I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in California with over 19 years of experience providing high-quality mental health care to adults navigating complex personal, relational, and health-related stressors. I earned my Master’s degree in Social Work from Barry University and bring extensive clinical experience from medical and psychiatric hospital settings, where I worked with individuals facing acute stress, chronic illness, and major life transitions. I work with adults who are balancing work, family responsibilities, and the emotional weight of ongoing life demands. Many of my clients experience anxiety, chronic overwhelm, and exhaustion from carrying multiple roles while feeling responsible for holding everything together. I also support individuals living with chronic illness, including cancer, who may struggle with self-blame, guilt, or the belief that their health challenges reflect personal weakness rather than realities that require compassion, adjustment, and support. In addition, I help clients process grief related to health changes, reproductive trauma, and losses connected to fertility, pregnancy, or shifts in life expectations. These experiences are often isolating and misunderstood, leading many people to minimize their own pain while continuing to care for others. Therapy provides space to name these losses, understand their emotional impact, and begin integrating them in ways that reduce shame and support healing. My therapeutic approach is grounded, practical, and compassionate. I focus on helping clients improve emotional regulation, develop effective coping strategies, and navigate identity shifts that accompany health challenges, family strain, and evolving life roles. Therapy is collaborative and tailored, with an emphasis on sustainable change rather than quick fixes. Clients often come to me feeling overwhelmed, disconnected from themselves, or stuck in patterns of self-neglect and over-responsibility. Together, we slow the pace, clarify what truly matters, and develop strategies that support steadier functioning and values-aligned decision-making.
In our first session together, here's what you can expect
In our first session, the focus is on creating a space that feels safe, grounded, and respectful of what you are carrying. We will begin by talking about what led you to seek therapy at this point in your life and what you are hoping to gain from our work together. You are not expected to have everything clearly defined. Many clients arrive feeling overwhelmed or unsure where to start, and we will move at a pace that feels manageable. I will ask thoughtful questions to understand your current concerns, relevant personal and relational history, and any health or life stressors that may be impacting you. This is not an interrogation or an assessment you need to “get right.” It is a collaborative conversation designed to help me understand you as a whole person, not just a set of symptoms. We will also talk about how therapy can support you, what has or has not been helpful in the past, and any boundaries or preferences that are important for you. If anxiety, grief, health-related stress, or reproductive trauma are part of your experience, we will approach these topics with care and intention. By the end of the session, my goal is for you to feel heard, understood, and slightly more grounded than when you arrived. We may begin identifying initial areas of focus and discuss what ongoing therapy could look like, but there is no pressure to make immediate decisions or dive into everything at once. The first session is about establishing trust, clarity, and a foundation for work that is steady, compassionate, and tailored to you.
The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions
My greatest strengths as a therapist are my ability to hold complexity without rushing, my clinical grounding, and my capacity to help clients make sense of what they are experiencing without pathologizing them. What often stands out to clients is that I work at the intersection of emotional insight and practical change. I do not rely on generic coping strategies or surface-level reassurance. Instead, I help clients understand why they feel the way they do, how their nervous system, history, health, and current demands interact, and what is realistically within their control. This clarity often brings relief on its own. I am especially skilled at working with anxiety, health-related stress, grief, and reproductive trauma, including the self-blame and internal pressure many clients carry. I help clients slow down patterns of over-responsibility, regulate emotional overwhelm, and shift from survival-based functioning into steadier, more intentional ways of living. Clients frequently report feeling more grounded, less reactive, and more compassionate toward themselves as therapy progresses. They gain language for their experiences, stronger boundaries around their energy and needs, and increased confidence in making decisions that align with their values rather than guilt or fear. My approach is calm, attuned, and honest, with a strong emphasis on helping clients feel supported while also empowered to move forward.
The clients I'm best positioned to serve
My ideal clients are adults who are carrying a great deal internally, even if they appear to be functioning well on the outside. They may be balancing work, family responsibilities, health concerns, or caregiving roles while feeling emotionally overwhelmed, anxious, or depleted. Many come to therapy feeling responsible for holding everything together and unsure where they fit in their own lives. I am especially well positioned to work with individuals living with chronic illness, navigating cancer or other health-related challenges, processing reproductive trauma, or grieving losses connected to health, fertility, or unexpected life changes. These clients often struggle with self-blame, guilt, or the belief that they should be coping “better,” despite facing circumstances that would be destabilizing for anyone. My ideal clients are thoughtful, self-aware, and ready to slow down long enough to understand what is happening beneath the surface. They are not looking for quick fixes, but for meaningful support, emotional steadiness, and practical tools that fit the reality of their lives. Their goals often include reducing anxiety, learning to regulate emotional overwhelm, making peace with their bodies and limitations, and rebuilding a sense of agency and self-trust. I work best with clients who want therapy to be a collaborative, grounded process. Together, we focus on clarifying values, addressing patterns of over-functioning and self-neglect, and creating sustainable ways to live that honor both responsibility and wellbeing. My role is to provide a steady, non-judgmental space where clients can feel understood, regain clarity, and move forward with greater confidence and intention.
Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
Use CBT techniques tailored to an individual needs to help identify negative thought patterns and behaviors and guide them in working through those behaviors to achieve their desired goals.
Compassion Focused
I focus on fostering self compassion, empathy, and understanding within the client. Guide clients to develop a kinder and more accepting relationship with themselves.
Culturally Sensitive Therapy
Practice culturally sensitive therapy to create a supportive and inclusive environment that acknowledges and respects the clients experiences and mental health.
Grief Therapy
Grief comes in many forms such as reproductive loss, infertility, life transitions, loss of independence through illness, loss of a loved one and end of life planning. Let me help you through this challenging time.
Motivational Interviewing
Assist clients towards recognizing their ambivalence about change and ultimately resolve it.
3 ratings with written reviews
October 11, 2025
Loved my first session with Shelley-Anne! Very warm personality and understanding. She listened and gave great suggestions. I left feeling seen and with a lighter load. Thank you!
October 4, 2025
I so appreciate Shelley-Anne. She is a great listener and always has something useful to offer regarding my concerns. She brings an intelligence and humor to our sessions. I completely trust her and look forward to speaking with her. To tell you the truth, I really don't know what I would do without her at this stage in what I am going through.
June 5, 2025
Working with Shelley-Anne has been a great experience. She normalizes the things I grow through and helps me understand that it’s okay to be soft with myself while still being strong with myself.