I’m Abigale Thomas, LMFT, passionate about helping individuals, couples, and families navigate relationships, trauma, grief, and life transitions. I use CBT, Solution-Focused Therapy, Narrative Therapy, and Family Systems Therapy to support clients in understanding their experiences and building meaningful solutions. I specialize in grief, emotional dysregulation, blended family dynamics, cultural differences, infidelity, and relational conflicts. My holistic approach emphasizes self-awareness, boundary-setting, and practical tools for emotional well-being. Committed to growth, I value supervision and peer feedback to refine my skills and remain mindful of biases. My style is warm and supportive, creating space for reflection and empowerment so clients can align their lives with their values and goals.
In our first session together, here's what you can expect
Your first session is a space to slow down and get oriented. We will spend time talking about what brings you to therapy, what feels most important right now, and what you hope might shift through this process. You do not need to have everything figured out or know exactly where to start. We will figure that out together. I will ask questions to better understand you, your relationships, and the patterns that may be showing up in your life. This includes exploring current stressors, relevant history, and how you typically cope when things feel overwhelming. We will also talk about what therapy with me looks like, including boundaries, expectations, and how we can work collaboratively. The first session is not about fixing everything in one hour. It is about building safety, clarity, and a shared understanding of your goals. Some clients leave feeling relieved, others feel emotionally stirred, and some feel both. All of that is normal. By the end of the session, we will identify initial areas of focus and discuss next steps, including pacing, frequency of sessions, and what support might be most helpful moving forward. My goal is for you to leave feeling heard, respected, and clearer about whether this space feels like a good fit for you.
The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions
One of my greatest strengths as a therapist is my ability to create a space where clients feel both deeply seen and appropriately challenged. I bring a relational, systems-oriented lens to my work, which allows me to look beyond individual symptoms and explore how patterns, histories, and relationships shape the present moment. I am especially attuned to how family-of-origin experiences, attachment dynamics, culture, and power show up in clients’ lives. I balance warmth and accountability. Clients often share that they feel safe with me, but also supported in moving out of stuck patterns rather than circling them. I do not rush insight, and I do not avoid hard conversations. Instead, I help clients slow down, name what is happening beneath the surface, and make meaning of their experiences in a way that feels honest and sustainable. Methodologically, I integrate systems theory, Emotionally Focused Therapy, CBT, narrative approaches, and solution-focused interventions, adapting my approach to the client rather than forcing the client into a model. I am particularly effective in relational work, supporting couples, families, teens, and individuals navigating conflict, infidelity, grief, and life transitions, where emotional regulation, communication, and repair are central. Another strength is my ability to join with clients without losing myself in the process. I am intentional about boundaries, pacing, and ethical care, which helps protect both the therapeutic relationship and the work itself. I am reflective, culturally responsive, and committed to ongoing growth, both clinically and personally. Ultimately, my work is grounded in helping clients build clarity, emotional safety, and agency so they can move through their lives and relationships with greater intention, connection, and self-trust.
The clients I'm best positioned to serve
I am best positioned to support clients navigating grief, trauma, life transitions, and relationship challenges. I work with individuals, couples, and families experiencing emotional dysregulation, blended family dynamics, cultural differences, and infidelity. With a background in family systems therapy, I help clients explore patterns, set boundaries, and improve communication while processing the impact of past experiences. My approach is holistic and focused on fostering self-awareness, personal growth, and emotional well-being. I provide a safe, supportive space for those seeking connection and tools to navigate life’s challenges in meaningful ways.
Couples Counseling
Couples counseling helps partners improve communication, resolve conflicts, and strengthen emotional connections. Through guided discussions, couples explore relationship dynamics, identify patterns, and develop strategies for mutual understanding and support. This collaborative approach fosters trust, empathy, and shared goals, promoting healthier interactions and a stronger foundation for their partnership.
Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) helps clients identify and challenge negative thought patterns that influence emotions and behaviors. By restructuring these thoughts and practicing adaptive skills, clients develop healthier coping mechanisms. This goal-oriented, evidence-based approach empowers clients to address current issues, reduce distress, and build long-term resilience in their daily lives.
Strength-Based
The strength-based approach focuses on clients' abilities, resources, and positive attributes rather than deficits. By highlighting resilience and past successes, this method fosters self-confidence and motivation. Therapists empower clients to use their strengths to navigate challenges, encouraging a growth mindset and building a foundation for lasting change and self-efficacy.
Trauma Informed Care
Trauma-informed care prioritizes safety, trust, and empowerment, recognizing the pervasive impact of trauma on clients' lives. This approach fosters a supportive environment, avoiding re-traumatization while emphasizing clients' strengths and resilience. By understanding trauma's effects on behavior and relationships, therapists can tailor interventions that promote healing, recovery, and a sense of control.
Psychoeducation
The psychoeducation model empowers clients by providing knowledge and tools to understand their mental health challenges. Through education on symptoms, coping strategies, and therapeutic techniques, clients gain insight into their behaviors and emotions. This collaborative approach fosters self-awareness, reduces stigma, and enhances engagement, promoting resilience and informed decision-making in therapy.
3 ratings with written reviews
October 8, 2025
What stood out for me: her authenticity ability to navigate multiple types at once and to stay on track while continuing to align best outcomes.
March 3, 2025
Abigale is the best.
February 11, 2025
My experience with therapy has been positive and beneficial. I appreciate the supportive environment and the thoughtful guidance I’ve received. It has helped me gain clarity, develop healthier coping strategies, and feel more empowered in my journey. Thank you Abby for creating a space where I feel heard and understood.