Jeffrey Thoelen

LCSW, 9 years of experience
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I offer practical, down-to-earth therapy for young adults (18–40) who are dealing with everyday stress, anxiety, and life changes. Sessions are focused on what’s actually happening in your life right now—week to week—and helping you make sense of it in a way that feels useful and realistic. My approach is warm, collaborative, and straightforward. I listen closely, meet you where you are, and offer clear guidance to help you move forward with more confidence and clarity. I provide supportive counseling with specific focuses on using CBT, ACT, and Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), which are evidence-based approaches into each session.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

The first session is about getting started and making sure we’re a good fit. We’ll spend time talking about what brought you to therapy and why you decided to reach out now. I’ll ask questions to understand what’s been feeling hard lately, as well as what life looks like when things are going better for you. I’m interested in learning how you normally cope, what’s worked before, and where you tend to feel stuck. This helps me understand your strengths and the patterns that may be getting in your way. There’s no pressure to have everything figured out or to jump into fixing things right away. The goal of the first session is for you to feel heard, understood, and clear about what working together might look like moving forward.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

My greatest strength as a therapist is helping people feel comfortable quickly and building a real working relationship. Sessions are meant to feel like a natural conversation—supportive, collaborative, and focused on what matters most to you. I’m trained in evidence-based therapies, including CBT, ACT and Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), and I use these tools in a practical, down-to-earth way that fits real life. I focus on teaching clear, usable skills you can apply outside of sessions, not just in therapy. I also believe you should have a strong voice in your own process, so I support you in moving at a pace that feels right while helping you build confidence, insight, and momentum over time.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

My ideal clients are everyday people who are going through a tough time and want someone steady to talk to. You might feel stressed, anxious, overwhelmed, or just worn down by life, even if you’re still getting through your days. You don’t need to have a diagnosis or a clear goal—just a sense that things feel harder than they should right now. I’m a good fit for people who want a supportive space to talk things through, make sense of what’s been weighing on them, and feel less alone in it. Some clients come in wanting tools and structure, while others just need a place to slow down and be heard. We can figure that out together. If you’re looking for a therapist who is easy to talk to, grounded, and focused on helping you feel a little more steady week to week, I may be a good fit for you.

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My treatment methods

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) helps you understand how your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are connected. You learn to notice unhelpful thinking patterns, challenge them, and practice healthier ways of responding—so anxiety and stress feel more manageable and daily life feels easier.

Acceptance and commitment (ACT)

ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) helps you learn how to live a meaningful life—even when anxiety, stress, or difficult thoughts show up.

Exposure Response Prevention (ERP)

Gold Standard for treating OCD, Illness Anxiety, and Panic. ERP (Exposure and Response Prevention) helps you break the cycle of anxiety and OCD. Instead of avoiding fears or doing compulsions to feel better, ERP teaches you to face anxiety gradually and resist the urge to do rituals. Over time, your brain learns that anxiety rises and falls on its own—and you feel more in control, even when discomfort shows up.

, 52 ratings

3 ratings with written reviews

June 2, 2025

Amazing guy, great personality, very understanding, very easy to connect to and very sympathetic in his words

Verified client, age 18-24
Review shared after session 1 with Jeffrey

February 20, 2025

Very pleasant person to talk to!

Verified client, age 18-24
Review shared after session 1 with Jeffrey

February 2, 2025

Didn’t happen

Verified client, age 35-44
Review shared after session 1 with Jeffrey