I am a clinical mental health counselor, psychometry specialist, and certified specialist in ADHD and Autism serving clients virtually throughout Illinois, Missouri, and Kansas. My goal and focus is to provide services designed to identify and support adult experiences of ADHD, Autism, and PTSD/C-PTSD in Queer people, women and AFAB folx, POCs, and others who have gone unseen and unsupported. I approach the therapeutic process as a partnership - I am the mental health expert, and you, the client, are the expert on you. Through the combination of our expertise and resources, we can work together to improve your wellness.
The first session is a conversation about what brings you to therapy, the tools we'll use in our work, and our respective roles in our work together. The primary goals of this session are to 1) ensure you have a clear understanding our process and what to expect as well as 2) ensure I have a clear understanding of where you are at and how we got here.
At the core of my professional identity is what Dr. Carl Rogers called "unconditional positive regard" for my clients. Whoever you are, whatever your history, however you arrived at therapy - you are deserving of respect and I am glad you're here.
I a big believer that better understanding how our brain works can empower us to take better care of ourselves. Where appropriate, we'll incorporate formal data collection and assessment tools into our work together with a focus on serving adults exploring ADHD, Autism, and Trauma.
Exploring our intersections of power and vulnerability, culture and values, norms and expectations are all a vital part of understanding our context, the "water we swim in". Understanding our context helps us understand how we've gotten to where we are and what we need to make change.
Attachment patterns and needs are a guide to our experience of trust and needs for connection. It's when patterns and needs don't align that we find ourselves unable to make the connections we desire. Through understanding what led to our current attachment patterns, we can then figure out how to pursue new ones.
The oldest parts of our brains are highly sensitive to possible threats, looking for danger and trying to keep us safe. What we think of as the "normal world" is vastly different than life even a century ago and much of it is incredibly threatening to a part of our brain that is thousands of years "out of date". This stress on our system often results in trauma or vulnerability to traumatic events. Understanding our vulnerabilities helps us build safety and find support.
Research suggests that between 40 and 60% of our emotional experience is directly related to physical sensations, while the rest is how our brain makes sense of those sensations. The mind and body are not separate systems, they are collectively part of the whole that is our self. To care for one, we have to consider the other.