Costenah Greenland

LPC, 13 years of experience
Warm
Solution oriented
Empowering

I help adults who are overwhelmed on the inside even though they appear composed and capable on the outside. Many of my clients are high-functioning professionals, caretakers, or “go-to” people who have reached a point where stress, anxiety, or major life changes are becoming too heavy to navigate alone. My style is warm, honest, and steady. I create a space that’s calm and supportive, where you can talk freely without feeling judged or rushed. I use DBT, CBT, and psychodynamic therapy to help you understand your patterns and build real, actionable tools to manage anxiety, improve boundaries, and respond to stress more effectively. In therapy, we’ll focus on helping you feel more grounded and clear-minded. You’ll learn how to slow down, reduce overwhelm, and become more intentional in the choices you make. Clients often tell me they appreciate my balance of compassion, straightforward guidance, and practical strategies.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

In our first session, you can expect a structured but relaxed conversation. I’ll ask about your current concerns and what you want to work on. You don’t need to prepare anything—I’ll guide the questions so we can build a clear understanding of what you’re facing and what you need. Clients often tell me the first session feels validating and clarifying. You’ll be able to talk openly at your own pace, and I’ll reflect back what I’m noticing to help you feel understood and supported. We’ll identify your therapy goals, explore what’s getting in the way, and begin mapping out the direction we’ll take in our work together.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

My greatest strength lies in helping clients, especially Black and Brown women, who carry a lot emotionally but rarely feel supported themselves. I understand the pressure to be strong, polished, and “okay” while holding stress, self-doubt, or exhaustion beneath the surface. My approach is warm, validating, and culturally attuned, and I create a space where you can finally exhale and be fully seen. I pull from DBT, CBT, and psychodynamic therapy to help you not only understand your patterns, but also build tools for emotional regulation, boundaries, assertiveness, and self-worth. I am both compassionate and direct—I’ll listen deeply, but I’ll also help you identify the shifts that will create the most relief and confidence in your life. Clients who work with me often share that therapy feels both emotionally grounding and practically useful. I help you break old cycles, challenge unhelpful beliefs, and connect with a version of yourself that feels more centered, empowered, and aligned with your real needs.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

My ideal clients are adults who want a therapist who’s warm, direct, and collaborative. You may be dealing with anxiety, chronic stress, burnout, self-doubt, or difficulties in relationships. You’re not looking for a space to just vent—you want to understand your patterns and learn concrete skills that help you cope more effectively. I work especially well with people who feel stuck between who they are and who they want to be. You might feel overwhelmed, easily drained by others, unsure about your boundaries, or tired of repeating the same emotional cycles. Many of my clients are navigating transitions, questioning their identity, or wanting to show up differently in their relationships. If you’re motivated to grow, curious about your inner world, and open to learning new ways of responding to stress, we’ll be a great match. My goal is to support you in becoming more grounded, confident, and emotionally steady in your day-to-day life.

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My treatment methods

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

I use CBT as an intervention to gain insight into the relationship between thoughts and feelings, and the ability to gain awareness of thoughts and reframe them into more healthy perspectives.

Dialectical Behavior (DBT)

I use DBT with clients struggling with regulating their emotions. Interventions such as mindfulness exercises and Interpersonal Effectiveness skills will improve the ability for the client to manage difficult feelings and interact more positively with others in their life

Psychodynamic

I blend Pyschodynamic interventions with other counseling techniques for clients who are interested in uncovering the root cause(s) of their emotios I use this approach to glance at the past in an effort to gain insight and, at times, closure.

, 61 ratings

11 ratings with written reviews

October 7, 2025

My first session with Costenah was great. I look forward to our next session

Verified client, age 45-54
Review shared after session 1 with Costenah

October 6, 2025

just had my first session with Costenah. She's a warm comforting person to be around. has a wonderful conversation flow. She's incredibly easy to talk to and felt like i could immediately get into my issues and start working. I'm very excited to have found her

Verified client, age 35-44
Review shared after session 1 with Costenah

July 15, 2025

I've finally found the one! I've met with many therapists over the past few years. Costenah is very knowledgeable, solution oriented, and kind. I look forward to our next session.

Verified client, age 35-44
Review shared after session 1 with Costenah