Licensed to practice in 5 states. Specializes in Anxiety, Couples Counseling, Sex Addiction and 10 more.

Evan D Kotler

LCSW, 9 years of experience
Solution oriented
Authentic
Warm
VirtualAvailable

Evan is a skilled expert who provides the space for healing and growth to Individuals and Couples seeking to elevate their relationship with self and others. He's an expert at assessing patterns of behavior, relationship dynamics and complexity and using this modality to orchestra effective and lasting change. He also specializes in treating Sex & porn addiction, navigating infidelity & betrayal, and addressing sexual concerns. Evan works best with clients who are busy professionals, high impact leaders and executives, whose high profile lives require expert skills, concierge scheduling and the utmost discretion and confidentiality. Evan is a both a psychotherapist as well as a masters level educator who is trained and experienced as a personal therapist, couple and family therapist, as well as group therapist. In addition to helping couples and individuals, Evan is a university guest lecturer who educates future therapists on addiction treatment. He also trains practicing therapists on the art of group therapy and also teaches clinicians and healthcare companies how they can be more comfortable and competent when addressing sexual concerns, porn, sex, and love addiction.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

During our first therapy session together, you can expect a warm non-judgmental space where we'll focus on establishing trust and beginning our collaborative relationship. I provide a thorough intake assessment process to assess what's being experienced. I will explain the process of therapy and outline a treatment plan that will deliver the results you're seeking.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

I am an expert at uncovering and discovering complex systems and patterns. Our sessions together will be tailored to your specific needs and will contain a dynamic clinical approach that encompasses the most effective therapeutic strategies to date.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

Evan works best with clients who are busy professionals, high impact leaders and executives, whose high profile lives require expert skills, concierge scheduling and the utmost discretion and confidentiality. In addition, Evan provides his clinical expertise to couples navigating betrayal trauma, complex and complicated relationship dynamics, communication breakdown and all humans living in or impacted by the shame of sex or porn addiction. Evan is available at his office in Boca Raton FL as well as virtually in New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Maryland and Florida.

Specialties

Top specialties

Anxiety

Other specialties

Addiction

Anger Management

Depression

Self Esteem

Sex Therapy

Spirituality

I identify as

Man

Serves ages

Location

Offers in-person in 1489 W Palmetto Park Rd, Boca Raton, FL 33427, 406

Virtual

My treatment methods

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

We all have some negative core beliefs about ourselves, others and the world. Through cognitive therapy, I work collaboratively with my clients to identify and challenge negative thought patterns and behaviors that contribute to their distress. My approach is goal-oriented, practical, and evidence-based, focusing on developing effective coping skills and strategies to manage symptoms and improve overall well-being.

Mindfulness-Based Therapy

Awareness proceeds skillful actions. I am dedicated to helping individuals cultivate present-moment awareness and develop skills to manage stress, anxiety, and other emotional challenges. In my practice, I integrate mindfulness practices such as meditation, breathing exercises, and body awareness to help clients increase self-awareness, regulate emotions, and enhance overall well-being.

Dialectical Behavior (DBT)

Communication is the key element of all our relationships. Learning interpersonal effectiveness skills helps us achieve our wants without triggering defensiveness in others.

Couples Counseling

There are few things more important than the quality of our relationships. My expertise is in assessing what is happening in a relationship, why it is happening and guiding you along the process of what can be done to achieve the relationship you want. I will teach you how to put down the relationship scorecard. You'll learn how to talk WITH each other rather than at each other.

, 4 ratings

1 rating with written reviews

February 2, 2026

Evan was great, very supportive and helped me gain valuable insight about myself. I am very grateful for the tools and perspective I gained during my sessions.

Verified client, age 35-44
Review shared after session 1 with Evan