My practice is built on the foundation that every individual, relationship, and family deserves a therapeutic space free from judgment. I serve a diverse clientele of adults, teens, and couples, offering a safe and inclusive environment for people of all sexual identities. While I treat a wide range of mental health concerns, I offer specialized, culturally competent care for LGBTQ+ and Neurodivergent individuals, technology professionals, older adults, and same sex couples. A significant portion of my practice is also dedicated to working with men struggling with compulsive behaviors regarding sex and drugs, offering a path toward control and alignment with their values. If you are looking for a therapist who is open-minded, direct, and deeply familiar with these unique lived experiences, I invite you to reach out.
In our first session together, here's what you can expect
My first session focuses on building rapport and instilling a sense of comfort and ease. I strive to create a space where client's trust they can speak openly and honestly about anything, without fear of judgement or shame. I want to understand what brings them to therapy and I will ask many questions, while offering time to expand and elaborate. Our first session is the opportunity to get to know each other. Client's are free to ask me questions. This collaborative session will hopefully result in a treatment plan that addresses the client's issues, identifies achievable goals, and charts the course for sessions to come.
The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions
I am authentic, empathetic, compassionate and kind. I am genuinely interested what my client has to say and listen with intent to understand. I view our therapeutic alliance as the foundation of all growth, and I treat the vulnerability and trust client's bring to this space with the utmost respect.
The clients I'm best positioned to serve
My ideal client is simply a human who has made the courageous commitment to exploring their inner world with a goal of self discovery and self improvement.
Attachment-based
Attachment based therapy provides a path to understanding how experiences in our formative years influence our lives in the present. Our sense of who we are, how we see ourself in relation to the world around us is shaped, in part, by the messages we received very early in childhood. Healthy, supportive relationships enable us to develop a strong sense of who we are. If we experienced responsiveness, comfort, encouragement, assurance of safety, our parents/caregivers provided secure base from which to explore the world around us, giving us the ability to form trusting relationships, develop positive coping skills, and become self-reliant. If our early experiences with parental figures was chaotic and unpredictable, or expressions of love, belonging, and safety were absent, negative, or confusing, the base from which we explore the world isn't as reliable. We develop coping skills for navigating confusion, becoming less secure of . I work with clients to identify and change maladaptive behaviors that are
Person-centered (Rogerian)
The person-centered model is the umbrella for all of my work with clients. It is grounded in the belief that each of us strives to fulfill our potential, and that the desire for personal growth and change is inherently human. In other words, we have the capacity to find our purpose in life and become the person we can be. Our self-concept (how we view ourselves) is shaped by the messages we internalized as children, the environment in which we were raised and what we experienced in our environment. If we are receive encouragement and support, and internalize messages that are positive, we are more likely to recognize our strengths and achieve our potential because we believe in ourselves. But for many of us, the messages we received and the environments and experiences we had were either mixed and confusing, or outright negative. Rather than encouraging our strengths, we learn to question, doubt or deny them. It is critical to me that I create an environment of trust and support. To allow you to fully express and explore anything that may be inhibiting, masking or distorting your inherent strengths. I view therapy as collaborative, understanding that you are the expert on your life, and I am here to facilitate self discovery, by acting as a guide, a trusted, reliable person, who listens, provides tools and identifies your strengths and that travels with you.
Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
CBT helps to identify thought patterns that often undermine our ability to make positive changes and provides tools to challenge and change self talk (what we tell ourselves about ourselves). CBT is an evidenced based therapy for treating addiction, depression, anxiety and low self esteem. One of the most studied therapeutic models out there. I utilize CBT to help clients find the root cause of the behavior, and provide tools to support change. Once we know why we are doing something, we can learn how to change it.
Mindfulness-Based Therapy
Mindfulness-Based Therapy is a fundamental tool for cultivating awareness of the present moment. Rather than ruminating on our past challenges, I utilize mindfulness and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) as way to bring attention to thoughts and feelings that arise in the moment. How and the physical sensations that accompany them. By bringing awareness to our thoughts and emotions, we can learn to manage and regulate them, rather than becoming overwhelmed and controlled by them. Mindfulness is often misunderstood as simply being meditation. While meditation is part of mindfulness, the practice of mindfulness is about bringing awareness to the present moment experience. As a tool for grounding, it can be as simple as noticing the rhythm of the breath or counting down from 10 to 1. Mindfulness-Based therapy has been extensively researched, is evidence based, and shown to be beneficial physically and mentally, managing symptoms of depression, anxiety, panic disorders, sleep disorders, and stress reduction. I have extensive training both personally and professionally in the practice of mindfulness. I have studied in California, Thailand and Nepal. And can attest to the benefits of integrating mindfulness based techniques into my life.
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March 30, 2025
Lonnie has been wonderful in helping to reveal greater depth to my initial goals when approaching life issues. I am grateful to have his guidance as I become more self-confident and tackle trauma.