Marriage & Family Therapist | Couples Counseling | Postpartum & First-Time Parent Support The transition into parenthood can place unexpected strain on even strong relationships. Many couples experience increased conflict, emotional distance, or difficulty communicating after the birth of a child. First-time parents may also struggle with anxiety, overwhelm, identity shifts, and symptoms of postpartum depression or anxiety that feel isolating or hard to name. I specialize in working with couples and first-time parents navigating relationship stress and postpartum mental health challenges. I support clients through this transition by helping them strengthen communication, rebuild emotional safety, and develop practical tools that support both individual well-being and long-term relationship health. Clients often come to therapy feeling stuck, disconnected, or unsure how to move forward together. In our work, we slow things down, identify unhelpful patterns, and build skills for emotional regulation, clearer communication, and deeper connection — both individually and as a couple.
In our first session together, here's what you can expect
Our work together is structured, intentional, and tailored to your specific goals. In sessions, you can expect: A safe, non‑judgmental space where both partners feel heard Clear guidance and gentle direction when conversations feel overwhelming or circular Practical tools you can use outside of session to improve communication and emotional connection Support navigating postpartum mood changes, anxiety, and identity shifts Education around relationship dynamics, attachment, and the transition into parenthood For couples, therapy focuses on strengthening the relationship while honoring each individual’s experience. For postpartum clients and first‑time parents, therapy emphasizes stabilization, emotional support, and confidence‑building during a vulnerable season.
The biggest strengths that I bring into our sessions
I work especially well with: Couples experiencing communication breakdowns, conflict escalation, emotional distance, or major life transitions New and first‑time parents adjusting to parenthood Postpartum clients experiencing depression, anxiety, overwhelm, or intrusive thoughts High‑functioning professionals who feel emotionally stuck despite external success Couples seeking education and preventative support, not just crisis intervention Many of my clients are motivated, thoughtful, and self‑aware, yet feel unsure how to apply insight to real change. Therapy provides the structure and support to bridge that gap
The clients I'm best positioned to serve
Clients often describe me as grounded, authentic, and engaged. I balance empathy with honesty and provide guidance while maintaining respect for your autonomy. Sessions feel conversational yet purposeful — supportive without being passive. I value trust, transparency, and collaboration, and I believe effective therapy should feel both emotionally safe and practically useful.
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
I use Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) primarily in my work with couples who are experiencing communication breakdowns, emotional disconnection, or increased conflict, particularly during major life transitions such as becoming parents. EFT is a structured, evidence-based approach that focuses on identifying negative interaction patterns and the underlying emotions that drive them. In sessions, I help couples slow down reactive cycles, understand each partner’s emotional experience, and develop new ways of responding to one another that foster safety, trust, and connection. EFT allows couples to move beyond surface-level arguments and address the deeper emotional needs that often go unmet, especially during the postpartum period when stress, exhaustion, and role changes can intensify relationship strain. My use of EFT is collaborative and supportive, with clear guidance to help couples build more secure, responsive, and emotionally connected relationships.
Attachment-based
I incorporate an attachment-based approach when working with individuals and couples to understand how early attachment experiences and relational patterns influence current emotions, behaviors, and relationships. This framework is especially helpful for postpartum clients and first-time parents who may notice heightened anxiety, mood changes, or shifts in identity and relationships after the birth of a child. Using an attachment lens, I help clients explore how their needs for safety, connection, and reassurance are expressed — and sometimes misunderstood — within their relationships. Therapy focuses on increasing self-awareness, emotional regulation, and the ability to communicate needs in a clear and compassionate way. For new parents, attachment-based work also includes education around bonding, nervous system responses, and the emotional impact of major transitions, helping normalize their experiences while strengthening confidence and emotional resilience. This approach supports both individual healing and healthier, more secure relationships.
2 ratings with written reviews
March 5, 2025
Scary, exciting and for the most part feeling very optimistic. First time in a very long time.
March 5, 2025
I loved the opening session with Crystal and look forward to working together. She really held space for me to share my story and hopeful outcomes for therapy. Her messaging was very clear and concise. I appreciate her feedback and I am excited to do the work!