Ebony Blue, LPC - Therapist at Grow Therapy

Ebony Blue

Ebony Blue

(she/her)

LPC
15 years of experience
Virtual

Hi, I’m Dr. Ebony B. I’m a licensed therapist, healing guide, and space-holder for people who are tired of being the strong one. If you’ve been carrying the weight of emotional pain, burnout, or the pressure to keep showing up for everyone else, this is your space to put it all down and just be. I work with Black women, caregivers, and high-achieving professionals who often feel anxious, overwhelmed, disconnected, or like they’ve lost themselves somewhere along the way. Many of my clients seem to have it all together on the outside but feel exhausted inside. You don’t have to keep holding it in or pretending to be okay. You deserve a space to be real, to rest, and to heal. In our work together, we’ll move at your pace. I help clients understand what they’re feeling, where those emotions come from, and how to care for themselves with more compassion and clarity. We talk through patterns, explore your past, build boundaries, and learn new ways to cope that actually feel good to you. You’ll feel supported, not judged. My style is warm, down-to-earth, and collaborative. We’ll laugh sometimes, reflect often, and create room for honesty, softness, and growth. I honor your lived experience and believe in healing that respects your identity, your story, and your values. You don’t have to do this alone. If you’re ready to feel more like yourself again, I would be honored to walk with you.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

Beginning therapy is an act of courage, and I honor that deeply. I know that deciding to share your story with someone, especially when you have been carrying so much for so long, is no small thing. That is why I approach our first session with care, patience, and curiosity. You will not be rushed. You will not be expected to know exactly what to say. You will be met exactly where you are. In our first session, we begin by simply getting to know each other. I will invite you to share whatever feels important or safe to bring into the space. Sometimes that means talking about what brought you to therapy right away. Other times, it means easing in slowly and focusing on comfort first. Both approaches are welcome. There is no right way to begin. This first session is not about rushing into answers. It is about creating a space where you can feel emotionally safe and supported. We might explore what has been weighing on you, how you have been coping, or what you would like to feel more of in your life. You are allowed to ramble, pause, cry, or laugh. You do not have to be polished. You just get to be real. I may ask questions about your day-to-day life so I can learn how you move through the world. That might include your work, family, relationships, or community. I want to understand the roles you hold and the ways culture, faith, and past experiences have shaped your story. I believe therapy works best when your full identity is centered and respected. I see you as a whole person, not a set of symptoms. We will also talk about what therapy looks like. I will walk you through confidentiality, your rights as a client, and how we will work together over time. You can ask anything — even the things you think you are supposed to already know. This space is for you, and that includes feeling informed and comfortable with the process. Some clients arrive knowing exactly what they want to work on. Others feel numb, overwhelmed, or unsure of where to start. Either one is perfectly okay. You do not need to have your story figured out to begin. You just need a willingness to show up for yourself, even gently. By the end of the first session, my hope is that you feel grounded and less alone. You may not have every answer yet, but you will have taken an important step — you will have started. We will talk about what you want to focus on going forward, and if it feels right, I may offer some early reflections or insights based on what I noticed. This is a collabora

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

One of my greatest strengths as a therapist is my ability to create a space that feels deeply safe, warm, and affirming. This is especially important for people who are used to showing up strong for everyone else. Many of the clients I work with are carrying emotional loads that no one can see. They are high-achieving, dependable, and thoughtful, often holding things together at work, at home, and in their communities. But underneath all that strength is someone who is tired, someone who is hurting, someone who just wants a moment to be held without having to be strong. I specialize in working with clients who are rarely asked how they are truly doing. I know how to sit with people who are used to performing, people-pleasing, or staying silent to avoid conflict. My strength is in seeing past the surface and gently supporting clients in reconnecting with themselves. I do this not through pressure or perfectionism, but through presence and care. Clients often share that they feel emotionally safe with me from the very beginning. That is intentional. I listen closely, not just to the words but to the meaning beneath them. I hold space for silence, for honesty, and for the emotions that are hard to name. I believe healing does not come from being fixed. It comes from being witnessed, supported, and honored. Culturally responsive care is not something I offer separately. It is part of everything I do. I honor your lived experience, your identity, your values, and your story. As a Black woman, I understand the weight of being strong when what you really need is rest. I bring both personal experience and clinical training into the room. I understand how generational pain, systemic stress, and cultural expectations shape how we show up and how we survive. I center that in our work together. I bring a calm and grounded energy into session. Clients often tell me it feels like they can finally exhale. That is not by accident. I want you to feel like you can bring your whole self into the space without judgment. Whether we are processing trauma, navigating grief, exploring relationships, or learning how to rest, I meet you where you are. We move at a pace that respects your nervous system and your readiness. While I use research-supported techniques, I never use clinical language that feels cold or distant. I explain everything in ways that make sense for your life. Whether we are talking through emotional regulation, relationship dynamics, or inner child work, I

