CJ Fagan

LPCC, 5 years of experience
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I’m here to help people find themselves not a new version, but often the version they miss or have been disconnected from. My work centers on authenticity, self-awareness, and helping you take the mask off so you can show up as who you are meant to be in your everyday life. I believe healing is not about becoming someone else, but about reconnecting with who you already are beneath expectations, pressure, and survival patterns. In our work together, I create a space where you can be honest, explore your emotions, and better understand how your experiences have shaped the way you move through the world. I show up as an advocate, a guide, and a collaborator supporting you as you navigate relationships, identity, emotional regulation, and life transitions. My approach is grounded, direct, and compassionate, with a focus on helping you build insight, confidence, and clarity so you can live in alignment with yourself rather than behind a mask. Therapy with me is about growth, accountability, and self-trust. My goal is to help you feel more connected to yourself, more secure in who you are, and more intentional in how you show up for your life and the people in it.

Get to know me

In our first session together, here's what you can expect

Your first session with me is about getting to know each other and beginning to build a strong therapeutic relationship. I aim to create a space that feels welcoming, safe, and authentic, where you can show up as you are without pressure or judgment. This session is often raw and honest, and that is intentional trust and rapport are the foundation of meaningful therapeutic work. We will spend time talking about what brought you to therapy, what you are currently navigating, and what you hope to gain from the process. I will listen closely, ask thoughtful questions, and work with you to better understand your experiences, concerns, and strengths. There is no expectation to have everything figured out or to share more than you are ready to share. Together, we will begin developing a roadmap for therapy. This includes identifying goals, clarifying priorities, and outlining how we can work toward progress in a way that feels realistic and supportive. The first session sets the tone for collaboration and growth, and my goal is for you to leave feeling heard, understood, and more clear about the path forward.

The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions

What stands out about my therapeutic approach is my adaptability and authenticity. I show up as myself and meet clients where they are, without judgment or pressure to move faster than they are ready. Therapy with me is not rigid or scripted it is responsive to what you need in the moment and grounded in real human connection. I understand that growth is not always linear. Sometimes we may revisit the same concerns or patterns more than once, and that is part of the process. I remain patient and committed as we work through challenges together, focusing on understanding rather than rushing toward resolution. Progress often comes from allowing space for insight to develop, even when that means sitting with discomfort. I am also comfortable with silence and view it as a meaningful part of the therapeutic process. Silence can create room for reflection, emotional processing, and clarity, and I allow that space when it is needed rather than filling it prematurely. My goal is to support clients in feeling safe enough to think, feel, and speak at their own pace. Overall, my approach is collaborative, grounded, and intentional. I focus on building trust, fostering self-awareness, and helping clients move toward change in a way that feels authentic, sustainable, and aligned with who they are.

The clients I'm best positioned to serve

I am best positioned to serve individuals and couples who are struggling with being fully themselves and are ready to reconnect with their confidence, authenticity, and sense of direction. Many of the clients I work well with feel disconnected from who they are, whether that shows up as self-doubt, emotional suppression, relationship difficulties, or feeling stuck in patterns that no longer serve them. My role is not to change who you are, but to help you uncover and strengthen the version of yourself that already exists beneath pressure, expectations, and survival habits. I work best with clients who are open to doing the work both in and outside of session. Therapy with me is collaborative and intentional, and I support clients in learning and using practical tools that aid in emotional regulation, communication, and decision-making. I am especially well-suited for clients who want to understand themselves better, take accountability for their growth, and actively work toward solutions rather than remaining solely focused on problems. Progress in therapy is not about perfection, but about consistency, honesty, and willingness to try. I am also well-positioned to support couples who want to improve how they communicate and relate to one another. This includes couples who are seeking to rebuild trust, strengthen an existing foundation, or better understand each other’s emotional needs and patterns of interaction. I help couples slow down communication, reduce defensiveness, and learn how to listen with intention. Whether a relationship is navigating conflict, disconnection, or transition, my goal is to help partners build healthier, more respectful, and more effective ways of engaging with one another. I work particularly well with clients who value authenticity and are willing to be honest, even when it feels uncomfortable. I welcome clients who feel empowered to let me know when something is not landing or when I miss the mark. I view these moments not as setbacks, but as opportunities to strengthen the therapeutic relationship. Therapy is most effective when it is rooted in mutual respect, transparency, and collaboration, and I believe growth happens when we are able to address challenges together in real time. Overall, I am best suited for clients who are ready to show up for themselves, use the tools provided, and commit to their personal and relational growth. If you are looking for a therapist who will support you in building confidence, strengt

