Natalie Montenegro, LMFT - Therapist at Grow Therapy

Natalie Montenegro

Natalie Montenegro

(she/her)

LMFT
17 years of experience
Virtual

Natalie is a first generation, bilingual, LMFT with over 15 years of experience in the mental health field. MontenegroMFT specializes in treating acculturation difficulties, trauma, first responders, healthcare professionals and maternal wellbeing through the use of Brainspotting. Additionally used approach modalities include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Solution Focused Therapy. MontenegroMFT prides itself in offering a highly personalized approach which is always tailored to each individual client's needs.

What can clients expect to take away from sessions with you?

In the first session, clients can expect to be welcomed into a supportive, non-judgmental space where they feel safe and heard. We'll begin by discussing their reasons for seeking therapy, gather background information, and explore their treatment goals. The session is designed to establish trust, clarify the therapy process, and ensure that they feel comfortable moving forward. The first session serves as a crucial stepping stone in building a therapeutic relationship, setting the stage for the work we will do together in subsequent sessions. By the end of the first session, clients should have a clearer understanding of what therapy will involve, feel reassured about the process, and leave with a sense of hope and a plan for moving forward.

Explain to clients what areas you feel are your biggest strengths.

My greatest strengths as a provider are my cultural competence, empathy, and ability to build strong therapeutic relationships. I specialize in working with first-generation individuals, high-stress professionals like first responders and healthcare workers, and trauma survivors. My flexibility, trauma-informed care, and commitment to client empowerment allow me to create a therapeutic environment where clients feel safe, heard, and empowered to make lasting changes. Through my personalized approach, I help clients develop the tools and insights needed to navigate life’s challenges with greater resilience and clarity.

Describe the client(s) you are best positioned to serve.

I am best positioned to serve anyone who is seeking a deeper understanding toward their behavioral patterns. additionally, I offer specialized care for first-generation individuals, law enforcement officers, healthcare professionals, trauma survivors, perinatal clients, individuals dealing with acculturation stress, people with anxiety, those struggling with relationships, and anyone seeking personal growth. My approach is highly individualized, drawing on a range of modalities like Brainspotting, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Solution-Focused Therapy to meet clients where they are and guide them toward healing, resilience, and personal fulfillment. I am particularly skilled in creating a supportive environment that respects cultural nuances and individual needs, ensuring each client feels understood, empowered, and capable of making lasting change.

About Natalie Montenegro

Specializes in

AnxietyDepressionTrauma and PTSDADHDLGBTQParentingSelf EsteemSexual AbuseSpirituality

Licensed in

Appointments

Virtual

My treatment methods

Brainspotting

Brainspotting (BSP) is a powerful therapeutic technique that was developed by Dr. David Grand in 2003. It is based on the idea that where you look can have a profound impact on your emotional and psychological state. The technique involves identifying specific "brainspots" — eye positions that correlate with areas in the brain where trauma, negative emotions, or unresolved issues are stored. The process of Brainspotting is typically used to help individuals access and process deeply held emotional and psychological experiences that may not be easily accessible through traditional talk therapy. It works by guiding the person to focus on a particular spot in their visual field while they simultaneously process memories, emotions, or sensations related to the trauma or issue they are working through. These eye positions often reflect unconscious thoughts or unresolved experiences that the client may not be fully aware of. The key elements of Brainspotting include: Eye Positioning: The therapist helps the client find a specific spot or eye position that corresponds to areas of tension or emotion. Dual Attunement: The therapist remains highly attuned both to the client’s verbal and non-verbal cues, and to the brainspotting process, ensuring that the client feels safe and supported while exploring their internal world. Processing and Release: By focusing on the brainspot, the client can access stored emotional experiences, which often leads to emotional release, insight, or resolution. This can be a powerful way of integrating and healing trauma. Brainspotting is considered to be effective for a variety of issues, including trauma, anxiety, depression, PTSD, and even performance enhancement. It has gained recognition in the psychotherapy community for its ability to work with clients who may struggle with traditional forms of therapy or those who have experienced significant emotional or psychological distress. It’s often compared to Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) because both modalities use eye movements or positions to process trauma, but BSP is seen as potentially more flexible and individualized in terms of how it is applied.

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a well-established and widely used form of psychotherapy that focuses on the connection between thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. The central idea behind CBT is that our thoughts (cognitions) influence how we feel and behave, and that by identifying and changing negative or distorted thought patterns, we can improve our emotional well-being and modify unhelpful behaviors. CBT is structured, goal-oriented, and generally short-term, typically involving anywhere from 5 to 20 sessions, depending on the individual’s needs. It is highly collaborative, with the therapist and client working together to understand the client’s issues and develop strategies for change. Key components of CBT include: Cognitive Restructuring: One of the core elements of CBT is identifying and challenging cognitive distortions—unrealistic or negative ways of thinking that contribute to emotional distress. These distortions might include overgeneralization, catastrophizing, or black-and-white thinking. Once identified, clients learn to replace these negative thoughts with more balanced, realistic ones. Behavioral Activation: This component focuses on helping clients identify and change behaviors that reinforce negative emotional states. For example, someone with depression may avoid social situations, which worsens feelings of isolation and sadness. Behavioral activation encourages engaging in pleasurable or meaningful activities to improve mood. Problem-Solving: CBT helps clients develop effective problem-solving skills for managing life’s challenges. This involves breaking problems into manageable parts, exploring possible solutions, and evaluating their potential outcomes. Skill Building: CBT also teaches clients coping skills to manage stress, anxiety, and other negative emotions. Techniques like relaxation exercises, mindfulness, and self-compassion practices are often integrated into the therapeutic process. Thought Records: Clients may be asked to keep thought records or journals to track their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors in response to specific situations. This helps identify patterns and gain insight into the underlying causes of emotional distress. Unlike some other forms of therapy that may explore past experiences in depth, CBT tends to focus more on present-day issues and the ways in which current thinking and behaviors contribute to emotional distress. It's also a relatively active form of therapy, with clients often engaging in homework assignments or exercises between sessions to practice the skills learned in therapy.

Internal Family Systems (IFS)

The Self is the core of the individual, which is calm, compassionate, curious, and capable of healing. The Self is not a part, but rather the inherent essence of a person that can guide, heal, and lead the internal system. In IFS, the goal is to help the person reconnect with their Self, which can then help bring balance and harmony to the various parts. Internal Family Systems is a transformative approach that views a person’s inner world as an internal family system, with different parts playing specific roles, and with the Self at the center as a compassionate and healing force. By fostering awareness, dialogue, and integration between these parts, IFS helps individuals heal emotional wounds, resolve inner conflicts, and achieve greater emotional balance and self-understanding.