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

My ideal clients are the ones who hold it together for everyone else. They are the listeners, the fixers, the go-to person when things fall apart. On the outside, they are successful, reliable, and capable. But inside, they often feel overwhelmed, anxious, emotionally tired, and disconnected from their own needs. Many of the people I support are Black women, caregivers, first-generation professionals, high-achievers, or those navigating identity, grief, trauma, or transitions. They’ve learned how to survive but are now looking for a space to finally breathe, feel, and heal. You might be burned out from carrying your family, your work, and your emotions with no room to rest. You may struggle with setting boundaries, speaking up for yourself, or feeling like you’re allowed to ask for help. You may feel like you’re constantly performing, even when no one’s watching. My ideal clients are insightful and self-aware, even if they’re still learning how to put language to their pain. They’re open to healing, even if they’ve never had space to truly explore it. Therapy with me is for those who want to stop surviving and start coming home to themselves. You don’t need to be perfect to begin...just ready to start.

About Ebony Blue

Appointments

Virtual

My treatment methods

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

I use CBT as a grounding framework to help clients untangle the thoughts and patterns that may be keeping them overwhelmed, stuck, or self-critical. Together, we explore how your thoughts influence your emotions and behaviors, then gently shift the mindset narratives that no longer serve you. This work is practical but also deeply personal. I incorporate tools like thought tracking, reframing, and behavior mapping while honoring your unique identity, culture, and lived experiences. CBT helps us get to the root of anxiety, burnout, depression, and trauma while also building the coping skills and confidence to move forward with clarity and purpose.

Psychoeducation

I believe that healing begins with understanding. Through psychoeducation, I help clients make sense of their emotions, trauma responses, nervous system reactions, and relational patterns. Whether we are exploring how anxiety shows up in the body or how childhood experiences shaped current coping styles, I aim to provide knowledge that empowers you. This work often brings clarity and relief — helping you feel less “broken” and more equipped to take charge of your mental health. I share information in a way that feels accessible, never overwhelming, and always aligned with your values and pace.

Culturally Sensitive Therapy

Culturally sensitive therapy means creating a space where your full identity is seen, respected, and affirmed. I honor how race, gender, culture, spirituality, and generational experiences shape your mental health journey. This is not just about being aware. It is about holding space for your truth without expecting you to explain or minimize it. Whether you are navigating cultural expectations, microaggressions, or the pressure to always appear strong, I center those realities in our work together. Healing is most powerful when it reflects who you are. My goal is to support your growth in a way that feels rooted, authentic, and safe.

Dialectical Behavior (DBT)

I use DBT-informed strategies to support emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and building healthier relationships. If you often feel emotionally flooded, shut down, or struggle with boundaries, DBT can offer tools to help you feel more in control and grounded. I integrate mindfulness, self-compassion, and values-based decision making to help you stay centered, even in moments of emotional overwhelm. This approach is especially helpful for clients navigating trauma, intense emotions, or patterns of people-pleasing and self-abandonment.

Racial trauma treatment

Racial trauma is real and often invisible to those who have never experienced it. In our work together, I create a space where you do not have to justify your pain or silence your truth. I support clients in unpacking the emotional, psychological, and somatic impact of racism, generational trauma, and chronic stress from navigating unsafe or invalidating environments. We may explore how these experiences have shaped your self-worth, boundaries, relationships, and even your physical health. Using a blend of evidence-based practices and culturally responsive care, I help you process the harm, restore a sense of safety, and reconnect with your inner strength. This is a space for healing, not just coping.