SpecialtiesTop specialties

Anxiety

Other specialties

ADHD

Anger Management

Serves ages

Teenagers (13 to 17)

Licensed in
Accepts
Location
Virtual
My treatment methods

Interpersonal

In session, I use the interpersonal modality by focusing on how the client experiences and navigates relationships in real time. I help clients explore patterns in how they connect with others, including communication styles, emotional responses, and recurring relational conflicts. I pay close attention to how these patterns show up both in the client’s outside relationships and within the therapeutic relationship itself, using the here-and-now interactions as a way to increase insight and awareness. I intentionally use the therapeutic relationship as a tool for growth, gently identifying and naming interpersonal dynamics as they arise in session. Through reflective listening, clarification, and validation, I model healthy communication while helping clients recognize how their behaviors, emotional reactions, and expectations may impact others. This allows clients to experience being heard and understood while also learning how to communicate more effectively in their personal relationships. I support clients in connecting present-day relational struggles to past experiences, including family dynamics and significant attachment relationships, to better understand how earlier interactions influence current beliefs and behaviors. I encourage clients to explore emotions connected to these relationships, identify unmet needs, and take accountability for their role in interpersonal challenges without placing blame. Throughout treatment, I incorporate skill-building such as assertive communication, boundary-setting, and emotional expression, often using role-play or real-life examples to practice these skills in session. The goal of this approach is to improve interpersonal functioning, strengthen emotional regulation, and support healthier, more stable relationships, which in turn contributes to overall symptom reduction and improved daily functioning.

Solution Focused Brief Treatment

In session, I use a Solution-Focused Brief Therapy approach by prioritizing the client’s strengths, existing resources, and capacity for change rather than focusing solely on problems or deficits. I guide clients in identifying what is already working in their lives, even in small or inconsistent ways, and help them build awareness around how those moments can be expanded and repeated. I support clients in clarifying specific, realistic, and achievable goals, encouraging them to describe what progress would look like in practical, observable terms. Through the use of targeted questions, such as scaling questions and future-focused prompts, I help clients assess their current functioning, recognize incremental improvements, and identify concrete steps they can take between sessions. Rather than revisiting problems in detail, I help clients explore exceptions to the problem, highlighting times when the issue was less intense or more manageable. This allows clients to recognize their own problem-solving abilities and reinforces a sense of agency and self-efficacy. I consistently redirect sessions toward what the client wants to change and how they can actively move toward that change. Throughout treatment, I collaborate with clients to develop short-term, solution-oriented strategies that align with their values and daily routines. This approach supports increased motivation, emotional regulation, and follow-through, while helping clients experience progress in a timely and empowering way that fits the brief and goal-focused nature of treatment.

Couples Counseling

In couples counseling, I use a brief, relationship-focused approach that emphasizes communication, emotional awareness, and mutual accountability. I support partners in identifying patterns of interaction that contribute to conflict or disconnection, while helping them better understand each other’s emotional needs, perspectives, and triggers. Sessions focus on slowing down communication, increasing reflective listening, and creating space for both partners to feel heard and validated. I guide couples in developing practical skills such as effective communication, boundary-setting, and conflict resolution, while encouraging shared responsibility for change rather than blame. The goal of this approach is to strengthen emotional connection, improve relational functioning, and support couples in building healthier, more intentional ways of engaging with one another both in and outside of session.

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