Melissa Fitzsimmons
I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with a warm, transparent, and down to earth approach to therapy. I believe therapy should be a space where you can show up exactly as you are without feeling judged or like you have to say the “right” thing. I’m genuine and interactive in sessions, and I use humor when appropriate because therapy can address difficult things while still feeling human and relatable. I work with individuals and couples who may be struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, life transitions, boundaries, self-esteem, attachment, or patterns that seem to keep repeating. One of my strengths as a therapist is helping clients recognize those patterns and understand not only what they are doing, but why they may be doing it. Together, we look at where those patterns came from, how they may have helped you at one point, and whether they are still serving you today. My approach is collaborative, supportive, and direct. I’m not the type of therapist who will simply sit back and nod for an hour. I’ll listen, ask questions, offer another perspective, challenge you when it may be helpful, and celebrate the progress you make along the way. I incorporate approaches such as CBT, DBT, solution-focused therapy, attachment-based work, and IFS concepts depending on your individual needs. Whether you’re trying to build healthier relationships, strengthen boundaries, better understand yourself, navigate a difficult transition, or finally break a pattern you’re tired of repeating, my goal is to help you develop greater insight and make changes that actually feel meaningful and sustainable in your everyday life.
First session
Your first session is about getting to know you as a person, not just a list of symptoms or a diagnosis. We’ll talk about what brought you to therapy, what is happening in your life right now, your relationships and experiences, and what you would like to be different. You do not need to arrive knowing exactly what to say or where to begin. We will figure that out together. I’ll ask questions to better understand your history, current concerns, important relationships, coping strategies, and patterns you may already recognize in yourself. I also want to know what has worked for you in the past, what has not, and what you are hoping to get from therapy. Just as importantly, the first session gives you an opportunity to get a feel for me. Finding the right therapist matters, and I want you to feel comfortable with my personality and approach. I am warm, transparent, interactive, and use humor when appropriate, so you can expect a genuine conversation rather than feeling like you are being interviewed or analyzed. Whenever possible, we will begin identifying patterns and making connections during the first session rather than waiting several appointments to start the work. By the end of our time together, my goal is for you to feel heard, understood, and less overwhelmed about where to begin. We will also start identifying your goals and developing a direction for therapy that feels realistic and meaningful to you. You do not have to tell your entire life story in one hour. The first session is simply the beginning of creating a space where you can be honest, curious, and comfortable enough to do meaningful work.
Strengths
My approach stands out because I believe therapy should feel like a genuine conversation, not a clinical interview. I’m warm, transparent, direct, and interactive with my clients. I’m not the type of therapist who will simply sit back, nod, and ask, “How does that make you feel?” for an hour. I want you to leave sessions with greater insight into yourself and a clearer understanding of the patterns that may be keeping you stuck. I use humor when appropriate because therapy can involve difficult and emotional conversations, but it can also be a place where you laugh, feel understood, and simply get to be yourself. I work hard to create a nonjudgmental environment where clients feel comfortable talking openly about relationships, mistakes, fears, insecurities, or choices they may not feel comfortable discussing elsewhere. I also believe there is value in understanding the “why” behind our behavior. Rather than only focusing on what is happening right now, we may explore attachment, family dynamics, past relationships, coping strategies, and experiences that shaped the way you respond today. Once we understand the pattern, we can decide whether it is still serving you or whether it is time to do something differently. My style is collaborative and individualized. I draw from CBT, DBT, solution-focused therapy, attachment-based approaches, and IFS concepts depending on what fits you best. I will support you, but I will also respectfully challenge you when needed. My goal is for therapy to feel safe enough to be honest, comfortable enough to be yourself, and productive enough that you begin noticing meaningful changes outside of the therapy room.
Ideal clients
My ideal client is someone who is ready to better understand themselves, even if they are not completely sure where to start. You may find yourself repeating the same relationship patterns, overthinking situations, struggling with boundaries, seeking validation from others, putting everyone else’s needs before your own, or wondering why you continue making choices that you know are not working for you. I enjoy working with clients who are navigating anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, attachment concerns, self-esteem, family dynamics, major life transitions, or simply feeling stuck. You do not need to come into therapy already knowing exactly what you want to change. Sometimes figuring that out is part of the process. I also work with couples who care about their relationship but feel caught in repetitive cycles of conflict, disconnection, mistrust, poor communication, or difficulty understanding each other’s needs. I help couples look beyond the argument itself to understand the patterns, triggers, and experiences underneath it. My ideal client is open to being curious about themselves and willing to look at patterns with honesty and compassion. You do not have to have everything figured out, and you definitely do not have to be perfect at therapy. I appreciate clients who want a therapist who will be engaged, transparent, supportive, and willing to challenge them when needed. Ultimately, I work best with people who want more than temporary relief. They want to understand themselves, develop healthier relationships, strengthen boundaries, build confidence, and make changes that carry into their everyday lives. If you are ready to understand why certain patterns keep showing up and begin choosing something different, we can work on that together.
Treatment methods
Solution Focused Brief Treatment
I use Solution-Focused Therapy to help clients identify what they want to be different and develop realistic steps toward getting there. While understanding the past can be important, I also believe therapy should help you move forward. We will explore what is already working, recognize your strengths, and build on the skills and resources you already have. Rather than focusing only on the problem, I may ask questions that help you imagine what life, relationships, or emotional well-being would look like if things improved. From there, we can identify small, achievable changes that move you closer to that goal. I also help clients recognize exceptions, or times when the problem was less intense or they handled a difficult situation differently, so we can understand what worked and how to use it again. I often incorporate Solution-Focused Therapy when clients feel stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure where to begin. Together, we break larger concerns into manageable goals and focus on what is within your control. I may also give you something specific to notice, reflect on, or practice between sessions so you can begin applying what we discuss in your everyday life. My approach is collaborative and practical. I am not here to tell you how to live your life. My role is to help you recognize your own strengths, clarify what you want, identify what may be getting in the way, and develop strategies that help you create meaningful and sustainable change.
Location
Virtual sessions