Licensed to practice in California and accepts 7 insurances. Specializes in Anxiety, Grief, Self Esteem and 14 more.

Bernard Douglas

(he/him)

LMFT, 35 years of experience
Authentic
Intelligent
Open-minded
VirtualAvailable

I am a licensed psychotherapist in California providing a grounded, practical, and deeply collaborative approach to healing. My practice is built on common sense, honest dialogue, reflective listening, and mindfulness-based cognitive therapy. To support your journey toward deeper self-understanding, I often incorporate: • Present-moment awareness & breathwork to ground the nervous system. • Journaling & dream exploration to uncover subconscious patterns. • Narrative reflection to explore the gratitude, regret, and choices that shape your story. Together, we will discover new options and move forward with courage and compassion. My goal is for you to leave therapy with practical tools, greater self-awareness, and a foundation of personal responsibility that fosters your long-term independence. ( NOTE: I have a no show, late show and late cancel policy (see "Practice Details") which includes all clients including those who have insurers who do not cover Grow Therapy for those instances. In the case of a LATE show client will be responsible for pro-rated amount not covered by their insurer. 36hr advance notice is required to cancel or reschedule.)

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

Taking the first step can feel daunting, but the process is collaborative from day one. After initial introductions, we will begin mapping out the goals and objectives for our work together. This ensures our sessions remain focused on the practical tools and long-term independence you are looking for.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

Areas of Specialty 🖤 Loss and Grief • Anticipatory Grief: Emotionally preparing for the anticipated passing of a loved one. • Grief Processing: Managing the complex feelings and reactions to a significant death or loss. • Healing & Acceptance: Providing dedicated support as you navigate the non-linear process of healing and finding a path forward. 🌱 Life Transitions • Navigating Change: Coping with impactful life disruptions, such as moving to a new area, relationship status changes, parenting adjustments, or career shifts. • Stress Management: Learning intentional self-care strategies to better manage the stress and uncertainty that come with new life chapters. 🌪️ Anxiety • Chronic Worry: Developing tools to cope with excessive worry, nervousness, or daily stress. • Social & Panic Support: Addressing intense discomfort in social settings (social anxiety) or sudden, overwhelming feelings of panic (panic disorder). ✨ Self-Esteem & Self-Worth • Internal Growth: Cultivating deep self-compassion, assertiveness, and authentic confidence. • Breaking Patterns: Developing concrete ways to reduce internal suffering, anxiety, social withdrawal, and self-neglect. 🤝 Relationships & Dating • Needs & Boundaries: Clarifying and understanding your true wants and needs within your connections. • Pattern Exploration: Exploring repetitive behavioral patterns, addressing underlying concerns, and strengthening overall fulfillment in your relationships and dating life. 🏳️‍🌈 LGBTQIA+ True Self & Identity • Identity Exploration: Providing a safe, affirming space to explore topics of sexuality, gender, and authentic identity. • Overcoming Obstacles: Coping with the impacts of systemic discrimination and oppression. • Relationship & Cultural Dynamics: Navigating unique relationship, family, and cultural challenges.

Specialties

Top specialties

Other specialties

Addiction

Anger Management

Child or Adolescent

Depression

Spirituality

I identify as

Licensed in

Location

Virtual

My treatment methods

Mindfulness-Based Therapy

Mindfulness-Based: Designed to cultivate inner peace and awaken inherent strengths, this approach fosters personal agency and guides clients back to their authentic selves.

Psychoeducation

Looking back and understanding why we developed certain coping skills helps us evaluate what works today and what doesn't. This insight empowers us to consciously choose new strategies that support the life we want to build.

, 30 ratings

6 ratings with written reviews

January 14, 2026

He’s wonderful, wise and serious. The ideal therapist.

Verified client, age 35-44
Review shared after session 5 with Bernard

October 31, 2025

He's great!

Verified client, age 35-44
Review shared after session 1 with Bernard

October 31, 2025

Great first lesson; Bernard really listened in with empathy and we covered pretty much all my concerns, issues, and their history. Looking forward to the next sessions.

Verified client, age 45-54
Review shared after session 1 with Bernard