My name is Mary and I'm a clinical social worker (aka therapist) based in the beautiful mountains of California. I love paddle boarding in the summer, long conversations with loved ones over a nice meal, and anything related to the musical theater. I tend to be sensitive and try to enjoy the little things in life. I really love being a therapist and am very grateful to have found my way into this career!
First sessions with me tend to look a little different than other therapy sessions. The first session will tend to follow this format: Discuss administrative necessities (limits to confidentiality, no-show fees, how to schedule appointments, how to communicate in between sessions, etc.) Discuss why you're seeking therapy and what your symptoms may be. I'll be assessing your mental health to see if you meet criteria for a mental health disorder (like depression, anxiety, PTSD, etc.). We often won't get through everything in the first session but we'll get started and generally leave with a good idea of what may be going on for you. If you know what you want to share I'll listen and ask clarifying questions as needed! If you don't know when to start I will help guide that conversation. Discuss your goals for therapy and what you'd like to change. We'll base your treatment plan on your goals and what you'd like to focus therapy on. At the end of the first session we'll schedule your next appointment (as long as you feel comfortable moving forward and we feel we may be a good fit for each other).
Having worked with a variety of people over the past 6 years I have developed the skills to help you (a) understand the what/why behind your symptoms, and (b) help you master your symptoms, accept what can't be changed, and create an intentional life that you love.
I love working with people that are introspective, thinkers, and motivated to better understand themselves and make changes in their lives. I find it energizing when my clients and I can confront their thoughts/beliefs/patterns and I can ask questions that lead to those "aha" moments...and then collaboratively figure out the next steps. I find that you can generally feel it's the "right fit" pretty early on in the therapeutic process and I strive to create honest relationships with my clients. If you are interesting in seeing if we may work well together please reach out, I'd love to meet you!
ACT is a talk-therapy that helps you learn different skills that help you change how you relate and respond to your thoughts, emotions, identity differently, and help you to make decision based on your values and what is most important to you.
Many of my clients really benefit from making connections to their past experiences. Often, when you understand why you are thinking and feeling and behaving the way you are, it helps you heal and intentionally move forward to create something different for yourself.
Trauma touches many of our lives, and I do my best to be a calming and respectful support for you as you seeking healing from your experiences. Generally I recommend body-based therapies to help with trauma (like EMDR, somatic experiencing, and brainspotting), but I can provide you with resources, help you make sense of your experiences and symptoms, and help you untangle the belief systems you learned through past traumas.