.
People are interested in moving forward. I help them identify their desired outcome and then garner the tools and resources to achieve it.
Our thoughts are affected by our perception. I want clients to stop and consider various positions before they let the way they think of a situation determine how they will respond to it. Many times things are blown out of proportion, but they can be scaled back if we are rational and control our emotional view. I help clients to slow down and reframe the event so their response will be in keeping with what really transpired.