Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 21 ratings

Elana Luban

LCSW, 7 years of experience

Empowering
Authentic
Intelligent
Virtual
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About me

I'm a telehealth therapist who's passionate about providing individualized treatment to fit my clients' specific goals. I have a compassionate, non-preachy approach but don't believe in letting my clients coast by without doing any self-work as I sit back, silently nodding. I am certified in Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), both of which I offer via telehealth. I believe that central to our struggles are our unmet needs, some past, some current, which have led us to compulsive/addictive behaviors and unhealthy attachments.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

I tend to do way more listening than talking in an initial session. I want to hear all about your goals, history, and what has worked or hasn't worked in therapy in the past.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

I've been told by supervisors and clients that my greatest strengths are my sincerity, passion for what I do, and willingness to go the extra mile. If you're my client, I'm rooting for you 100% and here to support you in your life goals to the best of my ability. This is more than a 9-5 to me.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

I'm openly queer and love working with those in the queer, kink, and/or non-monogamous communities. My specialties include ADHD, depressive disorders, anxiety disorders, all addictive behaviors, and trauma/PTSD. I offer individual and couples therapy, and support those of my clients who are striving to improve their relationship(s) and/or sex lives.

Specialties

Top specialties

Other specialties

AddictionAnxietyAutismDepressionSelf EsteemSex Addiction

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Serves ages

My treatment methods

Acceptance and commitment (ACT)

If you are looking to expand your psychological flexibility, I will use ACT to support you in adapting to challenges, accepting your emotions without judgement, and helping you be more present.

EMDR

If you are looking to heal trauma or face fewer triggers in your daily life, I will use EMDR to help you reprocess challenging events so that they no longer activate your fight/flight/freeze/fawn response.

Mindfulness-Based Therapy

I believe that many forms of distorted thinking can be managed by, in the words of Thich Nhat Hanh, leaving the "prisons of the past and future" and coming back to the present moment. Much can be resolved by living the principle "be here now;" I've found this to be especially true when working with ADHD and dopamine-seeking patterns.

Internal Family Systems (IFS)

If you are looking to quiet down anxious parts, pacify addicted parts, or re-integrate traumatized parts, I will support you by helping you notice when you are operating from your core/essential self and expanding that ability. "IFS is a transformative tool that conceives of every human being as a system of protective and wounded inner parts led by a core Self... Just like members of a family, inner parts are forced from their valuable states into extreme roles within us. Self is in everyone. It can’t be damaged. It knows how to heal" -IFS Institute.

Location

Virtual

Licensed in

Rated 5.0 stars out of 5, 21 ratings

5 ratings with written reviews

June 27, 2025

I have never had someone who was able to understand the inner-workings of my mind as accurately until meeting Elana. She has helped me with numerous things and I am so thankful for choosing her as my therapist. She is very validating and understanding while helping me work through and process things at the same time.

Verified client, age 18-24

Review shared after session 31 with Elana

April 30, 2025

Elana has been warm, open-minded, challenging, holistic, intelligent, authentic, empowering, humorous and solution oriented. I absolutely feel like Elana is very interested in getting results. I did not think EMDR was something I wanted to do, but an incident occurred and Elana very directly said to me “ we should do EMDR.” I did not realize how much EMDR would help me in my life. I am so grateful to have Elana as my therapist.

Verified client, age 45-54

Review shared after session 29 with Elana

April 29, 2025

It has been an absolute blessing working with Elana. I feel seen, heard, and understood whenever we meet and feel as though we are making great progress with everything I expressed the need for help with on our first session (and then some!). I was struggling a lot with identity, and have felt more self assured, more connected, and more realized than I have in a long time and that has been facilitated greatly by Elana

Verified client, age 25-34

Review shared after session 24 with Elana