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Valerie Harris-Reamer

LMFT (she/her)15 years of experience
Often rebooked
5.0 (185)
Authentic
Warm
Empowering

Hi, I’m Valerie Harris-Reamer. I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Do you turn to food, alcohol, or drugs to deal with feeling lonely or rejected, or to cope with added stress and anxiety? Have you lost the joyful feelings that you used to have in life? Do you feel fear-stricken, even in the “comfort” of your own home? Do you feel like there are so many things to manage and your forever-growing “to-do list” leaves you feeling completely overwhelmed? I work with women who have experienced tough stuff in their childhood and feel like they have lost their way. Sometimes we turn to food, alcohol, and drugs or, we withdraw from friends and family, just to cope. Does this sound like you? These coping skills affecting our lives as adults often stem from hurts that happened during childhood and were never healed. My goal is to help you stop engaging in patterns that started from what you learned as a way of survival. You will get encouragement and a toolbox of practical actions you need to find your way to living your best life.

These coping skills affecting our lives as adults often stem from hurts that happened during childhood and were never healed.

I believe that you are worthy of love and care. I believe that therapy should address the whole person – their mind, body, and spirit. I believe that loving and accepting ourselves for who we are, scars and all, is one of the most courageous things we can do. Start making yourself a priority and begin enjoying your life. Let's do this!

First session

Sessions will provide you with a safe space to express your thoughts and feelings in which you’ll be able to gain clarity and understanding. It’s important to me to create safety within the session. There isn’t a “one size fits all” approach to therapy. Our sessions will fit your specific needs and concerns.

Strengths

I have a natural ability to: *Help people identify what they are feeling *Uncover what’s under the surface *Explain mental health symptoms in an easy-to-understand way *Help clients heal their past and manage the present *Help people feel comfortable *Inspire hope for getting better *Accept people for who they are and where they’re at People who know me often say that I am a good listener who can help people feel heard and understood which helps people feel seen and start to heal.

Ideal clients

Trauma Depression Anxiety Women Adults Addiction Substance Use

Location

Virtual sessions

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Reviews and ratings

5.0 rating (185)28 reviews
October 3, 2026

Valerie is insightful and empathetic

Verified client, age 55-64Review shared after session 5 with Valerie
August 28, 2026

Great first impression of Valerie. She’s knowledgeable and warm. I am optimistic about working together with her and seeing what we can accomplish.

Verified client, age 55-64Review shared after session 1 with Valerie
June 13, 2026

Mrs Valerie is outstanding/excellent in her ability to hear me and share to the point where I am able to refect from our session. In addition, I can implement new solid creative ideas from our sessions with a smile eventhough the step-by-step process requires taking care of myself first. Today was an outstanding/excellent session. As a professional vocalist and school teacher, I feel and believe this summer, starting today is going to be very fulling.

Verified client, age 55-64Review shared after session 5 with Valerie

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