Hi, my name is Norma Inez (e-nez), but I like to go by my middle name Inez. I am a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) practicing in California. I received my graduate degree (M.A. in Couples & Family Therapy) from Alliant International University in 2018 and have been practicing for 7 years. I help young adults improve their self esteem by challenging and adjusting their negative core beliefs, learn how to detach from their unwanted thoughts, and create a supportive self care practice.
In our first session together, I will try to learn as much as I can about your challenges, asking you questions about your background, medical history, and social history. After we will discuss your goals for therapy and develop a treatment plan tailored to your needs.
My greatest strength as a provider is being easy to talk to and compassionately direct. I can provide helpful feedback to assist clients in making progress in a way that is validating.
I love working with people who are motivated to change but don't know where to get started. They enjoy structure, worksheets, and homework.
As a marriage and family therapist, I was trained on utilizing attachment theory as my framework. I use it to assist client's in identifying their attachment history, injuries, and style, as well as how to develop a more secure attachment and improve their relationships.
In my first years of experience as a practicum student, I was supervised under a DBT trained therapist and even assisted running a DBT group. I use a lot of the skills from DBT to help clients regulate their emotions, tolerate and cope from emotional distress, and even accept difficulty life situations by using radical acceptance.
I was trained in utilizing CBT in graduate school through coursework and have used it since I started practicing. I use CBT to help client's identify their negative beliefs, change their thinking patterns, and adjust their beliefs to ultimately change their behavior.
I learned about ACT during my first position out of graduate school, as I was under the supervision of a psychologist that was trained in ACT. I like using ACT to help clients detach from their unhelpful thoughts or emotions, identify their values, and live more in alignment with their goals.