If you’re reading this, it means you exist. Based on your religion, culture, or general belief, you may have a meaning for existence. However, no matter your meaning, one thing is clear - existence can be very challenging for us. There are many ways to cope with the challenges of existing, resulting in different experiences. Therapy is just one way to manage the challenges. Therapy There are many ways to approach therapy. One way I like to approach it is to view an individual as a system. In therapy then, we check the system to see what’s working well, what’s neutral, and what’s not going well. In doing this, the goal is to get an individual to admit the reality of things, not what the individual wants or hopes but the present true reality. It's important to identify and understand the reality of an individual because often there are significant fears and or unstable belief in the individual’s ability to manage challenges and get desired results. Lack of control – one of the foundational fears for us is the lack of control we seem to have over ourselves and others. How does one cope with seemingly so little control - from how one comes into existence to how will my friend react if I said no. Whether you’re a veteran in going to therapy or trying it for the first time, we will work as a team to see if we can get you to be how you want to be given the infinite things that are not in your control.

What can clients expect to take away from sessions with you?

In our first session, we will have introduction and then I’ll cover your rights including confidentiality agreement and topics such as fee and scheduling. We’ll discuss your specific challenges. We will then collaboratively formulate a plan to follow - including measurable goals for therapy. The first session is less intense in the sense that we don't cover subjects in great details

Explain to clients what areas you feel are your biggest strengths.

I try to maintain an unbiased stance while being genuine.

About Ausmila Aklikokou